Search by Name

Search by Name

Emily Engelhardt Obituary

Emily Engelhardt

DECATUR - Emily Engelhardt, a life-long resident of Decatur, Illinois, died at the age of 97 from the after-effects of COVID-19 at St. Luke's Surrey Place in St. Louis.

Mrs. Engelhardt was the oldest member of Temple B'nai Abraham, having been a part of that historic congregation for 92-years. She lived her faith, protected her family, and devoted time and energy to many community causes.

She was the youngest child of Louis and Eva Greenberg, who founded Greenberg's Outlet Shoe Center in Decatur.

A 1941 graduate of Decatur High School and a gifted violinist, Emily intended to pursue a career in the arts at Millikin University where she was awarded a scholarship at the School of Music.

World War II interrupted when both of her older brothers, Bill and Max Greenberg, were called up to serve in the U.S. Army. Emily put college aside and returned to the family business to help her father keep the doors open while her brothers were deployed. But her love of music and the performing arts never diminished.

In 1957, Emily married Dr. Stanley Engelhardt of New York, who had recently established his optometrist practice in downtown Decatur. They were blessed with one son, Steven.

In 1970, Emily returned to her alma mater to help dedicate the Kirkland Fine Arts Center, where she remained a dedicated patron and supporter for 50 years.

Emily Engelhardt was preceded in death by her husband, Dr. Stanley Engelhardt, her parents, Louis and Eva Greenberg, and her brothers, Max Greenberg and Bill Greenberg.

She is survived by her son, Steven Engelhardt and his wife Hilary, of St. Louis, MO; her niece, Dayna Engelhardt of Aventura, FL; her nephew, Darin Engelhardt of Boca Raton, FL; her nephew, Joel Greenberg, of Decatur, IL; and her nephew, Jerry Greenberg, who resides in Israel.

Emily was truly a "Eshet Chayil," a Woman of Valor.

For almost a century, she touched many lives with her kindness, she endured with great courage, she served those she loved, and she served HaShem faithfully.

A graveside service is planned for Friday, February 19, 2021 at 1:00 p.m. CST, in Section Z, Fairlawn Cemetery, in Decatur, IL.

Tributes in honor of Emily Engelhardt's memory can be made to Temple B'nai Abraham in Decatur, IL; Central Reform Congregation in St. Louis, MO; and the Kirkland Fine Arts Center at Millikin University in Decatur, IL.

A Zoom Shiva is scheduled for 4:00 PM CST on Sunday, February 21, 2021:

https:/centralreform-org.zoom.useetingegister/tZMrf-6hqTgtHN3w1LlpF09O2BFiQbaipCmd

Advance registration required. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email containing information about joining the meeting.

May her memory be a blessing to all who knew her and loved her.

Published by Decatur Herald & Review on Feb. 17, 2021.

Memories and Condolences
for Emily Engelhardt

Not sure what to say?





Pam Melnik Ferris

February 11, 2022

May Emily´s memory be a blessing to all who knew her. She likely knew my parents, Francy and Buddy Melnik, and aunt and uncle, Sylvia and Gersh Cohn, all of whom are deceased now. I went to school with Joel. Thinking of your family on this first yartzeit of your beloved family member. Pam

Sally Jo Woller

February 21, 2021

Steven, I was honored to be able to join the shiva for your mother. I remember you from high school, and remember your mother from temple. She was an incredible lady. May her memory always be for a blessing! <3

Group of 10 Memorial Trees

The Clay Family

Planted Trees

Pam Melnik Ferris

February 19, 2021

I didn´t know Mrs. Englehardt though certainly know the Greenberg family. Thinking of you and sending my deepest sympathy during this difficult time. May her memory be a blessing. All my best, Pam

Arthur Gross

February 18, 2021

Steve,
Katie and I enjoyed our time with Emily in Decatur, especially during social occasions at the Temple. She was so pleasant and fun to talk to, and she made me smile. Emily always kvelled when I asked her about her son from
St. Louis!
We offer our condolences.

Annette Cavanagh

February 18, 2021

Deepest condolences to you Steve. Your Mom was the kindest lady with a welcoming heart. She spoke lovingly always of you and your lovely wife. I remember how often you came to Temple Bnai Abraham to be with Mom for festivals. May you find peace and comfort after you have mourned.

Kimberland

February 18, 2021

I remember when we first go to know each other I feel in love with her because she asked me every day I want you to call Steve and tell him I'm not along you are here and I said ok then she said why haven't you called my son yet now what's your name again I said Emily it's me Kim she said I'm glad you are here

Marvin Tick

February 18, 2021

Steve,
May your mother's memory be a blessing and condolences from Marvin, David and Hedy Tick.

Jay S. Kahn

February 17, 2021

Steve,

Please accept my deepest condolences on your mom's passing. I remember her being such a vibrant woman although it's been years since I've seen her.

May She Rest in Peace.

Elana Miller(Greenberg)

February 17, 2021

Rest In Peace Aunt Emily! You are loved and missed by many.

Lou Parsons

February 17, 2021

Steven I am so sorry to read about your Mother. She was a wonderful lady. I have thought of you both so many times over the years. I hope you are doing well. I noticed you have children here in South Florida. I, too, live down here.
Again, please accept my deepest condolences. I will try to sit the virtual shiva.

Donna Reinhardt

February 17, 2021

So sorry she will be missed here in Decatur seeing her sitting at her favorite table at McDonalds on Eldorado, always enjoyed our visits such a nice outgoing lady. RIP

Showing 1 - 12 of 12 results

Make a Donation
in Emily Engelhardt's name

Memorial Events
for Emily Engelhardt

Feb

19

Graveside service

1:00 p.m.

Section Z, Fairlawn Cemetery

Decatur, IL

Feb

21

Shiva

4:00 p.m.

https:/centralreform-org.zoom.useetingegister/tZMrf-6hqTgtHN3w1LlpF09O2BFiQbaipCmd

IL

How to support Emily's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services, and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor Emily Engelhardt's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more