Daniel John Carcio, 63, of Avon, passed peacefully with his family by his side on Thursday February 18, 2016. He fought a long, courageous battle with cancer since he was diagnosed in 2011. He was the beloved husband of Lynn Carcio for 27 years and they have been together for 35 years. Their marriage was filled with love, happiness, laughter, compromise, and hard work. Dan built his business in the town of Canton with many of the same qualities he built his marriage and family on. Dan opened the doors of Canton Village Exxon on February 19, 1979. He served the people in the town of Canton and surrounding areas for 37 years at Canton Village Gulf (Exxon for 28 years). He loved his work and being with his customers every day. He retired on December 24, 2015 closing the doors after almost four decades of care, dedication, and service. Helping others was something Dan did tirelessly without hesitation. If he wasn't at work, Dan was out on the water in his pride and joy, his boat, Hyper-Active. His summers were spent on the water, speeding over the waves and boating to different places with his wife, children, and close friends that turned into family. He was a die-hard New York Giants fan. Dan was an active member in his church community, he mentored youth and was superintendent of Sunday school for 15 years. Dan built a strong business but even stronger family. Born on July 7, 1952 to Rosemary Carcio and the late John Carcio, he was a graduate of Wethersfield High School. He loved being with family, friends, and making others laugh. He was always making a joke and loving life. He worked endlessly for his wife, Lynn and three children, Anthony (A.J.), Angela, and Christopher. As his kids were growing up he helped coach A.J.'s baseball teams and supported his Boy Scout troop. He never missed one of Angela's dance recitals or watching a New York Giants game with her. Dan was at every event for his children up until the day he passed. Dan always said that Lynn was the best thing that happened to him, and he was blessed with a superman of a son and his only and favorite daughter. He loved to vacation and enjoy the time that God granted him. He is survived by his loving wife; her siblings, Sharon and Doug Ridley, Debra and John Solek, Bruce Davis and Naomi Culp, several nieces and nephews; his three children, Anthony, Angela, and Christopher; grandson, Tyler; his mother, Rosemary Carcio; his siblings, Debra (Carcio) Mals , her husband Peter, and daughter Marissa, Robert Carcio and his wife Lisa; Aunt Eleanor Garro; cousins Darren and wife Maria, C.C. and wife Krista; and many second cousins. A memorial service will be held on Friday, February 26th at 4:00pm at the West Avon Congregational Church. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to Camp Chihopi, a summer camp for children who have received organ transplants, or a cancer research charity of your choice. For donations to Camp Chihopi, please make checks payable to Camp Chihopi - Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh and mail to Beverly Kosmach, Children's Hospital of Pittsburgh, 4401 Penn Avenue, Faculty Pavilion 6th Floor, Pittsburgh, PA 15224 or go to https://www.givetochildrens.org/donate and please designate Camp Chihopi. Please visit Dan's "Book of Memories" at www.vincentfuneralhome.com for online condolences.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Feb. 21, 2016.

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Linda Byrne

February 15, 2025

Hey Dan: Just saw your memory in my email today. I think about you everytime I am in Canton. Still the best car mechanic ever!

Linda M. Byrne

February 15, 2023

Best car mechanic bar none! You are missed.

Peter Mals

February 15, 2021

Love and miss you Uncle Dan the world with out you is not the same.

Linda Byrne

February 15, 2021

I drove through the plaza like I used to do when I had an appointment at Danny's garage. It felt all too familiar and I immediately thought of him. R.I.P. Danny. You truly were the best mechanic ever. And a very nice person with a terrific sense of humor. The world was a better place with you in it.

Linda M. Byrne

June 29, 2020

just found out that Danny passed. I thought he retired but didn't know anything else. (My family moved out of the area in 2004.) I am sorry to hear this and so sorry for your loss. I used to call Danny my "Surrogate Husband." I relied on him for everything regarding my cars and then when I got married and was at the dealer for a oil change and the service guy would tell me "what they found." I would say, "May I call my husband?" Then, I would call Danny and ask him if it sounded right. (I do not trust dealerships or any other mechanics, for that matter. All the while my real husband was unsuspecting! LOL! Until we got the bill.) Danny was not just a good mechanic, but, a nice person and he had a life wisdom as well. (Zen in the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.) He not only gave good car guidance, but, life guidance as well. Please know that your husband/father/grandpa/brother/cousin/son/friend is sorely missed. Hew was a joy to see and his humor and honesty was a breath of fresh air. God bless Danny and you and your family.

Rosemary Smith

February 15, 2019

It's been three years since Dan's passing and I can't tell you how often we think of Danny. He was such a kind and honest man. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Rosemary and Fred Smith, W. Simsbury

Pat Grace

February 15, 2019

Riding with my friend was an experience!

The first time I rode with him, he pulled out in front of someone, I thought he was cutting it close, and on my side! Dan said dont worry, thats why they put brakes on that car! We had a good laugh!... afterward.

We would discuss business, dont worry came up then also. He was very supportive.

Dan would get a kick out of knowing there are tears in my eyes while I write this.

God bless my brother,

Pat

BRUCE MURPHY

October 12, 2016

So sad when I heard of the loss of Danny to his family and the community....he was a great person..RIP.... B Murphy

Joe Schneiderman

March 13, 2016

Dear Carcio Family:
Dan was our friend and a perpetual positive fixture in our lives. Even after we moved to Bloomfield more than 15 years ago, we still brought our cars to Dan because of the personal care, dedication, and detailed service he and his team provided. As a child, I remember one time when Dan paid us a housecall just to double-check, even though he himself doubted that we were the ones with car trouble.
Dan also perpetually supported all my successes, especially my law practice. We share your loss and offer our most heartfelt condolences.
-Joe Schneiderman, on behalf of the Schneiderman Family

March 4, 2016

Dear Lynn and Family,,
So sorry to hear about Danny's passing. Paul and I were shocked as we ran into Danny at San Soucie Restaurant a number of months ago and it was great to see him after so many years and to catch up. Canton Village Exxon and Danny, Bob and the whole crew will always be remembered with a smile on our faces, never to be forgotten.
With Our Love & Prayers To You All,
Paul & Barbara
"Mr. & Mrs. Wolfson" is what Danny always called us.

Alberta Turbert

March 1, 2016

In time, it will be the the small, everyday occurrences that you'll remember most: the laughs, the stories, the smiles. Although it might seem like the pain will never go away, it is these very memories that will help push the sorrow away and bring back happier feelings, in time.

Dear Lynn, AJ and Angela,
I don't know who to attribute that quote to but I think it says it all. I know I smile when I think of Danny and I know it's true for everyone who came in contact with him. Please accept our heartfelt condolences and deepest sympathy.....Anthony and Alberta Potamitis

Donna Carney

February 27, 2016

My last words to Danny....
I can't believe your gone we last spoke just over two weeks ago I asked you what you wanted to eat that Bridget and I would come visit you. your answer was bring Lynn and I steak and cheese from dangelo's that's what you wanted and asked me to call lynn and find a good time...I am so sorry my friend not making excuse but 4 wakes and funerals in less then two weeks and me having a heart attack I fell short, thought I had more time...so sorry...Our friendship goes back a million years it seems before you met and married the woman of your dreams." your heart Lynn". always able to talk to each other about anything at all, we had a honest friendship that I will carry in my heart forever...when I asked you why after work you don't attend many functions your answer was " I enjoy my time off with my wife and children" you really were the perfect family man.
You would give to anything in this town to keep it good, the kids, schools, fire dept., museum, chamber, lions club and the list goes on, thing is some people took advantage of your generous nature I so wanted to tell them off, but in your danny way you would say all in good time. After having a few people come ask you for a donation after you and I watched them fill up with gas at Citgo in your very diplomatic way you told them "NO" to go get a donation where they got gas, I was so proud, we laughed...A man of many words you only spoke up when necessary... when your son was sick "we the community" said we were sorry and felt your pain the truth is most of us could never imagine how much your family was going through and how scared, worried and alone Lynn and you were. See it was only when Denver was born with medical problems did I truly understand the crosses your family beard It is a different world behind the those hospital doors. I would be so strong and try not to cry when at the hospital with Denver having to be the strong one but afterwords you were one of the few people who I can talk to and who really understood what I was going through for this I am forever grateful and strengthen our friendship...you gave me advice and friendship and all I could give you and your men was "Pizza, cookies, soda and water, a small token for all you have given me..when you fixed my cars/van/ trucks If I didn't have the money at the moment you would trust me until my check came..Once i had so much money on me and went to pay the bill but didn't bring enough to the station so I gave Jim what I had and drove away....You looked at Jim and said where the hell did she go?? I ran up to the bank to get the difference when I returned with the small amount I was short you laughed so hard you almost pissed your pants, I told you I would pay you when my check came in and a promise is a promise..You pointed at the top draw and told me you wished that all those people were have as honest as i was..I was so unhappy that you always gave and all some people did was take....
One day when someone was trying to destroy me you were at your desk and in your own understanding way made me feel so much better about the situation, to me it was the end of the world when I after our talk we were laughing about stupid people who have no life and get off hurting others...you could turn any cloudy day into a rainbow gee I so miss you..
One day my van wouldn't start I did everything to get it running, you had one of the guys come bring you over to look at it and you get in and it started right away you always had the magic touch, you drove it to the shop fixed the problem and called me to tell me it was ready, being funny I told you i could not come get it I had no car to drive you sent the man to get me, when I got to the shop you said your really taken this full service all the way........
When I got breast cancer and came home after chemo you made sure all the guys filled my van with gas and checked all the fluids charging me the cheaper price, you always were a perfect gentleman..
I miss our talks, I miss you...when the Chamber had their golf tournament you always supported it like everything else one day you gave me pencils for their gift bags when I brought back the left overs I kept a few you said Why?? I have no answer just because well i am using it now daily until we meet again, this small token makes me think of my friend..until we meet again.

..At a recent funeral the minster spoke about the dates on the tombstone from the beginning his birth to the end his death and all the years in between were his dash and what matters most in life is how a person spends his dash,from the people who loved him, the home you owned, cars, or cash what's really important is how a person spends his dash. So when your eulogy is being read with all your life's actions to rehash will you be pleased at how you spent your dash??? Danny I know your dash is full of amazing things because you have so many good friends who loved and cared about you and will share your life through all the stories and memories, miss you my good friend ....

Joy Kauper

February 26, 2016

I am so sorry. I was a customer for 17 years and thought that Dan was perfect for that job. He was kind to everyone and seemed to love helping them.And I I felt that he always kept me aware of how my car was doing.
God bless you with His comfort.

mark barca

February 25, 2016

My absolute favorite local businessman....always a smile and a sincere hello...So sorry,Mark and Holly Barca

Pat & Dorene Grace

February 24, 2016

Our sincere condolences to you Lynn and the family. We wish you the peace that transcends all understanding.

Danny was a special guy, he was all about being friendly, funny and his family. God bless you brother.

Bill Edwin

February 24, 2016

Dan is the definition of a great man. He was honest, hard working and always pleasant and respectful. I was very sad to hear of his death. To his family- please accept my deepest condolences for your loss.

Brian Kelley

February 24, 2016

My sincere condolences to Dans entire family. He was a customer and friend for over 30 years. Truly one of the most honest people I have ever met. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again .

Dave Unsworth

February 23, 2016

A GREAT GUY! Nice to be around

Roger & Candace LaFleur

February 23, 2016

Dan was always a pleasure to do business with. He was always so kind and helpful. He will be missed greatly.
Very sorry for your loss.

February 22, 2016

I am so sorry to hear of Dan's passing, he was such a kind and generous man to our program. He will truly be missed. Sincerely, Yvonne Garnder from FOCUS Center for Autism.

Rick Dubiel

February 22, 2016

I was a customer of Danny's, as was my mother before me. He always treated us square, with a healthy dose of humor. We will miss you, and offer our condolences to his family/ The world was a better place because of him.

Theresa Peterson

February 22, 2016

Wow so sorry to hear, Dan was a great guy I remember growing up and my mom would always bring her death trap to him to be fixed until finally he said no more he told her go buy a new car !

February 22, 2016

I enjoyed all of the chats that Dan and I had before Sunday School. He always had a smile and a story to tell. I have missed him and will continue to miss him along with Alyson.He made Sunday Morinings that much brighter.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.---The Olesaks

February 22, 2016

We are so sorry to hear about Dan's passing. He will be remembered as an honest businessman and a fixture in Canton with his grin and jokes and friendly way of doing business. He will be missed. Our condolences to his family and hope the memories will sustain you through this difficult time.
Jack and Robin Bahre

Rosemary and Fred Smith

February 21, 2016

Fred and I are so sorry to hear of Dan's passing. He will be missed by all who ever had the pleasure of knowing him. Such an honest, kind and fun gentleman. Dan had such a big heart. My sincere condolences to the Carcio family. RIP, dear friend.

Kimberli Smith

February 21, 2016

Danny was always so kind, and honest. I could count on him when I was in need. He will be missed. My thoughts are with you...I'm so sorry for your loss.

Richard Whalen, Jr.

February 21, 2016

To the Carcio family: Dan was such a great guy! He was always so good to my family, and especially to my Mom and Dad. My thoughts, prayers, and sympathy are with you all.

February 21, 2016

It is with great sadness that Fred and I read of your family's loss. Danny was one of kind, so honest, kind, and hard working and so proud of his family. We will greatly miss him. Rosemary and Fred Smith.

JoAn Smith

February 21, 2016

I was a customer of Danny's from the day he opened his service station until the day it closed. In those 37 years I came to rely on his honesty, generosity, and sense of humor and in the process formed a wonderful friendship. I will always miss the certainty of depending on his kindness and knowledge.
My condolences go out to his beloved wife and family.

paula berube

February 21, 2016

God received another angel- RIP Dan. I will always remember your smile and warm greetings I always received. Your family and friends are in my thoughts and prayers

Frank Flaminio

February 21, 2016

Dear, Peter and Debbie I am so sorry to hear about your brothers passing my thoughts and prayers our with your family during this very difficult time .

Denise Bergeron

February 21, 2016

Dear Lynn
I am deeply saddened by the news of your loss . I pray that God will grant you the strength needed to get through this moment in your life. My sincere condolences . Stay strong and rembered and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.

Sue Wiley/Shea

February 21, 2016

To the Carcio Family: I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your son/brother and father. Our deepest condolences to all of you. May his spirit live in your heart forever.

Bob Devanney

February 21, 2016

Dan you where a great friend growing in wethersfeild. Ifirst met you at motts,and then we began real good friends fri nights in the 65 chevy,and you loved that car so much.You will be so missed,and to your family sorry for you lost your friend Bob Devanny see you te hey

Chris & Mike Mancini

February 21, 2016

Dear Lynn, AJ & Angela,
We are saddened by Danny's passing. He was such a wonderful man who loved you all so much. He always lived life to the fullest enjoying everything with joy & his great sense of humor. We were blessed to have him as a friend. He touched so many people's lives in such a positive way. Our thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. With sympathy, love & hugs.

Peter Forgetta

February 21, 2016

Young, vibrant, funny and suddenly sickness strikes. I am truly saddened by the news of a great friend and client passing. I will never forget this loving man who shared his life experiences with me. I met this wonderful woman at the bank he once told me. My wife and I were honored to be at his wedding where the fun loving DAN mooned the crowd. Thanks for being a great client and friend. You entered Heaven on the same day as my Mom's anniversary. Please say Hi to her. God rest my friend.
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