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Pamela Ann Connelly

1959 - 2020

Pamela Ann Connelly obituary, 1959-2020, West Hartford, CT

BORN

1959

DIED

2020

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Duksa Family Funeral Homes at Newington Memorial

20 Bonair Avenue

Newington, Connecticut

Pamela Connelly Obituary

Pamela A. Connelly of Bolton, CT, peacefully passed on to the next leg of her journey on February 7, 2020. She was born in Hartford, CT, on October 7, 1959, to Mary E. Connelly and the late John J. Connelly and grew up in West Hartford, CT, with her three older brothers. Pam was a student athlete at Conard High School and Stonehill College. At both schools, she excelled academically and captained the cross country and track teams. After running with the Stonehill men's track team for a couple of years, she was instrumental in starting a women's track team. Lacing up her sneakers was a daily part of her life. She ran in the Boston Marathon more than once and played for the CT Crush professional women's football team. Pam lived life with a passion and could often be found table surfing, kayaking on Bolton Lake, dancing with friends, enjoying family gatherings at the beach or snuggling with her cat, Sasha. She always had a hug and a smile for everyone and loved being the life of the party! Helping others was a way of life for Pam. She worked in human resources for the State of CT, was an EMT and member of the Bolton Fire Department, volunteered with the Special Olympics, the American Red Cross, Hartford Interval House, and Literacy Volunteers, among others. Left to cherish Pam's memory and celebrate her life are her devoted mother Mary of Clinton, CT; loving brothers Rob (Kathy) of East Granby, CT and Kevin of Simpsonville, SC; cherished nieces and nephews; special cousins; an incredible community of friends and caregivers; her "A Team" of doctors and nurses at St. Francis Hospital; her Bolton Fire Department and Bolton Congregational Church families; and her beloved cat Sasha. She was predeceased by her father, John and her brother John, Jr. Her family would like to thank everyone for the tremendous outpouring of love and support that Pam received. Please join them to honor Pam at the Newington Memorial Funeral Home, 20 Bonair Ave., Newington, CT 06111 on Saturday, February 15th, from 10:00am-1:00pm. Close friends are invited to join the family following the wake for Pam's interment at Newington Center Cemetery. A memorial service will be held at the Bolton Congregational Church, 228 Bolton Center Rd., Bolton on Saturday, March 7th at 2:00 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations in Pam's memory can be made to the Bolton Fire Department, 168 Bolton Center Rd., Bolton, CT 06043 or Our Companions Animal Sanctuary, 46 Floeting Rd., Ashford, CT 06278 or Ovarian Cancer Research Alliance P.O. Box 32141, New York, NY 10087-2141. For online condolences, please visit www.duksa.net.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Feb. 12, 2020.

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Erika Dworkin

March 29, 2020

Such a beautiful obituary! I was wondering why I hadn't heard from Pam in quite some time and am immensely saddened to just learn now that Pam crossed over. She was such a joy to know, a true light. She was my customer, but often stopped in just to check in as a friend. I will always remember her as ever hopeful, energetic, cheerful, caring, engaged, and loving, no matter what the universe put in her path. I send love and prayers to all of you left behind, her family. May faith in her being in a restful place without struggle, and your cherished memories, carry you forward as you adjust to living without her. I will miss her! With deep love and gratitude for having known her.

February 25, 2020

I remember working with Pam from the
Department of Correction. She was always smiling and she was nice to me all the time.
I am so saddened that Pam has passed. What a lovely soul she was. Please remember that every day you wake up, it is another blessing that Jesus has brought us. Please, live out every day as best as you can. I will miss you and your kind ways.


Phyllis Battisti

Jeff Palaka

February 15, 2020

Pam, you were a kind, gentle, caring soul. You are now in heaven. Your mission here is done. All of your help was deeply appreciated during a number of difficult matters. Rest in peace my friend.
Capt. Jeff Palaka, Ret.

Linda Horan

February 15, 2020

Dear Mary, Robb and Kevin, I was so sorry to read about the loss of your dear daughter and sister. I have fond memories of growing up together at Clinton Beach. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Linda and Gerald Horan

Kathleen Davis

February 14, 2020

My sincere condolences to the Connelly family.
Kathleen Manion Davis

SALLY Rowell

February 13, 2020

I was so happy that just a few weeks ago I got to see you and your friends from New York at Geno Auriemma restaurant in Manchester,CT// It was so nice to talk to you.My thoughts and prayers are with your family.. Pam and I worked many years together.

Nora Ryan

February 12, 2020

So sorry to hear this. Worked with Pam at DOC. Considered her a friend as well as a co-worker.

Run your best marathon in Heaven, dear friend.

Nora Ryan

Sherry Philopena

February 12, 2020

Pam: We have known each other for 28years. Meeting through the fire department. Your kind smile and hugs made me appreciate your friendship. Your gentle soul and kind words for everyone you came in contact with. You will truly be missed.

Laura Lockwood

February 11, 2020

Sending my sincerest condolences. Pam had a truly pure spirit, genuine love of life and a giving heart. She will be missed.

Barbara Burns

February 11, 2020

I meet Pam in 1999. She was always kind, caring. Never had anything but a positive outlook on life. Was there always for other people. Smiling and sharing her fun personality with you. Pam Rest In Peace. You will be greatly missed.

Newington Memorial Funeral Home Duksa Family Funeral Homes

February 12, 2020

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

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15

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10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m.

Duksa Family Funeral Homes at Newington Memorial

20 Bonair Avenue, Newington, CT 06111

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2:00 p.m.

Bolton Congregational Church

228 Bolton Center Rd., Bolton, CT

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20 Bonair Avenue, Newington, CT 06111

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