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Jane Lanier Watson

1999 - 2022

Jane Lanier Watson obituary, 1999-2022, New York, NY

Jane Watson Obituary

Jane Lanier Watson
Jane Watson, age 23, beloved daughter, sister, friend, and colleague, took her own life on Monday, September 19 in Brooklyn, NY. Jane was born in Greenwich on June 24, 1999 to Joseph Dunlap Watson and Hilary Healey Watson. On that day, she joined her mother and father and sister, Josephine Huskins Watson, to form our special foursome. Jane lived a beautiful and exceptional life in Greenwich; Scottsdale, AZ; Zug, Switzerland; and New York, NY.
Jane was educated at Greenwich Academy beginning in preschool at the Cowan Center, through Group 5. She then attended middle school at the International School of Zug and Luzern while her family resided in Zug. She returned to Greenwich to attend the Greenwich Academy Upper School, graduating in 2018. She attended Columbia University and completed her Bachelor's Degree in American Studies, graduating with honors in May 2022.
From the first days of her life, Jane made an extraordinary impression on everyone who encountered her. She was kind, compassionate, generous, talented, brilliant, funny, and beautiful. According to many of her teachers, she not only excelled in her studies but also made the classroom a better place for everyone. She earned many academic awards over the years, including Class Valedictorian for Groups 10, 11, and 12. She enjoyed being a Peer Leader her senior year, which fit well with her passion for teaching and counseling, as well as her intense interest in other people and their well-being. No mere brainiac, Jane thoroughly enjoyed athletics, taking up basketball, volleyball, and rowing while in Switzerland. Back at Greenwich Academy, she rowed for four years and served as co-captain of the medal-winning Greenwich Academy Varsity Crew Team during her junior and senior years.
Jane's biggest passion, though, was for music. There was always music in the Watson home, and Jane and Josie both developed an encyclopedic knowledge of the art form, enjoying everything from medieval madrigals to the latest synth-pop and neo-disco. But Jane was more than a listener — she adored singing, playing guitar, performing, and creating her own songs. Jane had a stunning voice and a remarkable stage presence. Her perfect pitch, angelic tone, and clear enjoyment of her performances wowed everyone who saw her in musical theater productions at Greenwich Academy and Brunswick School, with her band in the Massey Theater Black Box, or as president of the Greenwich Academy Madrigals. At Columbia, she honed her bedroom-pop skills and rocked the campus and Spotify with her original songs under the moniker "Miss Anthropopscene," from the feminist neo-disco anthem "Birth Control" in 2019 to the latest fan favorite, "Trees." She showed a softer side of her musical abilities in the moving ballad "Million Things," which appeared on Ilandz's 2019 album, True Thoughts. About her music, Jane often said she wanted her fans to "think as well as dance." They did, and they will.
While at Columbia, Jane cherished her work for the Roger Lehecka Double Discovery Center, which provides tutoring, college counseling, and other support for high-potential youths from underserved high schools and communities in upper Manhattan, in order to prepare them for a successful college experience. As an undergrad, Jane was in charge of recruiting and scheduling Columbia students to tutor the high-schoolers in various subjects. This past summer, she started working for the DDC directly, while studying to complete her New York State teacher's certification so that she could pursue her intended career as a secondary-school teacher and education policy-shaper.
During her final semester at Columbia, Jane fell into the grips of an acute depression. Such an illness is difficult to comprehend for anyone who has not experienced or witnessed it up close. Those who were with her these past several months know that it was a hideous beast, one that wrapped its toxic tentacles around her and would not let go. Jane fought mightily and bravely to overcome it, under the exceptional and loving care of some of the top providers in our area. Over the course of the summer, in the company of loving family and friends, she enjoyed several happy and hopeful interludes, in Connecticut, New York, Cape Cod, Nantucket, Virginia, and Tennessee. In the end, though, the depression was relentless and ultimately catastrophic. Our family urges anyone who gets a glimpse of such a situation to recognize how insidious it can be, and to seek assistance as soon as possible.
Jane will be profoundly missed by those who survive her, including her mother, father, and sister; her grandmothers, Amburn Huskins Power of Athens, GA and Celia Powell Healey of Fort Worth, TX; great-aunt and namesake Lanier Watson of New Orleans, LA; and aunts, uncles, and cousins Anna Brune and her husband, Mike, of Flemington, NJ, Anna's daughter, Natalia Schustak, and her husband, Jeremy, and their children, Claire and Alice; Dr. William V. Healey III of Seattle, WA and his children, Caroline and Ben; Peter Healey and his wife, Ashley, of Fort Worth, TX and their children, Preston and Mary Paige; Michael Healey and his wife, Helen, of Dallas, TX; Will Power and his wife, Kathy, of Warner Robins, GA and their son, Sean; and Jay Watson and his wife, Susan, of Oxford, MS and their children, Katherine and Judson, and Judson's wife, Marissa.
The family will hold a private burial. A memorial service to celebrate Jane's extraordinary life will be held at the Greenwich Academy Massey Theater on Saturday, November 26, 2022 at 11:00 a.m. Those wishing to make a donation in Jane's memory should please consider the Roger Lehecka Double Discovery Center at Columbia University (see their website for instructions: ddc.college.columbia.edu).

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Published by Greenwich Time on Sep. 22, 2022.

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GA Madrigal Classmate

June 27, 2025

Even though Jane didn't know me well, I looked up to her throughout and beyond our time at GA together. To sing with her in Ireland and around CT was such a blessed experience and I regret now that I didn't tell her the impact she had on me. Between her leadership in small sectionals to delivering speehes on behalf of the group, it was an honor to share those memories and that music with her. I remember she would always volunteer to learn new parts to ensure that our choir had adequate balance and that nobody was left singing by themselves. She came back after she graduated to share about her experiences at Columbia and how she was still singing. I was so inspired by her ability to do it all so gracefully and with so much loving kindness in her heart. Jane's voice brought tears to everyone's eyes then, and it is something you can never forget. Jane's academic and career aspirations inspired me to also go into education, wanting to follow a path like hers to make the largest impact possible on our community. To know and learn from Jane is an experience I can never forget. Thank you Jane for the ways you touched the hearts and minds of those around you. The world is a better place for having had you in it. Thank you to the Watson family for bringing such a beautiful person into this world.

Drew Chambers

September 24, 2024

I can't believe it's been two years since Jane's passing. I still think of her often, especially when I work with each new cohort of Barnard/Columbia urban education students. Over the years I've listened to Though It Should over 130 times for a total of listening time of more than 12 hours. It's my favorite song of hers. Consumer Culture and Trees combine for about the same. It's nice to still be able to hear Jane's voice through her music even though the lyrics hurt if I dwell on them. I hope you are doing well amidst the grief I know remains, Joe, Hilary, and Josie.

Columbia Friend

September 4, 2024

Thinking of you, Jane, and missing you. As I watch Columbia go back into session, I remember our time there together. You were a comforting apparition in the midst of the chaos and insecurity of early fall. Always running around with a smile on your face, getting ready for performances and finding all the right exciting classes to take, getting ahead in the library and bringing everyone with you through your work at DDC. Miss you, love you.

Dave Snyder

January 26, 2024

I have been streaming Miss Anthropscene since the first releases and just googled to find out more about Jane before discovering this horrible tragedy. She was immensely talented: witty and insightful lyrics, strong melodies, sassy attitude, hypnotic production. She had a brilliant career ahead of her. My heart goes out to her friends and family during this time of unimaginable loss.

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Kirsten Lewis Comai

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Kendra Dulin

September 17, 2023

Not a day goes by that I do not think of you! You are deeply loved and missed sweet girl! I know you are basking in the eternal light and love of the universe and are free from the earthly pains that plagued you. I l Iove you Janie!

Jacqueline Vizcarra A.

June 6, 2023

Such a beautiful soul would never be forgotten since her beloved ones will always loved her.

Columbia Classmate

February 4, 2023

Thank you for bringing such a special person into the world. Jane's imprint on Columbia, and the rest of her world, has been indelible. We miss her every day. I love you, Jane, and I am thinking of you.

Friend

December 13, 2022

Jane was truly one of the kindest people I have ever met in my lifetime. No matter what the social situation, I remember her always reaching out to those around her to make sure everyone felt comfortable and safe.

The first time I met Jane, I was convinced I'd met an angel. Her voice is one of the most beautiful things I've ever heard. I will always remember Jane and the impact she had on me and others.

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Marc, Maggie and Jason Wein

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Cathy Youngman

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Chris Childs and Family

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Jarret Liotta

November 27, 2022

Hilary & Joe ... I just now learned of your horrible loss & I'm soooo sorry and truly heartbroken for you!!! ... I'm sorry I never met Jane, but clearly her legacy is --- and will remain --- far-reaching, despite her years. I also think the obituary you did was a very powerful, meaningful & very honest tribute ...

Sending Love & Prayers!

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The Barnard Education Program

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Simla Oral

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Catherine and Todd Snowden

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Christine Purcell d'Ascoli

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Bonni, Casey, Michael Gottlieb

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Rich Piligra

October 16, 2022

Hilary, Joe, and Josie....words cannot express the heartache I feel. The love and beauty of Jane's life will always be a source of joy for you. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Alyce Hendry Tosco

October 10, 2022

Dear Joe and Family:
My sincerest sympathy for your loss. Prayers for all of you as you grieve. God must have needed a special Angel. With respect, Alyce Hendry

Rindi Pral

October 6, 2022

Dear Josie,
From what I read it is obvious that Jane was a special person, a bundle of joy and light. I am very sorry that a sister and a daughter will not be with the family in the ups and downs of life.
Please relay my condolences to your parents.
Simla´s mother Rindi

Jean and Mark Eames

October 5, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe and Josie
We were heartbroken to hear of the devastating loss of your beautiful daughter and sister , Jane . Sending much love , Jean and Mark Eames

Jackie Robinson

September 30, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe and Josie,

I was part of a playgroup with Josie and Jane with my son Christopher and daughter Sinead before we moved back to England. I regret so much not staying in touch and am now overwhelmed with sadness at your unbearable loss of your beautiful, brave daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Tate Robinson

September 29, 2022

Dear Watson family - Jane and I went to school together when she was at Greenwich Academy and I was at Brunswick a year below her.

When I was a 9th grader, and I had just given one of my first vocal performances, I was feeling pretty badly about it. I met Jane on that day during homecoming, and she told me that I was brave, a small gesture that gave me the confidence to keep doing it. As I got older Jane and I took AP music theory together just the two of us, a class I likely would not have taken if I hadn't known she'd be in it. She was extremely helpful in that class, and I was really grateful to have a friend who could help me when I was struggling in it. Seeing Jane release her own music made me realize it was something that I could do as well, and inspired me on a path that would continue the rest of my life. Jane also helped me with the first workshop of my musical Chameleon, and her performance was one of the things I submitted to a production company that ultimately got me picked up by a theater in New York and performed professionally.

Music is now my whole life, and so many parts of that story would have been different had Jane not been in it. In this time of grief, I hope you all can know what an amazing person you brought into this world, and take pride in the hero that your daughter was. To say that something changed one's life is thrown around a lot nowadays, but Jane really changed my life, and many others, and I owe her so much. She was such an inspirational, kind, beautiful soul, and her memory and influence will exist forever.

Xander

September 28, 2022

She was an incredibly talented musician whose recorded works have utterly captivated and inspired me over these past days. I am so very sorry for your loss.

stephanie bernheim and ralph wharton

September 27, 2022

May accept our sincere condolences for this tragic loss. We grieve with you and your family.
Stephanie Bernheim and Ralph Wharton

Jackie and Ken Walsh

September 27, 2022

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Jackie and Ken Walsh

Angela Gilbride

September 27, 2022

Dear Joe,
I was so very sorry to hear about the loss of your daughter. What a beautiful and obviously very talented young lady. I send my sincerest condolences to you and your family. Please know I will keep you in my prayers.
Angela Gilbride
A former colleague

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Sanskar Bista

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Friend

September 26, 2022

Jane was wonderful in ways too cosmically large to comprehend, much less express here. To know her was to feel touched by something singular and beautiful.

Dre

September 26, 2022

Thank you for being such a gentle soul, Jane. The love and kindness you shared with the world will always stay in our hearts. May you find boundless joy on your next journey.

Love from the ISZl Girls

September 26, 2022

Finding the words to describe this devastating loss is hard. Jane is truly someone you meet and don´t forget. She radiated joy and cared for people like no other. We will never forget the amazing memories we made with Jane at ISZL. The various sports trips, Bulgaria trip and the 8th grade musical in particular stand out and Jane played a huge role in making these experiences so memorable. A beautiful soul taken way too soon. Sending all of our love and strength to her family in this time

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Laura Wharton

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Thomas Skok and Thomas-John Batok

September 25, 2022

We have wonderful memories of Jane, Josie and their parents whilst we all loved living in Zug, Switzerland. We hope others will learn from this awful result for such a beautiful person as Jane.

Elaine and Karl Spangenberg

September 25, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe, and Josie,

Your loving, courageous, and honest tribute to Jane will encourage us all to take loving and honest looks around us and to embrace those who may need our support. Thank you for the strength and inspiration you are showing to help us reflect and ultimately move ahead.

The impact of Jane's life will surely be felt in the hearts of so many, for many, many years to come.

Rest in peace, dear Jane.

Love,
Elaine and Karl Spangenberg and Family

Jake Naimark

September 25, 2022

Jake Naimark

September 25, 2022

Jake Naimark

September 25, 2022

Dear Watson family-Jane was a friend of mine at Columbia, and I had the true pleasure of being her COÖP leader when she arrived on campus as a first year student. I will remember Jane for the soothing meditations she shared with our group, the sound of her song echoing through the woods, and the smile and warmth she brought to our group´s weekly brunch meet-ups at John Jay. Jane touched many people with her joyful, present, and thoughtful personality. I feel very lucky to be one of those people, and I will miss her dearly. She was truly extraordinary in her ability to make others feel seen, welcome, and appreciated. I am so sorry for your loss, and I hope that in time Jane´s beautiful memory will bring you comfort.

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Susannah

September 24, 2022

I´m so sorry for your loss. I didn´t know Jane, but I was several years above her at Greenwich Academy. She sounds like an incredible person who accomplished an astounding amount in her short life. Depression is a monstrous disease and only those who have experienced it can truly understand the sheer , overwhelming intensity of its power. I will keep Jane and your family in my thoughts.

Caroline Weber

September 24, 2022

This is such heartbreaking news. I am so very, very sorry for your loss.

Columbia classmate

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September 23, 2022

For one semester, I spent almost every day at Camelot rehearsals with Jane. The only thing more abundant than her talent was her kindness. Whenever I spoke to her, she made me feel so welcome in a time where I felt very alone. I´m so sorry for your loss.

JPW

September 23, 2022

As a parent of a GA graduate and other teen I commend the family for the brutal honesty they offer in the obituary. There are no words that can help but know that this will open dialogues and conversations with our teens. May you hold one another even tighter and find strength.... This beautiful, brilliant, lovely girl....

Laarni, Rafael, Lara and Lia

September 23, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe and Josie,
Im so sorry to hear about Jane's passing. Im so shock and saddened about this. I have a very fond memories of her growing up while I work with your family. Sending your family our love and prayers.

Rest easy my dearest Jane.

Liz Hodgson

September 23, 2022

As one of her peers in the Urban Teaching Program, I was very lucky to spend so much time with Jane and to see her passion and her spirit and really her overflowing kindness so often. I know she made such a positive impact on so many people... including myself. Jane will be very dearly missed. My sincere condolences to the Watson family.

Columbia classmate, Class of 2022

September 23, 2022

I didn´t get the chance to really get to know Jane, but I shared a few conversations with her. She always radiated a friendly, inclusive, and joyful presence on Columbia´s campus. Every time I saw her she was surrounded by tons of friends who loved her dearly. Her special energy will be felt forever through her music. Sending all of my prayers to her family and friends as they grieve this big loss.

Columbia student

September 23, 2022

Jane was the first person to welcome me at Columbia and help me move into my dorm room as a freshman. Her heartfelt welcome and smile truly made me feel like I belonged. I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, know of my prayers for her and your family.

A Columbia classmate

September 23, 2022

So deeply sorry. I always admired the inspiration and light that Jane exuded at Columbia.

Lisa Lori

September 23, 2022

Dearest Hilary and family I am so incredibly sorry to hear this news and sending you my deepest condolences and prayers.

Jane, Joe, Emma and Tom Prendergast

September 23, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe and Josie, we are completely heartbroken for your loss. Jane was such a wonderful person in every conceivable way. We have such good memories from Zug of her exceptional talent, warmth and sweetness. We are thinking of you and sending you our prayers and love from Ireland. Jane, Joe, Emma and Tom

Jessica Park

September 23, 2022

I had known Jane through DDC and I deeply revered her as a leader who was willing to serve the community. I respected her a lot and I thanked her for showing her leadership, which sparked my interest in education further. I am deeply saddened by this sudden news.

Rest easy, Jane. Thank you.

Oluwatosin W.

September 23, 2022

May God comfort you and your loved ones in this time of sorrow.

Elodie Bouyer

September 23, 2022

Jane, you were our beautiful and wonderful queen of hearts at the ISZL Alice in wonderland musical. You will be always in our heart.
Mrs Bouyer

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J. Schwalb

September 23, 2022

My heart is broken. But Jane's story will survive eternally. Her magic will never fade from this Earth.

Columbia Student, Class of 2026

September 23, 2022

My deepest condolences. Thoughts and prayers for Jane, and all of her family and friends.

John Cooper

September 23, 2022

Hilary and family, I am so sorry.
Hoping for you to find some peace in the coming days.

John Cooper

Emily Sharp

September 23, 2022

Jane was a constant source of light, encouragement, and stability for me during my extremely difficult middle school years. I was lucky enough to get to perform with her in the school choir, and in addition to being a wonderful friend, she always inspired me with her talent, maturity, and generosity. I have thought about her fondly and often since I moved away from Switzerland, and I will continue to do so. I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

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Dr Andrew Gray

September 23, 2022

I had the great pleasure of teaching visual art to Jane in MS at ISZL. She was, with her persona, talent and intellect and inspirational student. I remember well her musical performances. I am truly saddened beyond words that depression has taken such a bright young lady. You are right to encourage all, through your powerful epitaph, to watch for it in themselves and others. My sincere condolences to the whole Watson clan. Jane´s memory lives on.

Dee Buffington

September 22, 2022

Lanier, how tragic. Peace to you and your family. Dee Dowell Buffington

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Heather & Will Woodbridge

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Jackie Green

September 22, 2022

So very sorry for your loss.
Prayers for all of the family.

Lolly Prince

September 22, 2022

Bless the Watsons and know how much love is being sent by all your friends

Katie and Steve

September 22, 2022

Dear Hilary, Joe and Josie,
Our hearts are broken. We send hugs and prayers.
Katie and Steve

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Love, the Gilmores

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Joce Schaffer

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Amy Chan

September 22, 2022

A golden soul gone
Free from depression, its pain
Spread hope, remember

From those of us in the trenches, sending strength, love, resilience, and hope.

Simone Huistra

September 22, 2022

Such a shock to read this. Our thoughts and love are with all of you. We know Jane as the young, very talented girl in Zug who touched everyone with her touching songs. Love from the Huistra family in Amsterdam

Jocelyn Schaffer

September 22, 2022

Thank you Jane for being such a beautiful person inside and out. Will treasure the times we all gathered, played games, and laughed. And our last hug in July. Thank you Watson family for the honesty of Jane´s obit which will serve to help others as Jane did throughout her life. Forever

Drew Chambers

September 22, 2022

I had the immense privilege of knowing and befriending Jane over the last year. I was her student teaching supervisor this spring and I can say that Jane possessed extraordinary teaching talent (not to mention her myriad other talents). She was brilliant, deeply kind, nurturing of her students, spot-on with her pedagogical intuitions, and passionate about the call to teach. Having experienced a similar depression in my own early teaching years, I know how inescapable it can be. At Jane's passing, I am wholly heartbroken, but I know that Jane's life was remarkable and her contributions to so many lives invaluable. I will continue to grieve the loss of Jane and also remember the times I was privileged to see her beautiful smile and lovely soul.

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