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Christy
January 2, 2025
Hey Amanda! It's the new year 2025! We are hanging out in galveston and your so vain just came on the jukebox. I have the best memories of you and that day. We miss you so.
clifford neville
December 7, 2023
Happy birthday Amanda.
cliff neville
October 9, 2023
Hi Amanda. Beautiful girl, pretty lady, brilliant woman, funny girl, poet, beautiful heart, thatsmile, gnius poet, etc.
cliff
October 9, 2022
all the grass in texas died overnight. driving in the country yesterday everything was a pretty green; when i drove past the same fields today, they were a thick yellow carpet. i'm not being poetic, just something i noticed.
october 9 is always the worst day of the year, but it's always full of Amanda, so it's also never a bad day.
hi there. wish you were here.
Sean
December 19, 2021
I love you more than the stars
And still
I miss you more
Sean
cliff
December 18, 2021
i just reread again all the things people said about you and to you and i love how much you were loved and how much your friends knew to appreciate you. no, i'm not crazy to think you the greatest, and def one in a series of one. you know i say that every day, just thought i'd put it in writing.
cliff
December 18, 2021
happy birthday baby! i now it's not Pearl Harbor Day anymore, but i sure remembered it then, i just didn't think of sending you a card here. happy birthday, Amanda.
Sean
September 27, 2018
Cleaning out the big house today, getting ready to sell it.
I found some pictures of you and started going down the rabbit hole thinking about the shenanigans we used to get into, the fun we had. The good the bad the awesome and the sad. When we climbed up on the roof of the St Thomas ad building and drank a 12 pack, stealing silverware from the restaurant so when we gave the leftovers to the homeless guys, they would have some dignity while eating.
So many things, so many memories coming out of the things in this house, but the most loving and moving have come from you.
I love you still and I miss you most
Sean
christy young
August 4, 2014
Oh Amanda...we had no clue. We have been looking for you for years. We figured you had either found your home in an artist commune or finally bought your fish taco stand in Maui. We did look for you in Maui, stopped at all the fish stands on our way to Hana. We didn't know you left us. I cried all day Saturday when I found this site. I have been looking on facebook, but I just knew you would never conform to something like social media. I can still hear you laugh, I hear you singing 'your so vain', I have pictures of you on the john Deer tractor with your hat. It seems like yesterday. The last time I saw you was camping on the Frio in 2004. You, with no shoes on the rocks, Soph finding all kinds of things in the garbage...lol. What a trip that was. What happened? Where did you go? We love you so much...and my heart just aches. If anyone wants to contact me, please email me at [email protected].
March 28, 2013
I found some pictures today, so I decided to post them here, I miss you Amanda, very much.
I guess I will always miss you, you left a piece of me empty.
Keep an eye on us babe.
sean
March 28, 2013
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March 28, 2013
February 18, 2013
Words can't begin to express my grief. I have thought of Amanda many times over the last years and could always hear her laughter when i thought of her. It has taken a month for me to finally ackowledge this obituary journal. I have probably looked at her photos at least ten times this last month. It is still so very hard to accept.
What a joy and treasure you being present brought to a room. You had a laugh and a joy that will never be forgotten. I kept looking for you on Facebook and wondering where you were when I came across this.
Someone mentioned you being the brightest star in the night sky and I can only agree that surely you are. I am so sorry I didn't have a chance to say good bye to you. You are loved and your beautiful heart lives on through every person privileged to know you. All the love in my sad heart.
Judith Garrett
amanda
January 13, 2013
Amanda in Hawaii
January 13, 2013
January 13, 2013
November 23, 2012
I was friends with Amanda many years ago. My favorite scrabble buddy! Was just looking up past aquaitances and was shocked to find out about her untimely passing. She was an incredibly sweet and sensitive individual. Can someone closer to her before she passed please contact me. [email protected]
Sean
June 15, 2012
Thinking about you tonight.
I really miss you babe!
December 9, 2011
I missed it again!
I was going to be here, and all sorts of things happened.
Well better late than never hey
Today is Gabriel's 10th birthday, I do so wish you could be around to help us celebrate it.
You will be in my heart tonite though, just as you always are during the important parts of life.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY AMANDA!!
I hope you're tearing it up, up there!!
I love you still
seeyababe
Sean
Erik Sunde
December 7, 2011
Happy Birthday,Sulak!!! Gonna have breakfast with Dan and Gale this morning. We all miss you! Sunde
June, 2003
Charles Carper
December 5, 2011
Sophie, goodwill ambassador
Charlie Carper
August 23, 2011
Sophielophagus
Amanda loving Mexico
cliff
July 26, 2011
hi amanda, i just found this site last week. It made my whole week and beyond to feel and know again how much you were loved and still are. Erik and Sean, I love you both.
May 3, 2011
You don't know me: Lost Maples Canyon, 2000
Japon's, Rice Village, 2000
Charles Carper
March 30, 2011
Charles Carper
March 27, 2011
Bolivar
Charles Carper
January 28, 2011
We didn't get to say goodby.
Erik Sunde
December 8, 2010
Happy Birthday, Sulak! Well I'm a day late but I was in New York City yesterday working. Talked to your Dad, though, yesterday. We all miss you but know you are right here with us! This has been an exciting year. Little Samara is now 10 months old!! You'd really love her! Well, like Sean said, please keep watching over us! Love you and miss you! Sunde
Sean Murphy
December 8, 2010
Happy birthday babe
It's been a really good year for me and I've missed you
G is turning 9 tomorrow and he is turning into quite a cool dude
He is totally into soccer and art
Good combination I think
Amanda I really miss you babe
I love you
I think about you all the time
Please keep watching over us
Sean
December 19, 2009
Remember? Joni said it first: "We are stardust, we are golden, we are billion year old carbon". And our favorite line in Cosmos where Sagan quotes the epitaph of two anonymous astronomers: "we have loved the stars too fondly to be fearful of the night"; but Kate asked anyway, "could you turn the lights up"? I miss you and Sophie, so much, Amanda. -SRD
December 8, 2009
Happy Birthday babe!!
i still always get the day wrong, no matter how much i try.
so here it is, a day late and a dollar short. haha
have a great day wherever you are
i love you
sean
December 7, 2009
Happy Birthday, Sulak! So much has happened this past year. Still miss you. Sunde
July 2, 2009
Hey babe
I'm going to Hawaii on the 22nd
you gonna meet me there?
sean
sean
June 1, 2009
hey babe
i was thinkin about you today
so i came to say hi
love you
sean
December 7, 2008
Happy Birthday, Sulak! Miss ya,
Sunde
October 9, 2008
Hey Sulak! What a year its been, and today you've been in my thoughts more than ever. Dan and Gale and I will go to Galveston this weekend to see ya. Sophie is doing fine. Bindu and Vega are doing fine. Sent Jonah an email today. Just so much to say. But I know you're with us all each and every day. This election would've been right up your alley. We've all been really involved. I know you're up there rootin' for our guy! Sulak, we all miss you so much. You're a good egg! Sunde
Mia Poehlmann
August 4, 2007
I just recently was speaking with an old friend and we were bringing up old St Anne's folks, and was suddenly informed of your passing. What a horrible sad discouraging thing. You were so nice, so pretty, such a unique spirit. I know you are missed dearly by family and friends, but I just wanted to post my condolences, and from what I read, I know that you have blessed your loved ones with your presence, proving to all what a wonderful place we have waiting for us. Much love and prayers to your friends and family.
Platish
June 5, 2007
I found out a year ago that you were surfing the heavens above. I cannot describe in words how beautiful a person you are and how much you mean to my spirit and soul. I think of you often. Your smile, your laugh, and your kindness. This past year has had it's up's and downs, but you are always there.
To me, you are the most unique person that has ever lived. Whenever I decorate my home I think of my green chair on your wall. Only you. I hope Sophie is doing well, "it's hard to be a lady"
Platish.
Sean
March 16, 2007
Hey Babe
I just got back from Maui!
Patti got me a ticket so Icould help her with her computer.
I really missed you while I was there, all the things we did and the fun we had
Patti had a surprise for me when I got there, we went to the kohole festival and Humble Soul played! Humble Soul!!
I kept thinking you should be there with us, because only you ever really understood the beauty, the heart and soul, of his music.
Suddenly, I felt you, and I knew you were there, I could feel you there with us, Patti said she felt it too.
I was so happy, I had tears in my eyes when he sang Unity. I knew you could hear it, I knew you could feel it with me.
I was so filled with joy and happiness. Because now I know for sure that youre with me at the important times in my life, and we can still share them.
I miss you with all my heart babe.
February 2, 2007
Hey Sulak! I really missed you at my birthday. I can't wait to see you again. I miss you so much.
Sunde
December 29, 2006
Hey Sulak! Happy Holidays! They just aren't quite the same without you here.
Sunde
December 7, 2006
Hey Sulak! Happy Birthday! I see your smile just like it was yesterday. I hear your laughter just like it was yesterday. I can reach out and touch you just as if you were with me now, just as I know you are.
Sunde
October 30, 2006
Hey Sulak! Just missin' ya. Sometimes it seems like an eternity, sometimes yesterday. Sometimes I miss you so much it hurts. What I'd give right now to hear you say "Hey, Sunde! Whatcha doin'?" Or just to give you a hug. Or, most of all, to hear your laugh. Damn, I miss you.
Sunde
October 8, 2006
Hey Sulak! Dan and Gale and Tony and I went to the beach today to be with you. I miss you so much - we all do. It is still strange adjusting to your new presence in our lives - there is so much we don't understand and that you now do. We all feel you with us. I know you are with Jonah all the time. He is really a wonderful guy. I can see you smiling now as I write this.
Sulak, the worst of the pain is beginning to pass, finally. Like I said, adjusting to your new presence is strange; it will take time, but its happening.
Sophie is o.k. and is managing well at your Dad's and Gale's place. Bindu and Vega are fine, as is Osa. Elsa Marie says hi and so does Sis and Maria and Kathy.
The day was beautiful and the breeze was cool at the beach. We had a bite at Richard's after spendng some time at the shore.
Sulak, we all miss your physical presence, but we all keep lovin' your spiritual presence. Stay with us - we need you and love you.
Sunde
Sean
July 23, 2006
July 23, 2006
Hey Babe,
I finally came to see you today, I could not come here before, I don't know why.
But here I am, I miss you Demanda, so much more than I ever thought I would.
I miss your smile, that perfect smile that sent shivers down my spine anytime it happened.
I miss your lips, your long legs, your smell.
Your eyes are still the pools where my soul swims.
But I especially miss your mind, I always loved the way it worked, always learning, always teaching, always looking for more to learn,
I reread Lewis Thomas the other day, I've been reading alot of poetry, I never liked it until you showed me the beauty in it. For that alone I am grateful.
I have been reading alot of poetry from this one woman, her name is Mary, she is a genius, you would have loved her. I wish you could read some of her work. I know if you were around I would have run over to you and made you read it! But after that, you would have been in love with her words the way I am.
Thank you for everything you did for me, you more than any other have made me more of a man than i ever thought possible.
I am so sorry I didn't make it to your service, I tried so hard, I didn't have enough cash to buy a ticket, and I wouldn't have made it in time if I had driven. I missed all of it, and for that I am truly sorry.
I talked to Erik a few times back then, He was great! He gave me that bust you got from that ladies garage sale, I know how much you loved it, and I just want you to know it's safe and well taken care of.
I don't know who will miss you more, Erik or me, but hey! that's a good thing, because you will always live on, in, and through us.
I know that you are looking over us now, Me, Erik, Tony, your Dad, and so many others, I bet you didn't know it was going to be such a tough job did you?
But now you truly are the angel we always knew you were. I will miss you so much babe, and I will never forget you.
Gabriel is 4 now, I am so glad you got to meet him, I know he will not remember you personally, but he will know you, i am sure of that, he will know you through me.
I have already taught him some of the things you taught me, already he has the soul of a true artist, and from you, through me, he will always be a beautiful soulful human.
I love you babe, I miss you, and I thank you for being such a beautiful part of my life.
Seeyababe
July 8, 2006
Hey Sulak! Its Saturday morning. I'm getting ready to have breakfast with Dan and Gale. Its been raining here a lot, but this has been a pleasant break from the usual July heat. I miss you.
Sunde
June 14, 2006
Hey Sulak! Just been thinking about you a lot today. I miss you.
Sunde
April 16, 2006
Hey Sulak! Today was Easter and Mom was visiting at the new house. We talked a lot about you. I miss you.
Sunde
Blaine Hull
March 25, 2006
Dear Sulak Family,
I am so shocked and saddened to hear of Mandy's recent passing. There just aren’t enough words to describe a person like her...I remember our St. Anne's days and how grown up and sophisticated she seemed. She had the greatest sense of style and she very generously helped me out with my hair and make-up. Every time I see a pair of guess jeans, I think of her. Mandy was radiant and I can only imagine how many lives she touched. I'm sorry that we were not in contact as adults; I know she was a wonderful woman.
Blaine Hull
March 17, 2006
Hey Sulak! Its late (yet again!). I've been thinking about you a lot today. I miss you.
Sunde
January 25, 2006
Hey Sulak! Its still January 25th so I just thought I'd say "Hey". I miss you.
Sunde
Sandra Vasquez-Brandin
January 12, 2006
Dear Sulak Family, I knew Amanda from St. Anne and remember her beautiful smile. Although I was 3 grades ahead of her, we were good friends. I found out through the St.Thomas Alumanae Newsbook since my brother went there. My brother sends Jonah and the family his condolences as well. Amanda was a kind and caring person to everyone. She will be dearly missed.
January 9, 2006
Hey Sulak: Well, its late in the evening and I'll be going to bed soon. I have been thinking about you a lot tonight. I saw Crystal at Mi Luna the other night. She is so excited about getting the Volvo. The first thing she asked when Tony told her about it was whether you had wanted it that way. I have no doubt that that's the way you want it. So...I fixed it up, including the wrecked rear quarter panel, and she's as good as new! Now for Star Blue! Sophie has been at Tony's for the week while Dan and Gale are at Port Aransas. Amanda, I miss you so much. But I stand out on the deck at night and look at the stars and feel you near me. Your a good egg, Sulak.
Sunde
January 2, 2006
Hey Sulak! Its a new year now and you are always in my thoughts. Happy New Year, Amanda.
Sunde
Great pigtails!
December 26, 2005
You loved the outdoors!
December 26, 2005
December 25, 2005
Hey Sulak! Its Christmas, so here's a big Merry Christmas! I miss you.
Sunde
The Avocado Goddess
December 14, 2005
5th Avenue here we come!
December 14, 2005
NYC Nightlife! They couldn't hold a candle to you!
December 14, 2005
Gramercy Park, New York City
December 14, 2005
Amanda and Erik and Sophie (Can you guess where?)
December 14, 2005
December 14, 2005
Hey Sulak! Its taken me a while to write again - sorry. I've been outside on the deck talking to you, thinking about you, and knowing that you are with us all. We really DID miss you so much on your birthday. Your Dad and Gale and I had dinner at The Daily Review. We talked a lot about you and lots of other things too. I miss you, but I know you are with us in everything we do, every step we take. Here's a big, BIG hug from me!
Sunde
December 12, 2005
hey mandy. we all really missed you last week on your birthday.
j
Denise Vianco
October 29, 2005
Dear Danny, Judy & Jonah,
We are all here together reading the wonderful tributes to Mandy. She was a spectacular little girl. She is always in our prayers. We have wonderful memories of all of our times together playing games, family holidays and growing up together. We are here for you always and we love you.
Aunt Irene, Eddie & Rosie, Denise and Mitch, Anna and Hailey
Rick Parker
October 28, 2005
We used to communicate only in verse, we only met a few times. I wrote this once as a response to Amanda, and it seems fitting now.
expanded like the universe
or like a balloon
or does it depend'
on the definition.
expand a balloon too much
and it ceases to be.
but I understand
My condolences to her family and friends, she touched so many more people than you even know. I hope they have tractors up there.
Tessa Lesley
October 25, 2005
Judy,
I met you in Houston before you left to live in NC. Arnold, Tim and Dana are my cousins. I am very sorry to hear about your daughter Amanda. My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family during this difficult time.
God bless.
Your Laughter Will Always Fill Our Hearts
October 19, 2005
Dinner Party at Erik's
October 19, 2005
Teresa Peavey (Sulak)
October 19, 2005
Uncle Dan, Judy, and Jonah-
Although it has been years since I had seen Amanda, I still remember the summer of 1974! Amanda and I played, and I painted those Raggedy Ann and Andy pictures for her room. I understand that she was a wonderful poet and artist, and will be missed dearly! My family and I send our condolences to you all in this difficult time. Please know that she will be with us all forever even if only in our hearts.
God bless you all! Teresa,Steve,Dan and Eric Peavey
Dawnetta Rakow
October 17, 2005
Mandy was the first person I met at my audition for HSPVA. Years later, in my early twenties, I ran into her in Montrose. I hadn't seen her for years, but I spotted her smile and knew immediately who it was. Her talent is remembered and her kindness also.
lisa wanner
October 17, 2005
Dear Sulak Family,
Our prayers and thoughts our with you in this time of saddness.
Mandy ,even though I have not seen you since middle school I can still see your smile and hear your laughter. You touched my heart and I know you continued touching everyone ones heart you ever met and will continue in heaven.
your in our prayers,
Lisa, Amy and Karen
Kicking back with a cup of coffee
October 14, 2005
Shopping for Shoes in Mexico City
October 14, 2005
Amanda in Mexico City
October 14, 2005
BARBARA CARLSON
October 14, 2005
TEARS ARE OFEN THE TELESCOPE THROUGH WHICH WE SEE FAR INTO HEAVEN..MY PRAYERS ARE WITH YOUR FAMILY..
Sue Dailey
October 13, 2005
I remember a precious little girl with bangs and a great big beautiful smile. Mandy (with little brother Jonah tagging along), would come to our house and play with Jessica when they were in the first grade at West U Elementary. I always enjoyed this delightful child. My heart is heavy with sadness, as my thoughts and prayers are with Mandy's mom, dad and Jonah. Just wanted you to know that even though our little girls grew up, we will always remember Mandy as a sweet, beautiful and very special little girl.
Alex Mossler
October 13, 2005
I wanted to let you know that you are all in my prayers.
holly carlson
October 13, 2005
Family and friends of Mandy,
i am so sorry for your loss but know that u will see that beautiful smile again! i can remember Mandy in middle school... most popular girl, trend setter, smartest, prettiest! She made an impact on me for sure! I pray for u all! Shine on Mandy...And rest in peace!
Jessica Dailey
October 13, 2005
To The Sulak Family,
Mandy's light will never fade, it will shine on you forever. That smile, that beautiful smile, is unforgettable. It had been many years since I had seen Mandy, but I have never forgotten that smile, those dimples, and her brilliance. I remember how she loved to write, to create a world of her own. She was simply brilliant. And that was only 6th grade!!! Mandy, with God, you are now in the place of your dreams and imagination. God Speed.
Such a Wonderful Smile!
October 13, 2005
Barbarella Night!
October 13, 2005
Merry Christmas!
October 13, 2005
Luke Hamilton
October 12, 2005
"In our sleep, pain which cannot forget falls drop by drop upon the heart until, in our own despair, against our will, comes wisdom through the awful grace of God."
Aeschylus
There will come a point in time when we shall all be together again. Until that hour rings, we'll miss you Mandy.
Justin Hamilton
October 12, 2005
Jonah, Dan and Judy:
My heart extends to you in this difficult time. And I know that the memory of Mandy will burn bright forever.
My thoughts and prayers are with you always.
Dana Lesley
October 12, 2005
Judy, Dan, and Jonah, Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this time. We all love you and Mandy is now being held in the arms of the angels. Dad, Granny and Paw Paw welcomed her home and will watch over her til we get there. Love, Dana
Richard and Sylvia
October 12, 2005
Be known that although we have not spoken, our love, thoughts and prayers are with you Gale and Dan and the entire Sulak family.
Deirdre
October 12, 2005
All of our love and prayers are with the enitre family at this time of need. Prayers of peace come from each of us including Matthew who sent some Angels last night in his prayers to you for your comfort. Love always to you Gale and Dan.
Erik Sunde
October 12, 2005
Hey Sulak! I'm gonna miss you so very, very much. I'm crying as I write this, but underneath my tears is the memory of your beautiful smile, your caring kindness, your innocence and love. Your Dad is hanging in there and I've been spending a lot of time with him. He loves you so very much. Jonah is on his way to Houston today. Tony is hanging in there too. We'll all be there tomorrow along with Sophaloafagus. She's in good hands now with Dan and Gail. Remember, Sulak, in Heaven you have to keep your room clean! Good-bye, Sister. You are now the angel I know you always were.
Bernie Maczka
October 12, 2005
Judy, Dan and Jonah,
Precious Mandy is in our hearts and prayers, as are each of you. May all the good times of years past come flooding back to comfort and sustain you in this time of grief.
Love, Bernie and Frank
wanda
October 12, 2005
I now have one more angel to watch over me - spread your loving wings and fly high my special friend, you will forever be in my heart.
Erik Sunde
October 12, 2005
Hey Sulak! I'm gonna miss you so very, very much. I'm crying as I write this, but underneath my tears is the memory of your beautiful smile, your caring kindness, your innocence and love. Your Dad is hanging in there and I've been spending a lot of time with him. He loves you so very much. Gale is his rock. Jonah is on his way to Houston today. Tony is hanging in there too. We'll all be there tomorrow along with Sophaloafagus. She's in good hands now with Dan and Gale. Remember, Sulak, in Heaven you have to keep your room clean! Good-bye, Sister. You are now the angel I know you always were.
Gina Brunner Robinson
October 12, 2005
May your wonderful memories of beautiful Amanda bring you comfort. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Robert Marc
October 12, 2005
Words fail - don't they always? - but from afar they are sometimes all we can use to show our love. Sometimes they are all we have all our lives. Love you.
Chadwick Peters
October 12, 2005
My prayers are with the Sulak family in this time of grief and loss, and Amanda, I know your great spirit and lovely energy is smiling down on us....
Hubert R. O'Neal
October 12, 2005
Dan
My thoughts and prayers are with you in the time of loss and sorrow. God Bless you.
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