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Paul David Risher

1935 - 2021

Paul David Risher obituary, 1935-2021, Stamford, CT

BORN

1935

DIED

2021

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Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home & Crematory

104 Myrtle Avenue

Stamford, Connecticut

Paul Risher Obituary

Paul David Risher
Paul David Risher, 86, passed away on December 26, 2021 of COVID-19. Paul was born in Huntington, West Virginia on October 21, 1935 to Paul and Katherine (Estep) Risher. He studied Mechanical Engineering at Duke University and graduated in 1957.
His career path took him to many companies including McKinsey & Co. and cities including Dallas where he met the love of his life, Patricia Munro Risher. Their first date was at a Dallas Cowboys game in 1962, which led to their marriage in New York City in 1965. They settled in Stamford, CT where they raised their family and lived until she died in 2014.
Early in their marriage he discovered sailing and thus began his lifelong passion. He said buying a boat "changed his life" and over the years, all of his loved ones spent time on the water with him. He raced his Ensign on Long Island Sound and served as the navigator on Wenden in various races including the Bermuda Race. In addition to spending time on his boat, Country Road, he loved cheering for the Duke Blue Devils, the Boston Red Sox, and all of his grandchildrens' sports teams.
Through the years, he spent time giving back to organizations that he cared about. He was a member of the New York Yacht Club and the Antigua Yacht Club. He served as the President of the Duke University Alumni Association, Commodore of the Ensign Class, Commodore of the Greenwich Cove Racing Association and he cherished his time as Commodore of Indian Harbor Yacht Club (2013-2014).
His greatest joy was his family. He is survived by his daughters Nancy Ward (Bill) of Wilton, CT and Cameron of Lincoln, NE and grandchildren Mackenzie, Jackson, and Parker Ward.
Friends may call at the Nicholas F. Cognetta Funeral Home, 104 Myrtle Ave., Stamford, Friday, January 7, 2022 5:00 PM to 7:00 PM. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, January 8, 2022 at 11:00 AM at the First Presbyterian Church of Stamford, 1101 Bedford Street, Stamford, CT. He will be buried in a private ceremony in Long Ridge Union Cemetery.
The family respectfully asks that attendees be vaccinated and wear masks. Guests will be asked to sit in a socially distant manner.
A live video stream will be available at the link below. It will appear as a scheduled service. https://events.locallive.tv/worship/fishchurch
In lieu of flowers, memorial gifts may be made to Mystic Seaport Museum - Community Sailing Program. Checks should be payable to Mystic Seaport Museum and mailed to Mystic Seaport Museum, 75 Greenmanville Avenue, Mystic, CT 06355. Please put "IMO Paul Risher" in the memo line.
You may also give on-line at https://checkout.mysticseaport.org/all/donate Please write Paul Risher in the "tribute box".
To leave online condolences, please visit www.cognetta.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Greenwich Time & Stamford Advocate on Jan. 1, 2022.

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Frank J Rupp Jr.

January 8, 2022

It was with great pleasure that I would take Commodore Risher out to Country Road at Indian Harbor. He was very polite, soft spoken and respectful. We had some great conversations together regarding our mutual interests in music and boating. My fondest memory will be of him sitting by the seawall in the afternoon gazing out over the water and saying how beautiful it was!

Juliet H Forrester

January 7, 2022

I am so sorry to hear about your dad's passing. He was so kind to Jay and me when my family took my mother to Hawaii for her 80th birthday in 1985. Paul arranged for all 5 of us to have a wonderful tour of all the islands on one of his planes. It took all day and it was a highlight of our trip. I'm sure you have wonderful memories of your dad and mother. Both wonderful parents. Those memories help to get through these difficult times.

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peter and susi orbanowski

January 3, 2022

Our condolences to the Risher family. We will always remember the wonderful hours we spent together competing in the Ensigns, chasing his boat Happy with the big North sail, the wonderful sunday ice cream parties after the race . We will all miss him and mourn the passing of another salty dog .

Kathy Keane-Snow

January 2, 2022

Nancy- so sorry to hear about your Dad´s passing. I have such fond memories of you and your family from our days in middle school. Condolences to you and Cameron.

Lori DeFelice

January 2, 2022

Nancy, Bill, Mackenzie, Jackson and Parker
My prayers and thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. I will miss Paul´s phone calls to the office and our conversations for over 20 years. Always so upbeat and happy. Paul could not have been prouder of his three grandchildren! We spoke about them every time we talked. May God´s loving compassion surround you all. With love, Lori

Debra Biggica

January 1, 2022

It is with Great Great Sadness that I read of your Dad´s passing!!!!! What a tremendously wonderful man!! It has been a pleasure to cut his hair for the past 30years or so... I will cherish his friendship forever!!!! My Sincere Condolences to the Entire Risher Family.

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