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February 14, 2025
Still miss you buddy
August 29, 2014
Michael, we are still thinking about you and your parents and entire family on this day and always. Love, Aunt Joyce
June 10, 2013
Donna and Patrick I am so sorry for your loss. No one should ever have to lose a child so young or even at all. May you find some kind of peace in your life.
Lisa Mastrangelo
Lisa Mastrangelo
Mommy
August 22, 2009
Mommy misses you and loves you so much Michael. When the day comes and we meet up, I swear I will never let you go. Every day that goes by is one day closer to you my sweet little boy.
Mind/Body/Soul - boy does he have it all!
Aunt Joyce
August 3, 2008
Mind - body - soul.
Michael's mind remains with us in spirit.
Michael's body remains with us on earth.
Michael's soul is in heaven.
Mind - body and soul - forever.
Love
Aunt Joyce
Aunt Ann DeNote
July 13, 2008
My dear nephew and family,
I am so sorry for the loss of Michael. My heart aches every day for him and all of you. I havent been able to write before. I am sorry I wasn't able to be there. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. It will get better in time. He will always be in our hearts. Stay stong.
Laurie Walker
June 25, 2008
Donna, Pat and Jenna,
I am so sorry to hear about your profound loss. I am shocked beyond belief as I just found out now. Please accept my heartfelt sympathies and prayers. I wish I could do more for you. Much love sweetheart.
Laurie & William
Jenna & Michael at Marie's 4th birthday party
Lisa & Norman Miller
June 22, 2008
We pray for the peace and comfort during this time of loss. Lord guide your foot steps and angels watch over you through the journey of life. May you know the comfort your little boy is playing in heaven. Marie attended Liberty Baptist daycare until she was 4 years old. We enjoyed having Jenna and Michael attend her birthday parties. Donna you were always there to lend a helping hand with a smile. Thinking of you all during this time of loss.
Lori (Sonier) Blais, Stacey (Steele) Hall and Lisa (Sonier) Reek
June 18, 2008
Pat, Donna and Family
We are so sorry for your loss, know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family through this difficult time. Years pass and the pain lessens but you never forget. Michael will be in your hearts and minds forever. Take comfort in each other and the friends and family who love you.
Todd Fador
June 17, 2008
Donna and Patrick,
Our deepest sympathy for all of you at this time. You are in your thoughts and prayers.
maria jorge
June 14, 2008
i am very sorry for you loss and would like to send you my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I think about you everyday and pray for you and your family to get through this very tough time.
Miss Debbie
June 13, 2008
Dear Donna and Pat,
Nothing anyone can say can lessen your pain. I wish I could. I wish I had the magic words to make it all go away, but the best thing I can offer is my prayers for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts, and I am praying constantly for you. Although we aren't dealing with the loss to the extent you are as Michael's parents, the child care mourns him greatly. There was something special about Michael, you know he was my favorite. I know he is okay now, he's being well taken care of in the hands of God. But that doesn't take the pain away. My heart aches for you. I pray you will be able to smile again soon, and the pain you're feeling will turn to memories of love and joy of a beautiful, beautiful little boy who lit up your world. I'm glad he was able to shine that light in my life also, thank you for sharing such a
beautiful boy with us. I will never forget Michael. I will never forget the boy who brought rocks to my room every morning, with a toy in his hand or the toys stuffed in his pockets, his deep dark beautiful eyes and the concerned look he came in with every morning, that said "I don't want to be here, I'd rather be with mom", but would soon be replaced with a quick smile. I will never forget. God be with you both, and Jenna. When you feel you're at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. God can get you through this. We're all praying for you to come through. With much love.......
Doreen Rossi
June 12, 2008
Dear Donna and Pat,
I just heard about the loss of your son Michael, and I am so very sorry, my deepest sympathy to you both and Jenna. What a beautiful child Michael was, and what a beautiful Angel he now is.
With love from your former Nicholas Drive neighbor,
Doreen Rossi (Chace)
Denise Vanasse
June 12, 2008
Pat, Donna & Jenna,
There are no words to express our sadness over your loss. Michael was a sweet boy and we miss him greeting us with a toy at LB every week day.
As a parent, I hurt for you and pray that, in your time, you will remember him with a smile on your face and not tears in your eyes.
Peace be with you.
Denise, Joe, Tyler & Zachary Vanasse
Heather Klemonski
June 11, 2008
Dearest Donna and Pat,
I am so very sorry for your loss. Words can not express how sorry I am for your family. I will hold you all in my thoughts and prayers. Michael is now an angel watching over your family with much love.
(Neighbor from Nicholas Drive)
Sue, Chuck, and Sarah
June 11, 2008
We just learned of your family's loss and are very sad to hear of Michael's passing. He was such a terrific boy and so loved by all of you! You are a wonderful, supportive family who will somehow find the strength to enjoy happiness again.
Marilyn & Frank Peters
June 10, 2008
To the Ptak family,You dont know us but we know Joyce very well--she is a dear friend of my daugher's. You have been in our thoughts and prayers. We send our deepest sympathy.to all of you.
Kelli, Sean, Kamryn & Paige (Lawley) McLaughlin
June 9, 2008
Donna, Pat & Jenna,
Our family is deeply saddened by your loss. May your memories of Michael comfort you now and always. We will keep you all in our thoughts and prayers. (The girls say a special one just for Jenna.)
Love,
Julie Bierce-Casper
June 9, 2008
Donna and family,
My heart goes out to all of you. You are in my thoughts and prayers.Believe that your little guardian angel is with you always.
Love,
Julie Bierce-Casper
Monica K.
June 8, 2008
Donna, Pat & Jenna:
My heart has been so heavy with grief for you since I first learned of Michael's passing a week ago today. Please know that we are all out here sending you LOVE & support as you try to live on one day at a time now celebrating Michael's life. Be gentle with yourselves and remember always that God's timing (though not our choice) is perfect. He summoned Michael and will care for him and love him with His holy grace now and forevermore till the day that you meet again.
Love,
Monica K. and family
(Jonah's mom - 11.28.01)
Dina (Rossi), Mike, and Mia Annino
June 7, 2008
A poem once read, "A Butterfly lights up beside us like a sunbeam, and for a brief moment its beauty and glory belong to this world. But then it flies on again, and although we wish it could have stayed, we feel so lucky to have seen it."-(Anonymous). This poem helped me when my brother left early. I hope it helps you.
I had never met him, but what a beautiful little boy in that picture. Take comfort in each other and in knowing what enormous love you gave him when he was here. Trust me, he is still with you. God Bless you, Pat, Donna and Jenna. Please feel free to call or email if you need to chat or anything at all. We wish you lots of love.
Julie Vitalo-Day
June 7, 2008
Dear Donna, Pat and Jenna:
Our hearts, prayers and thoughts are with you every minute of every day. Without a doubt, Michael is an angel in heaven, looking down at his family with love. Stay strong and united.
Love,
Tom & Julie Day
Michael Man
Angela Orie
June 6, 2008
My Last Message to Michael:
Dear Michael,
You may be gone from this world, but i know you are having a great time in heaven. I wish i could have written this in purple because i know that is your favorite color. Your family knows that you are with Jesus, and that He is the best baby-sitter ever. You may have beaten me to Him, but I will be with you one day, and don't have too much fun without me! Just kidding, I am sure you are going crazy. I know you are playing in the sand, eating play dough, making a mess in your food, maybe even eating sand.
You can break all the day care rules now, so that must make you very happy.
Be sure to get a ride on a dinosaur, play with a transformer, maybe even become a jedi, but I think you wanted to be a sith lord. I am going to make sure no one touches your girlfriend, Ashley Tisdale.
People don't understand why God needed you home so early; I don't even understand. I just know that you are in great care right now. And that God is perfect, which you already know. Say hi to Jesus for me and tell Him that I love Him. We all miss you and love you very much. Right now, you are and are with the greatest love of all, God's love. I can't wait to see you again one day!
Love Always,
Miss Angela
Angela Fabrizio
June 6, 2008
Robin and Family,
I was so sad to read of the passing of Michael. May the one who sees your sadness, feels your pain, and hears your cry, give you strength to look through the chill of rain and see ahead the bright warmth of the rainbow. I am praying God will bless you with comfort and peace.
Love, Angela
Mary-Ellen Kramer
June 6, 2008
Dear Donna, Pat and Jenna, I am always thinking about you and I hope you are doing okay. I am so sorry and there are just no words to express the sorrow. The 3 of you are so amazingly strong. Please call me if you need anything.
Lia & Mark Safalow
June 6, 2008
We think of you everyday and pray for you. We are so sad to hear this and are very sorry. If you need anything please let us know.
Lisa Cassesa
June 6, 2008
Donna, Pat and Jenna,
I'm sooo sorry for your loss. I know simple words cannot make your hurt go away but i wanted you to know how much i'm praying for you and thinking of you. If you need anything at all please don't hesitate to contact me!
Love you!
Rose & Bob Robles
June 6, 2008
Our hearts and prayers go out to your family. Alexandra and Olivia will miss seeing Michael at daycare very much. Rose and Bob Robles
Becky Rice
June 6, 2008
Donna, Pat and Jenna
I am so sorry for your loss, My heart has been broken for all of you. Our thoughts and prayers have been with you. Michael will always be right there with you in your hearts forever. I am offering big hugs from my family to yours.
Pamela Urso
June 6, 2008
Robin and Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Cherish your memories!!
Tony Persechino
June 5, 2008
Pat & Family, Im So Sorry and can't imagine what you are going through & just wanted to let you know that our thoughts & prayers are with all of you! Pat although its going to be hard, stay strong for your family. Time heals all. Mike will always be with you in your heart!
Patrick Ptak
June 5, 2008
Thank you all for such kind words. I feel a part of my heart is missing and I cannot regain it. I wish to thank all of the love and caring sent by all. Michael was set to rest today. He will never be forgotten. I miss him.
Jo
June 5, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words, but please know that you will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Christine
June 5, 2008
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful child. I can not even begin to imagine what you are going through. Stay close, stay strong and please know that you are in the thoughts and prayers of myself and so many others. God Bless you all!
Jennifer Cammilletti
June 5, 2008
Words can't express how sorry I am for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kathy Urban
June 5, 2008
Donna & Pat,
I thought I had left an entry yesterday. Today is a very emotional day for you. Tomorrow will be a very rough day - one of many. Know that many are praying for Peace for both of YOU! I know you will always feel Michael's love - I know it's not the same as feeling his kisses. This is just so awful. We have all been crying for you all week. I hate that bad news travels so quickly - but know that everyone across the nation has been praying for you. Everyone.
We love you,
Kathy & Laurel
Lori Sarubbi
June 5, 2008
Robin, Pat & Donna, Jenna and Family,
I am so very saddened by your loss, words just can't be expressed. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Although I didn't know Michael, I heard stories and much about him from Grammie Robin. He and Jenna are both angels in her eyes, and always will be. Always keep the good memories in your thoughts and heart and he will never be forgotten. He will always be a part of all of you.
Bonnie & Michael Turturro
June 5, 2008
Donna, Patrick, Jenna & extended family
Our deepest sympathy for all of you at this time. wish we could be there to give you all a hug. I hope this poem says it all. Memories really do help us thru the bad times.
I have memories in my pocket.
They rattle among the change.
My memories of you are treasures I carry wherever I go.
They are stored in bits and pieces, parts of a beautiful whole
They give me comfort when I think I am alone.
Yes, I have memories in my pocket, like so much other stuff I keep there.
But of all the treasures I have, it’s the memories of you that are the most precious.
June 5, 2008
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
John Plourde
June 5, 2008
(((((Dearest Donna & Patrick))))),
There are no words that I can say to help comfort you in your time of grief. Just know that I am so VERY SORRY to read of your young, beautiful, son Michael’s horrible accident and his sad death. Please accept my deepest condolences and sympathies. I truly know and understand what it means to have a beautiful, young child die.
My wife Bernice and I live in Southington. Our beautiful 11 year old daughter, Danielle Marie died in a horrific automobile accident on February 20, 2006 in Sturbridge Massachusetts. There is no guide, instructions or plan for us to follow after the death of our child, each day is a difficult challenge both emotionally and physically. It is a struggle to make any sense of the life we now have to live.
I will keep you and your family will be in my deepest thoughts and prayers.
With you in sorrow,
John Plourde
The Cove-Center for Grieving Children
donna and steve duteau
June 4, 2008
pat, donna and jenna, we are so saddened to hear of your loss. even though no words can comfort you.. we are so deeply sorry. please accept our deepest sympathy....
June 4, 2008
We are truly sorry to hear about your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May Lord Buddha bless you.
Kjornrattanawanich Family, Bristol CT
silly mike
allison morin
June 4, 2008
donna t pat
i am sooo very sorry for your loss, michael was the world at the daycare!! he would always sneak in his transformers in his pockets and play with them when no one was looking... and when it was time to wake he would either be sleepin or he would scream yayyyy, it sux that his life was cut short.... your in my prayers and i know michael is watchin over everyone... love allison liberty baptist child care center
Phil Yount
June 4, 2008
Donna and Pat,
Words can not express how deeply saddened we are for your loss. Please know your family is in our thoughts and prayers. If you need anything please let us know.
Phil and Susan Yount
Donald Ouellette
June 4, 2008
To the family of this little angel, you don't know me but I must give everyone my deepest sympathies on behalf of Michael. So Young, So Sorry. God Bless Everyone.
Sandi Greger(Fitzsimons)
June 4, 2008
Your family is in our hearts. We can't imagine the pain that you are induring at this time. We send our deepest sympathies. Our son truly cherished his time with Michael as a classmate this year. He will always be remembered. You all have a adorable guardian angel with you now.
Sincerely, Sandi, Dory, Peyton and Gavin Greger
Mike
June 4, 2008
I am very sorry for your loss of Michael. Find strength in the fact that he is now amongst the love of his Guardian Angels. Know that the community is with you in your grief, and lean on those close to you. My deepest sympathies to your family.
Larry Beerwort
June 4, 2008
Dear Donna,
I'm sorry I don't have the words to comfort you and your family with this tragic loss. Just know that he's now with our Lord and he will alway's be an inspiration to all that were blessed enough to know him during his time with us.
Mable Glaspie & Family
June 4, 2008
Holding you in our hearts, keeping you in our prayers and sending you and your family our most sincere expressions of love.
Craig Taylor
June 4, 2008
If ever there was a time when words seem so inadequate, it is now. Yet, words are all we can offer, so know that they are heartfelt. Your pain must be immense, but in time, the memories of all that Michael meant to you will subdue that pain and fill your hearts with warmth. My parents and the rest of my family send their prayers as well to all of you.
Remember, you created a gift of joy that so many people were able to share, and that gift can never be taken away. Patrick, stay strong for your family for that is what Michael would want his Daddy -his hero - to remain.
Noreen Ash (Foley)
June 4, 2008
Pat & Donna (Jenna too!)
Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. Keep happy memories of your "little dude" in your hearts. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Cindy McNally
June 4, 2008
Jeannette, Donna and family,
I would like to express my deepest sympathy for your loss. Jeannette, I know how much you treasured, cherished, and loved your beautiful grandchildren and I can't imagine how you are feeling. I am keeping you all in my prayers. Peace and God Bless,
Cindy McNally
Shari Lorden
June 4, 2008
God Bless your family. I will pray for your inner peace and the day that you are able to see the sunshine and smile again. Please know that even people who do not know your family are deeply touched by this and filled with sorrow.
Adriene (Evans) Ortiz
June 4, 2008
Such a great loss for you and for the world - too sudden and too soon. The sadness you feel will remain, but will be tempered by the understanding that the love you have known will be with you forever. My family wishes yours consolation and peace.
Melissa
June 4, 2008
Joan - My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. I know it is hard to find understanding and reason when such a beautiful life is taken so short. He was a blessing here on earth and has obviously touched the hearts of all he knew. God Bless you and your family during this time may you find solice in the knowledge that Michael is now in our Lords loving arms.
Greg Brown
June 4, 2008
Dear Cousin Donna and Family,
Our hearts are deeply burdened by your precious boy's passing, and our prayers are with you.
The Brown Family: Greg, Caterina, Caris and Tessa
'Jesus said, "Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of heaven belongs to such as these." ' Matt 19:14
Kami and Emily Bauman
June 4, 2008
Pat, Donna, and Jenna,
Your loss of an angel has become heavens gain-- you are all in my thoughts and prayers.
Laurie, Chris & Family
June 4, 2008
As a parent, I can only imagine your pain and grief. I know no words we say can truly comfort you. But we will keep you in our thoughts and prayers and trust that happy memories of the time you had with your special little dude will help you through. I'll stay in close touch with Joyce (we go back to junior high), to help as much as I can.
Norm & Joanne Castonguay
June 4, 2008
Pat & Donna: No one deserves to go through what you are dealing with. Our hearts go out to you and please know that you are in the thoughts of so many people. Michael was so adorable and we truly enjoyed your holiday cards with your beautiful children on them. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers. Much love, Norm, Joanne, Jenna and Cory Castonguay
Agostina Di Fiore
June 4, 2008
Robin,
Please accept my condolences on the loss of your Grandson. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Agostina Di Fiore
Bozena Amenta
June 4, 2008
Donna & Pat,
Words seem inadequate to express the sadness. May your hearts & souls find peace & comfort. My prayers are with you all.
With love,
Christine Dauphinee
June 4, 2008
Pat,
Words cannot express how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Christine (Begin) and John Dauphinee
Denise & Jaimie
June 4, 2008
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during your time of loss. May your memories of Michael always remind you of how special his time with you was.
Best Buds Forever
. The Dossias Family
June 4, 2008
Our dearest friends Donna, Pat, Jenna and their extended family,
Words cannot express how deeply sorry we are as you go through this difficult time. As you know, Michael was an integral part of our lives and he will be forever celebrated by us. While I know our entire family has sorrow and heaviness in our hearts, it pales in comparison to what you are having to endure. Our deepest sympathies are with you and you must know that you can call on us - day or night - when you need someone to talk to, cry with, reminisce, laugh or just be with. I look forward to the day when we see that sparkle in your eye and that childlike attitude each of you still have deep inside come back. I continue to marvel at the level of compassion and love you all have for each other and I KNOW with all my heart that Michael was filled with it every single day. I aspire to be the parents you are and will continue to be. . . .
Much love,
Dian, Jim, Jordan, Paige and Carter (best buds forever)
June 4, 2008
may all of your wonderful memories confort you at this time. As a parent my deepest sympathy to the family on the loss of such a sweet little boy
Janet Calabro
June 4, 2008
Dear Aunt Joyce:
My heart is heavy for you and your family over the loss of your precious Michael. May the wonderful memories you have sustain you during this time. May you and your family honor Michael by keeping him alive through your stories, happy memories and pictures, and may you come to cherish the blessing you shared by knowing and loving him during his too short stay with you.
My prayers for you and your family, Joyce. I am thinking about all of you, and praying that your faith and the love of friends will help you heal. Know that we love you.
christina
June 4, 2008
Hold on to the little things that you remember, the quiet moments, the smiles, the laughter. Although it may seem hard right now, the memories of these little things will help to push your pain away.
May you find strength in the love of family and in the warm embrace of friends.
Arlene & Donald Bouchard
June 4, 2008
We are so so very sorry for your immense loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all the family.
June 4, 2008
May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well-lived.
Elisabeth Gordon
June 4, 2008
My family is deeply saddened by your loss.
Try to find some solace in the comforting words of God and in the knowledge that many feel your pain and pray for your family at this tragic time.
Kris & Bob Story/O'donnell
June 4, 2008
Donna & Patrick,
We are so sorry for your loss. There are no words for a time like this. Your family is in our thoughts and prayer. If you need anything please let us know.
Love, Kris & Bob
Carol Felice
June 4, 2008
I am a former co-worker of Joan. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I can't even imagine what you and your family are going through.
Wendie Morin
June 4, 2008
Donna and Pat:
Our prayers are with you during this time. May God give you the strength you need during this trying time. Michael truly was an angel on earth as well as in heaven. May God bless you with the knowledge that Michael will always be with you and that he is with the angels above.
Brian and Wendie Morin
Sue
June 4, 2008
Such a tragic event. My thoughts and prayers are with you...
Lindsay
June 4, 2008
What a sweet, sweet boy. My prayers go out to the Ptak family. I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. Ptak, say strong, you are a wonderful person and a wonderful dad! Mrs. Ptak, you are a great mother and a great person. Jenna, sweetie you are such a great big sister and you deserve the world. We will all miss Michael so much.
With all my love and sympathy,
Lindsay
Gary & Patty Albers
June 4, 2008
Although we didn't have the pleasure of knowing Michael personally, we knew him through all the wonderful stories his Nana and Papa (Lou and Jeannette told us. We express our deepest sorrow for your loss. Gary and Patty Albers
Cindy&Fred Lynn Bereaved Parents USA Middlesex Chapter
June 4, 2008
We understand as our 6 year old son Jensen gained his wings in 2003. Our childen are the light of our hearts and when we are left to grieve them we can feel so alone with the overwhelming pain, please know you are not as many walk along with you and we are near if you ever need. When the world returns to normal for everyone else, you deal with many feelings and emotions that others can't help with. The pain can't be fixed, and time will not heal, but you will again live a life with a new normal and the sun will return. During this time hold each other close and we will hold you in our prayers.
Ron & Melodie Penton
June 4, 2008
Pat,
Melodie and I are so very sorry for your and Donna's unthinkable loss. Your whole family and Michael are and will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Laurie
June 4, 2008
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