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Marshall Feingold Obituary

FEINGOLD, Marshall S. Marshall S. Feingold, 89, of Naples, FL, and Old Saybrook, passed away peacefully on Wednesday (April 23, 2008), in Naples. Born November 5, 1918, in Hartford, Marshall was the eldest son of Dr. Gustave A. Feingold, the first principal of Hartford's Bulkeley High School, and Etta R. Feingold. He attended Hartford Public High School (Class of 1936), Tufts University and the University of Connecticut School of Law. He practiced law for many years in Hartford and Westbrook. Mr. Feingold was an active member of the Hartford County Bar Association, the Middlesex County Bar Association, the Connecticut Bar Association and the American Trial Lawyers Association. He was a founder of the Connecticut Trial Lawyers Association. Mr. Feingold was a trial lawyer and a counselor in the truest sense of the word; if a lawsuit would lead to heartache and stress a client's family, he would counsel the client not to sue but to apologize or otherwise make amends. Marshall's beloved wife of 53 years, Frances S. Feingold, passed away October 20, 1996. Their years together were marked by extensive world travel and a love for life on the Connecticut shoreline. He and Frances explored Long Island Sound and the Connecticut River in a boat they moored in Westbrook. During Mrs. Feingold's final illness, Marshall was a model of compassion, showing extraordinary love and devotion. Marshall lived life to the fullest and had many interests. He cultivated and exhibited orchids as a member of the Connecticut and American Orchid Societies. He was a member of the Rolls Royce Club of America, the American Philatelic Society, the Sarawak Specialists Stamp Society (London, England), the Singapore Stamp Club and the Malaysia Stamp Club. At the age of 78, he took up golf and became an avid golfer in Naples and Old Saybrook. At 86, he took up painting and sculpture, and exhibited his work through the Naples Art Association. Mr. Feingold served for years as a volunteer in the library at the von Liebig Art Center in Naples. He worked as a volunteer at Naples Community Hospital. He was a member of Temple Beth Israel in West Hartford and Temple Shalom in Naples. Mr. Feingold never took his education and good fortune for granted. He gave back much through pro bono legal work; volunteer activities; scholarships at Bulkeley High School, Trinity College and the University of Connecticut, School of Law; and active support of religious and charitable organizations. Marshall leaves three children, Robert Feingold of Kota Bharu, Malaysia; Gail Feingold Giesen of West Hartford; and John Feingold of Larchmont, NY. He also leaves a son-in-law, Thomas Giesen; a daughter-in-law, Nancy Seligson; and grandchildren, Jonah Takagi, Kenneth Takagi, Jill Feingold, Dana Feingold and Margo Feingold. He is survived by two brothers, Richard Feingold of Banning, CA and Albert Feingold of Cambridge, MA; brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law, Leonard and Gloria Rich, and Lawrence and Joan Selwyn; and many nephews and nieces. Finally, he leaves his soul mate, Elizabeth B. Hyder, who gave him love and affection during his final years, and his good friend, Janet Hildebrand, with whom he explored Southeast Asia. Memorial contributions may be made to The Gustave and Etta Feingold Scholarship Fund, c/o Bulkeley High School Alumni Association, PO Box 4275, Hartford, CT 06147-4275, to perpetuate the scholarship Marshall established to help deserving Bulkeley High students attend college. A memorial service will be held at Temple Beth Israel, 701 Farmington Ave., West Hartford, at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, May 7.

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Published by Hartford Courant from May 1 to May 4, 2008.

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Donna Hyde

June 20, 2008

Gail - I just learned about your Dad's passing. He was such a character, he always made me laugh. He was so kind hearted and generous. I know he will be missed by more then you can imagine.

RUDY D'ANGELO

May 7, 2008

I was very saddened to learn of Attorney Feingold's passing. As his investigator for many years, I can state without hesitation or reservation that he was a true professional, a brilliant lawyer, always generous, and a man for whom I have always retained the greatest respect for. I learned a lot from him just by the way he practiced law, the compassion he showed for his fellow man, and the way he loved life and culture. I will most certainly miss him as much as I missed the "early morning chats" at his Hartford office. May God grant him eternal rest and peace. He was a man for all seasons.

Andy Groher

May 7, 2008

Gail and Family: I am extremely disappointed that I was not able to attend the memorial service for your dad today. As luck would have it I was involved in delivering a horse to Saratoga for one of my girls. Marshall was a wonderful man who lived a rich, full life and gave joy to all those who considered him a friend. I can recall when my first daughter was born and my wife and I were leaving Hartford Hospital we ran into your dad who was there with your mother. Even though he certainly had more pressing matters on his mind, he made sure to take the time to make a fuss over our first child and made sure to tell us what a wonderful life we had in front of us with our growing family. In short, he did then, as he always did when we met and spoke, made us feel as if we were an important part of his life and that this was a good thing. I have not had much chance to see him or talk to him in recent years, but I have been lucky enough to hear of his exploits from Bill and Gail and I am very glad that he had so much enjoyment and fulfillment in his new life down in Florida. You were truly blessed to have had him in your lives and I feel blessed to have called him friend.

Wanda Milledge

May 4, 2008

I remember Mr. Feingold as a child because he presented me in a case in Connecticut. He was not only a great man for all of his accomplishments or his great stance, but more importantly his great heart and personality. My Prays are with you and your family during this time of need.

Tina Burns

May 3, 2008

I was saddened to hear of Marshall's passing. He was a very kind and generous person. I will miss seeing him at our Thanksgiving table, at Bentley Village, in Naples. He had such a great presence. To Marshall's family, please accept my condolences.

Lucille Dunn

May 2, 2008

What a wonderful legacy to leave behind. Once in a while, when I was a young Della Street, I worked for Mr. Feingold in Hartford. How lucky his family is to have had such a wonderful, compassionate and giving person.

A Bulkeley High School Graduate

May 1, 2008

I did not know Mr. Feingold personally, however for years I have heard of his decency and generosity toward others. I wish his family peace.

HOWARD CROSSMAN

May 1, 2008

I REMEMBER MARSHALL VERY WELL.WE HAD A PICKUP FOOTBALL GAME AT ELIZABETH PARK AND SOMEBODY HEAD BUTTED RICHARD AND HE HAD A BLACK EYE.THE GAME WAS CALLED.

louis dinapoli

May 1, 2008

im very sorry for your loss.marshall
was a great friend of our family

Bulkeley H.S. Alumni Assoc.

May 1, 2008

Our sincere and heartfelt condolences to the entire Feingold family. In the tradition of the Feingold legacy, Marshall was an honorable and generous man whose concern was always of others. He will be greatly missed...may he rest in peace.

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