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Bob Schafer Obituary

DALLAS - Robert "Bob" William Schafer, 65, passed away on Dec. 14, 2016, at Caromont Regional Medical Center.

He was born in Allentown, Pa. to the late Norman George Schafer and Harriett Janet Higgins Schafer.

In addition to his parents, he was preceded in death by his brother, David Schafer and his father-in-law George Lewis.

Bob was a loving husband, father and grandfather who will be greatly missed.

Left to cherish his memories includes his wife of 40 years, Alicia "Lesa" Lewis Schafer; a son Robby Schafer and his daughter Ada, a daughter Kelly and husband Wes Hepler and their son Schae; brothers, Norman Schafer and Glen Schafer; mother-in-law, Joanne Lewis; brother-in- law, Mike Lewis and wife Amy; sister-in-laws, Ann Ledford, Lynn and husband Chris Glover; several nieces and nephews.

Visitation for family and friends will be held Saturday, Dec. 17 from 11 a.m. until 1 p.m. at Philadelphia Lutheran Church, 1910 Philadelphia Church Road, Dallas, NC with a Memorial Service to follow at 1 p.m.

Interment will be private at a later date.

Condolences may be made to www.withersandwhisenantfuneral.com

Withers and Whisenant Funeral Home and Cremation Service, 2916 Union Road, Gastonia, NC (704) 864-5144 is serving the family.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Gaston Gazette on Dec. 16, 2016.

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Cameron & Randy Lewis

December 19, 2016

On behalf of Cameron and Myself, Kelly you and your family are in our prayers.

Gary & Cheryl Edison

December 18, 2016

Lesa & family,
So sorry to hear about the loss of a husband, father, and friend. I know your loss is the greatest thing imaginable. May the Spirit of the Lord give comfort in the days ahead, and hope for brighter times ahead.

Natalie Owens

December 18, 2016

I knew Bob back in the "bullfrog knit" era and his wife Lesa was my son Waylon's teacher. I will always remember the kind and funny words and all the shennagans at work. Bob was a kind man and always had a kind word for everybody..he will be truly missed and I have never forgotten him after all these years and I feel truly Blessed to have known him. ..I Pray for God's comfort for the family...

Ken Addington

December 17, 2016

Lesa, Sorry to hear of your loss. We are Praying God will show His Love and Comfort for your family.

Chuck Gardner

December 17, 2016

Rest In Peace Bob. I know you will be missed greatly.

Sharon Green

December 16, 2016

Lesa so sorry for your family's loss. My prayers are with you.

Ethan Quinn

December 16, 2016

So sorry for your loss and all of our losses of Bob. I remember when they first moved here and he was the same then as he was the last time we talked a few weeks ago. All of you will be in our prayers during this trying time.

Wanda Rudisill Fowler

December 16, 2016

So sorry to hear of your loss especially this time of year. Our prayers are with you.

Leigh Anne Lauer

December 16, 2016

Lesa I am so very sorry for you and your family's loss. I didn't know Bob well and I haven't seen him in a very long time. But I remember visiting you and Bob quite a few times when Ann and I were close friends. He always made me laugh and feel very welcome in your home. You all will be in my thoughts and prayers. May his life be for a blessing.

Angie "Kansas" Bulson

December 16, 2016

Kelly,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this time! I was saddened to hear of his passing and hope that you all are surrounded by love. Bob was an amazing man with one of the kindest hearts and brightest smiles! It was always a joy & pleasure to have him at our BAC softball games. Thinking of you and wishing you & your family moments of peace and comfort as you remember Bob, who was so close to you.

Love, prayers, and hugs,

Angie "Kansas" Sowell Bulson

Dottie Brewer Martin

December 16, 2016

Sorry for your loss. Your family will be in our prayers.
Scott, Dottie, Brad, Stacy, Talia, Andrew, & Emily

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Shelley (McCraven) Lassiter

December 16, 2016

I am so saddened to hear of Bob's passing. I was a classmate of Rob's and I will always have fond memories of Bob. He was always smiling, laughing and a little bit of a jokester, from what I can remember. My thoughts and prayer's are with the Schafer family during this extremely difficult time.

Colleen Smith

December 16, 2016

Lesa, Kelly, and Rob sorry for your loss. We will be praying for you all.

Rev. Ken and Barbara Brewer Cobb

December 16, 2016

Lesa and family,
So sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family during this time.

Bruce Wise

December 16, 2016

My condolences to the family. (I knew him many years ago, as Norman and I were friends, and I worked for their father)

Delilah Winchester

December 16, 2016

Kelly, I was so sorry to hear about your Dad. My prayers are with you and your family.

June Vella

December 16, 2016

I am so sorry to hear about Bob. Everybody loved him and I will always remember him laughing at Schae and Baylor's orientation saying he was going to get you for sending him with all the grandmas. We knew he was where he wanted to be. All of you are in my prayers!

Jerry Wells

December 16, 2016

So Sorry to hear the passing of a lifelong friend and brother .. He will surely be missed...

LeAnn Cloninger Thompson

December 16, 2016

I'm so very sorry, sending prayers for God's comfort and peace.

Tim Auten

December 16, 2016

My condolences to the family.

Don Norwood

December 15, 2016

So sorry to hear of Bob's passing. We are praying for you all.

Tim Rohm

December 15, 2016

Our prayers are with you. We'll really miss his special kind of humor.

Michelle McNeil

December 15, 2016

So so sorry for your loss. I worked for Bob for several years art Schafer sportswear. Thought allot of him. He will be greatly missed.

Robyn Martin

December 15, 2016

Lesa, Kelly and Rob, we are so sorry for your loss. Bob was a good man and friend. Please know that you will be in our prayers today for the days to come.

Yours in Christ,
Robyn and Ray Martin

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