Joseph P. Barber

While those left behind wish we had him for another Sunday, we are deeply saddened to announce that Patriot Joe made his final touchdown at the age of 58 on Sunday, August 28, 2016 and left us to all ponder what it means to be someone who can always be depended on, a true fan, faithful partner, best friend, proud father and grand Poppy. A Patriot's fan in its truest form since a very young age, Joe stood proud in his belief of the abilities of the New England Patriots and never wavered in his support. He adorned his Patriots' gear with pride, carried Patriots' symbolism wherever he went and truly enjoyed his many trips to see them play in Foxboro, Buffalo, Houston and Green Bay. We hope he's found where they're playing heaven's Super Bowl. He was proud to serve our Country as a Corpsman in the US Navy and of the many roles he held during his service to the VFW. The comradery he shared with the members and Auxiliary of Fowler-Dix-Park VFW Post 5095 meant the world to him. He was a fixture at many VFW functions and lent his expertise overseeing many events and projects. Despite his "barking", those who worked with him enjoyed the challenge and always stepped up to make our VFW stand proud. His laughter and good cheer will be sorely missed. Let it be known that having the VFW Color Guard perform opening ceremonies at a Patriot's game is a deed left to those behind to fulfill. Joe served as Assistant Den Leader and then Den Leader of Cub Scout Den 5, in Pack 8. With the help of only a few, in 1999 he restarted Boy Scout Troop 8 where he served as Scoutmaster for several years, and was presently Life to Eagle Advisor and Charter Liaison. He was a Buffalo in Woodbadge. He was so very proud of the accomplishments of all his scouts, especially those who attained greatness under his leadership and beyond. His scouts will always wear their hats "right". Prior to his scouting days, he coached his son's Little League teams. He was an employee of Imagineers, LLC for over 25 years. He leaves his wife Kathy, and his children, Michelle, Kenneth, and Jessica who will greatly miss his quick wit and sparkling personality. He was the proud Poppy of Kylie and Alyssa, who will be inspired by his love for the rest of their lives. He was predeceased by his parents, Leon and Mary Barber, and his sister Christine. He is also survived by his step-brothers, Leon and Dwayne and his should have been brothers, Randy and Mike. He left his mark on many, many people. Joe's love of the outdoors (those forest critters are safe now) took him to many wonderful places. His wish would be for all to remember that it's not the destination that matters, rather, the journey you take to get there. While Joe's journey wasn't long enough, he did reach many destinations and made many friends along the way. Live the life you love, Love the life you live. Stay young at heart - be that Toys R Us Kid! Recognizing Joe's love of sports, friends may adorn attire of their favorite team (please no suits!) and call at Spencer Funeral Home, 112 Main Street, East Hampton, on Thursday, September 1st from 5 to 8 PM. Services will be held at 11AM on Friday, September 2nd. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to VFW Post 5095, 20 North Maple Street, East Hampton, CT 06424. To leave online condolences please visit www.spencerfuneralhomeinc.com.