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William A. "Billy" Arcari

1949 - 2019

William A. "Billy" Arcari obituary, 1949-2019, Newington, CT

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William Arcari Obituary

William "Billy" Anthony Arcari, 70, of Newington and formerly East Hartford, beloved husband for 30 years of Roseann (Lenzo) Arcari, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by his loving family on Tuesday, April 9, 2019. Born in Hartford on January 10, 1949, he was the son of the late William and Emily (Quattrocchi) Arcari. He was a 1967 graduate of East Catholic High School, East Hartford and went on to receive a degree in physiology from the University of Hartford. Billy was a skilled chef and was the owner of the former Old Town Restaurant in Windsor. After that, he worked for Capital Region Mental Health Center as a Program Chef, where he worked with the rehabilitation team teaching cooking skills to individuals with various mental illnesses, preparing them for community inclusion. He was a food connoisseur and loved the beach. Billy's perfect day was spent alongside his wife, driving with the top down in his Miata, headed for the shore. Billy was an avid fan of the Boston Red Sox and took his family on yearly trips to Fenway Park to watch them play. Billy was also a fan of UConn Woman's Basketball, he and his sister Diane never missed a game and over the years they enjoyed the girls coming up in the ranks and winning many National Championships. He also attended many Miata events and served as treasurer of the Nutmeg Mazda Miata Club. More than anything, Billy was a devoted husband, father and grandfather who will be forever missed by his beloved wife Roseann; his three children, William M. Arcari and his fiancée Leah Maylott of Southington, Megan Arcari of Woodbridge, Emilia Erardi and her husband Frank of Newington and his adored grandson, who was the joy of his life, his "little guy" Noah. He is also survived by his sister, Diane Swain of East Hartford and his aunt, Lina D'Angelo of Rocky Hill. Billy also leaves behind several nieces, nephews, cousins and many friends. Special thanks to his lifelong friends, Montrose Christie, Mickey Bunk, Robert DeGemmis, Catherine Gelineau and his nurse, Debbie Konopka, whose exceptional care and compassion will never be forgotten. Funeral services will be Tuesday (April 16) at 11 a.m. at the D'Esopo Funeral Chapel, 277 Folly Brook Blvd., Wethersfield. Burial will be private. Family and friends may call on Monday (April 15) from 4-7 p.m. at the funeral chapel. Donations in Billy's memory may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, 501 St. Jude Place, Memphis, TN 38105. To share a memory of Billy with his family, please visit www.desopofuneralchapel.com.

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Published by Hartford Courant on Apr. 13, 2019.

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Diane Arcari Swain

April 7, 2025

Wishing my baby brother was here with me to watch UConn Women win another championship. I miss him so much!

Diane Arcari Swain

April 9, 2022

Another year has passed without my beloved brother. I miss his laughter and his wit. I miss being frustrated when he always got the Jeopardy answers right and watching Red Sox and UConn Women´s games with him. I miss being able to share memories with him. I will always miss his just being here with us! But he is always in my heart.

Diane Arcari Swain

April 7, 2021

Missing my dear brother, Billy, today and every day....

Diane Swain

April 9, 2020

Remembering and missing Billy today and every day.

April 16, 2019

Diane , Sorry for the loss of Billy at such a young age. Condolences to his family.

Your old neighbor, Jack Thayer

Steve D'Esopo

April 15, 2019

Farewell my old roommate. Rest in peace. Sincere condolences to family and friends.

Francesca Fasano

April 15, 2019

Rosann and Family, So sad to hear of the loss of your husband Billy. My heart goes out to you and you family. Your friend Franca Fasano of Rocky Hill, CT.

April 13, 2019

Billy was a member of the Nutmeg Miata Club. He and Rosann joyfully joined every event they could and made many friends within the club. Our special memory of them includes how much they loved each other. They didn't have to be demonstrative for all to see their special connection. They radiated it. He will be sorely missed.

April 13, 2019

So sad to hear of Billy's passing. My heart goes out to the family. I loved seeing him with Noah. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time

April 13, 2019

Roseann & Emilia & Arcari family we and the girls are so sorry to hear of Billie's passing. May Jehovah help you and Emmy to cope and deal with the lost of Billie. We will miss him and see him again soon.
Love the Harris Girls


Shirley, Sheila, Lynn Harris

April 13, 2019

I'm so sorry to hear of your loved and deepest condolences are extended to you. Something that's helped me through the death of loved ones is to reflect on 1 Corinthians 15:26.

D'Esopo Funeral Chapel

April 13, 2019

Our deepest condolences on your loss. The D’Esopo Family.

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15

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4:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m.

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277 Folly Brook Boulevard, Wethersfield, CT 06109

Apr

16

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11:00 a.m.

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277 Folly Brook Boulevard, Wethersfield, CT 06109

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