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Chip Nall
August 7, 2009
I was fortunate enough to sing for the folks at BLANCO`S last night (8-6-2009) The dream lives on. I never knew Barry until last night. I received an introduction the moment I walked through the door, even though we lost him over two years ago. Country Music lovers should be so thankful to Barry and all the fine folks at Blanco`s.
Tirso Gonzalez
March 24, 2008
Barry was my roommate with johnny yelverton at Allen Military Academy on 1964.He was very honest and sincere with all the students, His human quality and spirit of service to everybody, was Barry's presentation's card. I remember Him as a good friend. My sincere condolences to his relatives. Atte Profr.Tirso A. Gonzalez.
leilani hull
July 1, 2007
So many people have been talking about Barry, he and Blancos are legendary. I didn't go very often & missed him when he wasn't there, the music and crowd always seemed more festive when he was around. My dad was also a doc, when we met I remember a toast he made to "good medicine" as he grinned with a little sparkle in his eye. A friend wrote a song about how she hopes they have guitars in Heaven, wish we'd made it to the service. Another friend just reminded me of how much fun we had with Barry the last time Clay Blaker played, and others we might not see again, and that we should get out more often. My dad, who would not go to funerals, said pay our respects while we're still alive and able! He is leaving mucho many good memories.
Jan Becker Dean
June 19, 2007
I think that I may have been Barry's 1st girlfriend. We met at Lamar during summer school.He was so sweet and endearing even at the age of 15.I had "skipped" a grade,a common practice at the time and probably felt so much more sophisticated than Barry.I wasn't but I'm sure I felt that way.
Barry gave me a beautiful pin for my birthday that I still wear. It's a lovely gold iris or orchid, with a small pearl in the center of the bloom.
I ran into Ernest at the Galleria, years after we had all married. At that time, Barry was doing graduate work in AZ or NM.I'm just sorry I never knew about Blanco's. Otherwise,we would have been there.
With condolences to the DeBakey family,
Jan Becker Dean
Hattie Cataldie
June 19, 2007
I treasured our time together. I will see Barry again in Heaven.
With Love and Happy Memories.
Hattie Cataldie
Valarie Gibbs
June 17, 2007
It was with great sadness that I recently learned of Barry DeBakey's passing. Over the 30 years that I worked for Dr. Michael DeBakey, I was fortunate to have had contact with Barry. He always had a big hug and smile for me and I will never forget him. He was always so considerate and thoughtful and always took time to visir.
I would like to express my deepest sympathy to Dr. and Mrs. Michael DeBakey, Olga DeBakey, Dr. Lois and Miss Selma DeBakey and to Barry's son and to all the DeBakey's.
Holly Hughes
June 17, 2007
When Hondo's closed many years ago, the regulars were thrilled to have it reopen as Blanco's. Barry welcomed our motley crew with open arms and embraced the Hondo's traditions. Under Barry’s ownership, that little lot on West Alabama became a Houston legend and a jumping point for many talented musicians.
It didn’t matter if you hadn’t stopped in for 10 years or more, Barry knew you were there and welcomed you “home” again. Deepest condolences to the DeBakey family and the Blanco’s family and friends.
Sharon Benson
June 17, 2007
To the DeBakey Family:
It is only recently that I leaarned of Barry's death. It has been many years since I last saw Barry however I reflect on the good times. Back then we belonged to the same cultural and social organization, bowled in the same bowling league and had many mutual friends. We had lots of good times at Blanco's. It saddened me to hear of his death.
Lisa Whitaker
June 14, 2007
Please accept the sincere condolences from the Board of Directors and the Staff of The Living Bank
We wish to thank Barry for his support of The Living Bank's mission to save lives through organ donation.
danny roy young
June 11, 2007
We were in Switzerland playing a gig and got in early this morn and got the news. Wanted to thank the whole family for giving us such a good guy and allowing us to pass such a great time for the last 15 years playing "The Last Honky Tonk Inside the Loop" Vaya con Dios, Amigo. "Rubboarder with The Cornell Hurd Band"
Lisa Meinardus - Boenker
June 10, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Barry always had a smile on his face and a funny story to share. He will truly be missed! I feel blessed to have known him for many years.
Michael & Alice Rice
June 10, 2007
We feel privileged to have known Berry and to have him as a friend. When visiting in Houston one of the highlights was to spend time with Berry. We will never forget him.
Nan Maines
June 10, 2007
I remember when Barry first bought Blanco's (remember when it was Hondo's?) and saved it from closing. What a great guy he was! I know an FFF used to be a traditional birthday drink but, will somebody please order one in Barry's memory for me? I wonder if there's two-steppin' in Heaven.....
Andy Lockwood
June 8, 2007
Dear Barry,
We were supposed to see you at lunch today. You were never without a big smile and friendly greeting at all of our lunch meetings organized by HBen to renew old highschool and college friendships. You made Blanco's a great place for things like that. Instead, today I heard some of your family and friends talk about your many fine qualities and tell happy or funny stories about you and your life. You are missed by many. May you rest in peace and God bless your soul.
Larry J Miggins
June 8, 2007
To the entire DeBakey family, Our Hearts and Love go out to you in this time of sorrow but Barry has "Gone home with the Armadillo" now and he is at Peace. Thanks for introducing all of us to great national and local entertainers that we not only watched but also met as we all two-stepped the night away. Thanks for letting me sit at your table. God Bless from the entire Miggins Family.
Pam Miller
June 8, 2007
You will be greatly missed by all those who were fortunate enough to know you. My heart and prayers go out to Dennis, Mikey, Dr. Lois; Miss Selma and to your son.
Tom Thomas
June 8, 2007
I'm very saddened to hear the news about Barry. My condolences to Barry's family and to everyone at Blanco's. You will be missed.
Debbie Parnell
June 8, 2007
Our thoughts and prayers are with the family in your time of grief. May your memories of Barry bring you comfort and peace. Barry was a kind hearted man who knew exactly what the meaning of a True Friend meant. Everytime you walked into Blanco's, you knew you would be treated like family. He will be sadly missed. Former employees of Hoss Plumbing.
Bill Sadler
June 8, 2007
To Denis and the Debakey Family: So sorry to hear of your loss. Arturo and I had the pleasure of visiting with him early in the week and he was a deligthtful person. God bless and comfort all of you in your time of sorrow.
Bill Sadler
Cynthia Lane
June 8, 2007
To the family of Barry, I was very saddened to hear of the sad news. Dr. Michael Debakey, May you find comfort in family and friends in your time of sorrow. God bless all!
Hank & Jan
June 8, 2007
Our deepest condolences to the Debakey family and his many other friends.
Barry was a true gentleman, a good friend an dedicated member of HLSR.
DeeDee Gonzalez
June 8, 2007
My sincere condolences and deepest sympathy to the DeBakey family. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Janet Coe
June 8, 2007
I only met Barry once but he left me with a lasting impression and it is a memory I will always cherish. His brother Ernest and I were very close friends. Ernest always talked about Barry and his love for his brother, so I always felt like I knew Barry even before I had the opportunity to meet him. My thoughts and prayers go to the DeBakey family and the Blanco's family. May you rest in peace Barry!!! God Bless!!!
Campbell Green
June 8, 2007
Dear Barry,
You have been my life-long friend and pal. Too many memories to write here. You know. I will never forget you and our times together. My love to your family at this time.
Campbell Green
Kent Fleshner, Bobby Sublett, Andrea Sander / from Brand Coffee Service
June 8, 2007
Farewell from your friends at Brand Coffee! Your many years of advice and friendship will always be greatly valued. Oh, how we enjoyed "Pork Chop" Thursdays at Blancos. Our deepest sympathies to the entire DeBakey family.
Pam Coston
June 8, 2007
God Bless the DeBakey family
James Jackson
June 8, 2007
Though I only had the opportunity to meet you for brief conversations and a hand shake across the fence at the bay, you will be missed. You were a fine neighbor.
Paul White
June 7, 2007
May you rest in peace my friend. I will miss you greatly. Thanks for your kindness, your friendship, and all the things you did for other people.
Carol Kindel Flack
June 7, 2007
What fun we had at Lamar. Those great parties senior year. Barry was a great guy and will be really
missed. Sorry I can't be there for the service. Your family are in my
thoughts and prayers.
Carole Charlton Lubritz
June 7, 2007
To the DeBakey Family,
Barry was always a very dear friend and he truly loved and lived life. I knew Barry since Jr. High School and he stood in my wedding and I will miss him.
Jack Varcados
June 7, 2007
Barry,
You were a great friend.
You are in my prayers.
Joye Harris
June 7, 2007
I have always love to dance and going dancing there was always special. I used to go in the afternoons and play "42" at Barry's table.(That was in the 80's.) Boy ! Could he play ! Never won a game. Thanks for the memories.
Joye Harris
Curtis Lutringer
June 7, 2007
Barry,
Knowing you was the greatest and memories treasured. I selfishly wish we had more time. Everytime I walk into your old travel trailer, I will think of you and of the laughter we shared. You found the humor and best in all situations... Thanks for all the Blanco's experiences, for your generousity and kindness. You will be greatly missed. You never stopped giving - from hosting our many BBQs at Blanco's to your visits to my place in San Leon.
Prayers for peace and strength for your family and all the Blanco staff...
john yelverton
June 7, 2007
though we haven't spoken in thirty years your passing has touched me as having lost my best friend as it was for so long. farewell and God speed
Tom Lawless
June 7, 2007
So sorry to hear of this loss of a kind and generous man. For some 15-16 years we had our annual Christmas Party at Blanco's with Barry and Karen taking good care of us. As a fellow Lamar alumnus, we have know him and the family for many years. My thoughts and prayers are with the family...both the DeBakey and Blanco's family.
Regina Pappas Seale
June 7, 2007
Dear Dr. DeBakey and Family,
It saddens my heart to hear of Barry's passing--he far too young. My fondest memories of Barry go back to the times that his sweet mother was living--as you know, she was a dear friend of my own beloved mother.I was always moved by Barry's kindness and devotion to her. Barry, clearly, was one who understood and lived the principle that "we walk through this life, but once, and therefore, any good that I may do, let me do it now." My mother always said that the mark of a person was whether or not they were too busy to be kind--Barry was never too busy.
Barry, you are remembered and will be missed.
With deepest sympathy and love,
Regina Pappas Seale
Leslie Travis
June 7, 2007
I never was much of a dancer when I went to Blanco's to enjoy the company and music. But every so often Barry would grab my wrist and make me dance with him. It was a "chore" I'll always remember.
Rebecca Taylor
June 7, 2007
What a delightful, kind, and endearing man! You will be dearly missed, my Friend. There never seems to be enough time . . .
Henny Banning
June 7, 2007
BARRY: Thank you for your example of what true friendship represents, which I shall treasure the rest of my life. You are sorely missed already. With my love and heartfelt prayers for you and your family~ALWAYS. I am so~so sad right now.
Parker Detweiler
June 7, 2007
Thanks Barry for your friendship the minute I walked into Blancos, Rodeo 1992. Twice a week for the next 9 years you never failed to greet me. Always invited at your table and bought me a drink once. I'll miss your smile and hospitality...
Sherrie Davis
June 7, 2007
Will not be able to make the funeral or wake - Knew Barry for almost 25 years - a regular at Blanco's and many of the various functions that he put on. Sending my regards on the too early loss.
Katherine Anglin
June 7, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Jacob Reiner
June 7, 2007
Barry,
You will be greatly missed. You created something in this world that can never be matched. You created a place that influenced many friendships, many with people that didn't really have much in common. But that was you, you would talk and befriend anyone. You were so charitable, whether it was FFA or other organizations around Houston. And oh Barry could you dance, twirling women around every girl want to dance with you. You were so kind hearted, and sweet.There will never be another like you. BARRY WE LOVE AND MISS YOU!!!!
Nancy and David Beck
June 7, 2007
Nancy and David Beck
Monique Long
June 7, 2007
Thank you for all the fun and wonderful memories I have of spending time with all my friends at Blanco's! You always treated us like family. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.
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