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Ruth Chaffee Obituary

Ruth L. Chaffee, a lifelong resident of Wethersfield died Monday, (May 19, 2003). Born in Hartford, she was the daughter of the late Ralph P. and Jessie (Adams) Chaffee. After graduation from Wethersfield High School, Ruth attended T.C.C. (now CCSU), Columbia University, the University of Hartford, UCONN. She taught in Willington for one year and then in Newington for 34 years as an elementary teacher, reading consultant, and during the last 24 years, as principal of the Southeast School in Newington. Upon her retirement the school was renamed in her honor. Since retiring she had remained active organizing groups; the Christmas booth and the senior trip committees at First Church; the Education and Oral History Committee at the Wethersfield Historical Society; and the retired educators of Newington. She was predeceased by two sisters Dorothy Chaffee and Genie Spencer, and two brothers Gerrit and Burton Chaffee. A memorial service will be held on May 31, at 10:30 a.m. in the Meetinghouse at First Church of Christ, 250 Main St. Wethersfield with the Rev. Dr. J. Jey Deifell officiating. Burial is private. There are no calling hours. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Ruth L. Chaffee School Media Center, 160 Superior Ave. Newington 06111, the First Church of Christ, Wethersfield, or the Wethersfield Historical Society, 150 Main St. Wethersfield 06109. The James T. Pratt Funeral Service, Wethersfield is in charge of arrangements.

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Published by Hartford Courant on May 21, 2003.

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Linda Abbruzese

June 1, 2003

My sincerest sympathy goes out to Ruth's family, friends and to all that new her.



We became good friends after my family moved into her neighborhood. My children fondly called her Auntie Ruth and were over her house often.



She was a very gracious lady who was always active in the Wethersfield community. I know that she will be sorely missed by all who knew this fine lady.



God bless you Ruth!



Dominic & Linda Abbruzese & Family

Paul Schiller

May 21, 2003

I graduated from Ruth L.Chaffee Elementary School in 1999 and I was thinking about what was done with the current students. I did not know Ruth Chaffee personally but I remember seeing at numerous school functions and though she was sick during my last couple of years at Chaffee I knew that she was there mentally and it made me happy to just get a glimpse of her. I felt lucky to see her at school functions knowing how lucky I was to see the person that my school was named after alive. I offer my sincere condolences to her friends, family, anyone who had the fortune to know her personally and to the staff and students of Ruth L. Chaffee Elementary School for the loss of such a fine educater.

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