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Paul P. Secon

1963 - 2020

Paul P. Secon obituary, 1963-2020, Manchester, CT

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1963

DIED

2020

Paul Secon Obituary

Paul Patrick Secon, 57, of Manchester, passed away on July 30, 2020. Paul was born on June 25, 1963 in Hartford, CT, and was raised in Wethersfield, CT. Paul was a proud graduate of Johnson & Wales University, and spent many years on Martha's Vineyard honing his craft as a chef. Paul was predeceased by his parents, Garrett E. Secon and Karen D. Secon, his brother Gregory D. Secon, and grandparents, Ernest & Evelyn Delesdernier and Edward & Katherine Secon. He leaves to mourn his passing sister Susan S. Skoglund (Tom) and their children Matthew and Amanda; sister Peggy A. McNeff (Larry) and their son Sean (Shaina), their children Colin & Madison McNeff; and sister-in-law Kirstin Secon. Paul also leaves behind his special aunt and uncle, Robert and Carole Carter, Aunt Joyce Hall, and Aunt Susan (Bill) Hawley, and many beloved cousins. A lover of guitar music, Paul often chatted about or was reading about his favorite musicians. He was also a friend of Bill, a history buff, and would relish a good political discussion. A celebration of Paul's life will be held at a later date. Donations may be made to Wounded Warrior Project or a charity of your choice.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Aug. 4, 2020.

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Ann Cousins

March 6, 2022

Paul was my trainer years ago. I still use all that he taught me. He brought passion to all of his work and was a force for good. I think of him often because of his kindness and willingness to stand up when others could not. He had heart for others.

Vincent jones

November 11, 2021

To sue and family so sorry to hear of your loss Paul was a gentleman and a good man I remember good times and laughs at cove the oak and cubs house we liked him visiting ow rip paul

Dawn Faraci

August 12, 2020

Paul was such a wonderful guy I remember the first time we met was out of the VFW keg party I can still picture him in the front of the band air drumming to physical graffiti he came over to me and asked me why I looked familiar come to find out we are at a keg partyThe week before at Matt H house Also him coming into my Dads Dutch oven bakery anyone that knew Paul couldn’t help but like him he had a great personality very caring and loving person with a big heart he will truly be missed by many I will never forget him sending my love and condolences to the family always sincerely much love Dawn

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