1943
2025
4 Entries
Raymond "Ray" A. Brown
March 13, 2025
Today is Thursday, March 13, 2025....
A heavenly, "hello," my respected, missed, old childhood friend!!!
I have searched to reconnect with you for many years, and I have finely found you, but just a few months late!!!....
I just found you, by searching for " Gary Paul Kane, attorney," after talking to my ex-wife who was also a childhood neighbor in San Francisco and old friend. I member your middle name was "Paul," as you middle name was the same as you maternal grandfather who was a 32 degree Mason like you, and a retired military man, Paul Trozien (sp?).
We were very close up from when I was 5 (I am 3 years younger) up until after you married your first wife, Shirley.
You lived in the duplex in Sacramento, co-owned by you and your parents, Phil and Eleanor, who lived in and occupied the other unit. You were the Redevelopment Attorney of "Old Town" Sacramento at the time. The last time I saw you is when Bobbie and I visited you all there. After you left Sacramento, we lost touch, and I have missed you.
You have led a good, caring life, old friend and mentor. Your dedication to social justice has forever rubbed off on me... and I am forever in your debt to you for setting such a fantastic example for me... since you were and "only" child, you treated me like your little brother...and were always looking out for me ...
Thank you for that, my dear friend... as I have become a social warrior, as well, thanks to your example.
May God continue to Bless and keep you close to him, as I know that you are close to Him. May you continue to Rest in Peace and may Perpetual Light continue to shine upon you. May your family and friends, like me, be comforted with our fond memories of you. Amen. A.M.D.G.
Ray Brown
(209) 985-6597
[email protected]
Bill Dowse
February 2, 2025
Gary Paul hired me to work at the NC Housing Finance Agency in 1986. He left not long after I started but I stayed in touch with him over the years. Gary Paul was a true professional with a real commitment to affordable housing. He made a significant impact the lives of thousands of families both statewide in North Carolina and locally in Greensboro. It was an honor to have known him.
Bob Martin
January 24, 2025
Remembering playing tennis with Gary and also discussing politics and public policy with other like minded friends. He was a gentle spirit and will be missed.
Tanya Feagins
January 19, 2025
Remembering Gary as a caring father, community builder and introspective thinker, who played an active role in developing housing for many
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