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2022

Holly Stackowitz Obituary

Holly Stackowitz, age 67, was born on December 21, 1954, to Jennie (Kochuk) and Chet Choinski, in Hartford, CT. Beloved wife & mother passed away peacefully at her home in Bethel, VT on May 15, 2022. Holly lives on in the hearts of her husband of 42 years, Richard P. Stackowitz, Jr., and her daughter, Ashley Stackowitz. Raised in East Hampton, CT, Holly made many connections and fond memories. She worked at Northeast Utilities as a drafter for many years, putting her artistic talents to great use. She enjoyed her time working at Marlborough Florist & Allen Institute. Since the early 1970's, Holly enjoyed spending time in the Green Mountains of VT, especially on Lilliesville Brook at her family's camp, and on the White River. She & her husband retired to the area in 2017. She was a compassionate woman who loved her family, friends, and many pets throughout the years. She paid special attention to the small things in life that brought her joy, seeing deer in a field, the colors of a sunset, details of a flower blossom, bare feet on the earth, and the flavors of her delicious home cooked meals and baked sweet treats. Holly enjoyed fishing, photography, trips to the ocean in Rhode Island, reading, and riding around the back roads with her husband enjoying the views. Her loving and spirited heart will be missed by many. A Celebration of Life will be announced at a later date. Contributions in her memory can be made to Visiting Nurse and Hospice https://donate.vnhcare.org/vnh-donation-2020.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 21, 2022.

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Adrienne Sielaff

March 5, 2025

Holly was a real sweetheart. She always made me laugh. I'll never forget the silliness we had. Rest in Peace Holly.

Jen Hart

July 14, 2022

What a beautiful tribute to a very caring wonderful woman. So very sorry for your loss Rich and Ashley but now you have another angel watching and protecting you. God Bless and RIP Holly!

Nancy Szymaszek

June 25, 2022

Rich and Ashley
Holly was a great person who will be remembered for her kindness. Sending our thoughts and prayers to you. Nancy and Jack

Sheri Taylor

June 24, 2022

Richard and Ashley,
I'm so saddened to learn of Holly's passing, too young. She was a lovely lady. My partner, Steve Banning graduated with Holly, planning their 20th reunion with Holly was such a fond memory for him. Little Ashley babysat for me, the years just fly by.
God Bless and my deepest condolences,
Sheri Taylor

Kim Hilton Watson

June 21, 2022

Love that photo of Holly...just as I remember her beautiful smile from so long ago. I am so sorry for your loss.

Kim Guillemin Hanelt

June 21, 2022

I want to offer my condolences to Holly's extended family. I knew Holly in High School.

Maureen Turner

June 21, 2022

She certainly had many special talents!
She also brought forth a very special daughter, Ashley, who is a gift to all of us who know her, as well.
My deepest sympathy to her family and friends.
Maureen Turner

Tracey Stratton

June 21, 2022

Will always treasure our little ventures and laughs here in VT, she will certainly be missed, love you guys

Laura Wirtz

June 21, 2022

Dear Rich and Holly. I am so sorry for the loss of Holly and the pain you are feeling. She was very compassionate about the simple things in life. She´s now with her parents and out of her pain. Allow the good memories to comfort you and watch for signs from Holly!

Patti Michelson

June 21, 2022

Ashley and Dickie
So sorry to hear of Holly's death.
My thoughts and prayers are with u both.

Ashley Tuchmann

June 21, 2022

Many great memories with Holly. She always knew how to make me laugh and feel loved. So much love to you both.

Mark Mungero

June 21, 2022

Rich , Sadened by the passing of Holly, she was a great person.

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