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Paul D. Abatayo

1960 - 2017

Paul D. Abatayo obituary, 1960-2017, Enfield, CT

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1960

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2017

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Paul Abatayo Obituary



Paul D. Abatayo, 57, of Feeding Hills, MA., passed away Tuesday, June 13, 2017 , in Enfield. Paul was born on May 21, 1960 in Landstuhl, Germany and was the son of Alan and Helga (Wagner) Abatayo. He came to the Hartford area in 1967 and had over 25 years of experience in waste water treatment operations in both Connecticut and Massachusetts. At the time of his passing, Paul was employed by the Suez Water Treatment Facility in Agawam, MA.. He had resided in Feeding Hills for the past 3 years. Paul was an avid fisherman who also enjoyed camping, going to the movies and cheering on his favorite football team, the Miami Dolphins. Paul was also a Friend of Bill W. Besides his parents, he is survived by his two sons; Tommy Abatayo of Enfield, and Marcus Abatayo of East Windsor; his two beloved grandchildren; Marcus Abatayo Jr. of Enfield, and his granddaughter, Alivia Abatayo also of Enfield. Paul is also survived by an aunt, Sue Harshman of Wildomar, CA.; two uncles, Ken Abatayo of Kingston, NY. and Samuel Abatayo of Bay Point, CA. Paul is also survived by his devoted companion of many years, Migdalia Vasquez. He also leaves behind several aunts, uncles, and cousins in both the United States and Germany. Friends and relatives are invited to join the family on Friday, June 23, 2017 from 5 pm to 8 pm at the Leete-Stevens Enfield Chapels, 61 South Road, Enfield, Ct. 06082. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, contributions in his memory may be made to The American Cancer Society, 825 Brook Street, I-91 Tech Center, Rocky Hill, Ct. 06067-3045. For online expressions of sympathy or for directions, please visit www.leetestevens.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Jun. 19, 2017.

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June 23, 2017

Please accept my condolences, may the family find comfort @ Issiah 25:8,AJ

Patti

June 22, 2017

My sincerest condolences to Paul's family. May the good Lord hold you and give you strength at such a difficult time. God bless.

Cheryl

June 22, 2017

My sincere condolences to the family of Paul. May God strengthen you and comfort you during this difficult time because He cares for you. 1 Peter 5:6,7

Debbi D

June 21, 2017

Cannot believe I'm seeing this after not seeing him for a while and then seeing him on Saturday, He was always so cheerful and happy. I am so sorry for all of his beloved ones.May you Rest In Peace. Brother !

Steve Larrow

June 20, 2017

My sincere condolences. Paul was a great inspiration to me. SFL

S M

June 19, 2017

My heartfelt sympathies go out to your family during this difficult time. I hope that the promise at 1 Thessalonians 4:14 brings you comfort. Knowing that there is a hope for the ones we have lost in death, can be so reassuring.

Demetrio Marquez

June 19, 2017

Paul, may you rest in peace my brother.

Jane Dowling

June 19, 2017

God bless you and your loved ones ~

James Kennedy

June 18, 2017

Paul, we did so much together, starting at a young age and remained friends. I love you like a brother, and you leave a great void in my life. I'll never forget you, I wish there was something I could do. You were the best friend a guy could ever ask for, love you brother. Jim Kennedy

Debbie Weckerly

June 18, 2017

To Paul's family I am so sorry for your loss. I work at Bondis Island treatment plant and saw Paul all the time. We would stop and talk in the hall all the time. He was a really nice guy and I will miss chatting with him.

Debbie Weckerly

barbara mock

June 18, 2017

May you RIP --to his family ,friends and coworkers may you find some comfort in your memories

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