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Elaine Savin Obituary

Elaine Sneirson Savin, 90, died peacefully at home after a short battle with cancer. Elaine was the eldest of two daughters born in Binghamton NY to Dr. Hyman Sneirson, a renowed surgeon and WWII veteran of Patton's army, and Barbara Gordon Sneirson.

Elaine graduated from the Emma Willard School and Cornell University where she met the love of her life, Marvin S. "Pete" Savin. They were married for 45 years until he died in 1998.

Elaine was elegant, vivacious, kind, and wildly stylish, including in her favorite outfit of blue jeans and moccasins. Everyone who met her was smitten with her. She was a principal at The Hartford Knights ACFL football team and at Petelain Racing Stables of Ocala, Florida. She was a force in Hartford civic and cultural affairs, having served as president or on the board of directors of, among other institutions, the Bellevue Square Boys' Club, the Greater Hartford Jewish Federation, The Hartford Ballet, Hartford Arts Council, Hartford College for Women, Neighborhood Centers, and Watkinson House. She was committed to social justice, voting rights, animal welfare, and women's rights and was an early advocate for prison reform. In 1986, she and Pete received the Anti-Defamation League's Torch of Liberty Award.

Pete and Elaine lived in West Hartford for the first few years of their marriage and then built their dream house in Bloomfield, where she raised their children and had what she called "the most wonderful time" with them; with her beloved friends she called her "dear pals"; and with her children's friends, who helped themselves to her outstanding fried chicken which was somehow available at all times in her oven.

Elaine was a force in her 13 grandchildren's lives. Some of them called her Lala and some of them called her Ha (when they couldn't pronounce the "L"). She froze on the sidelines of their games and danced at their weddings. She drove herself to Florida to see them, or flew to California. They each had a personal, powerful connection to her, and they cherished and admired her. She said they were "the best," and they called her The GOAT. Her phone infuriated her when she couldn't find their photos, or photos of her seven great-grandchildren, in the text messages.

Elaine loved her Sneirson relatives. She loved her girlfriends. She loved football because of the players' courage and athleticism. She loved horse racing, ballet, ancient Chinese poetry, great literature, her dogs (especially Venger-Dear-Beast, Sunny, and Hash) and the White Mountains of New Hampshire. She climbed Mount Washington dozens of times. Last June, on her 90th birthday, she climbed only to the crystal waterfall, but a whole squad of grandchildren reached the summit for her, so, as she said, "All was well."

At Cornell, Elaine studied Government and literature, and remembered lectures from her favorite professor, Vladimir Nabokov. She was a dancer there, and a choreographer. She was the "big sister" of her sorority sister, Ruth, then still Bader. Their connection lasted all their lives, as was apparent a few years ago, when Justice Ginsburg, upon seeing Elaine at a Supreme Court dinner for a mutual friend, made a beeline to give Elaine a great hug before whisking her away to chambers for a private visit. Elaine was special company.

When Elaine was 80 years old and standing in line for a Flamenco performance in Sevilla, a group of young people approached her. "We just want to say that everything about you is stunning," they said. This happened to Elaine often: complete strangers noticing her movie-star beauty, ballet dancer's posture, and her zest and smile, and stopping her on the street. She was delighted when they praised her outdated but evidently snazzy sunglasses. "Everyone loves my glasses!" she beamed. Everyone actually loved everything about her. Her style was just the outer manifestation of her beauty. She's may have lived a glamorous and exciting life, but in her heart, she was always the small town doctor's daughter from Binghamton.

Elaine leaves five children: Stacey Savin and husband Hon. Robert C. Chatigny of Simsbury, Connecticut; Nina Savin Scott and husband William Scott of Kennebunkport, Maine; Sugar Savin McCauley and husband Bill McCauley of Del Ray Beach, Florida; Terri Savin Docal of Miami, Florida; and John Peter Savin, of West Palm Beach, Florida; and she leaves her cousin, Lynne Snierson, of Salem, New Hampshire

Her 13 grandchildren are: Nathan Savin Scott, Anastasia Tess Davidson, Haley Susan Scott, Peter Robert Chatigny, John Victor Chatigny, Morgan Savin McCauley, Tierney McCauley Wilkins, Antonio Tomas Docal, John Carlos Docal, Jasmin Alejandra Docal, Matthew Walker Savin, Charlotte Louise Savin, and Lilly Carter Savin. She leaves seven great-grandchildren: William Savin Davidson, John Murdoch Davidson, Redding Shae Scott, Callum Savin Scott, Caspian McCauley Wilkins, Tallulah Elaine Wilkins, and Griffin Joseph McCauley.

A private funeral services is held for the family. In lieu of flowers, Elaine would be delighted if you would like to donate to a charity close to your heart. To sign the guest book for Elaine, please visit online at www.weinsteinmortuary.com/funerals.cfm.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Hartford Courant on Jan. 29, 2023.

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Betty Sudarsky

July 8, 2025

I loved snazzy, beautiful, warm Elaine Savin, like so many others. A room was a party as soon as she entered, and yet her personal touch with each person she greeted was genuine and memorable. The world is a better place because she lived in it. We need her more now than ever.

Nina Savin Scott

March 21, 2023

Dear friends of Elaine - my siblings and are so incredibly touched by these beautiful notes and expressions of sympathy. Your words mean the world to us! Thank you!

Jeffrey Max

February 19, 2023

My condolences to the Savin clan-Elaine was one of a kind and she will be missed by all who had the pleasure of knowing her-may her memory be a blessing

Carolyn Shaughnessy

February 4, 2023

Stacey, Nina, Sugar, Terri and John, Sending condolences to each of you and your families. I loved your Mom as did all of my sisters. Her warmth and energy lit up every room and she had the most amazing way of making everyone feel special. Her friendship with our Mom made her a steady presence throughout our entire lives and I feel so lucky to have had that. My image of your Mom is of her walking through every door with her arms open for a hug at every important moment in our lives. Sending love and a hugs to you all. Love Carolyn

Bill & Jackie Clifford

February 1, 2023

LaLa loved life and all her family and she made you feel part of the family when you were with her. My most memorable time was cruising with her, Sugar and Billy off the coast of Maine in a magnificent sailboat. I was on my own so LaLa was my date; she couldn´t have been more fun. All our love and prayers to the Savin family. Bill & Jackie Clifford

Glenn Shafer

January 31, 2023

So very sorry to all the extended Savin Family. I always enjoyed crossing paths with Elaine. She was lovely in every way.

Steve Harris

January 31, 2023

Hello Savins and deepest condolences from the Harris family. I met Elaine in the sixties when I was a teenager and she asked me to babysit for John. So it was just he and I in the big house. When I found the room with the pool table it was comforting for me! Then when Donna and I got engaged in 1974, Elaine and Peter threw us a wonderful party. Very thoughtful!
But it was through my mom, dubbed Choo Choo by Elaine, that I really got to know her. They were very close friends and it showed throughout my mom´s life. Whether it was as tennis partners or political support, they were a team to behold!
Donna and I and our children will miss her a lot!!!
Steve and Donna Harris

Peter Kohn

January 30, 2023

Elaine was an elegant, larger than life lady who loved her family, friends (pals) and favorite causes. She came to visit me after a leg injury when I was 14 and almost 50 years later we shared an imitate dinner together at my mother's home where it seemed like no time had passed in between visits. Jeryl and I send love and support to all of the Savin family.

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Elias Cassiani

January 30, 2023

Sugar, please accept my most sincere condolences.

Elaine was a wonderful person like you. She was solid and blessed to live for 90 years.


My prayers are for your and your family.

Lisa Aldridge

January 30, 2023

Dear Sugar, Terri, John, Nina & Stacey:
Your mother was a force of nature always - Any place she ventured into people turned to look at her -
It wasn´t just that she was always beautiful but she was always vibrant and she left an indelible marking on so many. I imagine you can feel her shining brightly as she travels around and about the heavens.
Warmly,
Lisa Aldridge (Arons)

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Richard Suisman

January 30, 2023

To Nina, Stacey, Sugar, Terri and John,

I was so very saddended to hear about Elaine's passing. She and your dad were great friends and I have so many wonderful memories. Mike, John and I go back to Vardon Rd with family and then for so many years of good times on Mountain Rd.which I'm sure leaves the 5 of you with so many great recollections. Elaine was without a doubt a force and I have just read the obit which Kathy kindly sent to me. I of course knew about her warmth and her many charitable and important leadership roles in Hartford. I can remember the 'Johnny Duke' Boxing Club, the Federation, the ballet and so many places where her smarts and personality were of great value. She will be missed but what great memories.

Fondly,
Richard Suisman

james harris

January 30, 2023

Your mother Elaine was a force of nature, especially when playing at net. We will all always miss her

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Terry Kidder

January 30, 2023

An amazing testament to an amazing life of love, light, accomplishment. Heartfelt condolences to all of fortunate family so blessed by loving & being loved by LaLa. May she rest in power.

Daniel Bateson

January 30, 2023

Please accept my most heartfelt sympathies for your loss. Elaine was a truly exceptional person, and her legacy will never be forgotten

Joseph Hooks

January 29, 2023

Our sincere condolences to Elaine´s family.
Joe and Lisa Hooks

Leslie Wohlman Himmel

January 29, 2023

Stacey, Nina, Sugar, Terri and John
We have all lost of the one most elegant and truly fun moms of all time. I loved all of my sleepovers on Mountain Road and your mom was constantly asking me questions about my life and then came in for the giggling sessions with Stacey ! Of course our life centered around Camp Robindel at that time.
My greatest memory is our trip to Europe at age 16 - Elaine , Stacey, Nina and I. We first traveled to Istanbul where Stacey and I as teenagers somehow ended up in a wedding being held at the hotel. Your mom was not angry with us and went along with the fun of the evening. What a great start to a hilarious 6 weeks through Europe.
Elaine was a second mom to me and encouraged me in my career and was a wonderful sounding board.
May sweet memories of the most elegant and fun woman I know comfort you at this time.
Lots of love
Leslie Wohlman Himmel

Mary Himelstein

January 29, 2023

Sending love and the warmest of blessed memories to the entire Savin family. Elaine was magical, inspirational, legendary, gifted, warm, and brightened every room and all whose lives she touched. What a woman!
She leaves a profound legacy.
Mary Himelstein

Amy Selwyn

January 28, 2023

So much sadness tonight. Elaine was a force of nature at her finest - beautiful, brilliant, full of life, and an original in every way. There are no words to describe her, really. In my mind, I will ALWAYS see her as she drove (fast) from Hartford to Binghamton, dropping me at Cornell, savoring a brownie I had made and swearing me never to tell my mother that mine were actually "more diviner".

I loved her my whole life.all the Selwyns did. And if there truly is a heaven (I imagine it looks a little like the Grill Room), my father Dutch was just behind Pete in the greeting committee line.

May her memory always be a blessing. Much love to all Savins, large and small.

Arlene Neiditz

January 28, 2023

So sorry to learn about Elaine´s passing. We extend our deepest sympathy to all her beloved family.
Arlene and Dan Neiditz

Rick Gersten

January 28, 2023

Stacey, Nina, Sugar, Terri and John: may your mom´s memory be your blessing. Your mom was a favorite of my mom (Zelda) and always so kind to me in my formative years. Her smile was infectious. - Rick G.

Ruth Ginsburg

January 28, 2023

Dear Terri,Tommy, Jack and Jasi
we´re so sorry about your lost.
Our sinceres condoleances.
May only happpy memories of
Elaine help you get thru theses very difficult times.
We love you
Ruth,Ken,Chad and Kimberly
Ginsburg

Sue Denholtz

January 28, 2023

To the Robindel/Savin family...I'm so sorry for your loss. I remember her so well from visiting days...what a beauty. Hugs and condolences to you all....WIth love, Sue Denholtz

Gregory and Maribeth Macko

January 28, 2023

Hello Savin family. We are saddened by your loss and wish everyone the best. Hope to see you soon. The Macko Family

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Lisa Diamond Stein

January 28, 2023

Elaine introduced my parents Rick Diamond and Nancy Schatz. For that I am eternally grateful. I remember in the late 60's she took me and her son fishing and ended up having to remove the fishhook from my head. May Elaine's memory be for a blessing.

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