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Wilbur Messier Obituary
Gilford, NH-----Wilbur J. Messier, 91, of Cherry Valley Road, Gilford, NH formerly of Manchester, CT, died peacefully after enjoying one of his favorite things, dining out and a martini on Wednesday, March 18, 2015 at Lakes Region General Hospital. Mr. Messier was born on September 26, 1923 in Manchester, CT the son of Wilbrod and Agnes (Tournaud) Messier. Wilbur graduated early from Manchester High School, CT to serve as a Sergeant in the 1ST Marine Division of the U.S. Marine Corps during WWII in the South Pacific. After serving in the war he attended college graduating from University of Connecticut. Mr. Messier was a Senior Training Officer for Aetna Life & Casualty Co. He was a member of the Army & Navy Club and the Bridge Club in Manchester, CT. Wilbur enjoyed golfing but most of all spending time with his grandchildren and great grandchildren. Mr. Messier is survived by three sons; Kenneth J. Messier and his wife, Katherine, of Simsbury, CT, James R. Messier and his wife, Linda, of Vernon, CT and Thomas C. Messier and his wife, Lisa, of Quincy, MA; three daughters, Claudia A. Messier, of Gilford, NH, Mary M. Wrinn and her husband, James, of S. Yarmouth, MA and Susan M. Holland and her husband, Todd, of Amherst, MA; eighteen grandchildren; fourteen great-grandchildren; a son-in-law Lawrence Cagianello, of Middletown, CT and by the Finnegan step children and their families. In addition to his parents Wilbur is predeceased by his first wife, Betty Jane (Whitham) Messier and by his second wife, Lucille (Finnegan) Messier and by his daughter, Kathryn E. Cagianello. Calling hours will be held on Monday, March 23, 2015 from 4:00pm - 8:00pm at the Holmes Funeral Home, 400 Main Street, Manchester, CT. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Tuesday, March 24, 2015 at 10:00am at St. James Church, 896 Main Street, Manchester, CT. Burial with Military Honors will follow in St. James Cemetery, Manchester, CT. For those who wish, the family suggests that memorial donations be made to St. James School Foundation 73 Park Street, Manchester, CT 06040. Holmes Funeral Home, 400 Main Street, Manchester, CT is assisting the family with the arrangements.
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Rev. Stephen Sledesky
April 2, 2015
Dear Family of Wilbur Messier,
Please accept our deepest condolences and prayers as you grieve the loss of Wilbur. May God bless you all with his peace.
-Fr. Stephen and the Catholic Community of St. Bridget, Manchester, CT
March 24, 2015
To Tom and the rest of the Messier family our deepest sympathy on the loss of your father.
Gina Colletto Klase
March 24, 2015
To the family of Wilbur Messier: My sincere sympathy on the loss of your father. My step-father and Mr. Messier were friends growing up and went through High School together. My step-father spoke of him often (his name was Paul Turcotte). I'm sending these condolences on his behalf because I know he would want me to (my step-father passed away in January). R.I.P. Mr. Messier.
LeeAnn Daigle (Step-daughter of Paul Turcotte)
To Mr.Mesier family my the present of God be with you and you are all with my prayers and heart
Angela Heron
March 23, 2015
Shannon Johnson
March 23, 2015
Jim and Linda,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Theresa Jordan
March 22, 2015
My Dear Cousins,
We have lost a treasure. I send love to you, your children, and grandchildren, and their children. Find comfort in your memories and in the wisdom Uncle Will gave to each of you. Fondly, Terry
March 21, 2015
I worked with Will at Aetna for many many years in the training area. He was a gentleman and a very kind person who shepherded me through many rough waters. I appreciated everything about him. And he was a lot of fun!
Gloria Gery
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Mike Harrison
March 21, 2015
My deepest condolences to all. Uncle Will & Aunt Betty will always hold a very special place in my heart.
Steven Goodell
March 21, 2015
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Nancy Marcoux
March 21, 2015
Claudia, I am so sorry to learn of the passing of your father. My heart goes out to you and your family.
Holmes Funeral Home - Manchester
March 21, 2015
With deepest sympathy during your time of mourning.
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