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Bill Vassell
March 26, 2026
Spoke to another security firm
Owner Ed ramsdell Orion security
We both miss cliff
Bill Vassell
February 13, 2026
Miss Cliff and his wise
Guidance often as my lawyer
And long time friend
Bill Vassell
December 20, 2024
He was a good man

Howard Aronson
December 18, 2024
He was my best friend and a brother from another mother.
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John Reed
May 31, 2024
I am very saddened to hear of the passing of Cliff. He was a collogue and friend for many years. He helped me in my career in so many ways. Cliff will be missed. My condolences to all his family and friends.
Charlotte
January 27, 2024
Cliff, Mr. Ingber, Bingsey -
We will all miss you very much. Thank you for raising two grounded, smart, and funny women, and for letting at least one of them hang out with the likes of me. Thank you for letting me be a part of your family. I have such fond memories of coming on weekend trips upstate or crashing family picnics in New Jersey. Not only were you somehow okay with me constantly being at your house, but you even let me be your intern, so you had to deal with me at your work as well.
Thanks for the super strong coffee and delicious challah bread French toast. Thanks for always letting Juliet and me be ourselves. Between you and me, that may have been a questionable strategy (read: Egyptian Video), but it was nevertheless appreciated.
I'll remember you as a kind, loving, generous father to my best friend. You won the Laughing Game in the car and in the game of life. And we'll all do well to remember that example.
Love,
Charlotte, Carlton, Charleston Chew
Laura Nagy
January 26, 2024
My heart aches to write this post. Since high school Juliet has been a steadfast presence in my life and a friend who has become family. I will always remember your dad's tremendous humor and ability to make every situation fun. I also won't forget our white knuckled Subaru rides and the unforgettable wedding your dad hosted in your beautiful home in Greenwich. He should be proud of his legacy in you, Juliet - a strong, smart, funny, loyal wife, mother, and friend. You carry so much of him in you.
William C Vassell
January 26, 2024
Cliff was a great guy and a
Terrific lawyer
He helped me build command security to 100
Million
Sad to see him go
Only the good die young
They say
Grigsby Arnette
January 25, 2024
Sincerely sending my condolences to the Ingber family. Cliff will be remembered.He always was able to put a smile on my face
Peggy Boruchow Arnette
January 25, 2024
I am still trying to process the loss of Cliff. I think I primarily knew him through the eyes of his eldest daughter, Juliet, who I am so fortunate to have as my daughter in law. She looked forward to their chats, his sense of humor, his sense of family and I think for her, was an ever present rock and safe place to fall. The loss of a parent is never easy. Cliff, however raised two very strong and capable young women. He will be missed but never forgotten. I thank him for giving me Juliet to have in my life. She has been such a blessing.
Ike Boruchow
January 24, 2024
I have wanted to write something for the past few days, but I have been thinking about what I want to say. I am struggling to find the words I want to use to express the love for a man that meant so much to me, while also trying to be there in support of my wife who just lost her father. It's hard to grieve when you're trying to be strong for the ones you love. I want to be a rock, but I also need to embrace this emptiness that is now taking hold of me inside. Someone that was so special to me has been taken away. It hurts.
I met Cliff a few weeks after my father passed away. For the past 14 years I have looked at him as much more than a father-in-law, but as a father figure I very much needed at the time we met. He was there for me, and I could not have asked for a better man to spend those years with. In the first few years after we met, he was truly one of my best friends - we would go out to eat, go to sports events and sometimes just hang out at his house on the couch...alone, just the boys. Juliet used to joke, "I'm worried you love him more than me..." I'd like to think that he saw how heartbroken I was that I had just lost my father, and he was there to fill that void. It meant the world to me.
I had my first meal with Cliff at the Gingerman in Greenwich back in 2009 - with his daughters Juliet and Ray. We talked about my job, whether his Jets or my Dolphins had a better shot at making the playoffs that year (the Jets made it), and I ordered the chicken. I had my last meal with Cliff at Quality Meats in NYC just a few weeks ago - with his daughter/my wife Juliet, along with my children/his grandchildren, little Ike and Norah. We talked about him planning to move to Miami, he gave little Ike a present (a Ferrari hat) and I ordered a steak. While so much time had passed between those meals, I can honestly say I was just as comfortable at the last as I was the first. He walked us back to our hotel. It was cold, and he watched little Ike run back and forth on the sidewalk with a big smile on his face. I'm glad I got to hug him one last time and tell him I loved him. He responded the way he always did, "I luv ya, kid."
Cliff. I am going to miss you. I'm sad you never made it down to Miami, that you won't get to come to Grandparents Day at school, that you won't be there next Thanksgiving, that I won't get to hear anymore of your dad jokes. I'm just sad your gone.
But I am grateful for having known you, and having the time with you that I did. You were a great listener, an intelligent and accomplished man and someone who could always make me smile. You were one of my favorite people.
Sashi Bach
January 24, 2024
This was a tremendous tribute to a remarkable man. Whenever I met him, I was struck by how vibrant he seemed, and by his deep love for his daughters. I know he will be sorely missed by so many who loved him.
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