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JOE LUCIA, SR. Sept. 3, 1915 - Sept. 26, 2004 Joe Lucia, Sr., former owner of Rudi's Restaurant, board member of Uptown Association and a lifetime Director of the Houston Livestock Show and Rodeo, passed away peacefully Sunday, September 26, 2004. A native Houstonian, he attended Rice University, where he played on the tennis team. Joe Lucia was preceded in death by his parents, Vincenzo and Pauline Lucia; brothers Emmanuel Lucia, Sam Lucia, and Vincent Lucia; sisters Annie Matranga, Newt Crapitto, Pauline Filippone, and Josephine Todaro. He is survived by his brother Anthony J. Lucia; daughter Carmen Lucia Dickerson, son Joe Lucia, Jr. and wife Cindy; grandchildren Catherine Dickerson Horne and husband Nathan, Katie Lucia, Jett Lucia and Callie Lucia, great grandson Jett Walker Horne and many nieces and nephews. Joe is renowned for his generous ways, and leaves a legacy of taking care of family, friends and others in need. His family extends special thanks to all who cared for him in his later years, and especially to Donna Phillips who best exemplifies Joe's warm heart and kind ways. A private Rite of Committal for the family will be held at Glenwood Cemetery. A Memorial Mass will be celebrated on Wednesday, September 29, 2004 at ten o'clock in the morning at St. Anne Catholic Church, 2140 Westheimer. A reception will follow in St. Basil Hall at the church. Pallbearers are Jett Lucia, Pete Filippone, M.D., John Filippone, M.D., Vincent Filippone, Greg Lucia, Father Martin Lucia, Joe Jett, Tommy Schillaci, and Anthony Pucciarello. Honorary pallbearers are Louis Pearce, Jr., Collin Gibson and Robert Hall, M.D. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations in Joe's memory be made to Sheltering Arms Day Center Central, attn: Joan Arnold, 3838 Aberdeen Way, Houston 77025.

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Published by Houston Chronicle from Sep. 27 to Sep. 29, 2004.

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Sandra Cobb

September 21, 2021

I will never forget Joe Lucia. He was always so generous and had such great stories. I have great memories of visiting Rudi's, as a customer and a member of the staff of his CPA firm. Joe, Jr., I hope that you and your family are doing well. Your dad was the greatest. He will always be in my heart. I see Donna when I come back to Houston and we always share great stories about your dad. He was one of a kind.

Sandra Cobb

October 22, 2004

Carmen & Joe, Jr.

Your Dad was one of the kindest and most generous people God ever put on earth. I was often at Rudi's since I worked for John Braden and I was always impressed with his old world courtesy and charm. My son and his wife had their engagement dinner at Rudi's. John gave me a fabulous going away dinner at Rudi's. It was wonderful. The first Christmas after I left Houston, Joe sent me the most beautiful basket of Poinsettas that I have ever seen. I was really touched by that. I know that your Dad is in a better place today and he and St. Peter are probably talking football.

Sandee Corrigan Jenkins

October 20, 2004

There will never be another like Joe Sr. He was so kind and generous. When I worked as a hostess at Rudi's (best job I ever had!), he always made me feel special. I remember commenting to Joe that I dreaded turning 30. He responded, "Oh my dear, don't you know? You are just beginning to realize your true beauty." I'll never forget those encouraging words and I have passed them on to other women numerous times. A time or two, Joe would press a one hundred dollar bill into my palm when he knew I was struggling. His generosity was an example and an inspiration to me. He was one in a million, and I extend my heartfelt sympathy to the family.

Carole Boyer

October 6, 2004

Carman: I was sorry to hear about your Dad. I never knew him personally, but Donna loved him and that was enough for me! I know he will be missed by all of you. You are in our prayers. My Mom & Dad, Charlie & Dee Lemaster, send their regards. God Bless you and your family.

Beverly & David Cummings

October 5, 2004

Joe, Jr. Your dad was the best of the best. We have such great memories of him at Rudis and the stories he'd tell. We know he's in a better place but our sympathy is with you and your family.

Fran Michael

October 3, 2004

Dear Joe Jr. and Carman,

Gosh! What a wonderful person your Dad was! I can't think of Houston without thinking of Joe. We all had more fun than we ever deserved. There will never be "another Joe Lucia". No one was kinder and more generous. We had so many laughs together. If I had known of Joe's passing I would have been at the funeral, someone called me and left word as I was out of the country. Now we all know Joe is looking out for us! He loved both of you very much.



Love, Fran Michael

Mario Martinez

October 2, 2004

Dear Carmen and Joe Jr.,

We want to give you our deepest condolence. We will always have Joe Sr. in our thoughts, and every one of our prayers. My family will profoundly miss him. I will never forget all of the great times I had while working at Rudis. He is a person who will deeply be missed by everyone who knew him. We wish you the best of luck at this time of mourning.

-Mario & Family

Donna (Langdon) Gehret

September 30, 2004

Joe Jr. and Carmen, I just wanted to let you know how sorry I am to hear about your dad. He was really one of a kind, as you know! It has been so long since working at Rudi's but I have so many wonderful memories. I know this is a difficult time for you. I hope that everything else is going well in your lives and with your families. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Pam Miller

September 30, 2004

My sincere condolences to all the family. Mr. Lucia was such an incredible person. In my early "DeBakey" days, Mr. Lucia was so kind and thoughtful. He was always taking care of everyone. I've missed him now for many years and have wondered about him so many times. He has and will always have a spot in my heart! I know he will be truly missed and my thoughts are with you all. He was certainly one of the best, most kindest people I have ever known.

Jan Stailey

September 29, 2004

Dear Carmen,

You and your family are in our prayers.



Jan Stailey and the families and staff of The Rise School of Houston

Sam Olivares

September 29, 2004

Our Deepest condolences to the family. What memories I have during the good old days when Joe was running Rudi's. Took my prom date & friends their and Joe took care of me like I was part of the family. Joe has been coming to my dad's hair salon, Estevan's Hair Studio, for many years and my dad, Steve Olivares, has been taking care of him until his final days. I remember when Joe would call my dad to see if we wanted to make extra money working at his restaurant, and I really enjoyed following him around the restaurant to see how he worked his operation. I also remember when Joe had Paul Anka call my mom, Alicia, knowing that my mom was a big fan of his(my mom just melted when she heard Paul Anka's voice on the phone). Donna, hope you will still stop by Estevan's just to say hello to us. Joe, thanks for the great memories and kind heart of yours. You will truly be missed by the Olivares family.

Martha Class

September 29, 2004

Dear Carmen & Joe, Jr.,

I wanted to offer my condolences over the loss of your father. I did not know that he was the owner of Rudi's Restaurant, I remember that restaurant well. I had the opportunity to eat there as a child back in the 1960's. It was a very nice restaurant and I remembered being treated well when I ate there. I remember that there was often an antique car parked near the front entrance of the restaurant.



I know even though you will miss him terribley, you will have the memory of him that will live in your heart forever.

Sincerely,

Martha, daughter of Bernice

Judy Gill Ewing

September 28, 2004

I will never forget all the great times we all had with your Dad at Rudi's. Joe will be deeply missed by all who knew him. I send my deepest sympathy and love to you all. Judy Gill Ewing

Tracy Barr

September 28, 2004

Joe Sr. had a wonderful personality and a great big heart. My thoughts and prayers are with Joe Jr., Carmen and the family.

Marybeth Wright

September 28, 2004

"Papa Joe", as he was fondly known in my family, was the prevayere of great food, good laughs and a warm heart that extended out even to his friends children. As a kid, being in his restaurant was a big deal because you were your own personal chef! Anything you wanted you could have! If it was your birthday then not only did you get the world’s best dessert (and the largest to a kid) but you were treated like royalty. This is something that I hear was not uncommon with him and the way he treated his guests, family and friends. With that I’m not surprised at all.

Con l'Amore e con Dio Benedice Papa Joe!

Washington Garcia

September 28, 2004

To Joe Jr. and Carmen: Mr Lucia will always be remembered for his big smile and his generosity. Whenever I get together with anyone of the guys that worked at Rudi's, we always remember the good times we spent working for him.

My prayers are with you and the rest of the family.

God bless.

Washington

Kathleen LaBarba-Wicker

September 28, 2004

Dearest Joe Jr. and Carmen,

Papa Joe will always be in our hearts. He was the dearest. I know that he is at peace. Our prayers are with you and your entire family. I know that he is in good company, Mother and Daddy are with him and loved him just as much. Give Donna our love.

Kathleen, MaryBeth, Hans, Phillip & Christina

Barbara & Charlie Epperson

September 27, 2004

Our deepest sympathy to Joe Jr., Carmen and their families. Your Dad was the best. He will be dearly missed.

Michael & Terrie Tamborello

September 27, 2004

Our Deepest condolences to the family and our prayers are with you

rebecca finch adams

September 27, 2004

There were many employees of Post Oak Bank who always went to Rudis at least 3 times a week. Joe would always greet us with a smile an a hug. A true gentleman. To Joe, Jr. and the entire Lucia family, our deepest sympathy.2 of the many former employees of Post Oak Bank, Loretta Scardino Williams and Rebecca Finch Adams.

God Bless you Joe, Sr.

sammy & Carol tamborello

September 27, 2004

Deepest condolences from the Tamborello's.

Douglas Dickerson

September 27, 2004

Our deepest condolences to the Lucia family at this time of loss.



Doug & Charlene Dickerson

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