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Rita Matheny

Rita Matheny was born in 1922, the tenth of thirteen children of James and Ann McGarry, in Belfast, Ireland. Rita grew up an Irish Catholic and was educated by the Sisters of Mercy. Near the end of World War II, she met Frank Matheny, an American civilian working for Lockheed Corporation in Dublin.
Their's was a world-wind wartime romance replete with obstacles. Not only was there a world war going on, Frank was soon to be sent back to the states. Somehow this young man of 24 years had to convince not only Rita's family but also their parish priest to allow her to marry this 'foreigner' from America. In the end it was a letter from Lockheed Corporation, which saved the day. A quote from the letter said: "Insofar as we are able to establish, Mr. Matheny is a single man and of the Catholic faith. We have no objections to his becoming married while in the United Kingdom."
And so it was that the young man who first said, and still does to this day, at the age of 84, "she was the prettiest girl I ever saw and I just had to have her", married Rita McGarry.
When her new husband returned to the United States, she was unable to follow him until after D-Day. The 22 year old girl, who had never been out of Ireland, then crossed the Atlantic by boat and traveled the width of Canada and the length of the West coast of the U.S. by train to meet her new husband and his family in Los Angeles.
The journey's end was short-lived; within a few months they were living in Washington, D.C. Frank was newly enlisted in the Air Force and Rita worked as a proofreader for the British Embassy.
At the war's end, one year later, they were back living in Los Angeles; in 1946, Ellen, the first of their five children was born. By 1947 the young family was on a boat to Australia, where they would take advantage of that country's new colonization policy, which offered free passage to anyone willing to live there for two years. This was an arduous journey with the women housed at one end of the boat and the men at the other. During the voyage a small child died and was buried at sea. Despite the primitive accommodations of the long journey, Rita and Frank always spoke lovingly of the people and of the country and the adventures they experienced there.
By 1950 the family was back in the U.S. living in Manteca, California. There Frank built their first house and Rita had their second child, a son they named Garry (after her maiden name). In 1954 a third child, Michael, was born.
On Saint Patrick's Day 1955, Rita was sworn in as an American citizen, an occasion she was proud of all her life.
In 1956 Rita got her first driver's license; in 1957 her fourth child, Colleen, was born and she had her first auto accident with no injuries, except to her pride.
The following year with the economy in a slump the couple moved their family to a cabin Frank had built in South Lake Tahoe, California. The site was near Emerald Bay and eighteen miles from the nearest store. In this idyllic spot in the woods, the children flourished. It was here that the last of Rita and Frank's five children, Patrick, was born in 1960.
Ellen married in 1964 and two years later Frank took an overseas job building a runway in Vietnam. Left at home with four children and finances thin, Rita took real estate classes and acquired her license. Upon Frank's return in late 1966, the family moved to Lake Stevens, Washington, where their eldest son, Garry, joined the Sea Bees in the Navy.
With Frank now working for the county as a building supervisor and the last of the three children in school, the family purchased a home in Marysville, Washington, where Rita began to pursue her own career. She acquired her broker's license and became involved in local politics. A quote from Finesse magazine in a 1988 cover story summarizes Rita's next phase of life: "In the years that were to follow, this small-statured woman with the strong Irish brogue-and determination to match it-would make her mark in a big way." Her business career began with the opening of a real estate company in downtown Marysville. Not only did she sell property, she also helped implement-bringing companies such as Hewlett-Packard to the area. She joined the City Council, sat on the board of tourism and lent her energies to every city project she came in contact with and a few that she started herself, such as the old truck weighing station on Interstate five just North of Marysville. This she purchased and converted into the Tulalip Visitor Information Center. All this she accomplished by using her two strongest attributes: vision and the ability to organize. The center opened in time for the Washington State Expo in 1986 and was manned by a strong team of volunteers.
Noting Rita's ability to make things happen, Scoop Jackson selected her as a state representative to the Democratic National Convention. She traveled to the East coast to back Jimmy Carter's nomination for the presidency. Running for mayor of Marysville in 1988, Rita was elected and became the first woman mayor in the city. During her tenure she traveled with the heads of the Tulalip Indian tribe to Washington D.C. in an effort to build an overpass linking the reservation to Interstate five and thus opening a pathway to mutual growth between Marysville and the reservation. She continued working for the growth of these two communities for which she always had a warm spot in her heart.
Rita suffered a stroke in 1996 and died January 19, 2006. Four months short of her and Frank's sixty-first wedding anniversary.
She leaves behind her husband, Frank Matheny; five children, Ellen Tinker, RN, of Waldport, Oregon, Rev. Garry Matheny, of Transylvania Mountains, Romania, Michael Matheny, of Minneapolis, St. Paul, Minnesota, Colleen Kim, of Honolulu, Hawaii, and Patrick Matheny, of Marysville; 12 grandchildren; and, at present, five great-grandchildren.
A memeorial service will be held at 11 a.m., Friday, February 3, at St. Mary's Church, 4200 88th Street N.E., Marysville. Following a memorial reception will be held at Baxter Senior Center, 5th and State Street.

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Published by The Herald (Everett) on Jan. 29, 2006.

Memories and Condolences
for Rita Matheny

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Kristin Kinnamon

February 10, 2006

Dear Matheny Family,

I met Rita in the 1990s when I was a reporter for area newspapers. She was no longer mayor, but still active in the community. I was always impressed by her friendship and working relationship with the Tulalip Tribes, which was lacking in city government at the time.

She was also fun to talk to and of course, provided a good quote!

She was a visionary and her mark on the community shows to this day.

Kristin

ciara campbell

February 8, 2006

I am from Belfast, N. Ireland i grew up with my mum telling me stories of Rita. My mum was Rita's niece Mairead Mc Garry. Rita has been an inspiration to us all and i only wish that i could have met her and her family here in America. God rest you soul Rita. You will be forever in our hearts and thoughts.

jim arrabito

February 3, 2006

Dear Frank & family of Rita,

I feel very honered to have been a friend of Rita's just by photographing her for the cover of Finesse magazine. Days, weeks, and years later Rita always stopped to ask about my career, family or tell me anout hers!. She was, as you well know was such a complete Joy to know and treasured friend.

Rita is the kind of woman who brings to life the term ' Amazing grace'. My thoughts & prayers with you now and always.

My Best Regartds ,

James Arrabito & Jessica pavish

Sandy Christensen

January 31, 2006

I first met Frank and Rita when she was mayor of Marysville. I met her when she first came to my shop, Family Hair Care Center, on fourth street. She was always sweet and had a kind word for everyone. She continued coming to the shop for fifteen years and we became good friends. She was always positive and had an uplifting outlook on life. I will miss her and her family stories.



Sandy Christensen

Larry & Dorothy Vognild

January 30, 2006

Rita will always be very special to both of us. She always displayed a positive proudness at being a naturalized U.S.citizen and often made the rest of us aware that we were taking for granted our good fortune to live in this great and free country. We thank her for that.

Pat Olsen

January 30, 2006

I will always remember Rita fondly. Not only did I know her as a friend but I worked with her during Marysville's Centennial when she was the mayor.



It is sad that she had left this rhealm, but who can think of her without smiling? She's no doubt carrying on in heaven where she still has that lovely Irish lilt in her voice; that twinkle in her eye, and that indomitable spirit we all knew and loved so well.



Until we meet to laugh again.



Pat Olsen

Sean O Sullivan

January 29, 2006

May God bless and keep Rita Matheny.Truely a great American!

Dianna Biringer

January 29, 2006

Wow, what a Lady! She will be missed!



When Rita was the Mayor of Marysville, WA, I received a personal call from her inviting me to a historical meeting.



She was such a champion of local business. She called me up during the meeting and presented me with a picture by a local artist....a lovely large picture of a farm scene, a farmer feeding several pigs. She said I just had to have that picture in honor of Biringer Farm's annual "Pigout on the Farm" Strawberry Harvest Celebration as a sponsor of The Marysville Strawberry Festival.



I will always cherish that picture and the wonderful encounters I was priviledged to have with that dear Lady!



Our sympathy to Mr. Matheny and all the family.

Mike and Dianna Biringer

Dane & Jennifer Johnson

January 29, 2006

I am deeply saddened by the passing of your Mother and would like to extend our Heartfelt Condolences to all in the Matheny Family.



It's been 38 or 39 years....



If I may share a funny little childhood memory ?



Every once in a while I think back as I have many pleasent memories of growing up as your neighbor on Lake Stevens.



Numerous stories stick in my mind but for some reason this morning one surfaces in particular as I ponder.



I recall a prank phone calling incident ?



Your mother came home from work driving a green colored Ford Fairlane. I think Gary had the Cougar around this time ? Awsome car!



Shortly after her arrival I heard the familiar Irish chortle, Michael.... Patrick.... it was a call you didn't ignore!



This day she confronted Mike, myself, my brother Todd and Patrick.



Normally as kids we just avoided crossing paths with Mrs Matheny, for obvious Irish Mother reason's as she was very mindful.



As I recall, Mike and I may had been making innocent kid prank phone calls on a prior occasion.



We errantly made one we certainly wouldn't had made if either of us would've realized the potetnial consequences ?



Even though it was just an accident.



Most of these calls were just random dialing and all of a sudden someone was on the line to our surprise ? I really don't recall what we said, if anything ?



Anyway, after she opened the phone bill she had discovered a long distance call to some far off foreign country.



She immediately began a commotion in the kitchen.



As soon as we walked through she immediately saw us and zeroed in.



She showed us the phone bill, right to our faces mind you....



I recall it might had been made to what is now known as the "stan region", Kazakistan, Uzbekistan or.....God only know's?



She was really HOT ! (nervously chuckling as I write)



Mind you we were only 6 or 7 years old at the time and like any of us kids were going to pay her?



Worse yet, admit to it ?



And even worse yet... she would call my Mother and Father!



If my Dad, God Bless his soul, would've been confronted over this... (now I am laughing out loud) he would've surely given me the "board of education"!

(chuckling)



Mike and I vehemently denied mostly because I don't think either of us remembered committing the act or we were just scared of what his Mother would do to us ?



I think both of us were just scared as she was leaning right down in our faces...



I faintly recall the scent of her perfume or maybe it what was what she might had had for lunch. She was real close, in your face close ! (now i am laughing)



Who know's ? (I chuckle now)



To this day I don't know what she did ?



I faintly recall her on the phone to the phone company ?



Poor phone company lady!



Now, as an adult, it certainly wouldn't be a place I'd call $



And I certainly would be as upset with my kids even more so...



Let me tell you as I recall she was HOT, Irish Mother Hot ! (still chuckling)



She could glare right to your soul as only an Irish Mother could.



She was very persistant in her grilling as she wanted to know who made the call!



To this day I've never forgetten the look !



Ever since then, everytime I've heard something Irish, or occasionally read my phone bill for whatever reason, I think back to Mrs Matheny and the glaring look ?



She was a Good Woman and Mother, God Bless her and all of you.

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