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Andrew Findlay Obituary

ANDREW JACKSON CHANDLER FINDLAY, age 27, born on February 4, 1982, in Houston, was called home to be with the Lord, on Saturday, June 13, 2009. From the moment of his birth, Andrew engaged life at full tilt. Beginning at the age of four, he amazed his family and friends with his natural athletic ability to master the game of baseball. After a successful career at Kempner High School, Andrew went on to set a number of school records at Trinity University. His love for his family, friends, and all of the animals that he rescued, was boundless. In return, they all loved him; his enthusiasm; and his extraordinary sense of humor. He played the game of life passionately, just like he played baseball, the sport he so loved and excelled at. Andrew is survived by his parents, Robert and Fabienne Findlay; and his brother, Robert Findlay. Friends are invited to visitation with the family from 6:00 PM to 9:00 PM, Wednesday, June 17, 2009, at Earthman Southwest Chapel, 12555 South Kirkwood, Stafford. Funeral Services will be held at 2:00 PM, Thursday, June 18, 2009, at Sugar Land First United Methodist Church, 431 Eldridge Road, Sugar Land, with the Rev. Martin Nicholas, officiating. Interment will follow at Forest Park Westheimer Cemetery. For those desiring, memorials may be made to Friends for Life Animal Shelter and Sanctuary, at www.nokill1.org.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jun. 17, 2009.

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Pat Larson

July 3, 2009

Friends For Life Animal Shelter appreciates the thoughtfulness of Andrew's family in asking that contributions be made in his memory to our animal rescue organization. Our sincere condolences to all who knew and loved Andrew

Amanda Escamilla

June 29, 2009

Andrew you will be missed by me. You were my BIG work brother. In the 2 months that I have been at DE you grew on me, your humor and laughter will be missed. I know that you are in a better place LIVING IT UP in your new life. Findlay Family you are in my thoughts and prayers I hope you find strength to move forward as Andrew would like for you to do.

XOXO
Amanda Escamilla
DE Co-Worker

Theresa Trujillo

June 20, 2009

Dear Findlay Family,
I was touched by all the love at Andrew's service. He was a sweetheart, I enjoyed his presence at the office. He and I went round and round when it was basketball season because I'm a Boston Celtic fan. I will truly miss him picking on me and sending the text messages when watching my team. Next season will not be the same. I know that there is a God and I know that he has Andrew sitting right next to him, I just hope God is a Rockets' fan!

Theresa Trujillo
Direct Energy

Mary Etta (Gaut) Farquhar

June 19, 2009

Fabienne:

Even though you and I have lost contact with each other and have gone our separate ways, my husband, Jack, and my sister, Correll, wanted to let you and your family know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. There are no words that can express your feelings, but I am certain that your strong faith will sustain you and God will comfort and guide you with his love, peace and grace during this difficult time and through your grief.

With our love,

Mary Etta (Gaut) and Jack Farquhar
Correll Corbett

June 19, 2009

I only knew Andrew briefly, we spent a wonderful afternoon in the corporate suites watching the Houston Texans dominate! In that ONE day I was instantly taken in my his lust for life and his wonderful sense of humor. Needless to say, we had fun. There were a couple of other times he visited with me in my office when he was downtown but those were the only times I was ever face-to-face with Andrew. In listening to the wonderful words that were shared at his funeral it's evident that I only got a small dose of Andrew's wonderfulness. I will miss him and he will be remembered fondly by me. God bless your family and give you strength to get through this.

Roxanne McFarland
CenterPoint Energy

Amanda Jackson

June 18, 2009

Andrew Jackson Chandler Findlay -
You will be missed Rew. You had a special way of reaching out and leaving your mark on many hearts. We'll remember you always!
Findlay family, you're in my prayers.

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.

As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even to the dull and the ignorant, they too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit.

If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time.

Exercise caution in your business affairs, for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals, and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love, for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly to the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness.

Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace in your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world.

Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

Jayni Mosher

June 18, 2009

Fabienne and Rob:

The thoughts and prayers of many are with you both. We all grieve for the loss of your wonderful son. I wish I could have known him, but I almost feel as if I did after reading what everyone has said here, and what I heard from others at the visitation last night.

I hope you can take comfort in knowing that Andrew is in a better place, and that all he would want is for his family to be all right until you are reunited with him.

Please never hesitate to call me if there is anything at all I can do to help you in any way. Mike is also deeply sorry for your loss. He asked me to let you know that he, too, is anxious to reach out to you in any way he can to help.

Love,

Troy Holt

June 18, 2009

Mr. and Mrs Findlay and Family,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Andrew. We spent many years playing ball and hanging out in Providence, I have so many great memories that I will never forget. My prayers are with you and the family.

Sarah Jane Dees

June 18, 2009

I'm so terribly sorry to hear of the untimely passing of Andrew. Growing up next door, I've got many wonderful childhood memories of him, Robby, my brothers and me. My deepest sympathies go out to the Findlay's for your painful loss.

Joshua Dufresne

June 18, 2009

My condolences on the loss of your son and my cousin, Andrew. Even though I never was able to meet him, from everything that I have heard about him, he was a very great and gracious person.

Adam Frey

June 18, 2009

Andrew will be missed as we all remember some really great times we had as teammates. Further, he will be missed as a man who would give anything for a friend. My prayers are with Andrew and the Findlay family.

Richard & Linda Clayton

June 18, 2009

Fabienne, Rob, Robbie

It is said that a picture is worth a 1,000 words. The pictures on display exemplified this statement.

While there were hundreds on available to view it would only be the the first chapter in Andrews auto-biography.

His room-warming smile, his brooding concern for others, his exuberance and passion for "THE game".

His place in our lives cannot be replaced.....NOR would we ever consider it....as he was in our lives the better part of a quarter of a century...it is but a short time compared to the eternity we will remember Andrew.

God's Peace and Understanding to you all.

Crystal Fontenot

June 18, 2009

Findlay Family-
You are in our thoughts and prayers!

Crystal Fontenot, Matthew Heath, Cindy Perkins

Chase Tettleton

June 17, 2009

I really enjoyed playing ball with Andrew. As good of a teammate as he was, he was an even better friend. If anyone needed anything, he was the person to call. He was loved, and he will be missed.

Robert and Fabienne, my thoughts are with you during this hard time.

June 17, 2009

We hope that you find comfort in the memories and the fine accomplishments of your son Andrew. Andrew made a very loving and caring impression on everyone that he met, including Dave and I.
Our thoughts are with you in your time of grief.
Dave and Debbie Aitken

Vicki Gary

June 17, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Findlay,

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Andrew was a great friend to me and always will be. He was always there for me when few people were. He is truly one of a kind and I will never foget him or how much of an impact he had on my life. Your son was a great man...I will always miss him..

June 17, 2009

Rob, Fabienne and Family:

We are so sorry for your loss. We can only imagine what you must be going through. Your family and Andrew will be in our prayers.

Paul, Patty, Steven and Michael Ahrens

Paul Messer

June 17, 2009

I worked with Andrew for 2 years and can't say enough about his personality and his heart. He had a great sense of humor and cared greatly for everyone. I enjoyed the short time I spent with him and feel greatful for knowing him. He will be greatly missed!

Vivian Moseley

June 17, 2009

Dear Findlay Family~

Andrew was a great friend to my son, Mike Kruszynski, and a larger-than-life inhabitant of this earth. When it came to living, Andrew was all-in; we can learn from that. Although Andrew will be sorely missed, the memories of fun times he and Mike shared over the years will live on. My heart grieves for your loss; you are in my prayers.

Alice Puig

June 17, 2009

Dearest Fabienne and family, I only knew Andrew through the stories of his accomplishements and knew he was special. He brought you so much joy! I pray that the good Lord bring you strength and courage during this very difficult time.

Craig Byrnes

June 17, 2009

I am shocked and saddened and my prayers are with you all. I don't know how or why his time came so soon. Its been many years since SCS and little league baseball, but I know Andrew is with Jesus. I will cherish the fond memories from our childhood. . . I only wish we could have kept in touch. . .

Darren Bray

June 17, 2009

Findlay Family, I am truly sorry for your loss, at this momment i do not have the words.. i worked side by side Andrew "DREW" everyday, and fell in love with his passion for life! he was a great co-worker, but became a better friend.. i will forever think about and miss him
Darren Bray

June 17, 2009

Fabienne and Robert,

Tom and I and our family are so very, very sorry. Our hearts are with you at your loss of this fine, fine young man. We loved Andrew so much and he will be missed. He was one of my favorite of Nick's friends and I know how deeply Nick loved him. We will keep the prayers going that your strong faith and time will heal this deep wound.

All My Love,

Michele Purgason

Darren Bray

June 17, 2009

Mr. and Mrs. Findlay,
I loved working with Andrew.. he became one of my best friends... talked to him on a nightly basis, he was passionate about all in life... and he expressed his love for you two daily... he will forever be missed by me!

Darren Bray

June 17, 2009

Andrew, I worked with you side by side for 1 year... i was amazed with how passionate you were about life,friends, and work... you are irreplaceable and will forever be missed by me! I love you Bud!

June 17, 2009

Dear Fabienne, I don't know if you even remember me from so long ago, Marguerite Dawson. I had three boys. The oldest son Alan went to College Park Baptist Pre School, I believe with Robbie. I saw your son's obituary in the paper today and had to write with my deepest condolences. I have been through the loss of my second son on April, 11, 2008. He,too, was only 27. I wish I could give you a hug. May God keep you and your family in his protective embrace. Sincerely, Marguerite Dawson (Krenek), Alan Dawson and William Dawson

Carol, Michael & Matt LeLaurin

June 17, 2009

We have such fond memories of all of you back in the Kempner glory days. Seems like just yesterday. My heart breaks for you. I hope your family can find comfort in knowing he is safe and at peace.

Raquel Diaz

June 17, 2009

Findlay Family,

My prayers are with you all at this time. Andrew will be missed here at DE.

Sandra Flores

June 17, 2009

Andrew, you will be truly missed but never forgotten by us here at DE!... God Bless.

Eleanor Beebe

June 17, 2009

Fabienne, my heart is aching for you. My prayers are with you and your family as you navigate through this terrible loss. Love, Eleanor Beebe

cassandra singletary

June 17, 2009

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2009

June 17, 2009

Fabienne and Robert,

May God comfort you in your time of grief. Andrew will be sorely missed by all.

Julie Evans

roy evans

June 17, 2009

I'm truly so sorry. I can't imagine

Mary Jean Grammens

June 17, 2009

Fabienne,
My heart is aching for you. May your strong faith sustain you in this time of grief. I will keep your family in my daily prayers. Love, Mary Jean

Barbara Dufresne

June 17, 2009

My Deepest love for you at this time. I wish that I had been able to talk to your Handsome fella. This really sound silly but I just don"t know what to say. Love you al very much. Barbara

Ruben Rodriguez,Sr.

June 17, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

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