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Peter Stahl Obituary
STAHL, Peter Alan Peter Alan Stahl, 47, of Pomfret passed away suddenly on Sunday (July 31, 2005) with his family by his side. Born in Durham, NC on November 12, 1957, he attended UNC at Chapel Hill NC and UConn at Storrs. He was a Senior Family Relations Counselor for the CT Judicial Dept.. For the past 15 years, Peter has been a strong spiritual leader for his Connecticut community. He is survived by his wife of 18 years Susan Simmons-Stahl, and his two beloved sons, Cory and Jesse of Pomfret. He also leaves his mother Helen (Rosenwald) Stahl of Durham, NC; his sister Vivian Stahl and her husband Robert Senseney of Gaithersburg MD; his mother-in-law Diana Simmons of Suffield; his sister-in-law Nancy DiPilla and her husband Dominick of Sterling, MA; and his brother-in-law David Simmons and his wife Heidi of Harpers Ferry, WV. In addition, he leaves seven nieces and nephews. He will also be missed by his five spiritual brothers Kam Lau, Mike Masterson, Brian Stuart, Alberto Romero, and Gabriel Cousens. He was predeceased by his father Gerald Stahl in 1991. Peter was a devoted husband and father, and a special friend to all. His unique personality and compassion for others will be missed by family and friends. A Memorial Service will be held on Saturday, Aug. 6, at 3 p.m. at Camp Nahaco located on Weeks Rd. off Westford Rd., Eastford. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Covenant Soup Kitchen, 220 Valley St., Willimantic, CT 06226 or the Cory and Jesse Stahl Education Fund c/o Bob Fall, 885 Buckley Hwy, Union, CT 06076. Gilman Funeral Home, Putnam is entrusted with arrangements.
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Memories and Condolences
for Peter Stahl
Sybil Skakle
August 31, 2005
Peter was not known to me, except through his father, with whom I worked 23 years, and his mother Helen, my friend. Somehow I feel I knew him well. My prayers for peace and comfort for those he leaves,
May God bless and keep you in His love.
Sincerely,
Sybil Austin Skakle
Corri Gottesman
August 16, 2005
Peter was my madrich (counselor) on Year Course. At the tender age of 18, it was a gift to have Peter as a counselor. He was a model for listening, caring, laughter, and how to make decisions.
My deepest sympathy to Peter's family and friends. He will be in my heart forever.
Sam and Hudi Gross
August 12, 2005
Our children lost a good friend and our friend lost a wonderful child.
gladys siegel
August 12, 2005
My deepest condolences to Helen and Sue, Jesse and Cory.
I remember Peter has a loving,caring person . He will be mised by countless people in the Durham-Chapel hill area.
love to you all.
Kenny Levine
August 12, 2005
Peter was friends with my older sister, Amy. So many of my childhood memories are of Peter Stahl hanging out at our house. Peter seemed to me then like a larger than life character. I remember thinking when I was around 6 years old that I hoped to someday be as cool as he was. I regret not having had the opportunity to get to know him as an adult. My thoughts are with the entire family during this unimaginably difficult time.
Phil Zaleon
August 6, 2005
I lost the best friend I ever had.
Everyone who ever had the opportunity to meet Peter now feels a tremendous void. He was an amazing person and will be missed by all.
Helen, Sue, Cory and Jessie our love and thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jo Tullock
August 5, 2005
Dear Sue - I met Peter only a few times including at your wedding, but your mother spoke of him often throughout the years. It was evident from her love for Peter that he was a wonderful man. I am so very sorry for you and your boys. May you be comforted by God's love and by your happy memories. My prayers are with you....
Christina (Freeman) Nielsen
August 5, 2005
Sue, Corey and Jesse - I am so sorry for your loss. Your family will remain in our hearts and prayers at this difficult time.
Meg McDade
August 4, 2005
Sue, although I only knew Pete briefly, it was immediately apparent how thoughtful and kind he was. You, Cory & Jesse are in my prayers and the thoughts of my family, who also were impressed by Pete's spirit.
Shari Perry
August 4, 2005
Dear Sue, Cory and Jesse - I am at a loss for words. Please know your in our thoughts and prayers. Peter was a special man and will be greatly missed. Be strong and know that he will always be with you. All our love,
Cousin Shari, Mike, Madison, Austin and Summer
Carolyn Berke
August 4, 2005
Sue, All my love to you and the boys. Our love and prayers are with you. Peter was such a strong and beautiful man, and even though it's been so many years for us, his generosity of spirit continues to inspire me, and always will.
You are in my thoughts and prayers,
Love,
Carolyn
Bob Brex
August 4, 2005
Peter was such a good guy. His easy-going and friendly conversation will be greatly missed in this neighborhood.
Janet Turner
August 4, 2005
Sue, know we are thinking of you and the boys. Peter was a wonderful man and gone to soon. Many prayers and love to all, Auntie Janet
Linda & Nick Zaccaro
August 4, 2005
You will be missed by all whose life you've touched. May your Spirit rest in peace.
Karen Eisler
August 3, 2005
Peter was a wonderful soul, beloved by many. He will be missed. I will always cherish our friendship.
My heartfelt sympathies to his family.
Bev Manzi
August 3, 2005
Sue
My love and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.
Steve Berman
August 3, 2005
Peter was a beautifully compassionate person and he will be greatly missed.
Ann Negron
August 3, 2005
I knew Peter Stahl through my work at DCF. He always had a smile and was very proud of his family and work. He will be missed.
Signe and Bob Adam
August 3, 2005
Although we didn't know him as well as others, we know Peter was a man of true compassion, kindness and wisdom. He will be remembered !
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