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HOWE, Thomas "Tommy", SMG CTANG (Ret.) Thomas Edward Howe, 76, of South Windsor passed away Friday (November 24, 2006) surrounded by his loving family and friends after a valiant battle with cancer. Tommy died as he lived his life, simply and with dignity. He cared for many and lived life to the fullest enjoying both the practical joke and a twirl about the dance floor. Tommy was born November 5, 1930 in Hartford, son of the late Patrick and Mary Howe. His 61 years of service to Connecticut began on May 16, 1945 when he enlisted into Company D 1st Battalion of the Connecticut State Guard. His career in the Connecticut Army National Guard began on August 8, 1946 with Service Company 169th Infantry Regiment. Called to Active Duty in August, 1950, SGM Howe underwent Ranger and Airborne training at FT Benning and then was assigned to Germany as part of the Occupation Force during the Korean War. He returned to the States in June of 1952 and reenlisted into Battery B 745th AAA Bn. He was transferred to Service Company 169th Infantry and promoted to 1st Sergeant until transfer to Company A 243rd Signal Battalion in May 1959. He next served with HHC 1st BG 169th Inf then transferred to HHC 43d CMD Hq Div where he served till August 1967. Assigned to HHC 103d EOH, he served as First Sergeant and Operations Sergeant until April 1972. SGM Howe was assigned to the Full Time Recruiting Force in April 1972 as one of it's "founding fathers" and served in varied assignments within that force. He was promoted to Sergeant Major in June 1979. Upon retirement in 1990, he continued his military service by joining the First Company Governor's Foot Guard where at his passing he held the rank of Command Sergeant Major. Military service truly represented Tommy's life's work and was a significant source of the many friends and comrades he enjoyed. Throughout Tommy's career he received many Accolades, Awards and Decorations too numerous to mention. Tommy will be missed by the many clubs and organizations to which he belonged or donated his time and skills (carpentry was a passion in his civilian life). Tommy is survived by his wife of 49 years, Barbara and their three loving children, Tracie Lynn Vicki of Bloomfield, Mary "Beth" Howe of South Windsor and Thomas Joseph "TJ" Howe and his wife Carrie-Anne of Enfield, and the apple of his eye and Grandson Andrew Thomas Vicki; two brothers, John and Raymond Howe both of Florida; two sisters, Mary Terry of Hartford and Helen Lauzier of South Windsor; as well as numerous nieces and nephews. Tommy was predeceased by his son Thomas John Howe and his sister Eilene Howe. Tommy is also survived by his "side kick", a Shetland Sheepdog also named Tommy after him. Family and friends may gather Tuesday, November 28 at 9 a.m. at the Carmon Windsor Funeral Home followed by a Mass of Christian Burial 10 a.m. in St. Gabriel Church, Windsor. Burial will follow with military honors in Mt. St. Benedict Cemetery. His family will receive friends on Monday from 3-5 and 6-9 p.m. at the Carmon Windsor Funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the McLean Hospice, 75 Great Pond Road, Simsbury, CT 06070. For condolences please visit www.carmonfuneralhome.com

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Published by Hartford Courant on Nov. 26, 2006.

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Willa Holcombe

December 3, 2006

Dear Beth,
I share your loss. My Dad died Nov. 18th. I will be praying for you and your family as you grieve his passing over the holiday weeks.
Love, Willa

Pam & James Kissell

November 29, 2006

The Howe Family:

Having recently lost my mom I can relate to the grief you are going through. We know, all too well, how difficult this time is and want you to know that our prayers and thoughts are with you. Hold on to the good memories you have of your dad as they will comfort you always. Our hearts feel your sorrow.
With Deepest Sympathy

Paul Poirier

November 28, 2006

I and our fellow members of the Greater Hartford Chapter of the 82nd Airborne Division Association will miss Tommy terribly.Everybody knew Tommy Howe and had at least a few stories to tell about him.He was reliable, passionate in his views,courageous, generous and above all, "the real deal".Deepest condolences to Barbara and his teriffic children of whom he was rightfully very proud.Airborne All The Way Tommy !!!!

Steve Pirro

November 28, 2006

To the Howe Family,
Over my 34 years as a member of the Governor's Foot Guard, I have never met a more caring, honest, and love of life member than Tommie(Not a bad dancer either). Even before his membership in the GFG, I can remember Tommie sitting at the bar in the EM Lounge, welcoming everyone who entered prior to the evening drill on Monday night. As a member he exemplified the term "member" by his dedication to service to the GFG and it's members. I will miss Tommie Howe; "they don't make then like they used to". God Bless!

Colleen Combs (Donlon)

November 27, 2006

TJ and Family - My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Looking for your dad's familiar face in parades will be missed.

Steve Jainchill sr.

November 27, 2006

Tommywas always a big help to everyone in the Footguard.I will always remember how much he helped when we did the bandroom over.
Godbless you Tommy.

Gloria Smith

November 27, 2006

Angels have carried your Dad to a place of eternal rest and peace. He will be an angel of love in your earthly life.
Love,
Gloria

Cheryl Barber (Donlon)

November 27, 2006

TJ - Sorry to hear about your dad. Hope everyone is well.

Tim and Melissa

November 27, 2006

TJ - Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time -

Julie Rackliffe

November 27, 2006

Beth & Family:
Our Deepest Sympathy goes out to you all. Your Dad was one awesome man. Lets remember the great times we had with him down the Armory, Parades, Irish American Home and just hanging out talking about politics. He was one special person to everyone and had touched so many lives. He will be missed dearly. I will always be here for you Beth, you are a very special friend to me and my family. I Love You.

My Deepest Sympathy,

Love you always,

Julie Rackliffe and Family

Dorothy Lafo

November 27, 2006

May the love and support of your family and friends help you through this time of sorrow.
Rest in Peace Uncle Tommy,
Dottie (Howe) Lafo

Louis Preziosi

November 26, 2006

Tom will be missed by all of us for many years to come. he was an inspiration to all of us, a gentleman and a true patriot.
My sincere sympathy goes out to all of you with the deepest respect for this dignified quiet warrior/patriot.

God bless Tom.

David Cole

November 26, 2006

I can speak confidently for the entire membership of the Greater Hartford Chapter of the 82nd Airborne Division Association as I say we mourne the loss of a real trooper in Tommy. He will be missed by our membership, all of whom retain only the fondest of memories of Tommy's good humor and his utmost dedication to duty. I offer our most sincere condolences to those family members that Tommy has left behind. R.I.P. Tommy Howe.

Dan Howe

November 26, 2006

Rest in Peace, Uncle Tommy.

from Dan, Cathie, Marie and Caitlyn Howe, DeBary, Florida.

Tracey Lagasse

November 26, 2006

My deepest sympathy to you for your loss. I first met Tommy in 1974 when he was in recruiting,I was one of the first few women who joined the Guard, and he was the one who took us through the steps to be enlisted, not an easy job for him in a all male environment. I have seen Tommy several times over the years, and was amazed at his courage and will after hearing of his illness and seeing him in the armory after his release from the hospital. I saw him 3 times after that, once on crutches, once with a cane and the last time someone brought him in, his personality and courage were admirable, and his sense of humour with his tinge of gruffness were present even then. He will be remembered and missed by many.

Tracey Lagasse

Kelli Tosone

November 26, 2006

We wish your family love and peace during this time of mourning. May the loving memories of Tommy fill your hearts always.
Love,
Kelli, Joe, Gabriella and Sophia

Kevin Slyman (MSG Ret)

November 26, 2006

My sincere sympathy on the loss of Tommy, we've missed him ever since he left the Recruiting and Retention Force. He contributed much to our most successful recruiting years.

Chuck Ferrara

November 26, 2006

I only met Tommy once at an 82nd AB Association meeting. He was a guy, who I thought, was full of life, laughter and had to be reminded a couple of time to "keep it down." I remember thinking that it is guys like Tommy that make life interesting and who get the job done. I offer my sincere sympathy to Tommy's wife, family and friends who mourn his loss. God bless you and may you find the Lord's strength and peace in the days ahead.

Timothy Daley (SFC/Retired)

November 26, 2006

I would like to express my sympathies to Tommy's family. I have many fond memories of Tommy, he will be sadly missed. I will keep his family in my prayers.

David Anderson

November 26, 2006

I would like to express my sympathies to Tommy's family. We will miss Tommy's comraderie and hospitality as a fellow 82d Airborne Association member our host and caretaker at the Foot Guard Armory.

Carmon Funeral Homes, Inc.

November 26, 2006

With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.

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