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Lila M. Butters

1933 - 2016

Lila M. Butters obituary, 1933-2016, Stanwood, WA

BORN

1933

DIED

2016

Lila Butters Obituary

Feb. 23, 1933-July 4, 2016 Lila went home to be with her Lord and Savior on the 4th of July, one of her favorite holidays. She was born in Okanagan Wash. To Martin and Gertie Hansen and was the youngest of six siblings. The family moved to the Marysville, Wash. area and she attended Marysville schools. She resided in the Getchell area for over 50 years. In 1950 she married William Thompson and they had three daughters. They were married until Bill's untimely death in 1969. She then married Bennett Butters in 1972 and were married until Ben's passing in 2013. Lila was preceded in death by her parents, four brothers Gerald, Rudy, Howard, and Larry Hansen; also by her precious granddaughter, Jodi Gomez in 2010. She is survived by her three daughters, Jeannie (Dave) Bradford, Louise (Dan) Wray, and Cheryl (Bob- deceased) Long; four stepsons, Mike, Dave, John and Terry Butters; her beloved sister, Lilian Ostbo; and numerous grandchildren and great grandchildren, and many nieces and nephews; as well as many friends and neighbors. Lila was an avid gardener and loved spending time in her pristine yard. She created a beautiful and lovely place to live. She also loved her friends coming over for band practice and many games of dominos with them. You are at peace now with no more pain or sorrow. You are in the arms of your savor and the family that is waiting for you in heaven. Per Lila's request there will be a service with a barbecue and potluck at her house and in her yard/garden that she loved so much on July 30, 2016, at 1 p.m. Please come by and visit, reflect and share your stories. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to your favorite charity.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) from Jul. 17 to Jul. 24, 2016.

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Tamara Ketchell

July 28, 2016

Jeannie, I met your mother once with Terry, had no idea you were related small world. So sorry for your loss.

Chris Nyblod

July 28, 2016

Jeannie I'm sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

July 27, 2016

I'm so sorry I will miss your memorial. I miss wandering around your yard and all your beautiful flowers! I loved all your Christmas decorations and you are the only one that rivaled me in the complete makeover of your home when it came to that season. You and Ben made everyone feel comfortable in your home. Thank you for being the independent soul you were. Jonette and family

July 25, 2016

You had your own way. That is for sure. But Ben loved you with all of his heart and that said enough for me. You will truly be missed.

July 18, 2016

Dear Lila will miss our lunch at Ellies, watching the airplanes come in and out at Arlington Airport

July 18, 2016

Dear Friend I will miss our lunch at Ellies and watching the airplanes come in and out of Arlington Airport. Good times were had by all of us on



Lila all the good times at your house, Lunch sat Ellies Watching the planes come in and out at Arlington Airport Mayves Anderson

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