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October 26, 2014
Jim Max
October 17, 2014
A while ago I helped a young man, Andy, and he found out that I am a VW Bus freak. I told him I had my '71 Bus, Dino, for 24 years. A couple of weeks after that he shows up at the office with this really cool toy of a 21 Window VW Bus. He gave it to me cuz he said he found it in a storage shed, did not need it and thought I would appreciate it. Well, I did! I brought it home and put it on my dresser where I have kept it and admired it. A couple of weeks after that he was in again and I was able to tell him where I was keeping it and he seemed to think that was good.
Last night our small group was discussing God's will for us and turned over new perspectives that I had not pondered before. One of those is that God may not really control everything that happens in life and life can get really flipped over, turned around and down right confusing. At the end of our time the one who was leading us, Bonnie, shared a story. There was a plaque hanging on the wall at the place where she worked with words on it that were spoken by a twelve-year-old. “Life is curly, don't even try to straighten it out.” Sagely wisdom from one so young! And Bonnie had made all of us in our group these really cool curly scarves to take home to remind us that life is curly. I chose a red and white one because it reminded me of my high school colors and hung it from the rear view mirror in Dino.
Today one of Andy's friends came in to our office and he had two more VW Buses that he gave to me. As he handed them to me he told me that Andy had been killed in a car accident… I was heart sick at this news and the rest of my day was a struggle not to burst out sobbing. This guy, who is my own son's age, who showed me a simple kindness, who shared something small yet special with me, was gone. As the day went along I realized that the first VW Bus that he had given me was red and white and suddenly I had a new purpose for that scarf, renewed appreciation for how simple it is to touch other lives, and to relive that chance encounter with a wonderful young man. Yes, Bonnie, life is curly.
Leona Sevy
October 6, 2014
Even though Andy was my first cousin's son, I didn't really know him. My son, James used to hang out with him sometimes. I know how hard it is to lose a child or spouse, but I'll never know what it's like for others to lose someone so dear to them so unexpectedly. My heart and prayers go out to all those who's lives were touched by Andy, and especially to his family. May God bless you all.
Jose Fernandez
September 29, 2014
M husband, Jose, worked with Andy at Lehigh Hanson. He tells me Andy was a GOOD guy and enjoyed working with him. He is very saddened by his death. I know that Andy touched my husband's heart and he will miss him. If you know my husband, this means a lot. As his wife, I want to add my condolences to his family. I am so, so sorry for your loss.
Peg Cook
September 28, 2014
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, James.
The Cooks - Peg, Linda, Ron and Karen
Vanessa Lootens
September 26, 2014
My story of Andy is one of friendship with a hint of sibling-like comradery. I first met Andy years ago when he moved in as my roommate, little did I know we were from the same hometown but went to different schools. It didn't take long for our friendship to grow. Andy's personality was so fun and caring, he was so easy to be around. During the time we were roommates, Andy always offered to help me with my horses and rodeo. He would come to the BSU Football games and help keep Precious(my horse) calm in the tunnel while we waited to lead the team out. He also traveled to many rodeos with me to be my “video guy” to record my barrel runs, in which he would yell “dig…dig!” every time we would turn a barrel (and I'm not really sure what that was even supposed to mean LOL). I watched one of those videos the other night and I could hear his voice in the background yelling “Dig”, it made me smile. One of my fondest simple memories of him, was how much he adored that denim quilt his mom made him, enough that he would never let me wash it. There was never a dull moment with Andy around, he always had a way of making you laugh or smile. Even when I would half-heartedly scold him by yelling “Andrew James!” for something (which was usually for waking me up all hours of the morning and night with that insanely loud Toyota pickup he used to drive or not keeping his room clean) I could never really get mad at him, it was just too hard to ever be mad at him. When Andy moved back home following a fall he had at work that broke his leg, I was pretty bummed to see him go, the aura in the house was just not the same without him around to brighten your day. I have so many great memories and stories of Andy, I could go on for days.
Andrew James… thank you for all the memories kid. You truly were a gem, and will be missed by so many. My prayers are with your family, that they may find peace and comfort in all the memories and love you have shared with them. Rest in Peace my friend.
Celia
September 25, 2014
Please know your family is in my prayers. I cannot imagine the grief you are going through. I was blessed by meeting Andy recently through his uncle Jason. His memory will be cherished.
Georgia Wirth
September 25, 2014
Growing up Andy & his family was my neighbor. Andy had grown into a fine young man that cherished his wife & son and loved doing anything out of doors. Andy will be missed by everyone who knew him-especially his smile & sense of humor. Our hearts go out to his entire family. Andy remember Country Roads take you home to the ones you love. May the grace of God be with you forever.
James Rogers
September 25, 2014
My wife and I talked to him several times when he was walking his son. He was a good neighbor.
Jim and Jan
Melissa
September 25, 2014
My prayers go out to Andy's family. I cannot imagine the pain in your hearts. The accident happened in front of our home and we have been thinking about his loved ones since Saturday. Again, praying for you.
Kara Nafsinger
September 25, 2014
I am so sorry for your loss. He was so young. You don't know me but I know you are heartbroken and I am very sorry. I assisted in an accident early Saturday morning that I witnessed and it was something I will never forget. I am wondering if you would be willing to tell me where this took place as I am constantly thinking about the people I helped. Please email me at [email protected] I hope you and your family find peace.
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