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Harriet Friedman Obituary

FRIEDMAN, Harriet Figowy Harriet Figowy Friedman, 59, of Delray Beach, FL, West Hartford, and Toms River, NJ died unexpectedly and before her time on Saturday (November 22, 2008). Harriet was born and raised in Bristol, until she moved with her family to West Hartford where she attended William Hall High School and graduated in 1967. Harriet worked many years at the CT. Natural Gas Co., CentraState Medical in Freehold, NJ, and, most recently, in Human Resources for Target Stores. Harriet loved her family and friends and she especially loved to make people laugh. She will be greatly missed by all. Her father, Kenneth Figowy, predeceased her and she is survived by her mother, Sydelle Figowy of Meriden; her stepmother and her husband, Esther and Larry Torbitt of Pittsburgh, PA; her brother and sister-in-law, David and Sally Figowy of Cape Carteret, NC; and her sisters, Marcia Figowy and Paula McClure of West Hartford. There will be a memorial service held on Saturday, December 6, at 10:30 a.m. at the Universalist Church of West Hartford, 433 Fern St., West Hartford. The family requests that attendees please refrain from using perfumes or colognes. Thank you. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the ASPCA.org.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Dec. 3, 2008.

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August 10, 2009

My heart is heavy! Harbees ( as my girls and I called her). She was there, always the friend. Bill and I looked forward to her jokes!
I send my love to her family.
Mitzi Astleford Demyan

Karen Astleford-Jones

August 7, 2009

We just learned of Harriet's passing this week. I live in Florida and my mother came down from Jersey to visit. We were planning a drive to Delray Beach, but when my mother couldn't make contact, she sensed something was wrong. I found out through searching the internet and had to break the aweful news to mom. She had known Harriet since 1965. A long time. Although they weren't in constant contact, my mother considered Harriet one of her best friends. She was there for us when we lost my father in 1984. I have very fond memories of Harriet as I was growing up. At one point she lived just down the street from us in Toms River. She was a wonderful woman and could light up a room. Our condolences to her family. She will be truly missed. Rest in peace dear friend.

Cecile Audette

March 7, 2009

Dear friends,

I was so sorry to have heard this news of Harriet's passing. Harriet was always able to make me laugh with her natural comedic timing. She was warm-hearted and I always enjoyed her presence. I know that this is tremendous loss for you. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Love,
Cecile Audette

Tricia Graham

December 16, 2008

Harriet was a good friend with a hugh heart and I miss her dearly. God above needed her more.

Lesley Sweeney

December 10, 2008

Harriet was a neighbor at the Pines of Delray North. We helped each other out after Hurricane Wilma. It is so sad she has been taken so young in her life. We will miss her and her laughter and jokes.
Lesley & George Sweeney (Delray FL Welwyn in the UK)

Marla Clayton

December 9, 2008

I was so sorry to hear this news. I worked with Harrriet in Middletown, CT. Although I only knew her for a little over a year, she made a lasting impression. She had a great outlook on life and she was funny as hell. She will be greatly missed. I hope that whereever she is now, it's sunny and warm.

Pat Cluney

December 8, 2008

Harriet was my best friend. She was always there for me - to share a laugh or a tear. I miss her and think of her everyday. There's a picture of us on my desk that was taken at a CJI Christmas party years ago. Harriet my dear friend, rest in peace. Love ya. Cluncy

Betty Trotta

December 4, 2008

I WORKED WITH HARRIET AT CENTRASTATE MEDICAL CENTER. I value the many times we shared laughter and jokes. She had a way of making you enjoy your position at work. I can only imagine how her family will miss her positive personality. so very sorry for your loss.

Pat Santanello

December 4, 2008

Harriet and I were friends at CentraState for quite a few years. Please accept my condolences and my sympathy on your loss.

Bruce & Joan Treske

December 3, 2008

Harriet was a generous and wonderful person with an amazing ability to make people laugh. The world is a sadder place without her. Rest in peace Harriet...rest in peace.

Paul Michaud

December 3, 2008

David, I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your sister, Harriet.
I used to come to your house and play guitar and hang out at band gigs when we attended Plant school.
Hope you are doing well.

Paul Michaud
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