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2019

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Frederick Whelahan Obituary

Frederick L. Whelahan, age 71, of Derby entered into rest on Nov.24, 2019 in his home with his loving family by his side. He is the devoted husband of Pauline (Desroches) Whelahan. He was born in Old Weathersfield, in the first house ever built, on Sept 30, 1948, son of the late Frederick and Marjorie Georgina (Meier) Whelahan. Fred was raised and educated in Weathersfield, he spent the last 17 years residing in Derby. Fred was a veteran of the US Airforce serving during the Vietnam War. After the war, he was employed as an officer with the Border Patrol. When he settled back in CT he became a State Police Officer with the State of CT until his retirement. He enjoyed fishing and hunting. He is the father of Darren Whelahan and his wife Melissa, Shannon Whelahan and Kelly Whelahan, and grandfather of Savannah, Makayla, Nathaniel, and Evan. He is also survived by Pauline's son Jeffrey Dow and his wife Carolyn. His funeral services where private. The Riverview Funeral Home, 390 River Rd. Shelton are entrusted with the arrangements.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 27, 2019.

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Melissa Kotulski

May 3, 2024

Mr. Whelahan was a savior in so many ways. I loved his children and his daughter in law very much. We were good clean fun kinda girls. One day they seemed to rile up someone that looked like my mother and I ran to his home for guidance. My Nonno was dying. He brought me back home and made sure we were okay.

His leadership as I was growing up, along with Daddy´s military contract position made me the American I am today. I was blessed to attend Darren´s wedding at Corpus Christi with one of my besties, Melissa. Gee we had a lot to get through with the aggressive gangs in the Hartford area at that time. And Melissa was a great support system as I went through basketball, acting, and other activities.

His foundation providing me with the pathway towards advocacy concerning border measures in the federal government and even a stint with the Air Force ROTC.

Thank you, Mr. Whelahan for helping to keep an American family together.

I´m saddened to have missed the funeral...I sure wish I could be at every one.

Maria Long

December 1, 2019

Dear Pauline, Shannon and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Fred was a kind and funny man and he will be so sorely missed. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

David Long

November 28, 2019

Pauline, Shannon and family,
Words cannot express how saddened I was to hear this. Fred was a mentor and a friend. May you find comfort that he is at peace and no longer in pain. I will always be there should you need anything.

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