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Nicholas Vita Obituary

VITA, Nicholas J. Nicholas J. Vita, 65, of Bristol, beloved husband of Barbara (Cunningham) Vita, died unexpectedly on Saturday (July 12, 2008) at the Hospital of Central Connecticut at New Britain General. He was born April 2, 1943 in Philadelphia, PA, son of the late Nicholas and Esther (Frascone) Vita. He was a graduate of St. Thomas Moore High School in Philadelphia, Class of 1961. He served five years with the U.S. Navy during the Vietnam War and was stationed on the USS Taconic. Nick was employed at Smith Gates Adirondack Wire/Cable for ten years, was the owner of Vita's Italian Market and Deli for 25 years and has been employed at Papas Dodge for the past two years. He was one of Bristol's finest entrepreneurs who helped many non-profit organizations in the central Connecticut area. He was a member of the Ellington Masonic Lodge and coached little league for many years. He also loved fishing and spending time with his grandchildren. Besides his wife, Barbara, he is survived by his four children, Nicholas S. Vita and his wife, Karen, Anna C. Vita, Michael F. Vita and his wife, Diane, and Tanya K. Duffy and her husband, Michael; his two step-children, Peter Cunningham and Kyle Tegler; his eight grandchildren, Kyle, Tiffany, Nicholas and Joey Vita, Stephanie, Madison, and Alex Vita and Conner Duffy; his sister, Lucille Vita; and his two nieces, Tracy Trainer and Diana Yeager. He was predeceased by his brother, Joseph Vita. A memorial Mass will be held on Friday, July 18, 2008, at 10 a.m. at St. Gregory Church, Bristol, followed by military honors at the church. Calling hours will be held at the O'Brien Funeral Home, 24 Lincoln Ave., Forestville, on Thursday from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Salvation Army Soup Kitchen, 19 Stearns St., Bristol, CT 06010. www. obrien-funeralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jul. 15, 2008.

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Kara Dion

September 19, 2008

Nick, Anna, and Mike: I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your father. Having lost my father 2 years ago I know the pain. Please feel my hugs and know I have never forgotten you.

Love, Kara (Brennan) Dion

Steven Parker

July 24, 2008

Nick....
You lucky dog! You will be met at the Pearly Gates by "The Love Of My Life", my Wife Kelly. Through all of her struggles, battles and illnesses, you were always there for her & me. We both loved you very much. Those special meals that you made for me to bring to her bedside, always gave her the feeling of getting a home cooked meal designed by Nick, just for Kelly, with lots of Love.
Even when Kelly got her Angel Wings, there was only one person that we could think of to prepare that last special meal for our family and friends at her Funeral. You and Mango made it all just right. (However, I know that Kelly was assisting you in the kitchen that day.)

You my friend, were Papa's #1 Salesman! Sales and Service Customers that were afraid to come into a car dealership, felt like guests of the family when they sat down at Nick's Diner. You treated the CEO's and the Sewer worker's with the same level of respect. Nothing really defined Welcome Home like your Diner. (I'll miss the smells of those fresh baked cookies when you came into Papa's Showroom!)

You were a great Father, Uncle, Brother, Son, Soldier, Cook, Psychiatrist, TV character, Comedian, and Friend to everyone. You held us all together.
No one will ever be aware of just how much you did for our Military. You literally served God & Country! And one of the special things about you was that you expected nothing in return.

They say that a loyal dog will just keep running and running until he can run no more. God bless you for always running with such love and loyalty. You always had a Huge Heart!
Give Kelly a BIG HUG and KISS from me. And a "very small" plate of meatloaf from you.
God bless you, your family, your friends and the thousands of people you saved along the way.

Man, have you got some serious catering to do now! Keep Them Laughing!
See you soon.....but not tooooo soon! I love you Nick!
Steve Parker

P.S. One other thing.......Thanks for taking so many secrets to Heaven with you......

Dave & Diane Desmarais

July 20, 2008

We were very saddened to hear of Nick's passing. We always enjoyed our encounters with Nick over the years, whether at the deli or making arrangements for his generous donations of food to benefit various causes here in town. Nick was always gracious and friendly, and never tired of speaking about his beloved family. We're certain that Nick's generous spirit inspired many others; and that's a fine legacy to leave.

Sara and Howard Castle

July 20, 2008

To the Vita Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. I worked with Nick at Vita's as a job coach for developmentally disabled employees. Nick always demanded the best from us, but he was fair, kind, and always made us laugh. Working with him was always a pleasure. Nick also catered my wedding several years later and will always be remembered by my family for the great food his restaurant provided. I have seen Nick from time to time over the years and he has always greeted me with a smile and a hug, and a genuine interest in how I was doing. Nick was a great man, and he will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers are with the Vita family.

Joe, Joanne, Alyssa & Katrina DeSena

July 17, 2008

To Anna, and the rest of the Vita family. We were so sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sean Lawlor

July 17, 2008

Eventhough I only knew Nick for a few years I can honestly say that I have never worked with a more caring and generous individual. Nick cared about everyone he came in contact with and would give the shirt off his back even if it was his last one. I will miss our daily conversations about the Red Sox and I will think fondly of him each time I walk by the diner. My deepest sympathies go out to Barbara and the rest of Nick's family.

papas autobody

July 17, 2008

We will all miss you Nick, our thoughts and prayers go out to your family. God bless you.

Bob Nadeau

July 17, 2008

I just found out about Nick's passing and I'm in shock. He was such a great person and will be missed as much as everyone in Bristol missed Vita's when it closed. One thing is for sure and that is that everyone in heaven is eating better now. God Bless.....

William and Jonell Holley

July 16, 2008

We were shocked and saddened when Gwen told us, this morning, of Nick's untimely death. Our thoughts and prayers are with Barbie, the children and the extended family during this very difficult time.

Liz Papa

July 16, 2008

"Morning Nicholas", Well I know you are up there looking down on all of us...You are able to see what so many of us are unable to put into words, just how much we miss you, how very sad we are, how much in shock we are. I take comfort in knowing that you do know, and you are listening. For anyone out there who has not heard some of your funny sayings, I will share just a couple of my favorites: "I know I was born at night...But Not LAST night". (my favorite). "I only look old and stupid". You showed me the non-verbal "Crocodile tears" gesture, and the "world's tiniest violin" gesture. You always had the appropriate words for the given situation. Soups!! Well, you were the soup Master without a doubt!! Oh Nick, we are so lucky to have had you as part of the "Papa's" family for the last two and half years! You will always be "The Diner Guy" as you so thoughtfully named yourself. With all my thoughts and Prayers, Liz

Christine Nardi

July 15, 2008

To my dear friend Tanya and the rest of the Vita family,
Even though I didn't know your father very well the stories of him made me feel as if I did. I know he was a great man because he raised a wonderful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you, Tanya, and your entire family in this time of need. Chris, myself and the kids love you, Mike and Connor very much and are always here for you!
All our love and prayers!
Christine (Duffy), Chris, Jake, Thomas & Chase Nardi

Shelley Cox

July 15, 2008

Nick,
I will never forget your words of advice over a cup of tea with 2 tea bags and rye toast at Papa's, and your sausage and peppers that were, by far, the best!!! You helped pick me up when I was down and you always had a joke or two to help me through the day. You are deeply missed, yet I am thankful that your path crossed mine.

Andrea Till

July 15, 2008

Sending the Vita family prayers during this difficult time. My thoughts are with you, Anna, my dear friend, especially.

Sonja Sanchez

July 15, 2008

Anna:
I am so sorry to hear about your father's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Sonja Sanchez

Augie De La Noval

July 15, 2008

NICK,
Papas will never be the same without you, you were always the shoulder to lean on and listen... made us laugh when we were down...we all miss you deeply..
I will always remember you as my buddy who helped me start every day with a smile, and a joke or two..
Your muppet at the service desk,
Augie

tanya duffy

July 15, 2008

poppy I miss you and love you and I will never forget our trips to the bakery eating a half of pizza and bread on the way home, i will never forget fishing and talking and you always being there for me no matter what, our morning eats in rhode island while everyone else was asleep. or how we would sneak snacks through the window when i was a little girl. You were the best father a girl could ever ask for, and I wish you hadnt gone to heaven but i know you will always be on my shoulder watching me and being proud of what i have become. i love you forever your baby tanya

kathy gurtowsky

July 15, 2008

Nick was very generous to the St. Paul HS fundraising efforts while my son Nathan (class of 2000) attended. We will always be very grateful for Nick's generosity.

david mangone

July 15, 2008

nick its tuesday morning at work papas will never be the same without you i miss you so much i miss our 700am talks and laughs i know you are up in heaven watching over us god bless you and rest in peace your friend mango

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