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Okhui Gilbert Obituary

GILBERT, Okhui (Cho) "Joanne" Okhui (Cho) "Joanne" Gilbert, 53, of West Granby, beloved wife of Joseph C. Gilbert, died peacefully on Sunday (February 22, 2009), at her home, surrounded by her loving family. Born on April 25, 1955 in Seoul, South Korea, she was the daughter of the late Jay Mung and Jun Ja (Kim) Cho. Joanne grew up in South Korea and moved to the U.S. as a young adult. Joanne lived in Texas for many years, where she owned and operated a restaurant. She was married to her husband, Joseph in 1986 and together they settled in West Granby, where they have lived for the past 12 years. Joanne volunteered for the Farmington Valley VNA, the Granby High School and assisted Korean families with young children in adapting to their school system in CT. She enjoyed camping and loved to travel. Joanne was a family oriented woman who took great pride in caring for her family. She enjoyed cooking, gardening, sewing, decorating and was a masterful home engineer. A loving wife, mother, sister, and friend, she will be greatly missed by all. Besides her husband, Joseph, she leaves a son, Joseph J. Gilbert and a daughter, Jessica A. Gilbert both of West Granby, a brother, Sun Thea Cho of Korea, his wife Kim Ok Ja, three sisters: Sun Hee Cho of Korea, Sun Ok Jean of Houston, TX, and Sun Im Stephens of San Antonio TX and her husband Jay Stephens, and one brother-in-law Mr. Bang; a mother-in-law, Joan Gilbert of Portland, ten brothers-in-law and nine sisters-in-law: George Gilbert III and his wife Carol, Stephen Gilbert and his wife Christine, Francis Gilbert, Charles Gilbert and his wife Donna, John Gilbert and his wife Diane, Andrew Gilbert and his wife Maria, David Gilbert and his wife Teresa, Patrick Gilbert and his wife Tina and Mark Gilbert and his wife Julie, a sister-in-law and brother-in-law, Patricia Lynch and her husband Anthony and 28 nieces and nephews. She was predeceased by a brother, Ji Cho and a sister, Sun Ha Cho. A Memorial Mass of Christian Burial will be held on Friday 10:30 a.m. at St. Mary's Church, 51 Freestone Ave., Portland, CT. Burial will follow in St. Mary's Cemetery, Portland. Her family will receive friends on Thursday from 4-8 p.m. at the Hayes Huling & Carmon Funeral Home, 364 Salmon Brook St., Granby, CT. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Farmington Valley VNA, Valley Care Inc., 8 Old Mill Lane Simsbury, CT 06070 or Granby Ambulance Association P.O. Box 617 Granby, CT 06035. Please visit us at www.carmonfune ralhome.com for online condolences.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Feb. 24, 2009.

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Debbie Ellingburg

February 18, 2023

I was blessed to have Joanne as my next door neighbor.
But Joanne was so much more than a neighbor, she was such a good person and a special friend I will never forget. Those years were some of the best in my life. I still miss you so much Joanne. I have and hold so many memories of our friendship. My heart is with Joe, Jessica and Joseph, until we see you again.

Love,
Debbie

Brittani Ellingburg

February 26, 2009

I will never forget what an amazing person she is. I loved her as if she were a second mother, and she treated me as i was her own. I will never forget all the wonderful times we had and how i thought she was the coolest mom ever when she put a whole dollar in the easter eggs for us to hunt and took us to atroworld to ride whatever we wanted. She was a incredible women and i know how much she loved you guys. I will keep you in my prayers and i know she will be looking down on ya'll.

William Powers

February 26, 2009

Dear Joe, Joseph, and Jessica,

We were very saddened to hear about Joanne. We will keep you in our prayers and will be making a donation in her memory to the Farmington Valley VNA.

Rosemary & Bill Powers

Jim & Jennifer Keser

February 25, 2009

Joe and family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find peace and comfort in the knowledge that with her mortal journey complete, Cho stands in the presence of our holy Father where she begins the eternal journey she'll one day share with you.

Debbie & Eddie Ellingburg

February 25, 2009

Joe, Jessica and Joseph

We feel so blessed to have known Joanne and to have had her in our lives. The many years we spent as neighbors and friends are special memories that we will always hold in our hearts. Joanne's trips over to the house with her Korean dishes to share with us, Ferry Hill Lane has never been the same, and our trip to Martha's Vineyard are just a few of the many special memories we hold in our hearts. Joanne was a second mom to Brittani and those memories will never fade, she was the best mother I have ever known, Jessica and Joseph you are her legacy. You were all part of our family and still are, even though the miles have separated us, you will always be in our hearts. I regret that we can't be there to say goodbye, but we will be there in spirit and in heart. Let your journey to healing begin by feeling the comfort of her memory. We love you all.

Mary Farri

February 25, 2009

To Joe, Jessica, and Joe, my deepest sympathy for your loss.

Joanne was a sincere, authentic person who had a kind and loving soul. I miss her now as I think of her.

Love, Rich, Mary, and Becca

Patricia Rizzo

February 25, 2009

Joe, I was so sorry to hear about Joanne.

My favorite quote is "Sorrow looks back; Worry looks around; Faith looks up" Have faith.

Sari and Patti (Flanagan) Rizzo

Monica Kleszczynski

February 25, 2009

To the Gilbert family,

I am very sorry for your loss and my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Sandy Knapik

February 25, 2009

Dear Joe, Jessica, and Joe,
We are so very sorry about Joanne, who was such a kind and giving friend. The spirit of such a loving person as Joanne will always be with us. We wish you peace in your hearts.
Love,
Sandy Knapik and Dustin, Jared, & Toby

Lisa Clark

February 24, 2009

To the Gilbert family,
I didn't know Joanne very well, we had volunteered together a few years ago at GMHS. I am deeply saddened by her passing. She was a wonderfully kind person who will be missed by all who knew her.
My deepest sympathies

Diane & Michael Bannon

February 24, 2009

Dear Joseph, Jessica and Joe Jr.,
We are so very sorry to hear about Joanne. Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with your family. We are here if you need any help. Giant hugs to Joe Jr.
Love and Peace,

Lisa Gilbert

February 24, 2009

To Joe, Jessica, and Joe Jr.

Joanne was such a wonderful person and will be truly missed. She always had a smile, and had the best laugh. May god give you the strength and peace to get through this, please let me know if there is anything we can do.
Love,
Lisa and Steve

John Lucey and Family

February 24, 2009

To the Entire Gilbert Family,

We are so sorry to hear of your tragic loss. Please know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Colleen Hannon

February 24, 2009

Joanne was an amazing, beautiful person. Her smile was infectious. I loved to just sit and chat with Joanne. Her perspective on life and people was wonderful!

She was always there to lend a helping hand - we will always be grateful for that.

She will be sadly missed.

The days ahead will be difficult to those left behind - but there is comfort to me in the thought that she is no longer in pain.

My deepest sympathy to Joe, Jessica and Joe Jr. No words will ease what you are feeling but please know you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Please let me know if there is anything I can do at any time.

Love to all.

Peggy Gorman

February 24, 2009

No words could truly capture the beautiful and strong soul that Joanne had. She was such a loving person and she had a particular way of making you feel special.
Our wish for Joe, Jess and Joe Jr. is that someday soon you can remember all the good times you had as a family without all the pain of not having Joanne’s loving arms around you. Just keep your heart and mind open to the signs that Joanne’s strong spirit will show you that she around you in the everyday tasks that you do.
Joanne was greatly LOVED and will GREATLY be MISSED. If there is anything at all that we can do to help in anyway; please let us know.
Love,
Tom, Peg, Tom Jr., Katie, Tammy and Julie

Mait McNamara

February 24, 2009

Although I never met Joanne I am well aware of the wonderful woman she was as her sister-in-law Trish Lynch, a dear friend of mine, was so fond of her. May all the family be comforted knowing of Joanne's special charm.Her pain and struggles are over may she now rest in peace.

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