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PETERS, PATRICK IRWIN, born in Houston, Texas on December 8, 1943 died on July 7, 2007 at the age of 63. Patrick is survived by his wife Adrienne Kohn Peters, his two children Whitney Elizabeth (18) and Tyler Norman (16) and his three brothers Stanley who lives in California with wife Kathleen, Steven who lives in Colorado with wife Vivian, and Michael who lives in New Mexico with wife Susie, his sisters-in-law Marion Bailey who lives in Fort Lauderdale with husband Bill and Georgianne Brown who lives with husband Michael in Plantation and mother-in-law Lydia Kohn of Hollywood, Florida. Known as the Mayor of Irvington Avenue, Pat was a long time Coconut Grove resident, on a first name basis with many Grovites and dearly loved by the tight community of families living on Irvington. After earning his degree in Political Science he served in the Army for 5 years during the Vietnam War and received 2 Bronze Stars for meritorious service. In the early 70's he began a long career in the hospitality industry, managing food and beverage operations for large resorts in Vail, Colorado and Augusta, Georgia. Then in 1980, he moved to Miami to become director of operations for a regional hotel company. It was during this time that Pat became an avid UM Hurricane fan, a passion that endured a lifetime. It wasn't until Pat retired in 2002 that he found his true calling as a full time husband and parent. He lived for the love of his life, his wife Adrienne and their children, serving as vice president of the Ponce de Leon Middle School PTA, never missing his son's many swim meets and karate practices, supporting his daughter's prolific writing, photography and movie- making projects and lending a hand with the operations of Adrienne's busy Coral Gables children's therapy practice. After learning of his terminal illness, Pat made the most of the little time he had left choosing to die at home with the help of hospice in his wife's arms with his loving family and closest friends by his side. In keeping with the way he lived, Pat asked his wife to celebrate his life rather than mourn his loss. A loving tribute to the wonderful husband, father, brother and friend, Pat Peters will take place at Coconut Grove Sailing Club on Saturday, July 28th at 6 p.m. Donations can be made to your favorite charity in his name. To visit this Guest Book Online, go to www.MiamiHerald.com/obituaries.

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Published by the Miami Herald on Jul. 11, 2007.

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Stacey Packer

July 6, 2008

I'm at the lake looking at the hammock and missing Uncle Pat. What a sweet and kind person he was and will always be. I miss his talks and his chilli. I can't believe it's been a year already.

Alan Hutcheon

January 31, 2008

Dear Adrienne,
I'm so sorry to hear of you and your family's loss. Pat was a wonderful person. As I wrote in my e-mail, it's funny how you can meet someone and be around them for such a short period of time, but they can leave such a lasting impression upon you. Thank you for the friendship!!

Camille Rosen

August 21, 2007

Dear Tyler,
I was so sorry to hear about your father. I know how close you were to him. During the brief time that I have known you both, I could tell he was a wonderful father to you. As a teacher, I saw a father who loved to be involved in his childrens' education. As a parent, I could see that he was very proud of you.
I know how much you miss him and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Mrs. Camille Rosen
Coral Gables High School

Alex Van Nostrand

August 7, 2007

When I think of Pat Peters, I start smiling. There's no one memory that does it- the piles of books after a week-long vacation, the way that he placed cheese just so on a cracker, him showing off Miami's A-list mansions from his motor boat against the turquoise ocean, the strong margaritas he would sneakily offer me sips of as a little girl, the pride in his voice when he spoke of his amazing children, him rattling off the latest world news with an intelligent or biting opinion, the way that he would send out mass emails from APPeters offering simple gratitude or funny anecdotes, and mostly the way that Pat deeply listened to people as though there was nothing more important in the world. Pat has been part of my summers since his children were barely out of diapers, and there really is no better example of a father and husband that I have ever seen. Its hard to imagine one person giving so much without ever complaining, but its even harder to imagine that person not coming back into my life next year. My prayer for Pat is that we can all give as much as he gave without reservation, that we read as many books as humanly possible, and that we take the time to sit down quietly with a glass of wine at the end of the day and smile at how wonderful life can be when you give all of yourself to the world. Just smile, because we all know that is exactly what Pat is doing and always has done.
Alex Van Nostrand (Seneca Lake)

Marinell (Buttons) Myers

July 30, 2007

Adrienne..I was saddened to learn of the sudden death of your husband. Knowing you, I'm sure you brought much joy to his life. My sympathies are with you and your children.

Mark & Sheryl Piper

July 29, 2007

Your service for Pat yesterday was beautiful and a very fitting tribute. It certainly reflected his personality, energy, love of people, life, and of course, his commitment to his family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Adrienne, Whitney and Tyler.
Take care,

Debbie and larry Brown

July 25, 2007

Adrienne, Whitney, Tyler
I'm so sorry to hear of your lost. I have not known you all for that long but you made my move to irvington a very welcoming experience. I will Miss seeing Pat at the gym. he was a wonderful person to know as you all are also.
god bless

Calvina Clay, PhD

July 24, 2007

Tyler, I always admired the special relationship you and your father shared. In the days and years to come, you will be able to draw strength and comfort from those great times and conversations the two of you shared. Those memories will never die. Continue to strive for your goals and be at peace with who you are.

Isabella Scafati

July 24, 2007

Dear Adrienne,
when I was informed about your family loss after I got back from a trip, I was deeply saddened and I still am.
I would like to express my deepest condolences to you and your children, also on behalf of my boyfriend Steve who had recently met Pat and had the opportunity to enjoy his company.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Valarie Carter

July 20, 2007

Tyler I am sincerely sadden by you and your family's lost. I will always remember and cherish the wonderful relationship that you and your dad had and all of our days on ESSAC. You have been truly bless to have had such a wonderful father and it's even more endearing to know that without a doubt you knew that you were the other side of his heart. I will certainly keep all of you in my prayers. Valarie Carter, a member of your Ponce family.

Clara Constain

July 20, 2007

Tyler: I am with you at this very sad time. I will always remember your daddy as a wonderful father.

Marlene Ramos

July 19, 2007

Dear Peters Family,
Pat's love for Tyler and Ponce de Leon Middle school will never be forgotten. He was our school's #1 cheerleader. We were blessed to have him as part of our school's family.

Evan, Stacey , Julia and Bella Packer

July 19, 2007

Uncle Pat we miss you every day. Thank goodness your presence is still felt through everyone who loved you. All our love,

Robin Cohen

July 19, 2007

I will always remember my Uncle Pat as a happy, go lucky, loving husband, father, uncle, brother, friend and son! He added so much to our family and we will miss him and never forget him!

Sandra Kravetz

July 19, 2007

Dear Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler...I know words cannot express the heartfelt sorrow I am feeling for you at this time. Your husband, father and friend was truly a gift to us all. Until we meet again P2... Love Sandra

Harriet & Preston Packer

July 18, 2007

I will always remember Pat as a gentle man with a warm smile and unassuming way. His graciousness and patience meant the world to my husband and me. Pat possessed integrity and honor and so it does not surprise me to learn that such a gentle soul was a warrior. I believe that Pat is still protecting those he cherished.
Our heartfelt sympathy to Adrienne,
Whitney, and Tyler.

The Zabaleta Family

July 18, 2007

Dear Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler,
We are saddened to hear of the passing of your beloved husband and father. Words cannot express the compassion we feel for you all right now. We never met Pat - but any man who takes on the task of being a board member of any PSTA is truly a dedicated father and advocate for children! You are in our thoughts and we know that you will gain strength from your friends and family around you.

Katherine Feldman

July 17, 2007

Dear Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler,
We were saddened to learn of Pat's death and you and your family are in our constant thoughts and prayers. We have wonderful memories of Pat that will live on and I am so happy, Adrienne, that I had a brief opportunity to speak with Pat prior to his passing. We love you, Kathy and Bennett

Lynda Carnegie

July 17, 2007

Adrianne: I never met Patrick but he must have been a wonderful man and a wonderful friend and husband to you. I'm happy that you found him and have two wonderful children. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Lynda Carnegie

Nelida Rey

July 17, 2007

My deepest condolences to Adeienne, and children for such a loss, I met the family thru my cousin Gladys who work for them for many years and always learn what a wonderful person he was, I know God has reserved a loving place for him in heaven

July 17, 2007

Hi Adrienne, Whitney and Tyler,
I'm sorry that I never had the opportunity to meet Pat, but I've heard so many wonderful things about him from my brother-in-law, John. All of you are in my thoughts and prayers at this most difficult time in your lives. I know a little of what you're going through...and hold onto each other, and you'll get through this, one day at a time. Fondly, Barb Meyers and Family
St. Louis, Mo.

Claire Donnelly

July 16, 2007

Please accept our heartfelt condolences and know that you're in our family's thoughts and prayers.

Sharon Watson

July 16, 2007

On behalf of the Coral Gables High School PTSA, we extend our deepest sympathy on the loss of our friend and Vice President, Pat Peters.
I had the pleasure of meeting and getting to know Pat at Ponce de Leon Middle School where we served on the PTSA board together. We had our school adventures, fun and hard work as we tried to do things to help the school, the teachers and the students. Pat was tenacious in the issues he undertook to make better. When Pat took it on, it was done! I so often relied on his calm and quiet counsel as we dealt with different projects.
I know how much I was looking forward to serving on the PTSA board again with Pat this year at Gables High. He will be such a loss to us on the PTSA, to the school, and to all the parents that didn't even know what Pat was accomplishing to benefit so many.
To Tyler, and Adrienne and Whitney, our sympathies go out to you. Pat's friends at school will miss him very much.

Sharon Watson
President, Coral Gables High School PTSA

Susie Mestre

July 16, 2007

Seeing Pat walk through the door of "US Kenpo Kai" alwayas put a big smile on all of our faces. He always had something nice to say. His dedication to Tyler's training was admirable. I will never forget the joy and satisfaction on his face the night Tyler got his Jr black belt. My deepest condolences to Mrs Peters, Whitney, and my friend Tyler.

judy Meyers

July 16, 2007

Dear Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler,
We haven't stopped thinking about you and all of your loved ones. Pat was a wonderful guy and we were lucky to have been able to spend time with him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this most trying time. Love, Mark,and Judy Meyers and Family

Philippa Milne

July 15, 2007

Dear Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler,
Our deepest sympathy and condolences on the loss of Pat. He was such a sweet and gentle man. I’m so glad we were able to visit a couple of weeks ago and bring him some gardenias. In spite of how he felt, he graciously said they were his favorite flower - a gentleman to the end.

Matt Mangum

July 14, 2007

To Pat's family,

I'm so sorry for your loss. As a good friend of his nephew Dan, I knew Pat from our annual ski trips in Taos. I'll miss Pat's warmth and humor. I'm lucky to have known him.

Claudia (Sam) Smith

July 14, 2007

Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Barbara Seifried

July 13, 2007

Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler - Our deepest sympathy to you all. You are in our thoughts and paryers.

Bruce, Barbara & Sons

Kathy Dixon

July 13, 2007

Adrienne, Whitney & Tyler,

We will always remember Pat from the great times with you in the Keys at the Aldermans. Going back to John's 50th and swimming on the pontoon boat. John & I are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Don Mangus

July 13, 2007

Our deepest condolences to the Peters family during the loss of Patrick. Patrick I. Peters was my Captain in the US Army During one of the roughest and deadliest campaigns imaginable. He always had a knack of pulling through his men even though the morale was very low and somber. Once again Patrick was a true Capt. either on the water or in the service. I am glad an fortunate to have been reunited with him in Coconut grove enjoying lunch by the waterside. I know the other men that served under him will also feel the loss of a great man who was our hero. Good bye old friend and Peace to you too.. A memorial has been placed on The Gypsy Bandits website. Your wisdom is embedded in my mind forever. Sincerely with a sad heart, Don and Denise Mangus

Erika Abril-Garcia

July 12, 2007

Adrienne & family:
We were so saddened to hear the news. We send our deepest condolences during this difficult time. Please know that you are in our prayers.

Much love,
Erika, Gonzo, Jake, Jalyn & Mischa Garcia

Bobby & Letty Gastelum

July 12, 2007

Cousins Adrienne, Whitney, Tyler and Kohn Family members - "Captain Pat" was a "special soul", who will never be forgotten. The wonderful conversations and happy time spent with him will live on in our memories forever, reminding us of his selfless kindness and caring ways. We feel truly blessed to have had him in our family and hope that the love and prayers we send to you, our family, give you strength and peace during these sorrowful days. Love and kisses to all of you.

Armando Rizo

July 12, 2007

Pat was one of those noble individuals you always enjoyed crossing paths with. I have many fond memories of conversation we shared on topics from hometown politics, books to family and life in general. He loved to talk about Tyler’s development and the challenges he faced at school. His love for family was more than evident from our conversations and the admiration he always expressed for his son. Pat’s warm hearted nature and smile will be sorely missed by all who knew him, but our hearts will smile whenever we remember him. My deepest condolences and heartfelt sympathy go out to the Peter’s family.

jacquie walters

July 12, 2007

Dear Pat -( whom I knew from the time we were both 19) was part of my extended family although we had not communicated or seen each other much in the past 15 or so years. - In 1976 we left Houston along with several others to start a photography company in Steamboat Springs, Colorado. Although the photography company eventually faltered (we were having much too much fun) we both stayed in Steamboat enjoying all that it had to offer. Pat and I and our families maintained contact over the years through several moves to different areas of the country and eventually my sister Susie married his brother Mike. What began as a friendship established itself as a family connection. I will always be eternally grateful to him for pulling me out of Houston and introducing me to a bigger side of life. So here's to Pat who was like a brother to me - I'm so happy I was able to see him this last year at Mike's birthday party. Til we meet again!!

Michelle Gonzalez

July 12, 2007

Such unexpected news makes me wonder even more how this life works. Pat was such a supportive and loving man. Every time I saw him come to pick up his son from Karate class, there was that warm smile that shined through the door and laughter in his eyes. He will be very much missed and always remembered. My deepest condolences, love and support go to the Peters Family.

Cristina Cartaya

July 12, 2007

From Cristina Cartaya and all of us at The Learning Experience School our most heartfelt sympathy. You will always be remembered.

Ivonne Morales

July 12, 2007

Pat, always had a smiling face when ever he walked through the door at the karate school. It was amazing watching him interact with his son, and the adoration that they had for one another. He will be greatly missed as a part of our extended family at US Kenpo Kai.

Rick Eguilior

July 12, 2007

My deepest condolences to the Peters family. I did not know Mr. Peters well,
but I do know Tyler,and based on that I know that he was an example for the rest of us of what a husband and father should be. May he rest in peace.

Sandor Urban

July 12, 2007

Pat was a great man whom I very much admired and respected. He was a tremendous father who proudly took interest in his son's activities at US Kenpo Kai and was always a favorite amongst the staff, other parents and students at our school. We will miss his presence, terrific sense of humor and dedication to his son. I couldn't think of a better role model as a parent and member of our community. All of us at US Kenpo Kai will miss him dearly.

Carole Milliman

July 11, 2007

Pat will always have a very special place in my heart. I have had the privledge of knowing Pat since his marraige to Adrienne. I live in the Chicago area and first met Adrienne when she was age 9. All of my memories of Pat are of times of celebration. I often visited with Ade and Pat in Florida or at the cottage in Watkins Glen, NY. These memories are of new babies born, weddings, Bar Matzva, boating, dancing, and most of all laughing. So many wonderful times! At the cottage we would all see the sun rise and sit at the campfire at sunset sharing our thoughts and dreams. He was always such a good friend to Doug and I and he will be greatly missed.

Becky Peters Elías

July 11, 2007

To remember Uncle Pat would take a lifetime, because I have a lifetime and world full of memories of him. We are so lucky to have had such a great uncle, whether we were in Steamboat Springs, Denver, Abaco, Bahamas, Coconut Grove, driving to Orlando to go to Epcot Center when it first opened, weddings, Taos, the yacht in the Cays and even my honeymoon in Monterey! Thank you for being at all those places with me, Pat. You will live in my heart forever. Love, BE

Susan Kohn

July 11, 2007

Although I have not seen Pat in many years the memories that I have will live forever. From our fist meeting. his wedding day and the days of vacation sitting in his living room,or pool, relaxing with the family. These are the memories I will always have with me. We will all miss you Pat and may you rest in peace.

Joe Quinlan

July 11, 2007

Our condolences go out to our cousin Adrienne and family we love you all here in Tucson ,Pat was a great person and when we visited Florida a few years ago he went out of his way to make us feel welcome ,my kids Joey and Korina still remember the boat trip Pat took them on. You will be missed Pat, and well remembered in our hearts. God Bless you all Love the Quinlan family Joe Korina and Joey.

Darcy Quinlan Meyer

July 11, 2007

This past January, for the first time in 15 years, I was fortunate to have had an opportunity to share time with Pat during a Quinlan girls vacation to visit our Florida family. On the first day of the trip, Pat and I sat down for an in-depth, one-on-one conversation during which I came to know why he grew to be such a highly revered person in his family and his community. Tuesday afternoon on the boat with Captain Pat and his first mate, Adrienne, was awesome. Pat was such a good sport. He served as our butler, cameraman, and DJ--all with a smile. Returning to Casa Peters for dinner with Whitney and Tyler allowed me to witness Pat's gifts of love and devotion to his children. That vacation already held precious memories for me and now I treasure those memories even more. I feel truly honored to have spent even that short time with such a gentle man.

Teddy Roy

July 11, 2007

Pat will be missed not only by his direct family but all his friends that he made over his years. I will always cherish the times that I spent with him and the trips to Toas. If it wasn't for him, I would have never learned to ski again. I will miss him. I love him like a brother. He will always be in my heart and thoughts. We could only wish to meet people like Pat in our lives. I am lucky to be one of them.

Lisa, Edgy & Andrew Shallenberger

July 11, 2007

The mornings and afternoons in the park will always be missing you. Love and condolences from across the street.

sara & jarrett nasca

July 11, 2007

we will miss you so much. your love and dedication to our family has taught us all to be strong and there for each other especially in a time like this. we love you very much will miss you for ever.

Marion Bailey

July 11, 2007

I wanted to let everyone know who sees this book that Pat was so loved in our family and that his passing will forever leave a hole in our hearts. He will live on in the memories he gave to us and the children that we will cherish forever.

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