Joan R. Wilmer

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Joan Wilmer Obituary

News Death Notice

WILMER, Joan R. age 68 of Middletown passed away in her residence on Tuesday, July 14, 2009 at 5:00 PM. She was born in Hamilton on March 31, 1941 the daughter of Carl and Georgia (Baker) Miller. Joan was a member of Holy Family Catholic Church and was employed as a supervisor for Service Master for ten years. On January 30, 1960 in Hamilton she was married to Frank Wilmer, and he preceded her in death in 2002. She is survived by two sons, Frank (Karen) Wilmer and Christopher Wilmer, both of Middletown; two brothers, Donald (Barb) Miller of Newport News, Virginia and Carl (Carol) Miller Jr. of Hamilton; one sister, Patricia Mount of Middletown; and three grandchildren, Tony, Ashley, and Britne. She was preceded in death by her parents and two sisters, Shirley Ebbing and Marilyn Gray. A prayer service will be held at the Brown-Dawson Funeral Home, 330 Pershing Avenue, on Saturday, July 18, 2009 at 10:00 AM with Fr. John Civille of Holy Family Catholic Church officiating. Burial will be in St. Stephen's Cemetery. Visitation will be held at the funeral home on Friday from 5:00 PM to 8:00 PM. www.browndawson.com

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Published by Journal-News on Jul. 16, 2009.

Memories and Condolences
for Joan Wilmer

7 Entries

Tonya Dickson

July 23, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

Sue Landrum

July 21, 2009

Joan is missed greatly by both Tony and Britne.....she was like a mother to me, and I already miss her, she kept me straight through alot of transitions and new experiences not only as a very young mother but in my early professional life. She was always there for the kids whom she loved deeply..she was more like Tony's mother than grandmother as she pratically raised him as I worked so many long days during his infancy and childhood. Frank, and Chris have been and will remain family to me. I wish the family the best and hope that things get better with time, as time heals all. It was so good to see the family, just wish the circumstances were different, Joan is in a better place and is with Frank, so I can only believe that she is happy and will always be by our sides, in our hearts and memories always. We love you Joan and miss you like crazy.

Vondra Burst

July 17, 2009

so sorry for your loss, Joan was a wonderful woman and will be missed by many. God bless you all in your time of need.

Donna McFadden

July 16, 2009

Frankie & Chris, I was sorry to hear about your mother. She was always good to me and one of my favorite people when I was part of the family. I'm sure she'll be missed greatly.

Jennifer Sexton

July 16, 2009

To everyone in this wonderful family, I am so sorry for the loss that is being felt by so many people. I had the oppurtunity to be part of this family for a brief period of time in wich I was blessed with a beautiful relationship with Momma Jo. Not enough tears could be shed in comparison to the joy and laughter that she provided to many of us. Thanks for all of the beautiful memories Momma Jo I love you and will miss you...your angel.

Regina Arvin

July 16, 2009

Frankie and Chris, so sorry for your loss. We will all miss her smiles and jokes. Just remembering the fun we had camping and cook-outs. You guys take care and give us a call.

God Bless you both.
Leroy & Regina and boys

Dortha Grigsby

July 16, 2009

Joan always had a smile,she'll be deeply missed by many.God bless her family.

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