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Robert Frenette Obituary



It is with a heavy heart that his family announces the passing of Robert Gene Frenette, Sr. Bob passed away Sunday October 15th with loved ones by his side. Bob served in the Marine Corp in the 1950's and spent the rest of his working life in various aspects of the construction and trucking industry. Along with his strong work ethic his love for his family was unmeasurable. He enjoyed his winters with Judy in Florida fishing off the beach, working in his yard and on his home, riding his Harley or just sitting in "his" chair with his dog Dolly by his side on Sunday afternoon watching Nascar. Bob leaves behind his beloved wife of 57 years Judith Frenette and his favorite 4-legged baby "Dolly-girl". Those that called him "Dad", daughter Robin Lewis and her husband Mark, son Robert Frenette Jr. and his wife Margret, son Rick Frenette and his fiancé Annette O'Meara, daughter Rachel Frenette and her boyfriend R.J. Davidson. His treasured grandchildren and great grandchildren that called him "Papa", Jennifer Lewis and her son Isaiah, Bethany Lewis her fiancé Michael Ellis and their daughter Alexis Ellis, Courtney Lewis, David Frenette and Travis Frenette. Bob also leaves his extended family and many friends, especially his step-grandchildren, Travis Quinlan, Oliver Hooper, Avery Hooper and Gwynne Hooper or as he referred to her "Gabby". A celebration of life has been planned for October 29th 2017 at the Tunxis Plantation Ballroom from 1:00pm to 5:00pm with memorial words from the family at 3:00pm. In lieu of flowers, and in honor of his service dog Dolly, donations can be made in Bobs name to K9's for Warriors. This is an organization that pairs rescue dogs with veterans. Donations can be made through the website: www.k9sforwarriors.org. Arrangements are being handled by The Ahern Funeral Homes, Inc., www.ahernfuneralhome.com. The family cannot express enough their gratitude over the outpouring of love and support they have received. "We have an angel watching over us, we call him Papa."



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Published by Hartford Courant on Oct. 19, 2017.

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My dad was definitely at our wedding , and his 80th birthday on Saturday. <br />WE MISS YOU EVERY DAY

Rick Frenette

October 13, 2020

November 23, 2017

Happy Thanksgiving

November 23, 2017

Julie Biondi

October 30, 2017

Sending love and sympathy to Judy, Rob, Ricky, Rachel and Robin and the entire extended family. Bob will missed and remembered so fondly. My father really treasured his friendship with his cousin Bob!

October 29, 2017

Judy, Rob, Rick, Robin & Rachel

So sorry for your loss. May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Joan Tereshack

Grace Shaia

October 29, 2017

Bob was an amazing man! Great father, good friend and a wonderful husband! He was my favorite cousin. The world will not be the same without him in it. He will be miss by everyone that knew him.

Jack Herman

October 28, 2017

He was my cousin, a generation older it seemed when I was young. It really wasn't until later in life, that I came to know him better, and I realized the remarkable kindness that guided his all of thoughts, and who he was. Wonderful guy. What fun we had on that last visit. What a great conversation about issues of the day, life, history.

Melissa Zils

October 28, 2017

To Robin, Rob, Rick and Rachel,

I have the sweetest, kindest memories of your father. I am so fortunate to have known him and been around your whole family growing up. My heart is heavy at the news of his passing and I can only imagine a fraction of your sorrow. You all and your mom are in my prayers.

Love always,
Missy Zils

Robin Lewis

October 20, 2017

I never knew a hurt could feel like the
Hurt of losing you. Rip my dear sweet papa

Bethany Lewis

October 19, 2017

We will miss you every minute of every day! Love you Papa!

Thomas Joyce

October 19, 2017

Bobby was a classmate of mine at FHS and a great friend. RIP my friend.

Donna Trainor

October 18, 2017

My deepest sympathies to Robin and all of hr family

Rick Frenette

October 18, 2017

It hurts when you loose someone. But I lost 3, MY FATHER, MY FRIEND, MY SUPER HERO!!
I love you and miss you so..
Your son Rick

Rachel Frenette

October 18, 2017

Miss you more as every minute passes...

October 18, 2017

Rachel,
You captured your Dad perfectly.
It was with sadness and joy that I read this.
Sadness for the loss all of you are going through and joy for the full life he lived.
All my love,
Amy

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Celebration of Life

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Tunxis Plantation Ballroom

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Tunxis Plantation Ballroom

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