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Scott Cady Obituary

Scott David Cady, of Tolland, husband to his beloved wife Michele passed away at his home on April 23, 2020 holding hands with Michele and their son, Aidan (AJ), whom he cherished. Scott recently worked in IT for Travelers Insurance Co. but his most revered position was that of Head Coach of the Tolland High School Eagles football team. He displayed courage and stamina throughout his last coaching season while battling a rare form of cancer. Besides his passion for football and his team, Scott also had a love of life and enjoyed automobiles, fishing, writing music and golf. He got his first hole-in-one at Twin Hills Country Club. While undergoing chemo last July, his dear friends hosted a fundraising event in his honor. Scott played guitar on stage and was in his glory. This truly touched his heart and fueled his determination to coach one final season with mental toughness and never give up attitude. Born in Salem, MA in 1964 and a 1982 graduate of Tolland High School he was predeceased by his father Louis Harlow Cady, and is survived by his mother, Mary Leonard and step father, Robert Leonard of Tolland.Besides his son, Aidan (AJ), he also leaves behind his beautiful daughter Taylor of Boston, and his devoted son Ian of Ashford, both from a previous marriage; his sisters Alison Cady of Stafford and Allison Leonard Altieri and her husband Jason and niece and nephew Eve and Jonas of Mansfield, his loving in-laws Roy and Winona Carroll of Maine as well as a circle of very loyal friends, a trait most important to him. #GFAP! At friends' suggestions, a special account has been set up for AJ's education. Donations may be made directly to "AJ Cady" Key Bank, P. O. Box 697 Tolland, CT 06084. A memorial scholarship is also being planned with the assistance of the Superintendent of Schools. In lieu of flowers, please perform a random act of kindness in Scott's memory. God bless and don't ever give up!

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 30, 2020.

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Cris Rushby

May 3, 2020

A gentle man, Always upbeat and was able to make you smile. His love of family was to be admire. We always had a word to say on golf. There is a new star in heaven that is shining down on us. He is not gone. He is in our hearts.

Mark Gallagher

April 30, 2020

Scott was always eager to be part of our neighborhood sporting events on Elgin Drive in Tolland ,especially football, even though he was usually the youngest. I will remember his enthusiasm and eagerness to play along with his sense of humor fondly from those days.
My thoughts and condolences to his family.

Bob Bass

April 29, 2020

I first met Scott when as enthusiastic youngster he turned up for Tolland midget football practice when he was about 8 years old. As did all the boys his age he looked lost in his equipment. But from the first, Scott loved football. Every year he returned to play in the midget program and then in the poly program since Tolland High did not yet field a team. Scott was the consummate team player. As far as I know, he never scored a point or carried the ball but he was always there to get his team the victory. It doesn't surprise me that he became the coach at Tolland High School. I am sure that he instilled the concept of teamwork in all the boys who were lucky enough to have him as their coach.

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