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Matthew Costa Obituary

COSTA, Matthew S. Matthew S. Costa, 24, formerly of Cheshire, died on Sunday, (September 3, 2006) in the western African nation of Mali. Matt was a 1999 graduate of Cheshire High School, and a 2003 graduate of Tulane University with a B.A. degree in Philosophy. He joined the Peace Corps in 2003, and he spent two years in Chad in central Africa. In 2005, he extended his service to Mali. He was fluent in French, and he spoke some of the native Arabic languages of Chad and Mali. Matt always perceived the world in a global sense, and he had a great desire to help those less fortunate, which is what led him to the Peace Corps. For his primary assignment, Matt taught high school English in Chad and organized training for other teachers in the community. In addition, he introduced a millet grinder to the community of Kita, Mali, trained 15 men in pump maintenance, educated youth about AIDS prevention, and taught English at a local school. Matt was known in his Malian community as the host of a popular local radio show featuring American music, and he also worked to improve the radio station's marketing strategy. Matt was also part of the community's local soccer team and was known for distributing donations of sporting equipment in both Chad and Mali. Matt and three other volunteers had built a boat and they were navigating on a Niger River inlet when he and another volunteer were electrocuted. He had planned to return to the United States and attend law school in the fall of 2007 where he was going to pursue a career in international law. Matt touched and helped so many people in his short life. Those close to him are heartbroken over his tragic and untimely loss, but will carry a part of him with us and will never forget his quiet intelligence, sense of humor, adventuresome spirit, unselfishness, and his love of life. He is survived by his mother, Pamela Cameron and stepfather, George Cameron, both of Farmington; his father, Frank Costa of Wallingford; his sister, Danielle Costa of Wallingford; his paternal grandparents, Frank and Biondina Costa; his maternal grandfather and stepgrandmother, Bernard and Dorothy Levin of Columbia, MD; his uncle and aunt, Michael and Maureen Levin of Strafford, PA; his cousins, Andrew and Sam Levin also of Strafford; his great aunts and uncle, Mal and Phyllis Spiegel of New Haven, and Gussie Levin and Bobbie Knott of New York City; and many other relatives and friends. He was predeceased by his maternal grandmother, Coralie Levin. Matt's funeral will be held in the Chapel of the Weinstein Mortuary, 640 Farmington Avenue, Hartford, at 2:30 p.m. this Sunday, September 10. Burial will be private. There will be a reception following at the Farmington Marriott, 15 Farm Springs Road, Farmington. In lieu of flowers, donations in Matt's memory will be handled through Rogin, Nassau, Caplan, Lassman & Hirtle, ATTN: Paul Zolan, 185 Asylum Street, CityPlace I, 22nd Floor, Hartford, CT 06103-3460 and donated later in Matt's memory to a charity chosen by his family. Please indicate "in memory of Matthew Costa" on your donation. For further information, directions or to share memories of Matt with his family, please visit online at: www.weinsteinmortuary.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Sep. 8, 2006.

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Dotty Franco

September 12, 2006

Pam, Danielle, Frank and all members of the Costa, Levin and Cameron families.



I am so saddened and so very sorry for your loss. Matt was special indeed and will be missed by many, many people. My prayers are with Matthew and with you.

Linda Ciaburri

September 9, 2006

DEAR FRANK PAM AND DANIELLE,

THE CIABURRI FAMILY IS DEEPLY SADDENED BY MATTHEW’S DEATH ESPECIALLY PAMELA CIABURRI. WE REMEMBER MATTHEW AND PAMELA PLAYING TOGETHER AS YOUNGSTERS WHEN YOU LIVED NEAR US IN HAMDEN ALL THE STRENGTH TO YOU

SINCERELY LINDA, BILL, PAMELA AND ELIZABETH CIABURRI

Donald Ouellette

September 8, 2006

You don't know me but when I read the obituary this young man was such a blessing to the world in all he did. My deepest sypathies to all who knew him but especially to his family. May God Bless Him and bring him home in Heaven.

Mr. Donald Ouellette

Bill,Linda,Pam and Liz Ciaburri

September 8, 2006

We are at a loss for words.Our little neighbor Mat,or as our Pammy used to call him,Mafoo,her first true love,has been called to the Lord.He was doing HIS work,be comforted in that.We were looking at photos of Matthew and all the other kids on Tanglewood Drive when they were little just now.Doing races in the backyard,birthday parties and swimming.Such wonderful memories.We reach out to you now,we are praying that you find peace,Pam and Frank and Danielle.

Claudette Talmadge

September 8, 2006

Frank and Family:

It is with deep sorrow that I send this message to you. May you find comfort with each other and know that we share your sorrow and loss. May God Bless you and your family.

Claudette Talmadge (HRA-Head Start)

Melanie Abbott

September 8, 2006

I'm so sorry for your loss - he was clearly an extraordinary young man. I'm sure he made a real difference in the lives of the people with whom he worked in the Peace Corps. Please know that your friends at the law school are thinking of you.

Lucille Silvestrini

September 8, 2006

My son was with Matthew in Mali. I hold all of the Peace Corps volunteers in the highest regard as I know how difficult the job is and how dedicated the volunteers are. They are very special people. I can only say how sad I am to lose both of them. As a parent I know how proud I am of my son, I know the grief you feel will be overcome by your feeling of pride for Matthew over time.

MaryBeth Laub

September 8, 2006

To The Costa Family: It is with my deepest sympathy I send you this condolence at the loss of your son, brother, grandson, nephew, and cousin. There are no words anyone can express to you at this time to lessen your pain but I prayer that in time you will heal and will be able to continue on with Matthew always in your hearts. Although Matthew's time on this earth was so short, you can be so proud of what an inspirational humanitarian he was, and all he accomplished. God Bless You.

Judy Bailey

September 8, 2006

Frank: We were stunned to learn of your son's passing. From what we've been told, he was an incredible young man and you have every reason to be proud of him. Please know that you and Dani are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope your memories, and the support of friends & family, will be a comfort to you. Sincerely...

Tim & Judy Bailey & family

Elizabeth Marsh

September 8, 2006

We at Quinnipiac are very sorry for your loss.

Susan Pulaski

September 8, 2006

I did not know Mr. Costa, but for some reason I was drawn to his obituary. He was a remarkable man that this world did not need to lose. God bless his family.

Sal Garibaldi

September 8, 2006

Dear Frank, Pam and Danielle, Please accept our deepest sympathy for your lost. It seems like only yesterday, he was a young boy in grammer school. He accomplished so much in his lifetime, more then some do their entire life.Something you can both be proud of. Lil and I will always keep him in our prayers and have masses said in his memory. Once again please accept our deepest sympathy. We will keep you all in our prayers.

Hepsie Leslie-Abbott

September 8, 2006

My sincere condolences goes out to you and your family. May you all find comfort in knowing that he was doing what he loves. May God bless you. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Brianna Lovejoy

September 7, 2006

Matt lived a rewarding life. He belonged out in the world doing extraordiany things. Little did I know just how much Matt had accomplished in the past few years.I admire his compassion, drive, and sense of adventure. Just for fun, Matt did have the best random T-shirt collection. I send warm thoughts to Matt and his family

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