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James Pillion Obituary

James Pillion, of Niantic, CT and Naples, FL, passed away on Sunday, September 23, 2018. Jim was born and raised in Hartford, the son of James and Anna Pillion. He had four brothers, Gary, Dennis, Matt and Brian. He graduated from Bulkeley High School and received a full basketball scholarship to the University of Hartford where he held the record of leading rebounder for many years. He also received his Master's Degree in Economics from the University of Hartford. Jim worked in the insurance industry for 40 plus years and spent the last 35 at Boston Mutual Life Insurance, where he was the Sales Manager for the Connecticut division, winning numerous Presidential Awards. Jim was the Commissioner of the Black Point Beach Club's Bocce League for nine years, a representative on the BP Board of Governors for twelve and a member of the men's club. He was also a proud member of the Muffin Men's church group. Jim was on the Governing Board of the Glenmoor Condominiums in Naples and an organizer of their bocce league. Jim loved the men he played with in both of his golf leagues in FL and CT. He is survived by his loving wife and best friend, Margaret and his three beloved children; Kate and husband Ryan Mertel and daughters, Caroline and Lauren of Portland, CT, Jed and wife Jessica and sons Jack and Grady of Stow, MA and Matthew and sons, Griffin and Owen of Sudbury, MA. He was predeceased by his parents, his brother Brian and his first wife Rita. He was a loving and devoted husband, father and grandfather, a true gentle giant. He will be missed by all. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday September 28, 2018 at 11 O'clock at St Agnes Church 22 Haigh Avenue, Niantic. Interment will follow in St. Mary Cemetery, New London. The family will receive relatives and friends on Thursday evening from 4 to 7 pm at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home 48 Grand Street, Niantic. www.neilanfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant from Sep. 26 to Sep. 27, 2018.

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Rose Mary Gates

September 23, 2020

We will always remember Jim’s kind and friendly demeanor. Wishing the family a peaceful day filled with warm memories.

Rose Mary Gates

September 24, 2019

Thinking of you all on the one year mark. Sending warm thoughts your way.

October 1, 2018

Very sorry for your loss and grief; may the promise at John 6:40 give you comfort and peace.

September 30, 2018

We will miss you. Our thoughts are with you Marge.

Elizabeth Asher and Robert Wright

September 28, 2018

So sorry for your loss. Jim was a kind and lovely man that could lift your spirits with just a hello. We will miss him.
Wayne and Rose Gates

Frank Collins

September 27, 2018

Jim was a friend at St Augustine's and U of H.My condolences to his family. He was a great guy.

Raymond Hayden

September 27, 2018

I am very sorry for your loss, Jim always had a smile with kind words. The Pillion family is in my Prayers.

JD

September 26, 2018

My sincere condolences to the family for the loss of your loved one. May prayers strengthen you and memories comfort you, and may our Lord Jesus Christ and God our Father, who loves us, comfort your hearts and "make you firm". (2 Thessalonians 2:16, 17)

September 26, 2018

Jim is one of the best people I have met and worked with in my life.

What a gentleman.

We were blessed to know him.

Sincerely,

A former groupie', Maddie Fallon

Jean Murphy Downes

September 26, 2018

Sorry to learn of Jim's passing Many fond memories of the times I spent with him at BHS Condolences to the entire family

Joseph Sherman

September 26, 2018

Joyce and I were so sorry to learn of Jim's passing. We both remember all the great times we had spending overnight weekends with Our families at your house near the beach. Also the fun trips we had while attending the Boston Mutual Sales conventions.

Please know that Jim is in our thoughts and prayers as well as you and the family.

With Warmest Regards,

Joyce and Joe Sherman

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4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons East Lyme Funeral Home

48 Grand Street, Niantic, CT 06357

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St Agnes Church

22 Haigh Ave, Niantic, CT

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48 Grand Street, Niantic, CT 06357

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