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Ayanna
June 25, 2024
He was a dear friend and I miss him.
Ann Hutchinson
December 1, 2009
Nell and Cali
I am sorry for the late entry but I just found out today. My heart is with you.
Ann C. Hutchinson
Robin Landy-Amadon
October 28, 2009
This is a beautifully written obituary and the words--their placement, choice, syntax--capture the spirit and sensitivity that Clay placed in his own work. I am a Trinity grad also, re-meeting Clay in 1995 at a Trinity reunion. I bought several of his word works at this time and they continue to grace my life and my space each day--his work for me combined wit, cleverness, meaning, color and the triumph of the human spirit. Just what Clay strived for in his own life and ways of living. My heartfelt condolences go to Nell and her younger sister, to Linda and the many who were far closer to him than I. Nell, I met you once--mid nineties would have placed you in high school at that time--His deep love for you was in his every moment! I am sorry for this loss. Someone once said to me, "Despite my parents or because of them, I am destined to have a fascinating and meaningful life!" I found that a reassuring thought that asks us to celebrate the strengths and forgive the weaknesses! Something we all do as we step into our adulthood! So my heart is far away and certainly not central to your lives; but know, just the same, that it is with you and admires so much of what you have done and are doing now to make the world a peaceful place. Clay's progressivism surely contributed to all. with love, Robin Landy Amadon, Seattle, WA. [email protected]
Craig Shields
October 18, 2009
I'm so sorry to hear about this. I was a fellow Deke at Trinity with Clay. He was a deeply thoughtful and sensitive man, deeply respected and loved by all. He'll be sorely missed by all who were hononed to have known him.
- Craig "Grins" Shields
harry harelik
July 20, 2009
I was a former student of Clay's, and have not communicated with him since the 1970's. He was a young college grad teaching at Winchendon, and I was an indifferent english student, The short version of the story is that he made a big impact on my studies.
I live in SF, and wish I had gotten the chance to re-connect with him these last years. My prayers are with his family.
Harry Harelik
Jocelyn Grayson
May 10, 2009
Although I only knew Clay for a relatively short time, I will always remember him. I respected him deeply and my thoughts and prayers go out to his family and friends at this time.
Genevieve Taylor
April 30, 2009
Thinking about Clay at an art show, at a lovely winery in Healdsburg. He wore a white button down shirt, open collared and dramatic, every bit the enthusiastic artist. Seeing that, and then seeing him through the disease over the next few months was a contrast. But he never lost his artists sensibility, his passion or his caring. It has been an honor knowing him for the time that I have.
Linda and Nell, thank you for being the guides to the journey for his last year. You made things so much easier.
Richard Clarke
April 29, 2009
Linda and Nell: I was moved by the caring and love you manifested in your being with Clay during this last period of his life. I have many rich memories of the years I have known Clay and will remember him forever. Love -- Richard Clarke.
celia owens
April 29, 2009
Perhaps the best obituary I've ever read. Thank you.
Kimi Sugioka
April 29, 2009
Though I am deeply saddened by Clay's death I am grateful that he was able to choose his time to die consciously, peacefully and with dignity thanks to Linda and family. My heart goes out to his loved ones.
Frank Fields
April 28, 2009
Sorry to hear of the passing of dear Clay - an old family friend. I knew Clay mostly in California, but his family and mine go "way back" in Woodstock Vermont. What a sweet guy.
Marge Seiferheld
April 26, 2009
Linda and Nell -- I was sorry to read of your friend and father ... just wanted to let you know I was thinking of you both. He clearly had a very full and most interesting life.
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