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Paul Stanley Obituary

Paul Michael Stanley HENDERSONVILLE, NC- It is with great sadness that the family of Paul Michael Stanley announce his passing on Wednesday, August 12th, 2020 in Hendersonville, North Carolina at the age of 77. Following a long battle with dementia, Paul passed away peacefully at the Elizabeth House. Paul was preceded in death by his parents Gordon and Clara Stanley, and his brothers Fred and Robin Stanley. Paul was a wonderful husband, dad, uncle, brother, grandfather, friend, teacher, and coach. He was loved and changed the lives of many as a teacher and coach. He loved life and his happiness was shown through his smile and laughter. Paul will be remembered by his wife of 34 years and love of his life Jan Stanley. Along with his three children, Jason and his wife Michelle, Tiffany and her husband Robbie, and Brooke and her husband Zach. He is also survived by his siblings Gordan (Nancy), Wesley (Ann), Dale (Edna), Barbara (Furman), Guy (Barbara) and Jeff. He was also loved by his mother-in-law Carol Erickson, and very much enjoyed his grandchildren Jacob, Zach, Cooper, Rylee, and Beau. A special thank you to the Four Seasons Compassion for Life in Hendersonville, NC for their loving care and support. The Celebration of Life for Paul will be held at a later date. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Paul's name may be made out to MRLEC at Mills River United Methodist Church. 137 Old Turnpike Rd, Mills River, NC 28759 or the Four Seasons Compassion for Life at 571 W. Allen St., Hendersonville, NC 28739.

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Published by The Herald on Aug. 16, 2020.

Memories and Condolences
for Paul Stanley

5 Entries

BOYD GAINEY

September 24, 2020

COACHED ME THE FIRST YEAR HE WAS IN CONWAY. WE HELPED HIM MOVE INTO HIS APARTMENT. SUPER GUY. HE WAS ALWAYS A GOOD FRIEND. R.I.P. BOYD GAINEY

Jack Cole

August 29, 2020

I wish everyone could have the benefit of a Coach Stanley in their life. My family was particularly fortunate as he coached me in the late ‘70s at Brevard High, and later, my younger brother at Hendersonville and West Henderson. For me personally, Coach was always a source of support and encouragement. He had a definite gift of being able to sense just when you needed something positive to lift you out of whatever was bringing you down—and he did this regardless as to the source of discord. Whether athletics, academics, or one’s personal life—he never pried—he just was there to offer encouragement and understanding. I always had the sense that he was looking out for me, and years later I have learned that indeed he was, and in ways that I never realized at the time.

The last time I saw Coach Stanley was in 1984, and reading his biography allowed me to appreciate the accomplishments in his profession as well as in his personal life. I am not surprised by this fantastic legacy—it makes me proud. It is obvious that his family and friends share the admiration of a life well-lived. He touched so many, and helped us develop the tools needed to excel and approach life in a positive way. His impact will continue to be felt for generations through those who carry on after him. Well done Coach! We simply cannot thank you enough.

Frank

August 20, 2020

Tiffany and Robbie my prayers for you during these times are for strength and guidance as you all move forward. As you both know, Paul meant so much to so many. He shared his life with all he met and has left his indelible mark on family and friends that will last forever til we meet him again.

Debbie Moore

August 18, 2020

Jan and family,

Curt and I want to thank you for sharing Paul with us over the years. He was influential in Curt's life as a high school football coach, mentor, and friend. Paul influenced the lives of so many people and we are grateful we knew him. When I saw him at MRLEC last year, he was happy, gracious, and so very kind. Our prayers are with you and all of your family.
Love in Christ,
Curt and Debbie Moore

Frank Cope

August 17, 2020

Paul was my friend, mentor, and confidant for 23 of the 25 years that I coached in high school. I am forever grateful for his friendship and life’s lessons that I learned from him. I miss his smile and laughter. His memories are forever burned into my life, and yes, he definitely made a difference in every life he touched. We shared many, many laughs and also shed tears together. Jan, Jason, and Brooke, our hearts may have sorrow now, but if we continue to follow Christ’s teachings, trust, and continue the Faith, Paul will be waiting to greet us along with our Heavenly Father.

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