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Rachel Nettles
June 10, 2008
When Sarah left I felt very empty. I couldn't imagine how I was going to get through the remainder of my adolesence without her. All through the time we grew up together we just seemed to have an understanding, even when one or both of us felt rather surly. I felt like I could confide things to her that I wouldn't be able to tell anyone else in the family. She just always seemed perpetually unjudgmental and gave me good unbiased advice. Even when I was a prissy little pain in the butt she was nice and understood me, and helped bring me out of that stage all the sooner. I feel bad now that I'm older, realizing that when I was younger I constantly bored Sarah and made her feel inconsequential yapping on about my other cousin Leah. But it was never really out of a greater admiration for Leah, but just a way to engage Sarah more. A year has past since the day I was in the hospital with Sarah, and I don't miss her any less. The crying is less often, and I don't sift through the bad memories like I used to, but I still miss her all the same. And I think I always will.
Valerie Hay
June 9, 2008
I just wanted to send you a note to let you know that I think of Sarah often. She was such a special person, who I alway saw at her worst. She has such a vibrant spirit (and attitude). My thoughts are with you and your family.
Tammy Rogers
June 9, 2008
Tony, Carol & Nick,
Britney just told us that she had run into Nick at her school and was told that Sarah had passed away. We are so very sorry for your loss. I must have missed her obituary because June 7th of 2007, my mom passed away unexpectantly also, while we were out of the united states and on June 9th we returned home and started planning her funeral, etc.
The pain of losing her has been intense but I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child, no matter their age. Being a twin myself, I cannot imagine life without my twin sis either. Although sometimes life throws us these curve balls, I truly believe their is a reason behind everything that we must endure and although we may not understand it at the time, someday, it will all make sense to us. Our hearts are heavy for your loss. Please know that we are thinking of you and we care.
Always, Tammy & Dale Rogers
Jeff & Cindy Grammater
May 7, 2008
Dear Tony, Carol and Nick
Just want you to know that we are thinking of you and hope that time brings you many happy memories.
Greg Nettles
April 4, 2008
Dear Tony, Carol and Nick,
I feel honored and blessed not only to sign this guest book (albeit tardily) but for simply having known Sarah from the day she was born until the day she departed this earth. Over the past several months, I have often times thought about the irony that I was in the hospital with Sarah the first day she entered this earth and the last day when she departed it. I remember the day that she got her name and will always remember with great fondness the story of how her name became "Sarah."
I always loved the special bond that I observed between her and Nick; the only kind that can exist between siblings. In fact, I remember when Tony and I were kids growing up how much he used to stick up for me with bigger kids in our neighborhood. I often times thought Sarah was a lot like her father in the way she would always stand up for Nick. Sarah was always looking out for other people and acted so unselfishly. One story I will always remember illustrates this beautifully.
I remember the day Sarah passed away and I went into the empty hospital room where her body had laid and there on a table was a scribbled note that read something like "Mom and Dad I am sorry you have to go through this. Love, Sarah."
When our father passed away, a co-worker eulogized him at his funeral by telling the audience that "he represented the true meaning of the word 'family.'" I would have to say that Sarah Elizabeth Nettles has made her grandfather proud by demonstrating what "family" is all about!
And now she has finally gotten a chance to meet him and tell him all the stories she has waited to tell.
With love,
Greg Nettles
Margi Nettles
April 2, 2008
Dear Tony, Carol, and Nick,
I am extremely late in offering my heartfelt sympathy to all of you. I am missing Sarah very much, too, although I can not begin to imagine how much more you're feeling her absence in your day-to-day lives. I want you to know how much I love Sarah, how I search the room for her at every family get-together, and how much especially Rachel and Hunter miss her since they had the privilege of spending the greatest amount of time with her as cousins.
We miss seeing all of you as much as we used to, but understand your need to grieve and do it in your own way and time. I am here whenever you need a sounding board, a shoulder, or whatever.
I believe Sarah must be happier now than she was here being so sick. I am glad she is free of a hospital bed and from the worries and concerns I know she always felt pretty intensely.
But I'm selfish sometimes and just wish she was back so I could enjoy her witty conversation, her voice, her laugh, and her face. I hope you know how much I miss her and think of her.
I am sorry that I am so preoccupied with raising my own family that I have not done more to be a comfort to yours, but I hope you will accept this from me, in spite of my negligence. With sincere empathy and love, Margi
Debi Semancik
January 15, 2008
Sorry hear about the lost of your Sara, if you need anything please call. We just found out today, my mom talk to your mom. I would have been there had I known. My prayers are with you and your family. Remember if you need anything, please just call. 322-5402.
Love Your Friend Always,
Debi
Karen Daniel (Hensley)
October 20, 2007
Tony & Carol
I was just told of your lose. I am so tearfully sorry to hear about Sarah. I know that she brought great pride and happiness to your family. I could never imagine the feelings that you both and Nick have had to experience since her lose, but to know that she is now the Sarah that you all knew and remembered, she has no more pain, and she is looking over you all everyday to make sure you all are safe, hopefully gives you some comfort in your lives. Though we haven't talked in a few years I know that you both are very strong individuals, and obviously can make it through even the toughest of times. I wish, I too, if ever face to face with the challenges you have had to encure have the strength and courage to understand life and what you must do to continue. Though you have lost a great daughter, a great friend, a great sister, you must go on, living life to the fullest, if not for yourself, for your family and definitely for Sarah. You'll all be in my prayers...now and forever!
Marianne Anthony
August 24, 2007
Dear Tony, Carol and Nick,
I am so saddened to hear of the loss of your precious daughter. I know how much you love and miss her. I only heard today of your loss, but will have you in my thoughts from now on.
I understand so well your loss as Joel and I lost our beloved oldest son in January. The hurt and pain never go away, but rest assured, that you will be with her once again.
I love you both and will be here for both of you should you ever need to talk.
All my love,
Marianne and Joel Anthony
Laurel Schwartz
July 25, 2007
Tony, Carol, and Nick,
I am very sad to know about Sarah`s death. It was my privilege to be one of her nurses at St. Al`s a couple of years ago. I learned from her and will never forget her courage in the midst of the medical things that were happening to her.
May God continue to give you comfort in this time.
Sincerely,
Joanne Quinno
July 12, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
I wish there was something I could say to help the pain, but I know there isn’t.
I hope these stories are acceptable to tell, because every time I think of Sarah and her “antics” I can’t help but smile. When I first met Sarah I told her I had heard about her before. She was the kid with the impressive mother who used to go to school with her. With a disgusted tone in her voice, she told me “that was so embarrassing”. When I laughed she proceeded to tell me a few “choice” things I hadn’t heard before but probably should have by my age.
Another day she was griping about her parents wanting to know everything the doctors said and she did not see why it was necessary. When I told her if I was your Mom and you had to go to the hospital I would call you a cab and send you a get well card. She immediately called you Carol and told you what a mean person I was. Then she and I proceeded to laugh and laugh as she always kept me entertained.
I will never forget Sarah’s sense of humor and her caring attitude for those around her. I was fortunate to have met Sarah and will always remember my friend.
Take care,
David & Liz Noland
July 9, 2007
Tony, Carol, and Nick
Since attending the memorial service I have struggled to find special words that might help you bridge some of the loss and pain that you are feeling. A considerable amount of time has passed and the words have not come. Obviously, some things cannot be soothed or repaired with words. Maybe time is the only medication for your pain.
Sarah was such a special young lady. It is a struggle to understand a loss like this. Answers don't come easily.
All we can do is trust that she is with her maker in a far better place than the one she left.
All we can do is trust that she is happy and content.
All we can do is carry on with the zest for life that Sarah always displayed - and sometimes demanded.
I always thought that Sarah was one step ahead of me. I think it was that little twinkle in her eyes. If you knew Sarah, you know what I'm talking about. It is the same twinkle that you will feel in every happy memory of her. It is the same twinkle that you will see in every star in the night sky. Look up. You will see Sarah's eyes twinkling back at you.
God bless Sarah. God bless the special people who brought her into this life and helped her live as much of it as she was allowed. I believe she will live forever. There is no doubt that she will live on in your hearts.
Nick Nettles
June 29, 2007
Mom, Dad and Sarah,
It's me Nick. I am writing to tell you Sarah that I will Never forget all the times we had together. I'll never forget the times that you and I had our dis-agreements. I can remember when you would tell mom and dad to lay off me, and thankfully they did. I remember all the vacations we had together and I remember how much fun we had whenever we hung out with mom and dad. I know you especially had fun on the Coast. I want you to know that the last few weeks have been like a dream, I keep wishing I'll wake up and you'll be there to laugh at my dumb jokes. But hey, I know that you'll be there to laugh at my dumb jokes when I'm in heaven with you. I can't wait to be there with you! I love you, Sarah Bear, and I can not wait to see you. I love you more than you can ever know, love, your twin little brother, Nick.
Susan Vincent
June 26, 2007
Family & Friends of Sarah:
Written language cannot convey the essence of sarah's spirit, laughter, refreshing sarcasm, resilience, and courage while on this earth. She felt like an old soul from the day i met her, and if you look for signs, you'll know she is still WITH us. I pray that you all know she wanted us to keep laughing, keep loving and keep living life to the fullest!
love & prayers to you all
M. Castro
June 26, 2007
Hi Sarah,
I will be thinking of you always.
Ginger Wright-Juul
June 21, 2007
Dearest Tony, Carol, and Nick,
I can't tell you how very sorry I am to hear of your loss. I wish I could have known Sarah. I'm sure your love for her made her a shining star all through her life.
I hope you feel the love of those whose lives you have so deeply touched and that it brings you some comfort in this most painful time.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Dotty Cluck
June 19, 2007
Tony, Carol & Nick,
I was both surprised and saddened by the news of Sarah.
Although, I did not get the opportunity to know her, it sounds as though it was a great loss. But then God takes one of our loved ones it always is a great loss!
May you all be blessed with the knowledge that she is at peace and in no pain now. I pray that God touches you with His everlasting love and grant you the peace and strength that you need to get through this bridge in your lives.
In Christ's love,
Joe Schwartz
June 19, 2007
Tony and Carol,
What can anyone say? We just heard about Sarah and want you both to know you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Joe Schwartz and Kathy Aiken
Nikki Etzle
June 18, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
I am sure that there is a star shining down from the heavens and showering Sarah's love to you.
I know how hard it is to loss a sibling and everytime I think of my sister, I immediately feel her love.
May you always find comfort in the time you had and the love that leaves an everlasting trail.
May God hold and keep you in the palms of His hands during this time of loss.
Pamela Weaver
June 15, 2007
I'm so sorry to hear about Sarah. I'm so glad I met her. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Valerie Hay
June 15, 2007
I am so very sorry for your loss. Sarah will always have a special place in my heart because no matter what she had to go through, she always had a sense of humor and the courage to fight a painful battle. I will miss her (although I was never "excited" to see her, because it was always when she was the sickest). I will think of you and her often. Sarah's favorite nurse (or so she said)
Carolyn Kaas
June 15, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
We are so thankful that we were able to know and enjoy Sarah if only for a short time. Please remember that those we hold most dear never truly leave us. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Carolyn, Kim and John
Diana Nottage
June 15, 2007
Carol, Tony and Nick:
May the comfort of your friends and family help ease your loss. Sarah touched everyone she met in a special way. Her humor and outlook on life was amazing for someone her age. She leaves us all marked in someway by her life and her wisdom. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Kris Gambee
June 15, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick:
There are very few words that can express the sorrow felt by so many people on this day. Sarah was a wonderful soul, full of humor and wit. It was an honor to know her. It is also an honor to know each of you and to witness your love for her over the last two years. May you find peace in your memories of her and strength from each other until you see her again.
Becky Baeth
June 15, 2007
Carol and Tony,
My deepest sympathy to you in the loss of your daughter. My thought and prayers are with you alway. God bless you.
Becky Baeth
Ed & Cindy Schultz
June 15, 2007
To our dear friends and neighbors, Carol, Tony, and Nick,
It's been so much fun knowing all of you these years we've been neighbors. I remember many summer nights of watching our kids play “kick-the-can” or jumping on your trampoline… or sleeping overnight on the trampoline! I remember many times sitting on the lawn or going for long walks when we've shared stories about our kids –and we laughed so much! I'm so sorry that this cruel old world has brought such a deep loss into your life. I know God never wants us to suffer and through His never-ending mercy, He brought peace to Sarah and your family. I know you'll see her beautiful face and body made new one day too. God has already chosen that plan for you. Keep Him as your constant companion until He reintroduces you to your daughter again. What a beautiful day that will be!
With much love and sympathy,
Walt/Gail/Ryan Richard
June 15, 2007
Tony, Carol, & Nick:
Please know how much you mean to Gail, Ryan, and me. As soon as I heard Tony's voice, I knew what he was about to tell me. We can only imagine your pain to lose Sarah. We hope you find comfort in knowing the support you have from friends and family. We are all sad for her battle she faced during the past year, but relieved for Sarah, knowing she is finally at peace. Our heartfelt sympathy to you all.
With sincere love,
Andrea Powell
June 14, 2007
Tony,Carol, and Nick,
I was a saddened to hear about the loss of Sarah. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Even as it seems as we all try and come to terms with the loss of such a person as Sarah, it brings me a sense of happiness to know that she is at peace. She was a very talented woman and I still look back on those days of Y-ball and wonder how she got so good! I will keep you in my prayers.
Dawn Edens
June 14, 2007
Tony and Carol
I never met your daughter, but I am very sorry for your loss. She is now your angel in heaven and you can be comforted that she is no longer in pain and in a beautiful place.
Jerri Cain
June 14, 2007
Carol and Tony,
I haven't seen Sarah since she was a toddler. She was such a delightful child so I am sure she grew to be an equally delightful adult. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Patricia Gilmore
June 14, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick -
I want you to know, though I never met Sarah, I will always admire her. She rode the wave of adversity with strength and a grace none of us can ever imagine. I read the guestbook and immediately know her life has touched so many others including my own.
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
---Patricia Gilmore
Jane Spencer
June 14, 2007
Carol, Tony and Nick,
I am so sorry to hear about Sarah. I will never forget her determination here at the hospital to get well and "get out of here". I will remember her smile and laugh. I was touched by how you were always there for her even when she was so frustrated at being in the hospital. Thank you for your support and friendship.
Amanda (York) Grimme
June 14, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I was a friend of Sarah's in high school. I will never forget all the fun we had in yearbook together. I wish I stayed in better touch with her after high school. She is in a better, happier place now and I wish you all the best.
Val Jensen
June 13, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
Sarah is one of the angels now, free from pain and watching over us as only she can do. I'm sure that thought is not nearly adequate to compensate for your complete sense of loss and heartbreak. I just can't even imagine the pain you must be feeling.
Sarah would come over to the house to hang out with Shari and pretty soon you could hear them in the bedroom, just giggling away. She was a 'once-in-a-lifetime' friend to Shari and she will be sorely missed.
Shari had asked Sarah to be one of her bridesmaids at her wedding on Saturday, but Sarah wouldn't commit because she didn't know what was going to happen, health-wise. Shari says she knows that Sarah will totally be there in spirit. Sarah will be honored at the wedding too...Shari and each of the bridesmaids will be wearing white ribbon bows with angel wings in the center of them, to symbolize Shari's beloved friend, Sarah...who now flies with the angels.
Blessed Be.
sherry iwersen
June 13, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was stunned to hear the news of Sarah's passing. I have many thoughts of Sarah and Nick. Over the years I have thought of them both with fondness. I know for a fact, from personel experience, that God is the Blessed Controller of all things. I grasp to the thought each day and it brings great comfort.
Mrs. Sherry Iwersen
Sarah's First grade teacher at Amity
Denise Ballew
June 13, 2007
Dear Carol and Tony,
I can't begin to try and know or understand how you feel. I can say I'm so very sorry Sarah has gone and I can share some sadness for your mourning. Life is very, very unfair sometimes. They really need to revise the rule book.
I know it's hard to be strong and brave but do your best and if you need to lean on someone from time to time, just look around, you're surrounded people who would do anything for you. Take care of your selves.
Mary Sloan
June 13, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick,
From the day Sarah came into this world she was a very special and precious child. Even though I had not seen her in her later years, I will always remember the fun and enjoyment she brought into my life. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you through this time of sorrow.
Loy & Mike Stratton
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol & Nick,
You do not know us, but we wanted to let you know we are praying for you. Shari Pickett is our daughter-in-law to be....on Saturday. We know how much Sarah meant to Shari, she must have been a very special young lady. Please know you are on our hearts and in our prayers. May God bring you peace and comfort as only HE can.
Kris Blackford
June 12, 2007
I never personally got to meet Sarah but I am friends with Shari Picket who spoke very highly of her. I wish I would have had the oppourtunity to meet her. My prayers to the family
Nancy & Mike Wood
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick
Our hearts break for you and you will be in our thoughts and prayers for sometime to come. Losing a child (a sister) is unimaginable and takes many faithful steps to continue on. Sarah will always be with you and may you never stop talking about her and laughing and remebering all those good times and also those bad times, that, now looking back, are kind of funny! When our son, Nick, was killed before his 21st birthday, it was just beyond us that looking around our own little world, things did not stop. People kept doing what they always do and life went on. I wanted to shout...don't you know... but we still take one day at a time. It does get easier to handle as time goes on but that hole in your heart just doesn't fill in. God lends us our precious children but for a little while. He misses them so much He calls them home again. Please know that many hold you close to their hearts now and want let you know that. Sometimes there are few words that can be said, but know that our hearts are sorrowful and we hope and pray that you all draw even closer to one another. Our deepest sympathy to the three of you and all your family.
Damiana Uberuaga
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol and Nick
Tho your souls may set in darkness,
They will rise in perfect light.
You have loved the stars too fondly,
To be fearful of the night!
There's a new star in
Heaven tonight named Sarah!
Damiana
Jeff & Cindy Grammater
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol, Nick,
We are saddened by the news of Sara. There are no words that can express the sorrow we feel. Please know that we think of the four of you with fond memories and that our thoughts are with you.
Shari Pickett
June 12, 2007
Carol, Tony, and Nick-
I am so thankful that I got to know your daughter. She truly changed my life. I am sad that she had to leave at such a high point in my life, but I know that she will be walking down the isle with me. You guys are an amazing family, and supported Sarah in everything that she undertook. Thank you for being who you are and raising such an amazing woman. Love you all!
Wenda Bauer
June 12, 2007
Tony and Carol;
If prayers and laughter and love could have kept her here they certainly would have. I know she is among the fairies she held so dear. If there is anything any of us could do to ease this time for you please just say.
James & Angie Harrison
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol & Nick - Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time. May you find comfort in the precious memories of Sarah and by knowing that she is now at peace.
Rebecca Hawley
June 12, 2007
Carol, Tony & Nick,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I hope the friendship and support you have from all of us at ISTC will help you through this difficult time --
Debbie Kelley
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol, & Nick
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Be comforted in knowing that heaven has gained a precious "ANGEL" in Sarah. May you find comfort and strength in knowing that GOD is in control.
Steve Hulme
June 12, 2007
Dear Nettles Family:
Since I've not been around Sarah and Nick for many years, I still see them in my mind's eye the way they were years ago when Greg and Margi's wedding brought us together.
I'm sorry for your loss. Parents are supposed to outlive their kids. May you feel the comforting spirit of Christ in your life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Susan Lewis
June 12, 2007
Tony & Carol,
Words cannot express how sorry I am to hear of Sarah's passing. She had a wonderful sense of humor, a qick whit about her & had a zest for life. Not many people Sarah's age would think it was cool to hang out with "old folks" but you could tell she really loved to spend time with her mom. Thank you so much for sharing her with me. I will rememeber our pedicures & dinners fondly. Our last time together we almost got kicked out of Chicago Connection for laughing so hard. What a great memory to hold close to my heart.
Rod & Lynn Howard
June 12, 2007
Tony, Carol & Nick,
We are so sorry for your loss. May your memories of Sarah bring you comfort and please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers during this time of great sorrow and sadness.
David Baux
June 12, 2007
Tony & Carol,
You and your entire family have my heartfelt sympathy. While I did not have the advantage of meeting Sarah, through her parents I know she is a wonderful and caring person. Sarah, you and your family are in my prayers. David
Steve Gaines
June 12, 2007
Carol and Tony,
Both Jill and my thoughts are with you and want you to know that if we can help in any way, just ask.
Pam Harris
June 12, 2007
I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you are able to find peace and comfort in the future.
Joe and Vickie Wikle
June 12, 2007
We are thinking of you.
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