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Joseph Fendley Jr.

1943 - 2025

Joseph Fendley Jr. obituary, 1943-2025, Fulshear, TX

Joseph Fendley Obituary

Joseph Fendley Jr.
06/18/1943 - 01/14/2025
Joseph Robnett Fendley Jr. was born June 18, 1943 in El Dorado, Arkansas to Joseph Robnett Sr. and Margaret Hayes Fendley, where they lived with sister Becky until they moved to Houston in 1957. Nicknamed Buddy by family and friends in his early years, Joe developed a passion for the outdoors from his grandfather and father.
In Houston, Joe attended Bellaire High School and afterward Sam Houston State College. He met Mary Elizabeth Jenkins at a University of Houston fraternity party and they married in 1966. Shortly after marrying, Joe was drafted into the Army. Upon his return from Vietnam, he finished his college education at the University of Houston. Joe worked for Drew Mortgage Company prior to starting a private practice, Fendley, Peden & Company. Joe and his business partner Greg Peden shared a close friendship that continues beyond his passing.
Joe and Mary had two sons, Joe III and Michael. Joe coached them for years in team sports and passed on his passion of hunting and fishing to them, something they will share forever.
Joe and Mary spent most of their lives in Richmond, TX where they raised their sons and built their dream home on two acres in 1978. After retirement, they moved to Fulshear, TX in 2014 where they spent many hours enjoying their back patio and watching rabbits, squirrels, ducks and birds at their feeder. Behind the house were ponds where Joe would fish several times a week. In addition to the time in Mary's swing on the patio, retirement was spent vacationing in Colorado and Santa Fe, New Mexico; watching the Astros (especially during the winning years); fishing with sons; and playing with great-granddaughter Avery.
Joe was very pragmatic and extremely organized in his daily life, creating lists for almost everything while also being passionately generous and absorbed with the few things he chose to prioritize. Family was everything to "Nanny and Papaw," and they loved, taught and nurtured their kids, grandkids, and great-granddaughter, influencing them forever. Family, of course, includes the many furry members of the Fendley's over the years.
Joe was preceded in death by his wife Mary, who passed away in February 2024, two days prior to their 58th wedding anniversary. Joe treated her like a Queen, and he joined his soulmate in Heaven on 01/14/2025. Their ashes will be mixed with their beloved dog Beau's and spread in Breckenridge, Colorado. A small amount of Joe's ashes will be spread in his favorite fishing spot in Galveston, affectionately known as Papaw's Cove.
Joe is survived by Joe III and Serena, Michael and Susan; sisters, Becky and Brownie; sister-in-law, Martha; grandchildren, Lauren, Joseph IV (Ty), Brooke, Kayla; and great-granddaughter, Avery.

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Published by Houston Chronicle on Jan. 26, 2025.

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Martha Jenkins Eyring

January 27, 2025

A life fully and well lived! When I think of my sweet brother-in-law, Joe, I smile and say "thank you" He easily taught through example... kindness, discipline, service, generosity, setting priorities and being true to his standards. He loved deeply and honestly. He was playful and loyal. He loved my sister, his boys and their wives and children deeply. He treated his parents, his in- laws and extended family, his clients with respect and was responsible to all of us. Personally, he and Mary were our safe place during the inevitable storms of life. Rest well with Mary and loved ones Joe And yet another "thank you" for being my friend, you and Mary taught me to respect family and relationships from a very deep perspective

Lenore Mensik

January 27, 2025

Fendley Family - We are terribly sorry for your losses. Your Mom and Dad are so very proud of you and your families. It is very clear that you all had a deep-rooted connection and that is so special. Their memories will forever live in your hearts. Hugs, prayers and thoughts.
Lenore & Darren Mensik

Becky Kimes

January 26, 2025

Joe and Michael beautiful. Your Dad and Mom would be very proud of you all. Buddy was the best brother and took great care of Daddy and Mamma

Linda Woodson

January 25, 2025

Joe and Mary Fendley were two of the nicest people we have ever known. Their love for one another was inspirational. I worked with Joe at Drew for a very long time and always enjoyed him. When your Dad left Drew and started his CPA firm with your Mother at his side we spent a great deal of time together. Jerry had begun his own business and your Dad was a great help setting up accounting for us. Joe and Michael, they were so proud of you. So sorry you have lost them both, but I assure you they are happy to be together again. Jerry and Linda Woodson

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