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Memories and Condolences
for Joshua Marcus
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Ellen, Mitch and Benjamin Roberts
January 30, 2004
It has been over a year and my heart continues to miss Josh daily. He was and always will be a very special part of my life. Josh's name lives on through our baby Benjamin. I love you Josh!
A Friend
January 22, 2003
I knew Josh since he was a freshman in the Texas A & M Corps of Cadets. For a time early in his career in the Corps he experienced one of the toughest personal times a cadet could have. He decided to drop out of the Corps, which in itself can be a life changing experience. Josh discovered that he made a mistake, that quiting was a challange unanswered. He went back into the Corps and distinguished himself, with his Corps accomplishments, and also with what he came to be with his buddies - the "go to" guy, the one to trust with your life.
Thanks for teaching me so much, buddy. I'll always miss you.
Nikki Leib (nee Levy)
October 29, 2002
To The Marcus family,
As I sit here reading all the many wonderful messages from Josh's friends around the world, it brings back so many memories of my years in high school and BBYO. Although I wasn't in touch with Josh these past few years, our friendship will always live on in my heart. I have so many fond memories of Josh. You could always count on his positive and happy nature, no matter what the situation. He touched so many lives and will live on in my memory as a wonderful person with so much to offer the world. It's a shame he had to leave us. Stay strong and please know that my thoughts have been with you all since I heard of your tragic news.
Bonnie Gold
October 15, 2002
Dear Marcus Family,
I was deeply saddened to hear of Josh's passing. While it has been many years since I have seen Josh, I have so many fond memories of days in BBYO, spending time with him. He was an amazing person, with a heart of gold. All who knew him, know this.
The world is certainly a different place without him.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Devin Mullen
October 10, 2002
Dear Al and Barbara,
I wished that I could have said these things in person, but I was unable to take leave on such short notice. I don’t know how much I could have comforted your family, but I would like to let you know how much Josh meant to me, and how much will always cherish my memories of him.
Josh was a good man. I remember many conversations we had where he gave me very useful advice. He was always willing to listen to my complaints and frequently showed me a way through my troubles. I remember our freshman year when things were the hardest in the Corps of Cadets. Josh was always willing to be the “Fish of the Day.” He would have to yell the announcements for the mornings and make sure everyone was up and getting ready for the morning formation and chow. The thing that made it difficult was that you were an easy target; standing out in front of everyone. Josh was willing to do it so often that the sophomores ordered him to never do it again because they wanted someone else to do it. Another time I remember was more humorous, we, Josh, Mitch, Jeremy, Noah, and I sat around their apartment watching all three of the original Star Wars movies before we all went to the theater to see the newest release of Star Wars, Episode I. When the opening credits began and the theme music for the film started, the entire audience let out a loud and ear-splitting “whoop.” It was silly for college-aged adults to care so much about a movie, but we didn’t mind looking silly and having fun. That’s the way I remember him; a big guy, usually telling a good story, sometime true, but usually an exaggeration of the truth.
I know these words don’t seem like much, but I just can’t explain how much he meant to me. His memory still speaks to me. The advice he gave me three years ago still applies to what I’m doing today. One of the things that troubles me is whether I can make a difference in my job and in my life. You should never have to wonder about Josh; he has made a difference in my life and in many others, and the world is a little better place because he was here.
Respectfully,
Devin S. Mullen
1st Lieutenant, USMC
Adam Gutterman
October 10, 2002
There is very little that I can say. He was a dear childhood friend of mine. And though I knew him only vaguely after high school, he remained, and still remains, an inspiration to my every action in life. Since learning of his death, I've written not a word or a note without the image of his smile in my mind. May his spirit remain as infectious as ever.
Denise Killian
October 3, 2002
To the Marcus Family,
I first met Josh back at Texas A&M. He has always been a dear, kind and caring person. I could always count on Josh for a hug, a kind word, and a smile. He was the kind of person who would light up the room when he entered... and was always there when you needed a friend to talk to. He will be missed by all who knew him. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Denise Killian '98
Lois de Rochemont
October 3, 2002
Although I only met Josh once when he was a very young teen-ager, I have followed the important milestones of his life through his devoted aunt and my very close friend, Patty Marcus. Most recently, she shared his very well written and witty e-mails with those of us with whom she works, from his recent trip to Asia. Josh had a way of verbalizing the day-to-day details of his trip in such a lively, realistic way that I almost felt I was there also. He was, indeed, a very talented writer. My heart-felt sympathy is extended to the entire Marcus family. You have been in my thoughts and prayers.
Lois de Rochemont
Ipswich, Masschusetts
Yvonne and Andrew Hull
October 1, 2002
Barbara, Al, and Matt
Primarily we have known you Barbara, but to know you is to have known your wonderful, precious son. May time heal all of your pain. Our thoughts and prayers are with you each of you during this time of sorrow.
With our deepest sympathy,
Stephanie Joe
October 1, 2002
Barbara, Al, and Matt,
My deepest sympathies to you for the loss of Josh. Barbara, I remember during the banking days how you spoke of and cherished your sons so much, as all parents do. You all are in my prayers during this very difficult time. May he rest in peace now, may your memories of him last a lifetime and may he continue to watch over those he left behind.
God bless,
Stephanie Joe
Aviva Sufian
October 1, 2002
I waited several days to finally write this, as if time would help to bring the words to express my sadness and empathy more clearly. Of course, this is not the case. Rather, words will never be able to do justice to the beauty of Josh, and to the pain and sorrow of his passing. However, maybe it is our actions and deeds that will be able to best transmit Josh's enormous spirit, his incredible talent to make people laugh and to make them feel loved in any (and truly in every) situation. Through the ways in which we live our lives, we can respect and honor Josh's tremendous personality, as well as his unparalleled capacity to love and be welcoming to all.
Reading through this Guest Book is like reading through my childhood. It is such a beautiful testament to Josh's undying power to move and inspire people. Here, he continues to bring together people of all walks of life, just as he did throughout his life.
Given my overprotective, motherly tendencies with Josh, I always worried about him when he was in the A&M Corps-- I am sure I bothered him about it way too much. But the truth is, his participation in the Corps was yet another example of his determination and capacity to be a part of many communities and experiences-- to attempt to satiate his forever insatiable desire to not only meet people, but also to befriend them. I will always love him for that.
Josh was the guy I immediately wanted to hug the moment I walked into a room and spotted him. No matter how many years had passed since we'd last seen one another, he still immediately sparked a tremendous giddiness in my soul whenever I had the great fortune of seeing him. He will forever be in my thoughts and in my actions...and his memory will forever evoke that sense of sheer happiness within me.
I am so very sorry that I was unable to be with you all last week. Please accept my sincere condolences to all of Josh's family and his incredibly large circle of friends.
With much love,
Aviva Sufian
Cambridge, MA
Marc and Linda Ecker
September 30, 2002
Josh - We are so grateful that we had the opportunity to know you and your wonderful parents. We have beautiful memories kept alive through the wedding video and pictures of Ian and Jacqueline's wedding. Our world is better since we met you. We will miss you dearly but will never forget you.
Molly Ecker
September 30, 2002
I only met Josh twice. Once at my sister's wedding and the second was Mother's day 2002 in Houston. Through those two times seeing him, I realized what a wonderful person he was. At the wedding, Josh invited me to dance. He was such a fun, sweet, and kind person to people that he has barely met. I can't even imagine how wonderful he was to people he loved.
Ian and Jacqueline Jaffee
September 30, 2002
Ian has given to me many great gifts. Among them are Adam, David, Josh, and Zac. Never before have I been accepted so unconditionally. Many days I come home to find one of their cars parked in front of the house. Inside I find myself enveloped in laughter, good stories, and good friends. Our home has always housed six, not two.
Josh, we love you more than could ever be expressed. We will always carry your stories with us. We will always see that grin. We will always hear your contagious laugh. We will never forget those lazy Saturday afternoons -- no place to be, no person to meet, just being together and laughing...
We love you.
Ian and Jacq
Madelene Edelman
September 29, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al and Matt,
When I think of your family, all I can remember is the fun and love you all seemed to share. Although I only saw you at family events, your family was always the laughing one. You all seemed to be having so much fun.
I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't know that any one person could have as many friends as Josh. The stories I heard really brought his warmth and caring to life. He was indeed a special son, brother and friend.
Love,
Madelene
David Kirsten
September 28, 2002
Although I have not seen Josh for many years I was very sad to hear of his passing. He was the nicest and most outgoing person in Shapiro AZA during my early high school years. Very kind and very giving. My condolences to Barbara, Al and Matt. God Bless.
Marian Strug
September 27, 2002
Thinking of you in your time of sorrow. Please know that your friends in the community share your loss. You are constantly in our thoughts and prayers.
Marian Strug
Patricia Jimenez
September 27, 2002
Dear Marcus family,
Please accept my most sincere condolences. I am deeply saddened that Josh, someone who had the gift to make people laugh, was unable to hold onto the joy that he inspired others to feel. Although I hadn’t seen Josh in some time, I know that he always looked after his friends and family. I have no doubt that he will continue to do so. For the rest of us, I suppose our task is to remember that for all the grief we feel now, no matter how huge, Josh gave us more happiness. I pray that Josh and all who loved him find peace.
Ross DeVere
September 27, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al, & Matt,
I offer my deepest condolences. Although it’s been several years since I last saw Josh, this has not diminished the sadness I've felt since hearing the news of his passing. Josh was always a warm and friendly person who could bring a smile to anyone’s face.
I have so many fond memories of Josh: playing “War” with army figures, playing various computer and board games, battling over tires in the Beth Yeshurun playground, riding 5 miles on our bikes to get TCBY frozen yogurt at Meyer Park, making sacrifices to Cocoa the Hellhound, hanging out during the BBYO years, and hearing our Israeli tour guide call out “Maaarcus” whenever he was acting silly (which was more often than not).
These are only a few of my memories, but I hope that sharing them helps us all remember what a wonderful person and a good friend he was. He has touched the lives of many people, and he will be sorely missed.
Sharron Devere-Fisherman
September 27, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al & Matt,
Our deepest sympathies to you on such a tragic loss. Although, I have only seen Josh a few times over the last few years, I will always remember the little boy who was Ross’s friend growing up. It was especially nice when you moved around the corner and the boys could walk or ride their bikes to each other’s homes. Josh was always a pleasure to have at our home. He was a mature and intelligent young man who was polite and friendly and always had a big smile on his face. Josh indeed was a special person who will always be fondly remembered in our thoughts.
Fondly,
Sharron Devere-Fisherman
Juliana Koenst
September 26, 2002
Dear Barbara, AL & Matt,
I remember meeting Josh a few times, and the way you spoke of him. He was so special and the memories you have will last forever. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
I Love You,
Juliana
Arik Sokol
September 26, 2002
My deepest sympathies on Josh's recent passing.
I'll always remember Josh for the wonderful times we had together as children, swimming and making up games in Aunt Naomi's pool. Whether diving for pennies, seeing who could hold their breath the longest, or playing baseball in the water... Those memories are my childhood. Josh was my friend, my teammate, and my cohort.
His life and mine will forever be intertwined, and his wonderful personality will never leave me.
Al, Barbara, Matthew, Naomi, Peter, Ellie and Cole-I mourn your loss-But more importantly, I remind you of the great memories Josh left all of us.
Arik Sokol
Melissa Bronstein
September 26, 2002
Mr. and Mrs. Marcus and family-
I am so sorry for your loss. Josh was a wonderful person-always so friendly and sweet. I am grateful to have been friends with him. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Marc Rosenstock
September 26, 2002
Dear Marcus family and friends,
I was incredibly saddened to hear the tragic news about Josh. I have only fond memories of Josh that range from times we spent discussing Jewish beliefs and philosophy at Wednesday night school to friendly BBYO rivalries to the great times we spent in Israel together toasting celebrations while experiencing the history and rich culture of our heritage.
There are no words that can really articulate the special qualities Josh possessed or the positive influence he seemed to have on everyone with whom he came into contact. I will greatly miss Josh's spirit and his memory will always live on as a bright light in my heart.
--Marc
Julie Gerber
September 26, 2002
Dear Marcus Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Josh's death is a loss for all whom he touched.
Being in New York I felt very distanced from my roots in Houston when I heard of Josh's tragedy. Josh was a big part of my childhood and I was sorry I was unable to be in Houston to give you my condolences in person. Please know that I am thinking of you and your family every day.
While I can't bring Josh back I can share some memories I have of him that may help to keep him close to your heart.
My most vivid memories of Josh are from our days at Beth Yeshurun Day School. Even at the age of seven I remember Josh as a big teddy bear. I remember being carried over his shoulder like a sack of potatoes across the playground many a time. And I seem to remember a time during lunch when he was dared to eat a brown paper lunch bag which he did valiantly and with a huge goofy grin on his face! He was always trying to get a laugh out of people. Above all I remember Josh as being a caring and sensitive person who will truly be missed.
Denise Rivera
September 26, 2002
Barbara,
It's been forgiver since we've talked or see each other, probably since WLE closed.
Thinking of you and you family at a time like this. My deepest sympathies to you and your family.
My God bless you.
David & Angie Coronado
September 26, 2002
Dear Marcus Family,
Please allow us to offer you our deepest condolences. Reading through all the entries, we realized what a wonderful person Joshua was and how much your family was blessed. We have prayed for you and Joshua and will continue to do so. May God Bless You.
Sincerely,
David & Angie Coronado
Debbie Israel Dubin
September 26, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al, and Matt:
While I certainly remember Josh growing up at Brith Shalom, my real memories of him are from BBYO. Even though Josh wasn't one of "my boys", I always felt close to him -- of course that was easy to do. Josh was the most remarkable of kids, self-assured at a young age, displaying an instinctive understanding of goup and leadership dynamics, and an ability to bring people close. People just wanted to be in his presence. I am so sorry that I am out of town and unavailable to share your grief in peson, but all of you are very much in my thoughts and prayers.
May God comfort you among all mourners of Zion and Jerusalem -- and may the love and support of those who knew and loved Josh bring you a measure of peace.
Fondly,
Debbie
Debra Eastridge
September 25, 2002
Dear Barbara,
It has been so long since we last spoke. I heard about Josh on the news last Friday. I am sorry I missed the funeral service on Monday.
Barbara our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I understand there were many in attendance on Monday which tells the story of a young man who was so loved and admired by the many lives he touched. The last time I saw Josh was at your home before WLE closed. I think he was all of 12 or 14. In knowing you I can only imagine the wonderful person Josh had become. Sometimes God sees individuals that are so kind and wonderfull he takes them home to be with him. God bless Josh and God bless your family.
Love always,
Debra, Jay and Dawn (Eastridge) Miller
Jocelyn Rosenthal Friedman
September 25, 2002
Josh was absolutely the most positive and fun person, and always was as sweet as can be. I remember the look on his face when we were participating in Walkdown for BBYO during High School. I had the pleaseure of knowing Josh for many years and he is deeply missed by all. He will always be in my prayers and thoughts along with the Marcus family.
Amir Steinberg
September 25, 2002
Josh was one of the nicest people I've ever known. I will always remember the fun times we had together growing up in Houston and those days will always be cherished memories.
Amy Checkner
September 25, 2002
I had the pleasure of Josh's presence throughout my years at UT during his visits. Though our encounters were mostly brief - I experienced the same warm, friendly, jovial Josh that his close friends so accurately speak about. I know for a fact that he touched the lives of all my close friends who grew up with him (in addition to so many others). And for that, I am thankful. I am so incredibly sorry for the deep loss you all are experiencing - Josh's family and ever-extending family of his friends. Please know that my thoughts are with you all.
Mark Chess
September 25, 2002
Dear Marcus Family,
I remember many days and nights at your home with Josh when we were in Shapiro, and your family's welcoming atmosphere for all of us was exemplified in Josh's warm smile. I was with Josh recently here in Israel. We were in Jerusalem together one Shabbat at the Western Wall, I remember the joy he had and shared with us throughout the night. I will always remember Josh in that light as someone who tried to bring laughter into the world.
May your family and all Josh's friends be consoled in your mourning
Chelsea Spuck
September 25, 2002
I was shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Josh's passing. I had the pleasure of knowing Josh for 15 years. I especially appreciated how deeply he touched the lives of many of my close friends and always offered a shoulder of friendship to everyone who knew him. He will forever be missed. My deepest condolensces to the entire Marcus family and all who knew him.
Karly Backer
September 25, 2002
Josh set an example to all of us who had the pleasure of knowing him as a friend, a leader, a bit of a smart*ss, and most of all the kindest soul. I cannot express my sympathy enough to Al, Barbara, Matt, and the rest of his family. As we know, his friends were also his brothers and sisters and we are all feeling this loss. But I know I will also always feel his love.
Stacey Burke
September 25, 2002
I am overcome by the outpouring of love for Josh. His voice still fills my ears and his smile still lights up my own smile. I was with him just days before he passed away, and we sat on my bed and talked - the same as we always have. I am grateful to G-d to have had this opportunity to be with Josh one last time. I am further thankful for the privilege of being his friend for many, many years. His special character is indescribable and will touch me all the days of my life. He is with me in my heart and will stay there always.
Barbara, Al, and Matt (and Josh's entire extended family) - I am here for you whenever you need me, for anything at any time. My love for Josh extends of course to you and will forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you constantly. As you must know, Josh was a phenomenal person and was very loved by all who knew him.
Michelle Magid
September 25, 2002
Josh has been a friend of mine since sixth grade.
Josh's special quality was that he made everyone else feel special. With his charm, wit, and magical smile, he made you feel like you were the only person in the world when you were with him.
He was the epitomy of warmth, kindness, and friendship. He will be sorely missed, but dearly remembered.
Jamie Komiss
September 25, 2002
Marcus family,
I had the wondeful opportunity to get to know Josh on the Pilgrimage to Israel. He was a loving, caring, genuine, and extremely funny friend. I recently saw him, and he had a big smile and open arms, which is exactly how I will remember him. He will be greatly missed. You will all be in my thoughts and prayers everyday, forever.
Joanne Batziotegos
September 25, 2002
Even though I had never met Josh directly, I felt I knew him very well indeed from Patricia. She was an EXTREMELY PROUD aunt and we would hear quite frequently of Josh’s entry into school, his studying to be a lawyer, his tremendous sense of humour and his many travels. Of his traveling, I personally have wonderful memories, for Pat would share Josh’s fantastic ‘travelogue’ e-mails with us! To this day, I am still chuckling over the “elephant” incident that he had Cambodia not to mention the travels in Israel.
Almost on a daily basis we would look forward to Josh’s e-mails and what he was going to regale us with next in his travels. As clichéd as it may sound, we did feel as if we experienced these events along with him, they were so well written and a constant delight! (A fellow friend and co-worker enjoyed them so much he passed them on to relatives!). His account of the killing fields also, were deeply moving and insightful.
Thus, even though I never did meet Josh, it was clear, from listening to his aunt Patricia, and from those wonderful writings, that he was an extremely intelligent, articulate, funny, caring and RARE individual. My deepest condolences for the loss of your wonderful and very special son.
Chris Rial
September 25, 2002
To the Marcus family,
Your son/sibling is definitely a bright spot in my life. My family was able to meet him on my birthday and they couldn't stop talking about how good of a person Josh was and how he just drew their attention. From inside and outside the Corps, I enjoyed every minute of his company. He was truly a blessing to this world and he will be missed.
With love and condolenses
Miriam Trubek
September 25, 2002
My first memory of Josh is roughly ten years old. I was a 14 year old freshman in BBG and I meet the funniest guy ever at the Beinart house. After talking to Josh for a while he decides that he will teach me how to drive his car. I was so excited that someone was actually allowing me to sit behind the wheel of their car. Then we walk up to his car and I changed my mind. I thought to myself, "How in the hell am I ever going to drive this red station wagon at 2am?"
Aside from me running a stop sign in front of a cop, that was the most fun. From that point on every time I saw that car (which no one could miss) I thought of that sweet Josh who didn't make me feel like a little freshman who had never driven before.
My prayers are with Josh's family and friends.
Alana and Alan Pulaski
September 24, 2002
We are deeply saddened by the loss of such a wonderful, caring, funny, and warm friend. Our thoughts and prayers go out to his family, extended family, and many friends.
Eric Longo
September 24, 2002
I was truly fortunate to have known Josh Marcus, and his childhood friends through my girlfriend, Lara Colton, and medical school friend Ian Jaffe. The times I spent with Josh, like everyone, left an indelible mark in my life. He was the most sincere, good-natured man I have met and a person whose selflessness and compassion for family and friends will not go unrewarded beyond this life. He welcomed everyone into his life, and those who had a taste were left longing for more. May God Bless Josh Marcus and his family and friends for eternity.
gillian levy
September 24, 2002
Barbara,
You are so special to me.I give my most sincere sympathy to you, Al, and Matt.I love you guys sooooo much. Love Always,
Gillian
Kathy Hibbard
September 24, 2002
Dear Barbara,
You, Al and Matt have been in my thoughts and prayers daily. Although I never had the pleasure of meeting Josh, I feel like I knew lots about him just from knowing you. I know that he was a wonderful son to you and Al, a loving brother to Matt and a great friend to so many. Please understand that he is at peace now, and he will live on through your loving memories.
Love,
Kathy
ashley brochstein
September 24, 2002
Josh has been a huge part of my life since I was 13. We met in BBYO and have been part of the same crew since. It is hard to list memories because Josh was a part of many many memories. My last 2 special times with Josh were his visit to SF in Dec/Jan where we partied, wined and dined and explored the city together. I know in my heart, mind, and soul that Josh was truly happy then. He also called me many times following to tell me how great a time he had and trying to figure out his upcoming visit. Then I came home in July and Josh met me at the Gingerman (our hang out) with a few close buddies. We drank beer, talked about how cool we were,reminisced, played bar trivia, strip memory and 21..I pick this moment to talk about because for the last 13 years..we have hung and enjoyed life together. I will miss Josh everyday, at every occasion and will celebrate his life forever.
Ashley
Kristi Broussard-Smith
September 24, 2002
Barbara,
My heartfelt sympathies go out to you & your family in this time of need. May God bless you & your family.
Sincerely,
Kristi Broussard-Smith
Jennifer Wasserman
September 24, 2002
I had the wonderful pleasure of meeting Josh only once while on a business trip to Washington D.C., during which I got a chance to see my friend and former colleague Ann Marie Hauser. After an exhausting day of sightseeing by myself, I met Ann Marie, her brother Mark and a few other former colleagues at a trendy restaurant downtown. To my surprise, and eventual delight, Mark's friend Josh joined us for dinner. He was unbelievably funny and warm, and a total hoot. We talked about and quoted movies the entire evening - it was an obvious hobby for both of us. It was like I had known Josh my entire life. I feel blessed that I had brought my camera along and snapped a picture of a smiling Josh having a great time with his friends. I will cherish this picture, and my memories of that night, forever. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Lisa
September 24, 2002
I did not know Joshua or his family. I only knew of him through the news. I prayed for his safe return and my heart sank when I was informed of his passing. Please take some comfort in knowing that an entire city is grieving with you.
Michelle Cororve Fingeret
September 24, 2002
I was deeply saddened to hear of Josh's passing. He was truly a special person with so much love in his heart. I have such fond memories of him with a smile on his face and an hug to share as I know so many of us do. Memories of Josh will live on in all of us who were fortunate enough to have know him. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to the family.
Adam Brackman
September 24, 2002
Josh touched the lives of all who were lucky enough to cross paths with him. I knew Josh socially and always looked forward to seeing him at parties or get togethers. He would always enter with a smile that lit up the whole room. I am a better person for having known Josh and anyone who knew him will never forget the impact he had on their life whether great or small.
"Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal."
Gabriel Ramirez
September 23, 2002
To The Marcus Family,
My deepest sympathy goes to you during your time of need. Josh was not only a great Ol' Lady (roomate), He was a wonderful friend.
CPT Gabriel J. Ramirez
G-1 Apaches Class of '98
Sylvia Motes
September 23, 2002
Condolences from a stranger ...
I never had the pleasure of meeting your delightful son, nor have you and I ever met. Yet, my heart goes out to all of you, your family, and your friends. I'd heard of your son's disappearance through the media and just learned of his demise today. I am deeply saddened. As a former law student, I feel the pain in my soul for the loss of a comrade. I've taken the liberty of reading the notes others have sent ... notes from people who were fortunate to have crossed paths with Joshua. His persona continues to have a positive impact because, through these readings, I feel that I've known Joshua for a long time. May you find solace in the perpetual chain of memories full of laughter, lightheartedness, and benevolence that your son and brother shared with his world!
May God bless you and keep you!
Jude & Bill Hauser
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al, and Matthew,
We were saddened by the news of Josh's death. He was a wonderful friend to our children, Ann Marie and Mark, and such a gracious young man to Bill and I.
When our children are born, we fall in love with each one of them. Josh was the type of individual that everyone fell in love with immediately. We enjoyed his presence and great sense of humor at Mark's graduation dinner and during his visit last year to Washington, D.C.
Mark and Ann Marie always loved visiting your home and often spoke of your wonderful family.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you,
Jude & Bill Hauser
glenda & terry waldman
September 23, 2002
The Marcus family,
We were so saddened to hear of Josh's death. We wish we were in Houston to be with you, we add our thoughts and prayers and hope the wonderful memories he left will help you through this terribly difficult time.
with love, glenda and terry
Jane Slay
September 23, 2002
I will remember most his smile. He always had a huge grin. He worked at my Dad's animal clinic and he really enjoyed what he was doing. I will never forget him. My thoughts and prayers are with your family. I cannot imagine your loss and pain.
J Zucker
September 23, 2002
I remember Josh from BBYO and the greatest picture I have of him with his huge grin and ENORMOUS cowboy hat...to wear with his tux...and jeans, of course! As everyone else, I am sorry for your family's loss and have you in my prayers.
Pam Rakestraw
September 23, 2002
Barbara & Al:
I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. You are both in my prayers.
Pam Rakestraw
Robert Martinez
September 23, 2002
Our deepest sympathies go out to the Marcus family. Josh was a well respected and admired friend whose charisma and smile will be missed dearly. You will always be in our thoughts and prayers.
Robert C. Martinez & Family
G-1 Apaches (Class of '98)
Deborah Gardner
September 23, 2002
Barbara,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers during this time of loss of your precious son. May you find strength and comfort in remembering how many lives Josh touched with his laughter, kindness and gentle spirit.
Lindsay Ensom
September 23, 2002
You will be missed greatly and your memory cherished by all who loved you. My deepest sympathies and prayers go out to the Marcus family.
Lindsay Ensom
Class of '02
Joanie Ensom
September 23, 2002
To the Marcus family
Although we have never met and we have only seen pictures of Josh, Shannon and Lindsay have filled us in on what a wonderful person your son was. He will be sadly missed.
Our heartfelt sympathy goes out to your entire family for this great loss.
May you always keep his memories close to your heart, Our thoughts and prayers will be with you, God Bless.
An Irish Blessing
May the road rise to meet you,
May the wind be always at your back,
May the sunshine warm upon your face,
The rains fall soft upon your fields,
And..until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of his hand.
Bob, Joanie, Shannon & Lindsay Ensom
CBIZ Actuarial & Benefits Formerly Bass Consultants
September 23, 2002
To Barbara
Our Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Tonya Olenick
Goldie Waghalter
September 23, 2002
We are so sorry for your loss.
Goldie & Richard Waghalter
Martin & Rachel Garcia
September 23, 2002
Al, Barbara & Matthew,
I know for certain that we never lose the people we love, even to death. They continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Their love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared their love.
Though some day we all have to part with those we love, they are not lost. We are always better for having loved. In this way, love transcends even death.
You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Ann Marie Hauser
September 23, 2002
I met Josh through my younger brother Mark at Texas A&M when they were goofy bald-headed Fish in Animal-A. I had never seen anyone make my brother dissolve into the laughter the way Josh could. Mark would often share “Joshisms” with me and I soon got to experience them firsthand when the three of us took business math together. It was during the endless study sessions with Josh that he became my friend too. I found that my cheeks ached when he was around from so much laughter. His charisma, charm, and joy for life was infectious and I was envious of his quick wit and nimble mind. Not to mention his remarkable ability to recite movie quotes on cue.
In February 2002, he stayed with us in Washington while attending a conference and I realized he had grown from a goofy freshman in the Corps to a young man with a bright future in law. During his short visit, I was reminded what a special person he was to our family and selfishly hoped he would move to Washington to practice law so we could have him up here.
It was his fearless and vibrant approach to living that made us feel empowered and bold about our own lives.
His passing is beyond belief or understanding and has profoundly saddened us all. He will be deeply missed.
My love, thoughts, and prayers are with you Barbara, Al, Matthew, and Company A-1.
With deepest regrets,
God Bless,
Thomas Henneberry
September 23, 2002
With deep regret for your loss, I extend my sympathy to the Marcus family.
Cheri Cross
September 23, 2002
Barbara, Al & Matthew,
My deepest sympathies are with each of you at this time of loss. I know that Joshua will be missed by many, but never forgotten. He touched many lives and was a very special son, brother & friend. Remember the great accomplishments he achieved and the special times spent with him. Reflect on how proud and lucky you were to have been blessed with such a special person in your lives.
I will keep each of you in my thoughts and prayers.
Cheri Cross
Jane Jone
September 23, 2002
A million times I'll miss you.
A million times I'll cry.
If loved could have saved you,
you never would have died.
In life I loved you dearly.
In death I'll love you still.
In my heart you hold a place no one
will ever fill.
Brad Laauwe
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara and Al,
Our prayers go out to you and your family. Josh will always be remembered and will be sorely missed.
For the Good Times,
Brad Laauwe '95
Company A-1
Merrill, Bari, Jason & Ethan Banks
September 23, 2002
To the Marcus Family Circle:
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
We did not know Josh, but it sounds like he touched many hearts & his legacy will live on by the many good acts he did for mankind.
23 A Psalm of David.
The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.
He maketh me to lie down in green paastures;
He leadeth me beside the still waters.
He restoreth my soul;
He guideth me in straight paths for his names sake.
Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow death, I will fear no evil,
For Thou art with me;
Thy rod and Thy staff, they comfort me.
Thou preparest a table before me in the presence of mine enemies;
Thou hast anointed my head with oil; my cup runneth over.
Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life;
And I shall dwell in the house of the Lord for ever.
Shalom.
Kathy Powell
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara,
I didn't meet Joshua but remember you speaking of him and his successes. To cherish those precious memories will help you and your family through this difficult time. You will be in my prayers on a daily basis.
In deepest sympathy,
Kathy
George Stancoven
September 23, 2002
Al & Barbara In 1995 I took my son to spend a night with the Corps,Josh came to the Corps center to take him ti the Quad. He was the first cadet I met . I often think of his smile as he greeted me & Brian. I am deeply & sadly impacted by this loss to our A-1 family. You are in my thoughts.
Maureen Brickman
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al and Matthew -
Both Aaron and I are deeply saddened by your loss. Josh was so special. Aaron and I both have deep, fond memories or him and he will always be in our hearts - now in the hour of your saddness and forever.
Thinking of you -as always, we love you and are thinking and feeling your sadness.
Love,
Aaron and Maureen Brickman
Tim and Stacey Taylor
September 23, 2002
Barbara and Al
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family always.
Our deepest sympathies.
Tim and Stacey Taylor
Elise Flanders
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara, Al & Matt
My heart is broken for you. You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Patrice Barron
September 23, 2002
Dear Barbara and Al and Family:
Deepest sympathy and condolences,
Patrice Barron
JIm Carroll
September 23, 2002
I have never met Joshua. Tim Miller and I of Texas Equusearch were there that first evening of the search. Seeing the support of so many dedicated friends of his leads me to believe that Joshua was indeed a great person. My prayers go out to the family.
Daniel Goott
September 23, 2002
I send my thoughts and prayers to Josh's family and friends. I will always remember Josh as being so kind and honest. One who stood up for what he believed in and was proud of who he was. The world has lost a special person, but let's keep his spirit alive!
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