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Harriet Coccomo Obituary
She was born on December 15, 1926, in Greenfield, MA and was the daughter of the late Harry and Lillian (Brewer) Barry.
Words can't describe such an amazing human as Harriet or to list all the lives she has touched in her many years. Harriet was a pioneer in geriatric health care as owner, operator and administrator of Windsor Hall and Kimberly Hall in Windsor. She will be remembered as a wonderful employer. Her generosity was grand! She exuded grace with her warm smile.
Harriet loved boating and fishing. She loved to travel and was fortunate enough to have traveled the world. Harriet was passionate about reading and backgammon until her last days. She had a true fondness for all animals. Her accomplishments were vast!
She is survived by her 5 children, John Coccomo Jr. and wife Barbara, Barry Coccomo Sr., Carmelo Coccomo and former wife Barbie, Dean Coccomo Sr. and daughter, Kimberly Coccomo; 10 grandchildren, 12 great grandchildren and sister-in-law, Pricilla Barry.
In addition to her parents, she was predeceased by her grandchildren Dean Coccomo Jr. and Megan Brancifort, daughter in-laws Debra L. Coccomo and Susan J. Coccomo, her former husband, John A. Coccomo Sr. and his 5 siblings and their spouses, her stepmother and 2 brothers. Truly the end of an Era.
Mama always said, "I don't want a funeral, I want a party" The Celebration of Life will be on Thursday, April 20th, 2023, at Carmen Funeral Home, 807 Bloomfield Ave., Windsor, CT 06095. Calling hours will be from 4PM to 6PM followed by a Reception at the VFW Hall at 6PM. She will rest in peace at St Mary's Cemetery in a niche at the Garden Mausoleum.
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Thomas P Coccomo Jr
April 21, 2023
Rest in Peace aunt Harriet. Your were so kind and welcoming to myself and my family.
You are correct, the passing of our aunt harriet is truly the end of an era. One that should be celebrated as she requested.
Bill Coleman
April 19, 2023
Dear Coccomo Family,
I was very sorry to learn of the passing of Mrs. Coccomo. I worked at Kimberly Hall South for six years during my High School and College years, and really loved my time working for the Coccomo's! They provided excellent jobs for literally thousands of people over the years, and a safe and loving environment for thousands of patients and residents! Mrs. Coccomo and her family should be very proud for what they provided for the town of Windsor and surrounding area! My family has been friends with the Coccomo family for almost 60 years, and are thankful for that relationship! I worked mainly for John jr. and Barry, but they became good friends too! Thanks to the Coccomo family, I bought my first car, had money for college and fun, and dated my my first three girlfriends, who also worked at Kimberly Hall! The Coccomo family, led by Harriet's example, made going to work an enjoyable experience! Her legacy will live on forever! We will keep the Coccomo family in our thoughts and prayers, as they mourn the loss of their Mother, grandma and Matriarch! Bill Coleman, Norwood , MA (Top Dishwasher and Maintenance Man 1976-1982).
Mark Branse
April 18, 2023
I was so sorry to read of your mother's passing. Remember that she remains alive in each and every one of her descendants. I'm sure she was very proud of you, and with good reason! It's been years since we've been in touch, guys, but I have never forgotten you. Please know that my thoughts are with you at this time of loss.
Nan and Al Gagne
April 18, 2023
John , Barbara and families , we are saddened to read of your moms passing . A strong , generous woman , loved by all. Our memories go deep
Into our early years of friendship and her welcoming home on Palisado .
Please know we are sending love to the family today and always , Nan (Coleman) and Al Gagne
Donna & Ben Hall
April 17, 2023
Harriet was a strong, happy, Irish, lady. She had an abundance of humor, loved an adventure, & didn't backdown from any discussion that I ever saw. I will so miss you being in this world & look forward to seeing you in the next!.
Nancy Aiello Syring
April 16, 2023
Kimberly & family, I´m sorry for your loss!
Cindy Mason
April 15, 2023
So very sad to hear if the passing of your wonderful Mother may the memories be with you forever what a nice and happy woman she was my heart is with you Kim as you have been an inspiration in caring for Ma
Liz Gauthier-Cyr
April 15, 2023
Mama you always had such a great smile and hug for me I so enjoyed the year's I had the pleasure of knowing you. Love you always, Liz
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