1994
2023
Riley Alexander Scharper
February 5, 1994-January 13, 2023
Riley Alexander Scharper met Jesus on January 13th, 2023 at the age of 28. He was born to Kevin and Jill (Prestholt) Scharper on February 5th, 1994 in Mason City, IA.
Riley was an incredible son, brother, husband, father, and friend. He treasured his wife, daughter and family more than anything in this world. He had an impressive baseball card collection that he took extreme pride in. Riley enjoyed spending his summers at Principal Park and Target field accumulating a numerous amount of baseball card autographs. He was a devout Green Bay Packer and Minnesota Twins fan. He could rattle off any player, team, or statistic in the MLB and NFL with ease.
Riley loved attending musicals and shows at the Des Moines Civic Center with his wife, Katlyn. These shows were their monthly date nights and something they enjoyed immensely together. Riley had an incredible voice and a gift of harmonizing with any song. He used his gifts to lead worship at his church. He could light up any dance floor with his both incredible and hilarious dance moves.
Riley loved traveling from a very young age with his family. He was able to visit all 50 states and numerous National Parks. Riley shared incredible traveling experiences with his wife and shared his love of traveling with her, including hiking the infamous Angel's Landing in Zion National Park in 2020.
Riley graduated from Forest City High School in 2012. He participated in countless activities including band, choir, musicals, and of course football. He then went on to play center at Dordt College for the next 4 years. There, he touched the lives of all of his teammates and coaches with his tenacity, grit, and love for the game of football. Riley graduated from Dordt College in 2016 with a BSN of Science and Nursing. After graduation he received his first RN job in the Sheldon, IA Emergency Department where he worked for a year.
Riley and Katlyn (Loeschen) got married on July 1, 2017 on the lake in Emmetsburg, Iowa. They then started their lives together in the Des Moines Metro. Riley began his job in the Emergency Department as an ER trauma nurse at Methodist Hospital in Downtown Des Moines. While working full time he began his masters to become a Family Nurse Practitioner. He accomplished this goal while working full time and managing countless clinical hours. Riley crushed every single goal he set in life. He graduated from Clarkson College with a masters, becoming a Family Nurse Practitioner in 2020. He then began his next job at the Iowa Clinic in Urology.
Riley's smile and presence lit up every space he was in. He endlessly touched the lives of so many including his church family, patients, coworkers, teammates, friends, family and anyone who ever came across his bright light. Lastly, Riley's love for his daughter Khloe was unmatchable. He was such an incredible dad. He loved her more than life itself and we know that Khloe will feel his love and see his light forever.
He will be missed by his wife, Katlyn; daughter, Khloe (10 mos.); parents, Kevin and Jill Scharper; brother, Russell (Morgan) Scharper; sister, Carly Scharper and Haleigh (Ryan) Bragg; maternal grandmother, Shirley Prestholt; aunt Julie (Tracey) Gobeli and MJ Olson; uncle, Jack Jr. (Betty) Prestholt; in-laws Jeff and Nancy Loeschen. Katlyn's paternal grandparents, Laurence and Violet Loeschen, and many cousins and a niece and nephew.
Riley was preceded in death by his paternal grandparents Bill and Lucille Scharper, maternal grandfather, Jack Prestholt, uncle Dave Olson and Katlyn's maternal grandparents, Don and Leona Lanus.
We know that Riley is with Jesus and that is our only comfort right now. We know that Riley's life reflected the love of Christ in every facet. Our prayers over our tragic circumstance is that people will only see Jesus, and that he will get the glory for all of the lives Riley touched on his time here on earth.
He loved big. SO. BIG.
Memorial Service for Riley was held on Saturday, January 21, 2023 at Lutheran Church of Hope in West Des Moines. Inurnment will be held at a later date at Clear Lake Municipal Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be directed to Khloe's college fund. It is our family's goal to keep his memory alive, please feel free to share any stories or memories you have to [email protected].
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Jim Russell
February 6, 2024
This is why we still love you so well.
Not because you loved us, but because you knew the BEST in each of us and looked for it in everything we did, and you know the worst in us, but still look for the best,
and still love us.
Jim Russell
Friend a patient
Johnston, Iowa
May He Rest In Peace
Denise Dianne Bissell
January 26, 2023
I am very sorry for your loss . He was a very nice person. I was sad to get this news .
Diane Kleineweber
January 25, 2023
Katlyn, There are no words to ease your family pain, but I am so sorry to read this. God is with you and will be your strength. Stay close to Him and your families.
Jim Russell
January 21, 2023
I am so saddened at the news of Riley´s accident and passing.
To his dear families, friends, coworkers, and you the reader,
we offer our most pleasant thoughts
as you go about the very difficult task of laying Riley to rest today.
Grief doesn´t wait on time.
Grief waits on acceptance.
Don´t hurry grief.
Grief will take care of itself.
Riley´s care to all of us
was so genuine. As HE would say ....
If we have a chance to be brilliant or thoughtful which shall we choose.
"We will choose thoughtful"
GOD bless you all
May Riley Rest In Peace
An 80 year old patient & friend.
The Jim Russell families
Vicky Graf
January 19, 2023
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Marsha Koerber
January 18, 2023
Dear Jill, Kevin and family,
Mark and I are so gutted and heartbroken by your loss. We´ve thought of you so often and have been praying for God´s love to surround and comfort you. You have our deepest sympathy and prayers
Paul and Cheryl Beenken
January 18, 2023
To the family of Riley,
We did not know Riley, but our hearts are saddened to hear this. We knew him through our niece, Pam Gapp and heard of the many good times they had with Riley growing up. Through the sadness, we are so thankful that he had a personal relationship with his Lord and Savior. May God wrap his loving arms around you and grant you peace and strength through the difficult days ahead. What joy in knowing that you will see him again someday!
Paul and Cheryl Beenken Urbandale Iowa
Larry Nelson
January 18, 2023
Riley helped me when I was in emergency at Iowa Methodist. What a compassionate caregiver. I am so sad to hear of his passing. Earths loss, heavens gain. May the Lord sustain his family in this difficult time.
Nancy Roberson
January 18, 2023
Beyond sad. Riley treated my son at unity point on numerous occasions with such tenderness and grace. I'm heartbroken. Sending prayers and peace to his family.
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