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James Fleming Obituary
He was a native of Holyoke and is the son of the late James and Barbara (Norton) Fleming.
Jim was a longtime employee of the Loomis House in Holyoke and received his associate degree in liberal arts from Holyoke Community College. He was a longtime member of the Southampton Finance Committee and a 31-year member of the Holyoke Elks Lodge.
Jim was a devoted father to his three children, and a dedicated and trusted friend to a large network of people. He loved the Red Sox, the Grateful Dead and a pint of Ben & Jerry's.
Jim leaves his wife of 28 years, Katherine (Moore) Fleming; his son, Jamie Fleming of Los Angeles, California; his daughters, Elizabeth R. Fleming of Cannon Air Force Base, Clovis, New Mexico, and Marykate Fleming of Southampton; his brothers, Bill Fleming and his wife, Lisa, of Seattle, Washington, and John Fleming and his wife, Beth, of Worcester; his sister, Kathleen Fleming and her husband, Mark Franceschetti, of Charlotte, Vermont; and his nieces and nephews: Sarah, Emily and Christopher Brida, Audrey and Jayne Moore, Anna and Joey Franceschetti, and Fran, Will, CC and Grace Fleming.
His funeral will be held on Wednesday. Oct. 25, at 9 a.m. at the Boucher-O'Brien Funeral Home, 7 Pleasant St., Easthampton, followed by a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. at Our Lady of The Valley Church, 33 Adams St., Easthampton.
Burial will follow in Southampton Center Cemetery. Calling hours are Tuesday, from 4 p.m. – 8 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Cancer Research Ins., 29 Broadway, 4th Floor, New York, New York 10006-3111.
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Memories and Condolences
for James Fleming
Steve Behling (Behl)
January 7, 2018
I'm so sorry to read of Jim's passing. We were best friends in Jr. High. Some of my fondest childhood memories were hanging out with "Flem", "Byrnesy" (Steve), and Lynchy (Ned). Jim was a smart, witty, and fun guy and a great friend. I wish we had stayed in better touch after I moved away.
John Witek
November 22, 2017
Jim Fleming was an excellent dude. He was always friendly towards us. Although Jim was several years older than me, he always had a smile and a friendly word. He will be missed and may he rest in peace in Heaven.
Phyllis Sacco
October 29, 2017
Dear Kate-so sorry to hear about the loss of your husband.My deepest sympathy to you and your family. May good memories help sustain you during this difficult time.
Karen Tozloski
October 28, 2017
Special Thoughts an Prayers for Jim's family. I worked w/Jim at Loomis House,he always made your day better. I will remember him as a true person of kindness and caring. Karen Tozloski
October 27, 2017
Kate, So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family..
Love, Sindee Trikas
Carol and Lee Delaney
October 27, 2017
So sorry about Jim. Eric let us know about it.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Carol and Lee
Jeanne Fleming
October 26, 2017
Kate and Cousins
A piece of us is missing now. So many childhood memories of the family gatherings at the house in Holyoke.
Prayers for Jamie and for all of you.
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not a mark of weakness, but of power. They are messengers of overwhelming grief and unspeakable Love."
~Washington Irving
John Martin
October 26, 2017
Kate & Family
We were out of town when we heard about Jim's passing...we were shocked and send our deepest sympathy. Jim was a great guy and went beyond what you would expect to help out other people. He was a pleasure serving with on the Finance Committee and was dedicated to helping our town become a better place to live. He will be sorely missed by all of his friends. God Bless! John & Claire Martin
Diane Walton
October 25, 2017
Kate my deepest sympathies for your loss. I didn't find until today. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. I am so sorry. It can't be easy. Love Diane Walton.
Mark Johnson
October 24, 2017
Kate, Jim (always Jamie to the Johnson clan), was a fine, gentle man, so much like his father Uncle James, whom I remember so well. We spent much time together when he and brothers and sister were just kids growing up in Holyoke. Fond, lasting memories. My condolences and prayers.
Susan Martell
October 24, 2017
Kate and family. We are so sorry for your loss. We are also very grateful that we made the trip to visit a few weeks ago and were able to spend the afternoon with Jim and all of you. Know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. Love Skip & Sue Martell
Steve DeBruyn
October 24, 2017
Dear Kate,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss Though I never knew Jim I can tell through your stories that he was a wonderful husband, father and the love of your life.
You and your entire family are in my prayers.
October 24, 2017
Kate and Family,
We are very sad and sorry to hear about Jim's passing. You have our deepest condolences. He was a good and kind person, always willing to help...with a smile. Jim earned his wings. Our prayers are with Jim and you as well. God Bless all of you.
John, Joan, Mike and Andy Callini
Lori Todd
October 24, 2017
On behalf of the entire Loomis House Team, I send our condolences. Jim was a bright spot in the lives of the residents he served, and as a team member of Loomis House. His caring nature and wonderful way of sparking a smile will be sadly missed.
October 24, 2017
Sorry for the loss of a good guy. I enjoyed working on the Finance Committee with Jim and having a few together.
God Bless.
Mike & Sherry McGuire
Gail Olesiak
October 24, 2017
Kate & Family,
Am very sorry for your loss. May God bless you in the time of sorrow. I will never forget the good times Steve and I had when we got together with your family. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.
Gail Olesiak
Joann Driscoll
October 24, 2017
Kate my prayers are with you and your family rest in peace
Mike & Robyn Slattery
October 23, 2017
Kate we are so sorry to hear of Jim's passing.
Melissa
October 23, 2017
Jim was such a nice man. For the 7 years I had the pleasure of working with him he always greated everyone with a smile and a hello. I will miss the daily Hellos in the Lobby or in the mail room of Loomis. He will be greatly missed by all at Loomis. Sorry for your loss.
DD
October 23, 2017
Sending my heartfelt condolences to the family. Pray to God for comfort and peace. I know it will be difficult to resume your daily lives, but with God's help, all things are possible. Psalms 66:19,20
Bette Carney
October 23, 2017
I will always remember back in the days when we had so much fun. It was always a pleasure to see you when I could. I Love you Jimmy! You will be missed by many people. I will see you on the other side!!
October 23, 2017
Kate, Libby & Family,
We can't even imagine how hard this must be for all of you. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you all and may the happy memories that you shared help you through.
With our deepest sympathy & prayers,
Dave, Darlene, Hailey & Tyler Peich
Carole Lavalle
October 23, 2017
Gone too soon.
Michael Plummer
October 23, 2017
Rest in peace Jim. You will be missed.
Tom & Jayne Garvey
October 23, 2017
Jim, You will forever hold a very special place in our hearts. We miss you already and love you always. Rest peacefully dear friend.
October 22, 2017
We will miss Jim's intelligence, sense of humor and kind way. We always enjoyed spending time with him. We loved him and will miss him very much. Our hearts go out to Kate, the kids, and the whole family ❤
Love, Connie & Dave Podolski
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