Hearts are broken everywhere over the sudden loss of Erika Lin Watson, 21, of Middletown, beloved daughter of J. Stanley and Nancy (Thorpe) Watson, who died Saturday, (January 17, 2004) as a result of a motor vehicle accident in New York. She was born in Hartford and had lived in Middletown most of her life. Well known and widely beloved, Erika touched many lives with her happy, bright and energetic disposition. Many close friends, children she has shared her love with, and her heartbroken family are working to understand why such a beautiful person has been taken from us. Erika was strong and confident, always positive, though she had endured much pain in her life by the loss of other friends. She loved rainbows. She loved rowing on the Connecticut River, was captain of Middletown High School Crew as a Senior, graduating in 2000, and voted as "Most Unique". She was a student at Ithaca College in New York, studying the Art and Sculpture she loved. Erika was a familiar teacher of children at the Oddfellows Playhouse. She taught children to smile and be happy as they learned to walk on stilts, and gain the confidence to literally jump through hoops of fire at the Middletown Children's Circus Camp. She loved being outdoors, and helped children through the hottest days at summer camp, and the coldest days as a ski instructor at Powder Ridge and at Greek Peak ski area in New York. In college she made still more very close friends. She spent a semester in London, England and traveled in Europe, taking in the art and architecture of the masters. Although she shared her heart with many close friends, Erika held a special place in her heart for her dearest friends Anjana Hansen and Jason Harris, her housemates. She also shared a deep and personal part of her love with Aaron Stone and Chris Sullivan. Erika was a good girl. She danced in the bright lights on stage, played soccer in high school, and brought much joy into the hearts of her parents and her family. She brought smiles and happiness everywhere she went. Many have said that knowing Erika changed their lives. Erika was very devoted to her family life. She loved her brother Justin deeply as a best friend always. Together they shared the joy and magic of music, going to concerts, and sharing dreams. We never knew that our angel on earth could have a higher calling. When we reflect on the deep reservoir of love and happiness Erika possessed, it becomes clear that we, her family and friends, raised an angel. Taken in the happiest, and most beautiful time of her life, we now realize her work to come was not to be of this lifetime. We now realize we were blessed by the earthly life of an angel who was called to heaven to do the timeless work of mending broken hearts and bringing joy and happiness to those who need it the most. We can see her hugging the spirits of children, saying "Keep on Smiling". That's the way Erika would want it. Erika is survived by her parents, Stan and Nancy Watson; her brother, Justin; and her maternal grandparents, Albert and Phyllis Thorpe of Bristol. She also leaves behind her Aunts and Uncles, Norma Watson of Jamaica, VT, Lynda and Bob Krueger of Middletown, David Thorpe of Bristol, Debbie Thorpe of Bristol, Ken and Janet Thorpe of Bristol, and two cousins, Christopher and Jason Thorpe. She was predeceased by her paternal grandparents, John and Bertha Watson. The family has requested those attending Erika's funeral please wear bright colored clothing in her memory. The funeral will be Saturday, January 24, 11 a.m. in The Third Congregational Church, 94 Miner Street, Middletown with the Rev. Markham E. Dunn officiating. The burial will be private in Cedar Hill Cemetery, Hartford. Friends may call Friday, January 23, 3-7 p.m. at The Dillon-Baxter Funeral Home, 1276 Berlin Tpke. Wethersfield. Memorial contributions can be made in Erika's name to Children's Circus at Oddfellows Playhouse Youth Theater, 128 Washington St. Middletown, CT 06457. To share a memory with Erika's family, please visit online at www.ctnow.com.
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Carol Mossa Davitt
January 28, 2004
Dear Nancy, Stan, and Justin:
My only memory of Erika was many years ago when she was still an infant. Nan, you had just brought her home from the hospital and I had come to visit you at your apartment. I remember feeling strangely uncomfortable. After sharing so much together (high school, college, weddings), you suddenly had become a mother and I knew nothing about that. Three babies and many decades later, I now know much about motherhood, but nothing about loss. I cannot even imagine the depth of your grief. Reading about your lovely daughter makes me feel so sad that we didn't keep in touch. God bless you all.
Love, Carol
Lindsay Godwin
January 25, 2004
I met Erika my freshmen year on the crew team. I remember I was having trouble catching crabs with my oar in the water and no matter how frustrated i got, she reassured me that it happens to the new and old rowers. Erika always had this strong presence about her and a smile placed across her face. She brought out the best in everyone that got to know her. She had the ability to light up a room as soon as she walked into it. Erika was such an amazing person, one that no one could ever forget. My deepest sympathy goes out to Mr. and Mrs. Watson, and Justin.
K. Wright
January 24, 2004
I remember the last time I saw Erika, she was in high-school I think. She had such an energy about her...you always knew where she was in the room and she didn't have to say a word. Thank you for sharing her, her art and her many smiles. I will try to remember to laugh a little more often than I have lately and perhaps find my way back to drawing dragons around a campfire...
William Bentley
January 24, 2004
Stan and Nancy,
My family and I extend our heartfelt condolences and prayers to you and your family. We love your request for 'bright colors" -- a celebration of a truly bright star in everyon's life.
Shelly Francis
January 24, 2004
The Greek Peak staff and employees are very saddened that Erika was taken so suddenly. It has put a dark cloud over our mountain. Our thoughts and prayers are with her family. She will be in our hearts forever.
Linda Heidorn
January 24, 2004
Erika made a huge difference in my family's life. She often took care of my neices, Katie and Sierra, for my sister, Dee. The girls LOVE her so much. Thank you for raising such a sweet and generous girl. She left an imprint on all of our hearts. My thoughts and prayers go out to you....God Bless...
Linda Heidorn
Jerry & Laura Strecker
January 24, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you to help your healing.
Tom Urgo
January 24, 2004
I don’t know Erika but I did know you Stan and your sister Norma some thirty years ago.
The article in the paper was a beautiful summery of your daughter but was no surprise to me.
All of your daughter’s attributes were a description of my memory of you at that time, (big smile, artistic, energetically friendly.) You and Nancy did a beautiful job of raising your daughter. As a father of two boys I cannot imagine the sorrow your family is going through right now. I hope with the passing of time, and with the outpouring of sympathy and affection you are receiving will help with your terrible loss.
With our deepest heartfelt sympathy to all the family members
Tom, Janet, Dan, & Nick Urgo
Columbia, CT
Stephanie Livingston
January 24, 2004
Erika was a dear friend to us all that touched our lives in a way we were unable to know until know. i will never forget the bleach streaks she had in her hair & the fun times in french class in middle and high school. She always knew how to make a person laugh and very seldom was she upset or angry becuase she knew it was easier to smile than it was to frown. Erika I will always remember you and we will all always carry on your spirit in our hearts and actions!
Toshimi Haraguni
January 23, 2004
To the Family I'm truely sorry for the loss of Erika. She was a wonderful person and could always light up a room. The memory of Erika will live on forever through the people hearts she has touched. Erika will never be forgotten and I will miss her.
Amanda Augeri
January 23, 2004
I met Erika for the first time on the soccer team my freshman year. My first memory of her was those crazy socks that NEVER matched and her always making bus rides, practices, etc so much fun with her singing, laughing or anything that displayed her awesome and crazy personality. Last time I her was less than a month ago when she picked up my brother to spend a week with him and Justin at Ithaca. Im so grateful for her always being like another sister to my brother and always showing him a good time. Im so grateful that they got to spend a whole week with her before she left us. For the rest of my lifetime I will try to be there for Justin as she always was for Shaun.
Donna Fazzino
January 23, 2004
Our deepest sympathies to Erica's family and friends. We knew Erica from Middletown High's Soccer team.
She surely will be missed.
Sal, Donna, Lisa and Brian Fazzino
Ashley Hurlburt
January 23, 2004
Wow it seems like just yesterday that i sat as a freshmen on the crew team. I remember Erica helping me and so many of my other novice members out when we had no clue what we were getting ourselves into. She was always so nice and had an open heart to everybody that she came across. She will be missed by everyone that knew her. My best wishes go out to her mom, dad, and Justin.
Rachel Peterson
January 23, 2004
Erika was a great person and had a great personality. I will always remember going to the Durham Fair with her and making sand art with her. Playing Woodrow Wilson Soccer with her. She was a happy person. My prayers and heart is with you and the family.
Jennifer (Miller) Samet
January 23, 2004
I went to graduated with Erika, and played soccor with her our freshman year. I remember Erika would smile all the time, and she never let you feel low. She was always in such good spirits. She will be missed.
Maria, Lee, Brian, Jennifer Zahaba
January 23, 2004
Our hearts are heavy with our loss of such a beautiful person. God is taking good care of her.
Sarah Rogalski
January 23, 2004
Even though I did not know Erika personally, i remember her as the captain of our high school crew team. She was always happy and positive about the races, and her spirit uplifted the whole crew team. I am very sorry for your loss and I hope that she is smiling down on us all. My deepest condolences,
January 23, 2004
Words seem so inadequate at such a time as this. May God, who gave you such a lovely gift in your daughter, be glorified by the wonderful life she lead. May we all be inspired by her life to live to a higher calling. Our condolences to you and your family.
Paul, Marsha and Christine Buckley
January 23, 2004
Nancy, Stan & Justin,
We will never know the reason why Erika was taken from you but remember that you were given a wonderful gift during her 21 years on earth and that she lived a life that many people never attain in a whole lifetime. Please know we will give you our gift of friendship to help get you through this terrible tragedy.
Fred Borman
January 23, 2004
I was so sorry to hear of the loss of your daughter Erika Lin. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Susan Boroski
January 23, 2004
Our deepest and sincere sympathies for your loss. Are hearts are with you and your family.
Sheri Montoya
January 23, 2004
Guess God needed another angel.
We have so many memories of Erika at our yearly camping trips. I recall the first year in Maine sitting and playing lites- so – bright with her (Boy was it cold that year!). I don’t remember her ever complaining, even on the years when we all woke with rivers running through our tents. As she grow older she entertained the group with juggling and walking on stilts, all the other skills she had to share. As we added our kids to the group she was always welling to entertain them and share her tricks. Erika had such beauty and sprit. Thank you for sharing Erika with us
All our Love
Sheri, Mike, Erik, and Elliot Montoya
[email protected]
Rosemarie Nyborg
January 23, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Erika's family. An angel that touched so many lives. She was loved and will be missed by many. God bless her and her family.
Lisa Laffan
January 23, 2004
Erica,
Its hard to believe that after what 12 years of girl scouts together, 3 years of MHS crew, and of course summer crew that I will no longer be able to chat with you before those hot summer practices about school or whatever else. Although I can't believe that you are gone and I wish it wasn't true I know that the stars in the sky will be shining a little brighter because of you. My heart and prayers go out to your mom, dad, and Justin. Hope that someday in the future we'll see each other again and who knows maybe we'll be able to race a few boats where ever it may be. Luv Ya and you will always be missed.
Mike Magnano
January 23, 2004
Erika was a really sweet, and compasionate person. While in class, or passing her in the halls at school, she always had the biggest smile that would light up anyones day! She always was there to help others out, and was always nice to everyone that knew her. My prayers are with her family and friends.
jana
January 22, 2004
Erika was my best friend at Lawrence Elementary School when we were in kindergarten. I remember spending time at her house after school and trying to catch butterflies in her backyard. We used to save every purple crayon we came across because it was our favorite color. Although we lost touch after that year, I remember seeing her on the playground at Keigwin and going up to her and saying, "We used to be best friends, do you remember me?" At first she looked confused, but then a big smile came across her face and she said "We used to save our purple crayons!" Erika and I were friendly after that but never as close as we were that one year. I am just so grateful that I will forever have my own special memories of Erika. I will always hold them close to my heart.
January 22, 2004
I knew her through high school. Nice girl. I'm very sorry for your loss. But I am sure now she is with others that she has missed so much. We will all meet again.
Joe Samolis
January 22, 2004
My heart goes out to your family. Erika was one of those people who left a mark on your heart the first time you met her. Erika can be characterized as sweet, caring and intelligent. She was a reflection of the family. She was a beautiful person and she will never be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to your family and to everyone that loved her.
Stacey Nemit
January 22, 2004
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I didn't get a chance to know Erika really well but from what I did know she was a beautiful, happy person who always had a smile on her face. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family.
James Fazzone
January 22, 2004
How many times I stared at clouds today,
Thinking that I saw you there.
Christina Burton
January 22, 2004
Erika definitely is being missed right now. My condolences to her family and close friends. But, she left a place in my heart, too - she was my first camp counselor and always brought a smile to my face everyday at circus camp. I'll never EVER forget her for that. Missin your smile already...All my love to the Watsons and the Thorpes...rest in peace, Erika.
Joshua Wood
January 22, 2004
My heart goes out to your family and all of Erikas many friends. Erika touched my life just as she touched hundreds of others and will continue to do so through the lives of those who were blessed to have known her. I will miss her with all of my heart!
Aimee Sandberg
January 22, 2004
I read the beautiful description of your daughter today and wonder how or why something like this happens. I think you were right, that she must have a higher calling. She sounded to be a truly wonderful young woman and I will remember her and your family in my prayers. God Bless.
Sarah Miller
January 22, 2004
My deepest sympathy goes out to Erika's family. She was definetly a special person and will be greatly missed by many.
Tammy Vogt
January 22, 2004
My deepest sympathies. Nancy, my daughter is 22... smart, beautiful & happy... just as Erika. I just hugged her so tight when I heard of your loss. My God, He must have needed another Angel with Erika. Our thoughts & prayers are with you & your family.
From all of your "Hartford Insurance Group" family.
Jessica-Lynne Hardy
January 22, 2004
Erika was such a wonderful person, I can't remember a day when she wasn't happy. She had a contagious smile, and the amazing ability of making everyone want to be near her. She was an incredibly special person, and I know deep in my heart that she is watching all of us from a better place. My deepest sympathy and prayers go out to Mr. and Mrs. Watson along with their family and friends. Just know that wherever Erika is she is wearing her famous smile.
Bunny Recchia
January 22, 2004
I have known Erika since 1st grade in the Lawrence school days. Whenever I see celery I have always thought of her because I remember at snack time through out the years she always had it and I was always saying, "How could you like that", cause I thought it was gross. Erika was extremly nice person to everyone. We did not hang out or talk on a daily bases, but we grew up in school together and talked to each other. The last time I saw her it was our Senior Night and she offered to drive me home because my family nor I had a car at the time. I thought it was so sweet and she helped me load up my free food and gifts I won. I have two pictures of her from that night and our Senior Ball I am going to share it and give it to her family because she is smiling so happy in them. The Senior Night one is the funnniest because her cheeks were like a chipmunk because she had her wisdom teeth taken out that week. I send out my love to Erika's friends and family.
Ron Rockwell
January 22, 2004
Although I'm deeply saddened by your loss, it truly seems that Heaven has gained much. After reading about Erika, I can tell that she loved life and loved others. The Watson family is in my prayers and thoughts.
Katie Sambor
January 22, 2004
Erika was such a talented girl. I remember freshmen year of high school looking up to her when she was our amazing crew team captain. She will be missed greatly, but I know her bright spirit will live on in the hearts of many. Deepest sympathies.
Phyllis McMeans
January 22, 2004
I find myself writing in this guest book even though I did not know your wonderful daughter and sister. Just reading all of the great things that she has done during her short time here on this earth reiterates to me that there is indeed a God up in Heaven that sends us special blessings and lets us enjoy them for a season. These blessed people sometimes are unsung heros and the family doesn't always realize what important parts they are playing in this thing called life. It sounds as if Erika was aware even subconsciously that she had a limited time to do what she was sent her to do and unlike most of us she did it. I wish I had known her but I will continue to try and live my life in the right way so that one day when my name is called to meet the great one, I can ask to meet Erika. I will keep her family and friends in my prayers that you become strong in accepting what a great gift you were given. Realize that you all must also be special people! God love you and keep you.
Sincerely
Phyllis McMeans
January 22, 2004
My Prayers goes out to you and your Family and Friends.
victoria stahl
January 22, 2004
Erika will be remembered forever by those of us who have been touched by her light. I send my deepest sympathy and blessings to her brother, parents, and family. Namaste,
An Oddfellow's Playhouse mom
Sheila Peterson
January 22, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Erika was a great pearson and had a great smile.
Sheila, Kurt, Rachel and Andrew Peterson
CATHERINE ROY
January 22, 2004
Although I never had the opportunity to know your daughter, after reading the beautiful words you wrote about her and and the life she lead, I wish I had had the opportunity. As the mother of three daughters, you have my deepest sympathy. The writing was beautiful, as I am sure your daughter was as well.
Peter & Linda Mascaro; Shannon & Stephanie Pearl
January 22, 2004
Our deepest sympathy in the loss your "angel" Erika. She was a very special young woman and will be missed by many. Your entire family is in our thoughts and prayers.
Terry Griswold
January 22, 2004
We will always remember Erika's kindness to others. John especially remembers her help during his freshman year in high school, which was difficult for him. Erika would often see him in the hallway and come over with encouraging words and a hug. She will be missed by all.
January 22, 2004
My deepest sympathy goes out to you. My prayers our with you.
Tony & Hilary Taschner
January 22, 2004
With much love and many prayers.
Emily Pember
January 22, 2004
I'm so sorry to hear about Erika this morning. Thank you for sharing her with me! She was always a great friend, and I will always miss her!
Debby Pember
January 22, 2004
My fondest memories of Erika are when she was just a little toddler with her chunky little cheeks, her dark, dark hair with dark eyes that twinkled along with her beautiful smile. I am thankful she was a part of mine and my childrens' lives as they were growing up. From the time on Santa's train in Essex to the shores of Day Pond for many summers...Thank you for those wonderful memories. You were truly a blessing from God.
Bonnie Haines
January 22, 2004
I am sad to have had Erika's meaningful life cut so short, but happy for the work she has yet to do. Do they SKI in heaven???
Dillon-Baxter Funeral Home
January 22, 2004
Our sincere sympathies for your loss.
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