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1934

DIED

2015

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Angus McDonald Obituary



Angus Lee McDonald was dragged from life fighting with all the courage, dignity, and humor that were displayed throughout his nearly eight year battle with Idiopathic pulmonary fibrosis, cancers, and other assorted ailments. He died on December 13, 2015 surrounded by his family knowing that he was loved and that he will be missed. Angus was born in Rochester, New York on August 2, 1934 to James and Feikje McDonald. The youngest of eight children, Angus lived in Rochester until, at age 14, he was sent to the George Junior Republic in Freeville New York, where he had the great fortune to be assigned to the house of "Ma" and "Pappy" Millet, his house parents who guided him to the path that led from being a chronic runaway to the presidency of the GJR, to the Board of Directors of what has become the William George Agency. Upon graduation from the "Republic" Angus spent three years in the military, first with the Seabees, and then with the army where he began his life as a civil engineer. After his honorable discharge, Angus took a job with Lane Construction building highways and bridges around upstate New York. While working on a bridge in Schuylerville, New York, Angus swept Barbara Anne Walsh off her feet, married her and brought her with him to Fort Wayne, Indiana where he earned his degree in civil engineering and started his family. Upon graduation Angus resumed working on highways and bridges as a construction engineer until bringing his family to Connecticut in 1964 to work for Lifetime Homes, and in 1966 started his own business, "Angus McDonald, Land Survey Consultant," which grew to become "Angus McDonald/Gary Sharpe and Associates," from where he retired in 2006. After mourning the loss of Barbara in 1982, Kismet (and land use development) brought Mary Jane Machnik Suisman into his life and they soon joined their families and he was blessed with 30 more years of love and life. First and foremost, Angus was fiercely proud of his family and loved knowing that the McDonald/Suisman clan had grown to the point that he was a great-grandfather. Active all of his life, Angus enjoyed travel, skiing and sailing most of all, so much so that he was skiing at Mount Snow eight months after his lung transplant, sailing the waters of New England until he put "Surveyor" away for the winter this past September, and cruising through Europe on the rivers Rhein and Danube in October. Angus believed that volunteerism is a vital ingredient of society, and spent much of his "spare" time working for individual and civic organizations. Beginning in 1970 as the adult liaison with "Sing-Out Saybrook," a local branch of Up with People," he has mentored young people and volunteered countless hours with the Connecticut Association of Land Surveyors, Old Saybrook Chamber of Commerce, the Old Saybrook Rotary Club, and driving for Meals on Wheels and FISH. Angus is survived by his wife Mary McDonald, children Angus McDonald Jr. (Andrea), Kimberly Kanabis (Robert), Robert McDonald (Maureen), Nicole Dolan (Tom), Jarred Suisman (Elizabeth Allen), and Tony Suisman (Katie), grandchildren Mara Lowry (Xander), Riley, Jeremy, Madelyn, and Macken Angus McDonald, Zach and Hanna Dolan, Hailey and Natalie Suisman, and Georgia Allen, great-grandchildren Roosevelt and Maple Lowry, his sister Dorothy Thompson and hundreds of nieces and nephews. His family is eternally grateful to Duke Pulminary Transplant Clinic and Dr. Paul Noble for their continued efforts in the study and procedure of lung transplants and the staff at floor 9 of the Smilow Cancer Center at Yale New Haven Hospital for their gentle care. A celebration of Angus' life will be held at 11:00 am on Friday, December 18th at the Saybrook Point Inn, burial will be private. In lieu of flowers contributions may be made to the Pulmonary Fibrosis Foundation at pulmonary fibrosis.org or to the Lung Transplant Foundation. To share a memory of Angus or send a condolence to his family, please visit www.rwwfh.com. Arrangements by Robinson, Wright & Weymer Funeral Home, Centerbrook.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 16, 2015.

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Ellen and Eric Cantos

December 20, 2015

We are so very sorry to hear about Angus's passing . Our deepest sympathy to the family. We will miss his kind smile and laugh at the board meetings, dinner , and on the mover.

Janet Youmans Cooperman

December 18, 2015

What a wonderful man! So sorry to hear of your loss. I have fond memories of lovely dinners at your home with Angus as the most charming host. Hope you are well , my condolences and heartfelt sympathy to you and the family. Fondly, Janet

Kevin DaRos

December 16, 2015

As a Charter Member of CALS, Angus set a path for all surveyors to follow. Thank you for making the world a better place.

Ed. Nicoletta

December 17, 2015

Mary and your family. I am truly sorry for your loss. I have also lost my best old friend. I will always remember his smile and his laughter.

Michael Adler

December 16, 2015

Angus will be deeply missed. He was a man with such a love of life with the upmost integrity in everything he did. He made everyone around him feel important and brough tremendous joy to everyone he touched. I consider myself very fortunate to have known Angus and will always remember his friendship, guidance and mentoring.

Sincerely,

Michael Adler

Butch Shimelman

December 16, 2015

We have lost a truly good man.
The world was more for his being here and less with his passing

leslie Collier-Flott

December 15, 2015

I AM SO SADDENED BY THE PASSING OF THIS MOST WONDERFUL MAN! I KNEW HIM SINCE I WAS A CHILD, ALWAYS HAVING SUCH A HUGE SMILE ON HIS FACE. HE WILL BE MISSED BY MANY!
WITH MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY TO YOU ALL!
RIP MR. McDONALD
LESLIE COLLIER-FLOTT AND BENNY FLOTT

Susan Lieberman

December 16, 2015

Dearest Mary....my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as I will always remember Angus as a dear friend

The McShane Family

December 15, 2015

Our thoughts and prayers are with the McDonald and extended family at this sad time

Donna & Strick Hyde

December 29, 2015

Mary and family -

So sorry to hear of the loss of Angus. He was an amazing man and I always remember him smiling. He was an honest, hardworking man and will be missed.

December 21, 2015

Dear Mary and family,

I was saddened to hear of Angus' recent passing. He was an absolute gentlemen who was one of my early land planning mentors. He was bright, practical and highly respected by all of my development peers, and I hope you all take great pride that the imprint of his life's work will shine for many generations to come.

With Sympathy, Mario DiLoreto

Bo Zhao

December 20, 2015

Dear Angus, I just learned the sad news of your passing. My deepest condolences to Mary and your family. Hope they are strong going through the difficult grief and in time to heal the pain of losing you. You will be dearly missed. Thank you for your wonderful recordings on Ben, please say hi for me when you see him in Heaven. May you rest in peace and may God be with you.

Carren Rogan

December 17, 2015

Thank you Angus for always being so kind to my children and us. You will be dearly missed. Mary, Nicole, Rob and everyone touched by Angus know you are in my thoughts and prayers. Losing a loved one is so difficult. Adjusting to a new reality takes time. May God hold you tightly during these moments. I send you all my love. Hang in there and may you find peace during this holiday season.

December 17, 2015

With a sad heart I learned today of the passing of Angus. It was my good fortune to work with Angus during much of his professional life in Old Saybrook and more recently to share much of his experience with a transplanted lung . And, of course, his marriages: first with Barbara and then later when she passed, he found and married Mary. He likewise was blessed to to share an upbeat and full life with Mary.

Angus to those of us who worked with him, knew him to be creative, responsive, knowledgeable, fun and a great team member.

More than all of this Angus has been my really good friend since the early 1960's. I will miss him terribly and wish him the best in his after life. My love to Mary and his big family. To his lung brother all the best in the days ahead.

Warm Regards-Curt Sykora

December 17, 2015

R.I.P Angus. Our sincere condolences to your family.

With heartfelt regards,

Andy and Mindy Childs

December 17, 2015

To know Angus was to love him!

with prayers and caring at this difficult time,

Grace & Dan Sullivan

George Thomas

December 16, 2015

May the many learning's of Angus to everyone he touched be a lasting memory to his credit as a loving and caring person. He loved all in life and lived it to the fullest. My thoughts and prayers go out to the McDonald and Suisman families.

Margie Petrilli

December 16, 2015

I never think of Angus without thinking of Mary. They were a fantastic team. Anthony
& I had much more fun in our lives when
we were with the two of them. In addition to
making me laugh, I have always had the greatest
of admiration for his volunteerism and his
willingness to help others. I miss you already,
Captain Danger.

Jane and Ken Buttinger

December 16, 2015

Angus inspired people around him with his love of life, family, and friends. His spirit of giving back to others has helped make the world a better place. We extend our heartfelt sympathy to Mary and all his children, grandchildren and great grandchildren. We will cherish memories of our fun times.

Anthony Petrilli

December 16, 2015

Angus was the special friend in my life. You were comfortable in any circumstance. Angus, Mary Margie and I shared many happy times and travels together. Hewill be sorely missed

Johnny Jordan

December 16, 2015

Heaven is a brighter place with the additional of a new angel, Angus. Our sincere condolences to MARY and his family.. He touched so many lives in a positive way and lived life to the fullest. Through a shared lung transplant, we became brothers and it was a great pleasure to have had the opportunity to get to know him and his lovely wife, Mary.x

Joe Fontana

December 16, 2015

You were a lighthouse in my storm and battle with IPF. With your guidance and support I was able to reach a safe harbor. I enjoyed our trips and conversations with you to the Yale IPF support groups where you shared your insight and wisdom with the new IPF Warriors.

"The Breakfast Club" you started will always have a chair for you at our table in your honor!

Rest in Peace my friend!

December 16, 2015

Please accept our sincere condolences on the demise of ANGUS. a TRUE gentleman.We trust that God will offer him a safe haven into his Kingdom and that this same God will sustain your entire family during this most stressful time.
Jim&Madeline Barone

Marthat Jacques

December 16, 2015

One of the nicest men I have ever met. My sincere condolences to Mary and his family. Angus was one of a kind and will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

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