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Benjamin Lord Obituary
Benjamin Talcott Lord, 83, of East Hampton, passed away February 18, 2017 at Rocky Hill Veteran's Hospital. He was born in Willimantic, CT, son of the late Isabelle and Benjamin Lord. He was married to his high school sweetheart Marion Youngs for 59 years,. He is survived by his three children Sharon Furman and husband Thomas, Jeff Lord and wife Susan and youngest Susan Mary Lord. He leaves four grandchildren Melissa Coature and husband Bryan, Meghan Lord and partner David Vadney, Elizabeth Hyde, Daniel Hyde and partner Amanda Godwin. He also leaves behind three step grandchildren Danielle, Matthew and Kristin Hadjstylianos and one step great grandchild Isabella Ciarlglio. He is survived by his beloved brother David Lord and wife Joan and their children David Lord, Jennifer and David Harrison and their children Ben, Sydney, Skylar and Willow. He leaves behind his loving great grandchildren Will, Adaline and Isabelle Coature, Natalie and Jack Vadney. He also leaves his good and faithful friend Billy Tyre from Florida. Ben was a member of the Fellowship Church, a former Police Commissioner and member of the original town charter commission in east Hampton. He was a member of the VFW Post 5095 for over 50 years, District 6 Commander, CT Commander 1999-2000 and many other state offices. He served his country in the Army for four years. Ben loved hunting, golf and the Red Sox, but mostly enjoyed his large family and many friends. When Ben became sick he was dearly cared for by his children and wife, son-in-law Tom and his "best pal" Daniel Hyde. A special thanks to Sue for all the wonderful food, Cathy Lyman and Jay Scatlen for always being there. The family wishes to thank the Rocky Hill staff and C-upper for your exceptional care, empathy and attention to our father. It meant more than you know. Friends may call at the Spencer Funeral Home 112 Main St. East Hampton on Thursday Feb. 23rd from 5PM until 6PM. A Memorial service will be held at 6PM. Burial will be private. To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.
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Patricia Beirne
February 13, 2022
Ben, remembering you always brings a smile.
Patricia Beirne
February 13, 2019
Remembering you Ben -- your smile -- and your eyes that sparkled like gemstones!
Nancy Banker
March 6, 2017
So sorry for your loss.
Patricia Beirne
February 23, 2017
To Jeff, Sharon, Susan and all the Lords: Your father was a wonderful man and I am so glad to have known him this past 15 years. I will always remember the special twinkle in his blue eyes -- I have no doubt he's got them all smiling in heaven right now.
John Romano
February 23, 2017
Our sincerest sympathies to the Lord family. It was an honor and privilege to be part of Mr Lord's health care team. It was obvious in getting to know him, and meeting his family that he was a great man Our thoughts and prayers are with you. With love and sympathyJohn Romano and Kelly Keaveney
Liz and John Santamaria
February 22, 2017
To Ben's family,
My husband and I were in a Bible study with Marian and Ben for many years through Fellowship church. We had lots of laughs and good times with them. Ben was a very strong Christian man. He used to take notes at church and at our Bible studies in small notebooks and in his bible. He told me they were for his grandchildren and when he passed on he hoped they would read them and get closer to the Lord while reading his notes. I didn't have grandchildren at the time, but thought it was such a nice idea. A few years later when I had my first grandchild I started doing the same. I now have quite a few notebooks to pass on. So Ben has helped to influence my grandchildren too. We will miss him but know he is so happy and pain free now.
Susan Anderson
February 22, 2017
Jeff, Sue and Family. My deepest condolences to you and your family. I only met your dad a couple of times, however he was one of the sweetest people I have ever met. Thinking of all of you and sending hugs, prayers and love to all of you.
Always,
Christopher Dimichele
February 21, 2017
My deepest condolences to the lord family Ben was a great man and always made me laugh may he rest in peace
Joanne and Jerry Blum
February 21, 2017
Dear Jeffrey and family,
Our hearts go out to you and your family on the loss of your Dad.
Joanne and Jerry
Carolyn Hlavac
February 21, 2017
My heart goes out to Sharon, Jeff and Susan. And especially Meghan and Melissa. So much of their childhood was spent at Gram and Gramps house. I am blessed to have been a Lord for many years. Ben and Marion were the most loving and caring people, especially when it comes to family. They were always ready and willing to help anyone. They touched so many hearts over the years. Ben is now reunited with her and in the presence of his Lord Jesus Christ. May God's grace and mercy comfort you at this difficult time. My love to you all.
Rose Butler Bennett
February 21, 2017
Dear Lord Family, such saddness to hear of Ben's death. He and Bob are reunited once again telling of their Army days (and pranks on each other).
I cherish the photos of your Mom &Dad
and all the fun times here in Florida.
With Sympathy and Love to all.
Rose Butler Bennett.
Ocala, Florida
February 20, 2017
Dear Ben's family,
We are so sorry for your loss. Now Ben is with
Marion and my brother Bob Butler. You know they
are causing a rampage
in heaven. It was a pleasure knowing your parents.
Beverly Butler Moskey & Ted
meg lord
February 20, 2017
U and gram where like like my second parents. Spent a good deal of my life in ur home... i love you and will miss you and gram more than words could express... see u on the flip side gramp...
Chris Kelly Boyle
February 20, 2017
To the Lord Family,your Dad was a very special man. He was always giving a helping hand to any one in need. I admired his wisdom and strength he indured so much pain but always kept his sense of humor . Now you know that he is free of pain and with the Lord . You have my deepest sympathy and know he is at peace know with Christ and his lovely bride Marion. Love Chris Kelly Boyle.
Bill & Mary Hennessey
February 20, 2017
Reading on-line COURANT items produced sad news this morning down here in Florida. Benny Lord dead? It doesn't seem possible that our lifelong memories inevitably lead to such news. We consider Ben (and Marion too!) among our fondest recollections of growing up in Marlborough and East Hampton.
Ben's dad was our Boy Scout Leader, and Ben was one of the standout members of our little group during World War II. Like ours, his high school romance lasted forever, and we enjoyed reminiscing with him and Marion on the too-infrequent occasions that reunited us through the years.
They were the salt of the earth that flavored our relationship and we'll always think of him -- and her -- most joyfully.
Bill and Mary Hennessey
Niantic and Port Salerno
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