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October 17, 2019
He had an impact on me to this day I never fully understood. I do know, I am a better writer and enthusiast of Mailer and others due to his teaching.
Joseph "Jay" Oddie class of 77
January 22, 2019
As I reread Dr. Leeds life I realize how lucky I was to have had him for multiple classes. He has proven to be the best teacher I ever had. He is the reason I am to this day
constantly reading . It was his enthusiasm as a teacher that lit that fire.
Mark Goodwin
CCSU/69
Mike Pendell
September 3, 2017
I just learned of Barry's passing. He was one of the greats. He introduced me to my favorite book "Sometimes a Great Notion." I reread it every few years. I had him as a professor in the fall of 1996. I was humbled by how openly and honestly he spoke about his daughter and her great tragedy that no doubt haunted him the rest of his days. He inspired me, challenged me, and made me rethink what I thought it meant to be a man. Dr. Leeds, rest easy. Thanks for all you did.
Tristan Mason
September 5, 2015
I learned today that Barry H. Leeds, my favorite English professor in college, passed away in April at the age of 74. I enrolled in his Hemingway course in the Spring of 2012, knowing very little of the professor or his legacy, but from day one, he had such a profound impact on me that I can say this man is one of the reasons that my passion for teaching courses through my veins every morning when I step in front of my classroom and every evening when I sit down to grade. Dr. Leeds, dressed jeans and a tweed jacket, discussed Ernest Hemingway and his life in such an engaging fashion that his students paid no mind to the lecture ending five or fifteen minutes late. The only excitement we felt about leaving was so we could go home to read "The Sun Also Rises," or to watch "Midnight in Paris" to see the "spot on" portrayal of Hemingway as a young writer in Paris.
I wanted to learn so much more from Dr. Leeds than the intricacies of Hemingway's life and literary legacy. Knowing the professor was also an accomplished author, I stopped by his office one day with my short story "The Cat Came Back" and asked if he wouldn't mind critiquing it. Dr. Leeds reviewed it in less than a day with a seemingly endless amount of helpful comments
written in the margins. When he shared his feedback with me, he also asked about my desire to become a teacher. He pointed out the smile that came to my face when I spoke about it and suggested that I teach a mini-lesson in front of the class on Hemingway's short story "Fifty Grand." Without hesitation I researched the story, Hemingway's inspiration behind it, and assembled a PowerPoint along with detailed lesson notes. A week later, when I facilitated the lesson, I was surprised by my own ability to speak at ease about the subject and carry on a discussion with a class full of twenty-plus students. Dr. Leeds wasn't though and noted that I had a quiet confidence about me. After the lesson, we spoke once more about my strengths and weaknesses in presenting. He told me I would make a "fine teacher one day."
I internalized his suggestions during my student teaching experience and felt that quiet confidence he observed unleash when I taught "The Sun Also Rises" and "Fifty Grand" to high school juniors. Remembering Dr. Leeds words, I poured every inch of that confidence into classroom discussions and for the first time, noticed my energy translate to student performance when they created YouTube videos on Hemingway and modernism. I saw no one in the computer lab that day checking their phones, or browsing other websites. Instead, students were excited about finding images of 1920s Paris and the quotations to match. For the first time, I could say that I made a difference.
I want nothing more than to keep making a difference. Dr. Leeds did so for more than forty-seven years of his career. The number of students he inspired to become better readers, writers and educators is immeasurable like the energy he delivered in every lecture, or the number of facts he knew about Hemingway's stories. I deeply mourn the loss of Dr. Leeds this morning, but I will forever remember the role he played in making me the teacher I am today.
Joseph Lobo
April 24, 2015
Without a doubt the best teacher I ever had. Upon learning of his death I discovered he had written an autobiography. I just came in the mail today. When I am ready and the house is quiet, I will sit down with the book and again experience the man, the stories and the impact he had on my young life. One more time Dr. Leeds, you will be my instructor and I the student. Rest well.
Kristine Johnson Mothersele
April 20, 2015
I was an English major at Central when Barry first arrived back in 1968...swoon-worthy, sharp witted, tall and handsome in his jeans, well worn boots, and tweed jacket. I remember him as brilliant, passionate, THE Norman Mailer expert, and so much more. I recall he kept some wood to chop for when he really needed to burn off angry energy. Unforgettable indeed. I'm so sorry to hear of his passing and his sadness.
David Cohen
April 20, 2015
Dr. Leeds was my instructor in the mid 90's and we had a great relationship. Being a retired Police Officer, we shared stories about his Dad? who I believe was a NYC Police Officer. This was also during a most difficult time in his life as well as mine, and we shared some heartfelt moments.
Dr. Leeds was one of the finest human beings I have ever met, and I recently have been thinking of him and wished to contact him. Please do not put off contacting friends or loved ones as they often leave us too soon.
I am so very sorry for this loss and to Dr. Leed's family and loved ones, he was quite a man who I will never forget. G-d Bless always,and rest in peace.
Thank you Barry for a brief, unforgettable friendship, and for molding mine and so many lives. I will miss you.
Dr. Robert Liftig
April 19, 2015
Reason I became an English professor. Grievous personal loss.
April 19, 2015
I was a student of Dr.Leeds when he first taught at what was then Central Connecticut Sate College.That was in 1968.Of all my teachers and professors,he alone stands out and memories flood back often of those days.He inspired me,taught me,criticised me and amused me.I always looked forward to his class never knowing what he might entertain us with next.Whatever it was, there was a teachable moment.About 40 years later my own daughter took one of his classes on Norman Mailer never knowing that he was my professor as well.She shared stories with me and reminded him that I was his student also.So sorry this brilliant, caring man has gone.There are no words except that so many will forever remember him.
April 19, 2015
I loved you Barry and will forever miss you.I wish you didn't have to leave but I accept it. -Jan
Bob Renstrom
April 18, 2015
No words. No; six: Best. Man. I. Have. Ever. Known.
Lou Lestini
April 18, 2015
Dr. Leeds was my mentor as an undergraduate and grad student at CCSU. He sent me out into the world with the command that, if I should become a teacher, to embody the idea that the love of the written word is also a manly trait. He called me at 9:30 one night (very late for him) having massive anxiety over the contradictions in a paper I had written for him. He thought it was potentially publishable but could not understand how the same person could write that paper and yet use the plural of "society" instead of the possessive! He was vibrant, passionate and caring. I still aspire to be his shadow. Not since losing my father eleven years ago have I felt this much loss. His life was so well spent. Though his leaving is a great loss, great celebration of him as a father, a teacher and as a man is the only appropriate response.
April 18, 2015
I am very sorry for your loss. Dr. Leeds was my professor back in 1988 at CCSU and I recall how passionate he was about literature, especially One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest. He was a brilliant man, and my prayers are with your family at this sad time.
April 18, 2015
Barry was a colleague and friend for more than 40 years, but we have known each other since graduate school days in Athens, Ohio. In the early years we had not learned to notice how similar we were in a dissimilar way.
My final memory of Barry is his famous bear hug goodbye after a luncheon celebration of his 74th birthday. We knew that we would not be seeing one another for several months since I would be spending the winter and early spring in Florida. His humor, his smile, and his friendship will not be forgotten. Ross Baiera
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