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for Erik Buxton
Eliza King
November 12, 2018
Erik was just a lovely person. Funny, caring... a really good guy.
I still remember getting to go to prom my sophomore year because an upperclassman named Erik Buxton invited me! He touched so many... I am so sorry for your loss.
Barbara & Scott Brown
June 10, 2018
We are so sorry to hear of Erik's passing. A lot of camping & hiking and scout trips and fond memories. Thinking of all his family & fiancé at this time. Death leaves a heartache no one can heal. Love leaves a memory no one can steal. Much love ❤ Buxton family.
Carrie Balch
June 10, 2018
Love you big guy, you were a shining light for many.
To all your loved ones may we all remember him fondly his wise smile spread across his face. And my heart, love, and prayers are with you. See you when I get there angel.
- Carrie Anne
May 29, 2018
Formerly of N.H., I never met Erik but after reading his guest book he seemed to be a wonderful person, so sorry for your loss. Peter Poulios of Mt.Pleasant, S.C.
May 28, 2018
During this time of deep sorrow, may you find comfort as you reflect on Mr. Buxton's accomplishments and the love he shared. Sincere condolences those who loved him.
Donald A. Laliberte
May 27, 2018
So very sorry for your loss Dave & Deb. Unimaginable to lose a child. My condolences to the entire family
Cody Scott
May 25, 2018
Eric, was always a kind, funny, amazing person to talk to! I first met him when I was working at Buckle in Alderwood Mall. Hed always come in my store and shop (being such a tall dude) was hard for him to find jeans his length. Later on found out he worked in the mall as well, at Verizon. Hed always bug me to switch services. I finally did. Knowing Id probally hate the service but it was more than that. He was a friend, I took care of him and he always took care of me. If I needed anything Id be sure to bug him. No matter what Eric always had a positive attitude. He was funny, energetic and outgoing. Later on, I finally moved up to Everett and hed always talk about getting a drink together since closer in location. Sometimes life can be a little busy and we dont slow down for people that deserve it. I will truely miss Eric. He was too positive of a person to be gone yet. I still cant beleive it. My heart truely hurts Eric, miss you man. I hope you Rest In Peace brother.
May 24, 2018
Our condolences to the family. May God fulfill his promise of binding up the brokenhearted. Isa 61:1
edith magoon
May 24, 2018
my heart is broken for rachelle, dave, deb, and jenni, words can not express our feeling of lost of our dear friend. I will miss our night time chats on facebook, and hearing about how happy you too were, plans about the house, your vacation, etc. hearing how much your heart was full of love for rachelle and all the plans for the future. You will be missed by many , and loved by so many more, hope your soaring on angel wings, till we meet again someday! We love yeah bud! Edie and Mike Magoon
Karen Romano-Taylor
May 23, 2018
Dear Erik, I never had the chance to know you, but I do know how very much you were loved by your parents and family. Midst joy and sorrow which seems to be always a part of life, you were a gift to those who were a part of your world and life. You shall be very much missed.
Linda Scerbinski
May 22, 2018
I am so very sorry to learn of Erik's death. Although I did not know him very well when he was growing up in Peterborough, he was in the same class as my son Erek. Deb, I remember one of our telephone conversations when
they were adolescents. I know his family's life will be changed forever now. The blessing in all this- though you will not feel it yet, is that we had our sons for as long as we did and were able to see them successful as young adults in recovery.
Sincerely,
Linda Scerbinski, Erek's mom
Lyn Wiltse
May 21, 2018
Erik was larger than life. Quick to smile and to offer a hug, he put others at ease. My husband and I met him at the Verizon store where he worked. When he learned I was friends with his mom, I'd like to say we got special treatment. But we noticed everybody got that same treatment. And it was special. He was so very kind and attentive. We saw customers choosing to wait for him to be free, even though there were other sales people available. He was the kind of guy you could meet only once and then find yourself missing him somehow. And we do miss him. Our hearts go out to his loved ones.
Nelly C Doyle
May 21, 2018
Rest In Peace my friend.
May 21, 2018
Our sincere condolences to Erik's parents Deb & Dave, his sister Jenni and to Rachelle. We were delighted to get to know Erik through his parents and his family, Mark, Nancy, Nathan and Steve Ergmann. Though he didn't see us often, Erik always had a warm smile and hug- a glad to see you connection with us that I will always remember. I applauded his work successes and his celebrations of sobriety- 'talking' through Facebook. We will miss you Erik.
Pat & Michael Morgan
Todd Grainger
May 20, 2018
Erik was a great pal to have and I'm a better person for having the honor to know him and share a friendship.
Diana Lilla
May 20, 2018
Erik sounds like an amazing son, brother, nephew, life partner and friend to many. With deep sympathy to family and friends in the loss of such a fine young man.
Kathy and Fred Curtis
May 20, 2018
I am so saddened by this news. To lose a child at any age must be almost unbearable. I pray for gods comfort to dave and deb and send sheffer and curtis condolences to the family.
Annette Chiniquy
May 19, 2018
Words can never express the deep impact from such a tragic loss. I will miss seeing the tenderness and great adoration to my beautiful niece. I am heart sick. He is missed. Annette Chiniquy
Tim Stinson
May 19, 2018
Deb, Dave & Jenni, I'm so glad to of been able to know Erik & all of you. I remember when you moved to the neighborhood... Erik was literally larger than life! Everyone that knew him knew his laugh & smile which will not be forgotten. We've been side by side on many adventures growing up and all make me smile when I think back on them. Truly proud to be able to call you a friend & we'll be chillin again one day. Thanks again for everything
Kim Stinson
May 18, 2018
My memories of Erik go back so far...growing up together in the same neighborhood, we spent so many days together and experienced so much as friends. Erik was such a kind person and so much fun to be around. Thanks for the memories Erik!
Natalie and Ryan Atkinson
May 18, 2018
This is a beautiful tribute. We are truly heartbroken at the loss of Erik and will miss his kindness, his smile and those amazing hugs. Thinking of you all and sending so much love.
Helena Schoetzow
May 18, 2018
Beautifully said. His passing at such a young age is a very deep loss. May the memories of his love and laughter support you now and forever. My heartfelt sympathies to Deb, Dave, Jenni, Rachelle and all the family and friends.
Emily Williams
May 18, 2018
My love and heart go out to you all....Deb, Dave, Jenny and Rachelle. Eriks kindness and legacy are reflections of his amazing family. I just cant believe hes gone. So young, so blessed, beautiful and so very kind. I hope to see you all soon and give you big hugs.
Christopher Ross
May 18, 2018
Eric was an amazing human being with a huge heart. I will always remember the crazy times but more importantly, I will remember how he completely did a 180 and turned himself around into the man he was when he passed. I love you brother and I miss you more...
Consuelo Blanco
May 18, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow. Bux you will be missed by many here by your Verizon Wireless family ❤
Nathan Chernis
May 18, 2018
A friend a mentor a great example of what a real man should be .
Eddie Adams
May 18, 2018
It's always the good ones that leave early.
Eddie Adams
May 18, 2018
I'm deeply sorry for your loss Debbie, David and Jenny. Frankly it's the world's loss, Erik was always kind,friendly and easy to talk with whether you were his friend or not. Hearing about his sobriety makes it all the sadder. Life really is better sober! It's heart breaking that god had other plans for him and didn't give him more time to enjoy a sober life with his new home and women. R.I.P Big E, we will all join you someday until then tell Teddy Dalton, Adam Nation-ames,Ian Kelly, Danny Wilson, Erik Scerbinski, Zeb Weston and Matt Hall I say "Hi" and will think of you all from time to time.
Susan Hall-West
May 18, 2018
Erik is Love and Light -- that has not changed. There is not one of you who is not held in my heart, and Deb, you have a special place, always. Deep Peace be yours, in the Light with Love, Firerose
Nan and Kent Higgins
May 18, 2018
Our deepest sympathy to you all on the loss of Erik. You're always in our thoughts and in our hearts, and I hope your good memories will help you through the heartbreak of losing this very special young man. Our love to you all.....
Ellen Smith
May 18, 2018
Dear Deb, Jenni and family, my heart aches for your loss, and sendings comforting prayers your way. Erik did sell me the Cutco knives and they are still being used every day. He was such a gentle giant, funny and sincere. My oldest probably still remembers him telling her to drink lots of milk to grow nice and tall! May you be comforted by wonderful memories. X
Kira Savic
May 18, 2018
What a loss to all of us! We just spoke couple of weeks earlier when he warned me about fake police cars and advised me not to pull over for them at night. He cared about others so greately. My heart breaks for the family. May Erik rest In peace and watch over the loved ones.
Kristen Farmer
May 18, 2018
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always. I didn't know Erik very long but each time he was near, I was always smiling. I am so sorry for your loss!
Riley Neumann
May 17, 2018
Eric, I will miss you and everything you brought to this world. You were/are a great man. One thing that will not change is that everyone is still looking up to you. Rest in piece.
Joshua Holdaway
May 17, 2018
I am blessed and honored to have had the opportunity to witness Erik's passion for life, joy in his relationships and diligence in his ambitious work ethic. Erik, had an undeniable tenderness and charismatic demeanor on the many occasions I had the privilege of spending time together.
I would be difficult to forget the goodness that Erik epitomized...he walked this life with his chin up and let his actions speak for himself. His character, unwavering, his love for life, contagious.
To stand next to him could be likened to having a body guard! His aptitude for good company, and determination to succeed was transient. Through Erik, I learned a great many lessons, and am taken-a-back hearing of his passing, however, I know that the impact of this loss is paramount to those left behind, the family, friends and significant other, but given what this man accomplished regardless of life's uncertainty, i will say to many that will be reading this...his gift to us is hope, for what life can be even to those who struggle similarly, to what can be achieved with the proper mindset and love within the heart, and will leave us all to remember more of what is actually possible because of his life.
Thank you, Erik, for your life and example to so many including myself. You will be missed. RIP Brother.
~Blessings to your family in these tough times.
Love, Terry & Ron Pirini
May 17, 2018
Deb & family, Mark & family - we are so sorry for another heartbreaking loss in your family. My heart goes out to all of you. Sending prayers and hugs to help you thru this difficult time. He is in Heaven watching over you with Nancy.
Kirkland Waterfeont. I love you so so much Erik. Im glad you chose me =O<û
Rachelle witt
May 17, 2018
Elanna and Jeff Thomas
May 17, 2018
We are so sorry for your lost. We are sending you all our love and prayers. Love Jeff and Elanna Thomas
Michelle Carter
May 17, 2018
I am so sorry to hear of Erik's passing. He was a kind polite and hard working young man. My deepest condolences to his family. I am so sorry for your loss.
Amanda Garcia
May 17, 2018
I met you 3 years ago at Verizon during training, you were one of very few people I kept in touch with. You had the biggest personality and and even larger heart. I knew you were going to kill it in this cell phone game...I'm going to miss snapping you and venting about all the crazy customers we get. Rest in peace brother...
Kathy Hoy
May 17, 2018
He was always so nice to be around...rest in peace Erik. Prayers, & Gods blessings & comfort for all you with hurting hearts.
Pat/Dave BACON
May 17, 2018
Thank you Deb and Dave for this beautiful tribute to Eric. Eric was a terrific guy and we shall all miss him and never forget him. Your whole family is in our thoughts and prayers. Sending love at this most difficult time. The Bacon Family xo
Pam St. Mary (formerly DeWitt)
May 17, 2018
I was blessed to have known Erik as a friend of my children and as a student. I've enjoyed following his adult life. So sad to hear of his untimely passing.
Jeneah and Troy Rivera
May 17, 2018
Our hearts and prayers are with you.
Heather Paplow
May 17, 2018
For the brief time I was able to know you I am thankful I had the chance. You're kind hearted and welcomed me into the group with open arms. May your memory always live within those who loved you. I know you're watching from above and keeping your friends, family and especially Rachelle safe. Many prays for you, your friends and family through this tough time.
Seth Mcfeeters
May 17, 2018
Eric was an amazing human. He was a kind, caring, and eager to share his methods of success with others. I always enjoyed our conversations, and I always learned something when speaking with him. My heart goes out to his family and loved ones.
Yedimil Alvarez
May 17, 2018
You shall be missed my east coast friend. Life will be to quiet now that you have left us.
Danielle C
May 17, 2018
This was such a beautiful tribute to him. I'm sure that he's looking down smiling at all of the people that he was close to. He seemed to be an amazing person from the pictures that I would see Rachelle post of them together. He's always with the people that he's close to and the people that he inspired. When you lose someone you love, your heart will always feel empty until you are with them again. But just so know that they never actually leave us, they are always with us even though we can't see them. Prayers go out to his family and Rachelle.
Aimee Tremblay (Croteau)
May 17, 2018
I went to college with Erik and he never did sell me on those knives. We spent many nights cramming for finals, helping each other with homework, watching 24 and having long philosophical conversations. Erik was kind, hilarious and had quite a brilliant mind. Erik will be missed by all who had the privilege of crossing paths with him. My thoughts and prayers are with his family and rachelle. Until we meet again dear friend...
Jon Groesbeck
May 17, 2018
I was sure glad this big guy was my friend. Im a tall guy but Erik made me feel small everytime I stood next to him. I for once could crack the tall jokes around Erik and we both laughed all the time. You were gone to soon my friend. Till we meet again big man!
Bo Graham
May 17, 2018
What a dude!
Mina
May 17, 2018
Youre in our thoughts and prayers were deeply saddened by your loss.
Kevin Isabelle
May 17, 2018
Ive known Erik aka Big E for quite sometime his passion for shedding positive vibes everywhere he went has touched more people then you could imagine. He had more drive and ambition then most people I know. He always stayed in touch no matter how far away he was.. Ill remember the way he said Bro, Dude, or Guy with that distinctive voice he had.. You will forever inspire me to be a better human Big E, love you bro. See you on the flip side brotha!!
Dezi Robinson
May 17, 2018
Fly high.
Laurie Hiestand
May 17, 2018
Thinking of all of the Buxtons. His light will shine on
Amy St. Cyr
May 17, 2018
Dave and Deb, my heart goes out to you during this incredibly sad time. My love and prayers are with you and the family. Rest easy, Erik.
Barbara Conda
May 17, 2018
What a beautiful tribute to Erik!
Our heart and prayers go out to all of you at this difficult time.
Know, that Erik is right there next to God - looking down at all of us in our time of grief, holding our hands. Love to all of you,
Barbara and Bill Conda
Bobbie Gray
May 17, 2018
Doug and I always enjoyed our time with Erik. He was kind, interested in us and did give the best all encompassing hugs. We our heartbroken for his wonderful parents and his sister. He leaves a huge hole in the lives of those who loved him. Sincerely! Bobbie and Doug Gray
Gina Velosky
May 17, 2018
Erik was one of the kindest, funniest, sweetest people I knew from high school. Always quick with a smile, always witty, always personable. He could put one at ease within seconds. He was a gift.
My sincere love and blessings to his family, my friend Jenni and his partner, Rachelle.
Rachelle Witt
May 17, 2018
Erik was my best friend my soul, my twin flame, the love of my life and universe. I wish we had more time together, he definitely brought a lot of light and love into making a life together over the past 5 years. I would chose him a million times over.
I love you with all my heart Erik Hunny Buns, can't wait to be in your arms again.
Tim Begley
May 17, 2018
Im deeply saddened to have heard this news!! My heart breaks for his Family and his other half Rachelle.
Rest Well Big Man!!
Susan Washburn
May 17, 2018
This is beautifully written and a lovely tribute to a fine young man. Erik was a remarkable, loving, kind, young man - beloved by his family. He leaves a powerful legacy of strength, kindness and love. My deepest sympathy to Dave, Deb, Jenni and the family.
N J
May 16, 2018
My deepest condolences to the family. When you lose someone very precious, no one else can really know all that you feel. Please know that many caring thoughts are with you during this most difficult time. Jeremiah 29:11
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